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and same you is requesting members to vote on your requests for flights and POE choices abi..

whats good for the goose should be good for the gander as well...

Bisoye82:
Madam take jotter and biro and read from Part 1 of this thread.NY hospitals info plenty for here.
Mercy Medical Centre is also in Nassau county I think and info on doctor,hospital,paediatrician cost breakdown is here too even NICU rates not included in the package was dropped here.
Do small search na.

really....
just look up at the top of the PAGE you are viewing right now...
hmm

kemodi:
hello house, pls i need the email address of doctoresparati's hospital in el paso. Kinda urgent. thanks.

not everyone jorh...

some are propro CHANGE OF INTENT... hehehe

when i went in with my team at POE they only asked purpose and i said DW birthing / vac and rest vac.
they asked previous visit i told em.. n thatz'al

thats all.. no secondary inspection, no further question no comprehensive checks. plus

these guys are profiling us dont you know.

plus these kain waka weh candidate X will enter via POE A and exit from POE Q dey raise cause for concern.

they have begun to figure that we are tactically and willfully dodging some certain POE.. Dont you think?

nefertitiram:
@bolded, and all of you on Nairaland are accomplices! hehehehehe

they got a pretty good logic that their argument.

its becoming too much of a coincidence, begining to sound more like a well thought out and pre-meditated crime.

at least, we should try and USE the VISA for a FAMILY VACATION before sending the hot change of intent.
that makes it a change of intent na abi?

buh then again, we trying to CUT COST and causing trouble for ourselves and others coming behind.

Good luck to us all![b][/b]

firsttymum:
A friend of mine is in Houston right now.
I didn't even know she was on nairaland... She got all her information here. But she saw hell at the poe. I had to forcefully get her interview and poe transcript... Will post later.

Anyway

Her colleague was asked to log into her phone.
She was sent back

The cbp guys said alot of us are coming here with this letter... We get the visa first for vacation then get pregnant and we now send an email to the embassy. It's too much of a coincidence that most people get that visa for vacation on a planned date and suddenly change their mind.. But later come pregnant with a change of intent letter.. And bla bla bla. Lemme quote her quote of his statement " U don't suddenly cancel a family vacation and we all can't suddenly b cancelling family vacation, that's too much of a coincidence"
They delayed her for about 10 hours or more and sent her back.

she said they were all just pissed off about the same story of "I got d visa before I got pregnant for vacation but I changed my mind when I got pregnant "

These ghost members are seriously putting sand in our garri...

I don't see the logic. ...
Pls elaborate.

modath:
Justy, you don't have a point, when blacks kill their own, they are not doing it with racial undertones & intent to subjugate/decimate them...

Gang wars, territorial skirmishes & drug deals gone bad & the occassional relationship turned sour are what causes black on black crimes not " I HATE YOU FOR JUST EXISTING."


Don't blacks kill blacks in places where blacks are the only inhabitants..

Hi.
They don't do email addy until u re a registered patient then they communicate with u using their corporate email and phone which you can't use to get a specific doc beating in mind that there are different docs registered under the office.

Get your phone, load plenty airtime and start blowing swinswin-swin with them

lafad11:
Hello sir,
Thanks for this post. Sir' could you please help out with email address of these doctors. I'm sorry if I'm stressing u out or asking for too much. Thanks

Why are guys fussing about this dude...
He's in one corner villages where e scored a phone with browser n Internet wroth small data shop he decided to come here n seek attention. .
That's how he hoped to spend d holidays. ...

Pls poeps. ..ignore ignore ignore

uchetobi:
Except these Nigerians come to you to borrow money, to fund these birth trips, how about you don't worry about our reasons. let it be our headache

When the dude was trekking from Anambra to lagos to get visa go oyinbo ma'am kontri he didn't know to stay in the village. .
Now he's forming discourage for others to come. ..
Ppl like am main dey tk pleasure in denying visa for others trying to come sef

jacksparow:
Check your calculator o. $17,000 can't give you N23million. If Americans like let them go to Ukraine, me am still going there for child birth.

