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TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 1:28pm On Jul 03, 2016
@firsty...
why are you shaming shy?..
Do you know how many women your birthing bill
s will conveniently deliver at general Hospital n even top extra money to takia of baby?

Fogerrit there's nothing to be ashamed about.

Lemme even give you an angle to it...

Do you know that having minimum space btw ur kids wen u have d capacity to give them the best care is a plus. Here are the points.
- u are sure of raising them to independence (with the highest qualifications sef) b4 u turn 50.
- u won't retire with ur kids still at school.
- u grow up with your kids.
- ur body have a lot of time to recover n u enter menopause doing sisi.
- with time one hardly believes u got those kids because u are back to under 16.

I have this friend who well 4 one reason or the other married n head all his kids (4 of them) b4 he turned 26 (mind u...he's doing well). When u look at the family they are more like siblings u know.

Pls all my fellow sharp shooters just do you and let society do them..... dey might mk a comment or two now buh come back 15 yes time and see wool be laughing then.

*I'll be calling you elder sir buh your kids ll be calling mine uncle* grin cool

We can all not follow the same path in our journeys.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 3:21pm On Jul 01, 2016
Call Firsty for your #crime scene clean up expert.

Firsty the firsty... i trust ur ministry.

firsttymum:
Ur money grin
Dr's correspondence
Ur statement as in where the extra money is.
Hospital quotes
Bank app on ur phone. Incase dey want u to log in.

Delete anything incriminating
Empty ur wallet leave only what's important
Check ur sent items and inbox if there's anything u don't want them to see, delete. Inshort I deleted my email app from my phone.
Recheck ur text msgs.
If u filled u don't have a relative in d US ensure u delete traces of them on ur phone.
Check ur dialed numbers too.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 2:34pm On Jul 01, 2016
neks neks!!!...

i really gbadu sharp shooters...

nothing beats when parent and child are strolling later in the future and people will be commenting... mehn i like dis your sister ooh (#winks)....

abeg do all the ones you want quick quick and begin make si'si while dem Nerf still dey fold BLOW for labour room because dem do sisi in btw.... grin cool wink

neks31:
Good day all.. I'm traveling in oct/nov and won't like to pay past 280 for flight!!! Yes u heard right lol. Pls someone should look out for a sista on a budget lmaoo
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 1:41pm On Jun 27, 2016
how many pages now, just for airline (personal( reviews and fit-to-fly?....
before u know it part 4 will be exhausted with just little information.

yet we ll start saying to newbies..."go back and read up"...
lol..
anywho, ... hailings y'all. #justsaying
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 3:23pm On Jun 17, 2016
all's well going well.... playing the observer and learning new things.. wink

firsttymum:
oga me.... How far
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 2:32pm On Jun 17, 2016
cool
greetings ma'am..
howdhayado!

Peebles23:
I hail thee O L O K I N G S!!!!!!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 11:38am On Jun 02, 2016
see how data is wasting with this economic recession... chai!!!

nefertitiram:
...
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 9:22pm On May 29, 2016
Hi all...
She's coming off as a real JJC (no offense)... as such she's indirectly trying to affirm d info or positron available to her so let's give her the benefit of the doubt a wee bit.

Madam Ihebb just click page one of this thread and read up what u need to know is already itemized for you.

Afterwards I think u ll start asking questions that will warrant pepper answers n not the flogging u getting.

Ciao


Ihebb:
If u read me well, I said am new to this forum and that I heard that women whose stomach are obvious are turned back at the point of entry, that's Y I want to enter b4 mine becomes obvious. I needed to know how true that was. If it's not so, I don't mind waiting longer before traveling
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 2:14pm On May 22, 2016
I dey look u with corner eye ooh tongue
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 11:09am On May 18, 2016
this is the pure definition of yawah gas!

hahahahaha

LadyGuinivere:
I feel like sharing a story I heard a while ago... This strike is truly making me joobless grin

One sister married to one big oga decided to go to US. With her bobo on the side. So she and Bobo side filled married and all what noot and appeared together. But Big oga's God was not at a party that day, He was very much around working. Na so dem deny the Sister and her bobo side application.
A few months later, big Oga say make em and e wifey go US for vacay. Them reach embassy. The Vo ask am 'are you sure this is your wife?'
Ah ah, which levels na? This is my wife.
Na em the vo turn computer show am picture and details. Na em oga just waka leave the place. That was the end of solomon grandy.

