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Career / Re: How Can I Stop This Bad Habit by olola4(m): 3:41pm On Dec 10, 2021
Sorry to say, you may be a SLOW person, despite waking up early still taking longer time to birth and prepare for work, I think you will have to work on the time you spend to prepare for work so that even if you wake up early, you will also leave home early which is the most important.

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Politics / Re: Prince Arthur Eze Rides Bicycle While His Security Men Run To Guard Him (Video) by olola4(m): 3:26pm On Dec 08, 2021
Romance / Re: I'm Heartbroken My Girlfriend Got Engage The Same Day I introduce Her To My Pple by olola4(m): 9:34pm On Dec 07, 2021
This is very sad bro, but you have to be strong.

First of all @ 28 with the pressure from family and other factors, what an average single Nigerian lady thinks of is marriage, if you are posting her, trust me she will only stay if there is no other option but if there is, bro na japa to the READY MAN o.

Secondly, she is a very deceptive and manipulative person, it is better she go, although Nigeria ladies are generally unstable but yours is worst.

Lastly, you just have to free your mind and let it go, I know it won't be easy, in fact it will be very hard but trust me that will be the best for you.

I wish you all the best in your endeavors.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-Power Beneficiaries Storm Abuja To Protest Over Unpaid Allowances by olola4(m): 3:19pm On Dec 06, 2021
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Travel / Re: FG Faults British Travel Ban, Alleges Most Infected Travellers From UK by olola4(m): 11:36am On Dec 06, 2021
They are teaching us what to do incase of next time.
Travel / Re: Groom's Parents, Siblings, Others Die In Fatal Accident After Wedding In Bayelsa by olola4(m): 11:34am On Dec 06, 2021
May God comfort the family.

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Religion / Re: RCCG Online Dating App Condemned By Leke Adeboye (Pastor Adeboye's Son) by olola4(m): 10:19am On Dec 05, 2021
I don't see anything bad in it.

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Health / Re: 4,531 Sex Workers Undergo HIV Treatment, Counseling In Ogun by olola4(m): 3:53pm On Dec 03, 2021
How are they able to bring that much together
Romance / Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by olola4(m): 12:14pm On Dec 03, 2021
Amiralord:


My mind Is totally out of her,but the humanist part of me makes me cry, that who's going to wipe her tears,who's gonna Stand by her when am gone,who she's ganna talk to when she need some.



You are very funny bro, if you never come into her life in the first instance maybe she will have met a better person, don't think of what will become of her, leave her now or let her sins continue to hunt you for the rest of your life.

She is very desceptive and manipulative, all she want from you is marriage, after you guys are married, bro just go and write your will and start digging your grave.
Properties / Re: LASPPPA Apprehends Physical Planning Permit Law Violators In Lagos (Pictures) by olola4(m): 10:41am On Dec 03, 2021
Wao...prevention is better than collapse building.

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Career / Re: How Does One Deal With Indecisiveness? by olola4(m): 1:19pm On Dec 02, 2021
Bros, get a mentor you can trust and be ready to go with anything he says!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Flour Mills Workers Stage Protest Outside The Company Seeking A Increased Salary by olola4(m): 1:16pm On Dec 02, 2021
One of the worst life experience is to be a contract/third party staff undecided I doubt if there is anything Flour Mills can do as they are not their direct staff.

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Celebrities / Re: Annie Idibia Jumps On Tuface, Kisses Him As He Pays Her A Visit At Work (video) by olola4(m): 6:23pm On Dec 01, 2021
After all the drama
Crime / Re: Deeper Life Church Cleaner Killed In Ondo, Body Dumped In Front Of The Church by olola4(m): 11:04am On Nov 29, 2021
I am sure she is in a place of rest now cry

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Family / Re: My Wife Changed All Our Property Documents In Nigeria To Hers, Plans To Kill Me by olola4(m): 10:08pm On Nov 26, 2021
This post really scares me Marriage is way to complicated to just jump in.
Celebrities / Re: Ebuka Obi-Uchendu Celebrates 15 Years Of Being A TV Host (Photos, Video) by olola4(m): 1:27pm On Nov 26, 2021
Becoming a star is just by God's grace and staying up to 15 years, still relevant is a rare priviledge, Congratulations Ebuka!

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Education / Re: Secondary School Students Attack Police Officers In Ogun State by olola4(m): 6:10pm On Nov 24, 2021
I think tear gas would have been the best to calm the situation.

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Education / Re: FG Unreachable Since Last Meeting, Says ASUU by olola4(m): 11:08am On Nov 24, 2021
Threaten to go on strike again an they will start calling you again.
Crime / Re: Ibadan Phone Thief Caught On CCTV (Video) by olola4(m): 10:46am On Nov 24, 2021
All this CCTV without anyone station to man and see what is going on in a control room

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Sports / Re: Sports Minister, Dare, Orders NFF To Sack Rohr Immediately by olola4(m): 4:24pm On Nov 23, 2021
Rohr should have respected himself and resign honourably instead of this shameful exit cry

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Food / Re: Which Of These Cereals Do You Prefer by olola4(m): 2:27pm On Nov 23, 2021
Golden morn always

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Politics / Re: 90 Ships Seized By EFCC Rot Away In Lagos, Others by olola4(m): 1:55pm On Nov 22, 2021
This is the result of no proper plan in managing recovered asset and delay in court judgement.