Email. ....

MiddyO:
Hello people, please I need the contact details of the Dallas Agent who does Naija visas etc. It's urgent!
Cc: Olokings & Terese69.

Thanks a lot!

Well, with the amount of junk mails I gotta sift thru on the go, it's not far fetched. ..hahaha. ...
Coupled with This kontri wahala!
I guess I'd verify again

favoredgal:
Maybe you read what was in your mind already.

I'll go thru my mail trash tmro. .cos I just read n deleted it

favoredgal:
What's the message specifically, is it African countries & Asia or all around the world

The one you got from Stanbic. If you can munch pls it will be appreciated. I have two Stanbic accounts and also have fidelity and I haven't received any email

hi hi
for the record.... other banks have sent out the notification also....
i recieved email last week from fidelity and stanbic... so i am quite convinced the wind will blow onto others as well..

gud luck missions legionaires

firsttymum:
Ok that's d email from diamond bank. I haven't gotten any email like that from my other banks funny enough

So I'm feeling gud today. ....
For the newbies who may be too #$$**&¥ to visit part 2...this is it for part 3.....until part 4 kings refer ursevz oooh...

These are some vbac friendly docs around the dallas area.

Dr Charles Griffith
Dr Yolanda
Dr Charles Downey
Dr Cummings
Dt carol Norton

Q-Tips to identify VBAC friendly docs:
1. they have conducted LOTS of successful VBAC with patient testimonies and reviews.
2. their office practice are usually housed in the same building complex / facility as the hospital.. or at most less than 5 minutes walk/drive from the hospital.
3. the hospital is most likely to be highest level NICU facility.
4. VBAC friendly docs is not a matter of certification, its more of a matter of choice that's all..

reminder: research them well and check out all your options ontime because some of them who are true VBAC docs even go the extra mile of insisting on getting copies of your med report on the previous C-Sessions to enable them make a good decision if / not you are a positive VBAC candidate.

if the doc is so quick to tell you YES to VBAC without proper background checks and med history, bekoo just pick race or ready to be knifed...


best bet if you are a VBAC candidate is to google VBAC FRIENDLY DOCTORS around your area and READ their REVIEWS to decipher amongst them who are trully VBAC experienced obgyn.

make sure durring appointment booking that you notify both the obgyn and hospital so they wont toss a policy in your face when its the 11th hour.

NOTE: ENSURE TOP FIVE UR OBGYN full info as to ur previous CS including the circumstances leading to it as some of them even INSISTS on getting a full med ops report for ur previous birthing b4 they take you on


Plus further be informed that most vbac docs wanna start seeing their patients as early / no later than 28 weeks (it is very difficult getting true v vbac docs who takes late patients... I recall driving around dallas for a whole day checking n being rejected registration with over 10 obgyn practices).

My wife eventually used
Obgyn: Charles Downey
Hospital: methodist medical centre Richardson texas.

Again. ...Google them and all other info. ... the likelihood of getting am unscheduled CS during VBAC is very high so be sure to pick a very experienced obgyn affiliated to a capable hospital. .

Gud luck

emeldamicheals:
Thanks dear. I can see your wife is not new to VBAC. I saw where you talked abt it but no vex ooo. Hope am not asking for too much. Can you assist me with the exact hospital and the doctor your wife used and the total everything cost her. You will really be saving me alot and doing me a huge deal. If you have talked abt it already, can I have the page you did that. I know its not always easy to repeat things. If u can make an exception I go happy as I am VBAC desperate.
Thanks again.

Hellos yo.
Search my posts...I detailed how to go about a VBAC.