What I took from the story is that Nigerians are yet to understand the concept of records and consequences to actions. We often think we can wish away our past misdeeds or miracles will wipe them off.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 3:15pm On May 16, 2016
lets not mistake politeness with truthfulness.

we tend to sugarcoat issues here and the persons in need of advice / recommendations thus downplay the implications of their actions.

no matter how harsh whatever comments / contributions seem to you, just take the message and get on with arming yourself on the next move whilst factoring in parameters necessary for your decision making process.

i really wish you get what you desire and good luck!

PS: try to figure out a straightway of getting out of this tight corner and don't bending any rules to sooth your case because i surmise you may have been flagged and searchlight beamed on your profile.. ciao

MomSomyy:
You need to learn how to pass a message in the most polite manner cause that's just the right thing to do and thank you for your contribution. Cheers.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 6:08am On May 14, 2016
Ayam foine...
Just doing more of background reading and gleaning new information where necessary.

How's Ramsey et al. Kudos


nefertitiram:
My able wing man!!! Howdy!!!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 5:28am On May 14, 2016
cool grin
Pls allow me be bus conductor...

Dallas! Dallas!!.... all aboard!!!!!

itzaYES:
Please any Mama travelling in June to dallas should Pls Pm me so we can kip in touch.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 1:34pm On Apr 29, 2016
hi,

please just give me the moniker of the person whom you sent message here and didn't return....

i will mount a search party!


KLC2016:
Hi Peeps,

Good day, pls can anyone help me with the cheapest hospital in Houston or a very good Hospital in Houston and the current cost implication of giving birth .

Thanks
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 10:12am On Apr 29, 2016
if the original poster is going to dallas, she can be sure to prepare for CS because no/very very very few Ob/Gyn will accept her for a VBac.
majority of their office/practice policy takes VBAC mums at 28 weeks gone and nothing more.

you already have a peculiar case and yet you are still playing gangster by travelling at 36 weeks which by their standard it is considered full term for childbirth.

they are not just after your money you know plus they wont put their license on the line just for a few thousand bucks.

gud luck with your decision further.

Bisoye82:
Travel from at least 32-34weeks because the Dr needs to familiarise himself with your case file i.e your vitals (BP,position and size of the baby,etc) runs some tests from which both of you will reach a decision tailor made for your overall health.
If you travel at 36 weeks i think the timeframe is too small for them to get know you enough to try VBAC.
Preggies who do that gangster moves by travelling at 36 weeks usually have an uncomplicated singleton pregnancy with a clear option of VD or CS.
Cheers
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 8:08am On Apr 20, 2016
Hellos. ..

If I may wade in a wee bit, monitoring spirits classification here are those that have followedthe thread, learnt how to PM et all but n never posted a question for clasificaron of any sort.

PM is usually for clarification on sensitive information which of posted here would be deemed advert. Plus u can expect a response to pm qs which a lot of people could answer openly here with even better insight.

Just saying



bigfido:
Sorry.. I didn't insult anyone and if you have been here long enough, perhaps you will understand who the monitoring spirits are.
But I won't still reply you sha.. Ntoi tongue tongue
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 2:13pm On Apr 07, 2016
$2,500.00

by the time you add all the mene-mene la' perse', you know .. it came up to $2,990.00

this included circumcision, labs et al.

Dabira19:
Thanks Olokings.
I v a question,but I don't know if u cld post the answer here. Can I v an estimated value of the Dallas Doc that ur wife used?
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 12:42pm On Apr 07, 2016
I ve got no info on VBAC friendly docs in houston.

you may have to google "VBAC friendly docs+houston area"

read up on the reviews.. very important so that you dont end up with a doc that's already planning to put u under the knife whilst sweet talking you with encouraging VBAC..

ciao

Dabira19:
Yeah Olokings,thanks.
I eventually got the page where u stated d doctors that does VBAC. But wld like to ask if I cld get some in Houston?
Hope to get in touch wt d Dallas Doc later in the day. Thanks
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 8:53am On Apr 07, 2016
Hellos. ..
Noticed u pm'd me buh I keep getting failure delivery in reply.