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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Abraham Shares Pepper At Iyabo Ojo's Mum's One-Year Remembrance (Video) by olola4(m): 12:23pm On Nov 22, 2021
Clout chaser

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Romance / Re: Why Are Women In A Rush To Get Married? by olola4(m): 10:59am On Nov 22, 2021
Moreign001:
I sincerely appreciate all of your comments, and words of encouragement, the criticism too helps a lot
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Let me reassure you guys that I'm fine, relaxed and mild. I feel bad for myself a bit because I lost a wonderful woman, but I'm sincerely gleeful for her. I won't cut her off communications, I will stand by her, support whenever. One thing I understood about love is this. If you genuinely love someone, their happiness should be your first preeminence. Allow them to do what ever makes them happy, and still love them regardless.

Yes we spoke lengthy tonight, and I understood exactly how she feels, I understood deeply how our parents and guidance keeps pressuring their children, pupils and siblings against their wish, not just in marriage, but even in careers and others. And also how parents are forcing children into marriage in other to help in assisting the family burden. How is this right?

Life is love, so I have decided that I'm never going to cut her off, or act as if she never exist, she deserves better. But I will never get involved with her again. I'm mentally strong, and I built it on love. Right now i'm so concerned about her happiness, not her leaving me. I just want her to be happy and fine, that's all. We should never criticize people when they make decisions, maybe we would have made worst decisions in that same position.

Yes, I had intention of marrying her, she knew. She is not a cheat, she's a very good girl and I respect her. The main reason why I brought up this post was because lots of girls are after marriage, some are forced into it without having nothing to offer. I personally asked what's her plans after school, and she said she will open a shop (Food items) until after her Masters programs. I was ready and willing to support her.

I told her to hold on until we're done with our Nysc which should be next year by God's grace.

And those asking why I didn't marry or engage her... Even if I had billions in my account, I still wouldn't have married until I'm done with my Nysc. You don't rush it, we were students for 4years and that's our love duration, we needed at least some time outside school to see how ideal we were.

And to some persons saying she doesn't have time... I pleaded for just one more year, for our Nysc..
Don't encourage people to rush into marriage because of age, she just met this guy, they don't know and haven't tolerate themselves. This is one of the major reasons why marriage keep failing because it can lead to trust issues, violence and others. I understood her very well, she's a very jealous individual, and I can tell you that the new guy doesn't know this, now how about if he doesn't want a woman who is loaded with jealousy? But it's fine, many read to criticize, not to understand and learn.

My advice to every girl out there, try and add value to yourself, this won't just make your husband respect you, it will also stop your parents and guidance from going against your preferred wish.

Bro!!! Back-off, don't try this, leave her alone, if you try this you will turn to a frustrated, depressed, confused and heart broken poor guy.

Leave the lady alone, let her face her life while you face yours.

The more you try to stay around her, the more it will keep hurting you, just forget about her until you are healed completely, you can never be friend with your ex or someone you love, it will drain you mentally.

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Celebrities / Re: Wema Bank Officials Visit Davido In Dubai (Pictures) by olola4(m): 10:28am On Nov 20, 2021
OBO Baddest grin

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Crime / Re: Someone Stole My Phone And Withdrew Over N180k From My Account Within 3hrs by olola4(m): 5:44pm On Nov 19, 2021
Never activate an ATM card or activate USSD for the Bank Account where you have huge funds

What happened to ops can happen to anyone, that is why you should only have the money you can loose in the bank account associated with your ATM and USSD

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Family / Re: The Harsh Things Your Wife Has Ever Told You. by olola4(m): 1:39pm On Nov 19, 2021
It is well.
Celebrities / Re: Don Jazzy Gifts Davido 11,000 Dollars (6.2 Million) by olola4(m): 9:42pm On Nov 18, 2021
Davido don cash out for this one already, I don't think anyone after can ever get up to this

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Politics / Re: Aisha Yesufu Shows Amazing Dance Skills (Photo, Video) by olola4(m): 11:26am On Nov 18, 2021
Life is too short to be caged under a religion grin

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Celebrities / Re: Davido Is Broke, Don't Be Fooled By The Give Away by olola4(m): 10:02am On Nov 18, 2021
Even if he his now broke, he has invested so much in himself and people around him that is why he can get back.

In short, invest in yourself and others when you are rich so that when you are broke you will see people to push you back to where you belong.

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Religion / Re: Religious Persecution: US Delists Nigeria On "Special Watch List" Of Countries by olola4(m): 5:53pm On Nov 17, 2021
There is a good news at last. embarassed

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Education / Re: SS3 Student Of Navy Secondary School In Abeokuta Beaten By Officer (Video) by olola4(m): 4:14pm On Nov 17, 2021
This is brutal

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