U should be good to go

emeldamicheals:
Hello wonderful people of this forum. Compliments of the season to you all and congrats to all the new nairaland american babies. Welcome to the world.
Please, everyone, still on the matter. I don tire. To get a VBAC friendly doctor hard pass the US visa itself. My money don finish say I dey load card call US. VBAC means Vaginal birth after a C-Section.
Wonderful Tobermom assisted me with one in NYC but if you happen to proceed to CS for any reason, the money is sth else. I am really playing safe.
Please, can anyone assist me with a hospital and a VBAC friendly doctor. If possible, within a total of 5k USD. It seems there are no much VBAC mums here.
I will really appreciate any assistance I can get as am almost giving up hope.
Thanks.....

cc olorieka

U re soo on point. .
Apply n get a UK visa. ..visit for a week. ...go to dubai for a weekend. ..then carry ur partly #dirty (with stamp passport) n go bk reapply for d us visa u sure ll get it.

I did that. ..my familia got denied by France with the dreaded denial stamp on their visas. .
I simply b4 going for us application visited dubai using a connecting flight were I had to enter Ethiopia for a day on both legs of the trip. .. n other opportunities came where we had to visit dubai again 4 three days. ..so by the time we went for d interview we claim better travel history. ....

U know that type where u form I just decided to pop in the country for a few days sight seeing. .
Let em conclude dt u re not big into long holidays n always wanna come bk home. ..#winks. ..

Do as ladyG adviced.

LadyGuinivere:
Honey bunch. In my humble opinion the problem transcends the passport. Why? Your interviews are transcribed and stored which is why they keep on referring to it.Soo new passport or not, its on the system. U have been refused 3 times abi? With different combo of alone and with oga?
I believe u should tackle those visas. Uk is pretty easy to get if u fulfill all righteousness.
Once u scale that hurdle believe me ul get the visa. US are just not ready to 'disvirgin' your passport. The timeline may not work for u. If this particular baby is born in Naija that's not the worst thing. The rest will have the opportunity. Its better to go back to the drawing board. Cos somebody prolly made a note that's working against u. So take urtime and show them u can be trusted. Get a uk visa. Visit. Return. And reapply. That was what worked for me.
Sorry if this isn't the advice u were seeking for

congrats jorh popri....

just come home and enjoy your holidays and forget all those chi'kens....
wow... barricade entry and exit for vigilante'

Popri:
Merry Christmas to you all in advance

Ok. .so I won't do d ki.ki.ing laugh.
Be like DH don burst enter NL...na damage control get the day. ...
Abeg mk he no vex blood dey hots. ..
Like said b4, reapply again on ur own and he can go after u on grounds to witness his child birth.

He will be part o' ur ties back home n sponsor. .u know d rest. .
Gud luck

hellomosquito:
@bolded
he was the one that took the refusal note,not that his storming out had any influence on the refusal ( I wrote the situation wrongly.

Ohh..i guess my mood made me paint the situation wrongly..
My DH left the scene after the VO handed him the refusal note and not before. (who go proud for this kind situation) . Guess the shock of refusal just made him leave sharply without saying a word.
Please house I need the way forward.
Most answers were dwelling on DH.but it wasn't as I painted. I already edited my main post...biko.help

hellomosquito:
I was at the embassy today with hubby and daughter but wasn't issued visa. This was how things went.
Vo..good afternoon
Us. Afternoon
VO what are u going to atlanta to do
Me..childbirth
DH vacation and to witness the birth of my baby
VO..have u travelled b4
Both..NO
Vo..why atlanta
Dh..a friend gave birth there and recommended atlanta and the hospital
Vo..how much do u earn
Us..said
Vo..how much do u want to spend
Dh..over 14k dolls...( Huby said ah but this isn't medical question..xuz were going for childbirth)
VO just said sorry bla bla...my husband no make she finish before storming out...no documents checked...I M thinking mayb the VO didn't hear all we were saying...abi..abeg Wetin we fit do...I want my American dream ooo..

I think @ the bold could ve logically struck the VO that u planned and is reciting a typical medical visa interview session.
This they most probably put as a suffix for misrepresentation which further is a red flag for denial.
U could reapply again n be str8 n simple this tyme.. plus try both be in sync. ..
Good luck

Nobody will quote I stay 2 houses behind that abandoned tortoise
Car after mango tree for ajegunle under bridge abi. .?!

modath n nerf na tripping at first sight. .left em..b4 "I must do too" make stalkers begin tail people here oooh. ....bearing in mind that poeps here are perceived as BIG feefoo not forgetting say we all are just die hard hustlers...