Kindly ask away here I'll respond if I got the info. Tnx




Dabira19:
Thanks to everyone that has responded. The search continues, bt I'm making progress. Nice day wink
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 3:24pm On Apr 06, 2016
Hmmmmm m. ......
Women! You guys have seen and felt the unimaginable. ...
Woah

bbaby84:
For my first it was sweet.... though I shook like crazy after the operation, I needed like 10 warm blankets.

For my second, it failed terribly. I could feel them pulling her out! I had to be knocked out!
#2timeCSmama.
Sighs
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by olokings(m): 6:30am On Apr 06, 2016
Greetings.
Happy u were able to handle ur child's tongue-tie issue eventually.

However for mommas who may experience this in the future, you may wish to kindly return back to naija and quietly do it at any pediatric or even general Hospital for waaaay less.

I did my 2 year old boy's tongue-tie loosening just a few weeks back because although I was being strong heard that he'd out grow it when the mum observed it few weeks after birth which now made him unable to speak.

A nurse nipped it after consultation with a pead right there at the injection room as simple as trunking a finger nail.

Fast fwd to a few weeks and he's now using the loosed tongue picking speaking phoné swén swén like his big sister.

Bottom line is some things we do with less drama and complications here in naija.

Ciao





Petdaughter:
Hi Guys, I noticed my son has "tongue tie" (pls google it) right from the delivery room. He wasn't latching well to breastfeed and it was really painful for me. I showed the pediatrician and he did a simple procedure to remove it, cost me $350. The Dr. was really happy that I was observant and spotted it. After the child is about 6months, it becomes a more serious surgery requiring anesthesia. I thank God it went well.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 2:31pm On Mar 21, 2016
reply is failing... follow me or ask away here...

cosd:
bros, pls I sent u a pm, kindly reply

CC olokings, terese69
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 10:57am On Mar 21, 2016
okie here i gotta wave in a bit,

first of ma'am, sorry about all these drama playing out so far.
call your hubby, and give him a direct notation, its either you provide me a comfortable accomodation outside your SIL's place or you are rescheduling you ticket and catching the next flight back to naija. You are nobody's housemaid/mgr..

what kind of insult is that?!

next when you get home, by all means, kindly sit ur hubby down and redress some groundrules governing both your homes, (i have always been of the opinion that if you wanna have a happy marraige, keep extended families at bay - and i mean both side. whether SIL, BIL, FIL, MIL whatever inlaws coming, if it is not omogwor is not allow to spend more than 3-5 days tops).

from the info seen so far, you and your hubby got no issues asside the heat brought up by ur extended peops...
i wish you good luck with this.

PS: pls kindly take your leave outta that place, because by now i trust ur baby has passed the stage of weekly Pead check ups. worse case go to extended stay or intown suites and manage yourself. these heats are no good for you now trust me, because it will only tick you off, mess up ur physiological chemical balance and set more ticking time bombs with your DH.

have it at the back of your mind that this fracas will blow by and both ursef n dear hubby will be back to the birdie-birds u were few months into your relationship..

ciao

girlloom:
I know right, all thanks to my husband who kept pushing that I stayed back till our son clocks 3 months. Also the sis inlaw wanted me around for nanny services. I wanted to leave in January to some other place when his mom came over, my husband called my parents that I wanted to put the newborn at risk. He said if I took his child outside his sis home that I should as well end the marriage. His mom frustrated me real good. One particular day in Feb, the mom told her daughter that my son could have been handsome if not for the nose I gave him, I couldn't take it and let out all she had been doing to me, unpleasant words were exchanged, she said yes because I want to separate her from her son and destroy her family. The sister was extremely happy to call my husband to let him know I exchanged words with his mother and my once peaceful and happy marriage turned into something else since then.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 12:36pm On Mar 15, 2016
cool

Enizo:
SMH embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed online tinz wen we feel invincible so we scatter yarn keep it up.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 6:41pm On Mar 11, 2016
Greetings.
DW n d LOs are doing gr8....
We re breaking d economic waves n dollar storm. ..
2nd missionary ke. ...more like 4th..
Buh definitely ll be b4 either d Rep/Dem pres repeal the immigration n citizenship Act..lol
Hailings



jayjay4lyf:
Olokins I see cool u oo
How's DH and LO
Warming up for 2nd missionary journey like firsty mum I presume lol
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 9:30pm On Jan 10, 2016
Really nice of you to pick on mee...
Firstly welcome on board.
Now onto us, Apeke1991 kind person how many times did you see me ask that question and what was the response I got to that?

