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Shame on yourself
I no form fake life I de my papa house ooo
Chopping healthy and wealthy
Useless man

Prospertochu:
That 55k it is better than the fake life you are forming online , maybe in your account you don't even have 1k but you are forming big girl online. Shame on you lady

Nitah1:
"llliterate" or illiterate?



You see your life?

WTF
TRY GET SENSE NA

Now I see why U are earning 55k
Illiterate
Read and write wey simple na problem for you

Prospertochu:
Did I held a gun on your head to read my post , attention seeker

At least he’s not starving kids that are blessings in the name of 55k or it wud be better.
Go and quadruple your hungry hustle
If you double it you won’t still be better
If I was ur wife I swear na suicide u go commit your mom knows how messed up her son but she won’t say it
If ur dad was here na curse and flog u go de receive all day
Trash human

Prospertochu:
Cheap talk . you are forming big boy here but maybe in reality I may be better than you with my 55k , it is you that is a fool keep your foolish talk out of my post.

Suffer on ur own when u were having a swell time u didn’t ask us to join u
So please let’s read meaningful things and I know u are indirectly begging just come out and do it proudly
With 55k u had d mind to start a family
Can 55k sustain u alone sometimes ehn I wonder if ppl think

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets, my salary is 55k. I used to give my wife 20k, mother 10k, 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house.

My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more.

I had no money to give her, my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it. My wife used to fight me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house as we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k.

So far, we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful.

Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church, now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly, she has agreed.

Now that my mother is here with us, she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us, note I don't eat breakfast, I eat lunch at work and in the evening I eat at home. She is only giving my mother food in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day.

I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods.

Is my decision good?

powerfulguy:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/11/murder-trial-i-bought-late-atagas-laptop-from-chidinma-for-n495000-man-tells-court/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Leave my baby alone she didn’t do it �

Too much porn has messed up ur thinking quit porn and get a life

LoverJoe89:
Dear NLs,

I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.

We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.

I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.

I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.

Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.

gulfer:
Those who paid to take your position have inadvertently taken all your pain, sorrow, early death and frequent sicknesses in life, God will surely give you a better song in due course

Big liesssssss
Omo in some years or months na promotion de await them lol
Promotion with better fat salary
Those that paid have gone up a level in life and would make back that 7million x10
Stop hating it’s not their fault they were able to afford such
Grow up

Baba said he doesn’t drink or smoke and he’s of good behavior and a Christian loooooooooool
You can do all and still be a good person and u can do none and be the most evil out there
Psychologist would be wary of a man that claims no vices

Timekeeper:
If I must get another place, money for rent, agreement ń commission especially now Dt things are too hard.. I can't afford it


Most people are saying I should get a place.. The truth is that it's nt easy... Even my brother place Dt I stay temporarily, I am planning to leave bcox the place don dey choke....

We agreed to pay 1 year which is 30k each but I opted for 6 months.. I am hoping miracle can happen and God will take me to next level....
I am trying... But she said we need to pay the rent this weekend so landland wunt come and harass her.... It is really closing in on me.... Infact I am currently sourcing for my own part of the money

I can't reject the job and stay jobless.... I am not the type Dt loves staying home and doing nothing while others are at work. So this change Dt I got, I want to make use of it .


Attention: if there is any guy here staying on the island Dt I can squat with, I will really appreciate.. I am of good behavior and a Christian... I don't drink nor smoke, I mind my business..... I am an active person Dt seeks opportunities and my drive for success is unending...

https://www.nairaland.com/6865390/need-anyone-staying-island-lekki

felixzo1:
most ladies marry who is available when they want to marry. a man can get married even at 40 to a 20year old girl. women do not have that previlage ,their biological clock is not their friend. i will never advice any woman to wait for man. more 70 percent of campus relationship do not lead to marriage. finance is usually the major factor. I have a friend who dated a girl since his first year in school . They were always together, did everything together , they were even living together, their parents were even aware of their relationship. They behaved as if they cannot live apart. But after service year the story changed, the lady was willing to marry the guy but the guy was not ready due to finance. The parents of the girl were even willing to sponsor the wedding but the guy refused that he wanted to stand on his feet first. 6 months later the girl got married to someone else, went on to have 3 kids the ex boyfriend was still single. After 9 years the guy got married to a 20 year old girl. The ex girlfriend has grown up kids