My own sha ooh

neks31:
Pls allow " lekki wives" to flourish Kikikikik! U no see nerf n her BFF tensioning us.. Lol

Nobody will quote I stay 2 houses behind that abandoned tortoise
Car after mango tree abi. .?!

modath n nerf na tripping at first sight. .left em..b4 "I must do too" make stalkers begin tail people here oooh. ....bearing in mind that poeps here are perceived as BIG feefoo not forgetting say we all are just die hard hustlers...

My own sha ooh

neks31:
Pls allow " lekki wives" to flourish Kikikikik! U no see nerf n her BFF tensioning us.. Lol

Why y'all quoting where you live. .?
That info is not relevant to the discuss nor ur question.
Just ask away and await response aii

dedalove:
Hi, I stay at Sangotedo and I plan to leave first week in January cos I am due February, still confused on accommodation as well. Still trying to decide between soul care or precious cedars as I don't want to stay alone since am going all by myself. It will be nice to hook up over there once u come around as I plan to use Oakbend Medical center as well.

You wanna sue the hospital for hearing test which was administered to the child? ......

Or that they performed a test which you explicitly requested not to be done?...

I don't get it

jacksparow:
House O! Something pass my power and need advice. My in law that gave birth at oakbend richmomd just called now. She was in excruciating and terrible pain on Monday and went to the hospital thinking it was labour but it was false. They did a scan to see the baby's neck was tired with the cord....in the pain, they brought a bunch of papers saying she needed to sign b4 the cs will be done. The story now is, they brought her baby back after a few hours today congratulating her that the baby passed his hearing test which unknown to her was part of what was given to her to sign. Eventhough she has called for everything she signed before they will perform every test on the baby.What options does she have? Call a lawyer and sue? I think she was misled by oakbend

Replies to PM's returning failure delivery. ..

cc' Nerf et'al

hello..
i wouldn't advise you on that...

just try skimming thru part one even if its 30 minutes read daily... trust me you'd cover alot and by the time questions arise from that you will get response because by that time you'd be asking the right questions...

now you are more like just shoting random in the air..

Breadfruit:
I know I would. Been reading it off and on. It's just hard when you work 13 hours everyday. And time is not on my side too.
Anyways, maybe just have to go with an agent.

Hellos firsty. ..
Goto babies r us and search for breastfeeding shawl. ...or Google it. ....I may need to ask DW d name. ..I know I searched for it when there was need four her to breastfeed in public plus d oyinbo iyanga. ..
It's a fitting cloth of diff designs which allows you to breastfeeding on the go comfortably even in public without bothering yourself or anyone. ...
Bear regards

firsttymum:
For those who have to pump milk, did u pump on the plane? if yes how did u do it.

Hehehe. .....
U both didn't allow each other rest. .it's not just one who danced d tango. ..buh this is so kool. ...birthing with purpose. .

Now that's game. .
Kudos

jacksparow:
Na she no go allow u rest o....mine delivered this Feb, and now she's going back again for another one for March next year, tickets down for mother in law and wifey ....e no easy , I want to go on paternity leave.

Methodist Richardson.
The doc who handled d delivery did the circumcision 24 goes after birthing.
He gave us various options n their advantages including our naija local style. ...
U can google Downey with women's health center Richardson.
All d best

bizzle6:
Please where was the circumcision done?



K

Nope. .
Methodist Richardson to be precise.

swappylove:
Bro's I thot ur baby was born in Houston and not dallas

Not entirely. ..
Had my LO circumcised for $160.00...
It depends on the doc's practice plus they apparently got different styles and procedures.
The choice us urs.

MiddyO:
In Dallas it's $500 for Circumcision.

Congrats firsty. ...
Best wishes to the LO.....

Quick recovery

firsttymum:
The Lord that does what no man can do.... How excellent is His name.

I'm a Mother... I give God the praise.