Do you see me quoting in have read heaven and earth et al?

Do you see me spamming the thread?

Hahaha. .....I'm emailing at the picture u paint in your mind as to the kinda person to think I'm. ..
Trust me I came I ask I read and I understood the logic of things then I dove into the see to depths in quadrant never before explored. ...

I have no qualms whatsoever against a asking questions and please by all means, (apparently u know how to use the search button very well) how many dallas macintosh where trashed b4 my time. ..

Please really you wouldn't wanna toss d gauntlet at me because I never play novice at anything. ...if not for anything I don't say I'm a know it all buh I'm a very quick learner so kindly pick your gauntlet and toss it at someone whom you can spar with. ...

Let's not start flexing our keyboards, typing skills and data bundles at each other. ...

Gud evening to you specially once again

#placesmicbackonstand ..... grin

Apeke1991:
funny how some months ago ... U were still a new bee too . This was ur question on page 17 thread 2.
"Greetings house.
Please I need urgent advice on birthing (hospitals) options and accomodation in Dallas.
My wife is due Sept 2015 and flight already booked for august 1st arrival in Dallas... wanna ve dem enjoy dinner summer time chill out b4 delivery.
Thanks n very much appreciated"

And you know the funniest thing I have been following this thread since 2013 and Dallas had been treated over and over in thread 1 , yet no one shut you down . Do unto others what you will want them to do to you . Just a piece # no hard feelings .
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 12:45pm On Jan 10, 2016
Y'all see the unending trends of every new set of newbiescalling the prior set bullies? .

I remember I was directly insulted here once by a newbie ergo my decision to relegate to background. ...

Madam go farther back n read the pages, dallas has been well taken care of. ...

I bet it, same u will reprimand newbies in months to come about claiming to read n ask answered questions.



Bimdazzle:
I feel you ucystan. Some ppl feel it's funny or makes them popular to belittle others on the thread. If one can be helpful then you should be rather than being sarcastic. I believe most of us are all parents and have common goals. I asked a question on Dallas few days back. Before asking this question I had gone through pages n pages of post without any tangible help on it. Infact @ times I wake @ night scoring the Internet. I have called several doctors without getting really good responses. So to ask the question on the forum and to be laughed off was not really nice . Please let's try as much as possible not to turn to bullies and if you have no response to a post, simply don't comment.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 12:38pm On Jan 10, 2016
That's very wrong of u to say. ..
You think you have gotten all u need?
Snatch yourself get shunned from now on!

ucystan:
thank u very much may God bless u and ur home! U re indeed a kind soul and ur husband has married an angel. Don't mind those abusive women thinking it pays, what would they gain abusing a mother and a preg woman seeking for help, tomorrow at d judgement day they will ask God when did u knock and I didn't open. (Smh).I decided not to reply them bcus wouldn't stoop that low. Pls may God really fulfil ur dreams and grant u ur het desires Amen.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by olokings(m): 12:34pm On Jan 10, 2016
Hellos. ...
Look @ ds auntie. ...
I didn't go into retirement oh. ...
I'm still very much here watching. .....
I have a constant running page of up-to-date NL on my phone n desktop at the office. ...
Now I simply read and when is REALLY required, i drop a line or two. .....lol

By the way #twingirls I'm not one whip up sour waters so I'd just say I'm looking forward to reading your future posts of successful (most likelymultiple) birthing. ..u know, #Nogen style. ...
Kind regards





nefertitiram:
I had a dream, so Tey I trek with belle and bathroom slippers upandan looking for cheap hosp till I entered preterm labor. I still came here to do jega, posted results till olokings over threw me and went into retirement.

Ko buru, nothing spoil.

Madam ucystan, quickly copy out my last post, I will delete in a bit before monitoring spirits descend on it. angry

Uncle Justwise, feel free to hide it once you come on in case I have slept off. God bless you

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