One thing is probably the ex boyfriend took all those years to marry was he was getting over his lost relationship now he felt since she’s out of the picture am no longer in hurry I can decide to be single forever or wait till I feel it’s the best time…cause he waited 9 years doesn’t mean he would have done the same with his ex..and why get married cause u want to have grown up kids quickly have u ever wondered if a child dies,what if u rushed into a relationship only to discover some biological incompatibilities but still continued with hope of “gods grace” some women don’t want kids at all but just because of parents and society they just have to take it that way..nowadays you have so many people married but they aren’t really married in public u see them as the best couples but in the house they don’t even talk or meet eye to eye..some even tell their kids how they regret the marriage and of possible would go back and wait for the person they really loved but didn’t have all the time to wait

think 29 is still a little bit young to be worried about marriage
Gather ur resources and build up
For those years of 32-34 it’s not a race don’t go And enter bondage cause ur mates are doing it
Better ursef first someone that’s 29 still dying over and ex that left him I don’t think u are emotionally or mentally matured imagine marrying with such attitude u wud kill ur wife any time u remember this ex

Benard5050:
I'm 29 yrs old, I had a breakup with the girl I've been dating for 4 yrs this year April. Since then it has been so hard for me 2 be in a relationship cos I think my ex could still come back cos I still love her.

I had a brief relationship with a lady last 2 months but didn't last long cos I'm still yet over my ex.

There's this lady that joined my working place and also my next-door neighbor, she's kind and her character has been so gud for d six weeks she started working at my place of work.

I think I'm loving her but I will not want what happened with d lady I had a brief relationship with to happen again.

Guys do u think I should go ahead and ask her out?

I'm scared of d negative that might arise cos we are working in d same establishment even though I'm a senior colleague to her there.

Guys is this advisable? I'll be on d tread to answer any question u might want to ask. Thanks.

Franklin24:
A 29years old guy avoid ladies? How then can he marry?

I think 29 is still a little bit young to be worried about marriage
Gather ur resources and build up
For those years of 32-34 it’s not a race don’t go And enter bondage cause ur mates are doing it
Better ursef first someone that’s 29 still dying over and ex that left him I don’t think u are emotionally or mentally matured imagine marrying with such attitude u wud kill ur wife any time u remember this ex

If only u knew looooool
Mumu

MisterKennedy:
A vagabond and a pitiable miserable riff-raff you shall be all your life

I've told you time and time again that I don't want you again bitch. If I could change back the hands of time I will take back my first message I sent to you. I no know say na mad woman wey I dey tell hi until you started displaying all your madness symptoms

So abeg eh, I no want date or befriend mad person abeg

Now you've become a pain in my ass. I can't seem to get your punk ass off me.

Go and look for your fellow mad person and talk to before you infect me with your madness syndrome

Fvcking bitch!

Get sense mumu
Keep on typing if only u knew I repeat u won’t even bother ursef loooooooool
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MisterKennedy:
Yes I am hungry but certainly not hungry for your public toilet of a pvssy. Even if you ask me to use condom to fvck you I will still reject you. I'm disease free and I'll like to keep it that way. I don't fvck oloshos. Your mates are offering their services in different brothels and you're here taking your frustrated ass on me.

Carry your smelly nyash and go and look for your next victim. I can never fvck a dirty olosho like you.

I rather fvck a pig than fvck you

Heya if only you knew looooooooool
You won’t waste your time typing all this
I pity u tho u really calmed down to type all this
Cause you were rejected by someone online hahaha sensible person abeg smell shift
Horrrrrniiiiiiiii rat

MisterKennedy:
You think every girl is as stupid as you

Lol between me and you who is jobless?
You don't even know me and you're here being stupid because I said hi to you.

You think it's every guy that says hi that wants to sleep with you? I rather sleep with a goat or monkey than sleep with you

If only I knew you were this brainless I for save my hi for a sensible lady. Thank God say no be every girl mumu like you. I've found a better girl that understands what relationship is all about so you're completely useless to me now whether as a friend or as a girlfriend I reject you. I don't make friends with a mad person like you... Am I the first person to say hi to you? And you're here talking about me wanting to have sex with you.... You must be a prostitute because I'm sure you do Bleep guys that say hi to you... How will I want to Bleep you when I have not even seen you....

I just read your comment on a post and I thought that you had sense until you replied. I make meaningful friends with meaningful people both male and female. And you don't qualify because you're mad and you seriously need a psychiatrist before your madness gets out of hand...

At the end you will be going from church to church for prayers asking people to pray for you and no man is approaching you. Stupid bitch. Go get a life bitch!

MisterKennedy:
You're the type of girl that guys love to rape. Because that's all you're good for. Stupid bitch. That grave you talked about you will go there before this week ends. Stupid brainless olosho.

Unlike you I'm not going to insult your parents and I'm not going to bring them into this because I respect parents



But they really have the misfortune of giving birth to a sassy, self-absorbed bitch like you.

They would have used you for ritual, or aborted you, or sold you and use the money to enjoy better life.

You're just a great big chemical experiment mistake.

And I shit on your grave

Ok mr. rapist keep on raping your unborn children male inclusive

MisterKennedy:
You're a very stupid bitch. Thunder fire you. I don't date stupid girls like you.... Abeg no use your raggae spoil my blues.... I no want you again. You're not my type... Please kindly get lost.

You know even get work u are finding date
I’m wondering which kind of ppl look and date u. I guess ghosts that’s why you are here desperately looking for and female moniker you see here dropping your number disturbing women get a life guy
Please how can a lady want you in the first place ?
I vomit on your grave and your parents if you had any cause of you did they wud train you better to use your sense

MisterKennedy:
You're a very stupid bitch. Thunder fire you. I don't date stupid girls like you.... Abeg no use your raggae spoil my blues.... I no want you again. You're not my type... Please kindly get lost.

Pervvvvvvvvvvvv…..you should be mentally evaluated
Hungry mofo

MisterKennedy:
Good evening Joke dear. How's your day going?
I've still not seeing your call nor text nor message on WhatsApp. Please call or WhatsApp me dear 08100553547

Stop disturbing every lady on this forum guy rest

MisterKennedy:
what are you even saying? It's not every guy that says hi to a lady that's Hot, mind you. I liked the way you chat in one of your comments that's why I decided to chat with you but now I'm just disappointed. Do you think I choose who to chat with based on their looks or prowess?

It's alright sha. Please avoid me

See this one avoid ur life
Pervvvv

MisterKennedy:
Hello dear. How're you doing? And how's your week going?

Seriously it has gotten to this no picture but u are already fantasizing
Keep on dearing ursef
As in if u see me and am a mad woman what would u say or if I was ur wife/gal friend/mother
Nigerians ehn
Hooooonyyyy folks everywhere
Miss me go and find d next account to disturb

Leave that I don’t do olosho part out of it
You are just broke with no place once the money comes in you would live with all those vanity you would even do worse than you dreamt off

Softboy001:
I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.

Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.

I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.

So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.

primary reasons
1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.

2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)

So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do
They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho
I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't


3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.

for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be

Secondary reasons.
4.am an introvert
5. Am not that tall. Am short
6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave
This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.

If you say so it’s your opinion but I said what I said

SmartPolician:
The richest Lagosians live around Ikoyi, VI, and Lekki (beyond Chevron and up to VGC). You cannot compare that cluster with Ikeja GRA and Magodo. I cannot think of anywhere else on the mainland with a high concentration of rich people. Festac is just a decent place with overpriced properties.

Una no de rest for relationship advice haba there’s more to life no asked for ur advice read the post and pass u that’s giving advice how’s ur life faring
Hope as good as ur advice

Odewaleadesoye:
I have the following to share with everyone:

1. So many people who are feeling like giving up on life should come and see this and know that there is a better future for any man. NEVER EVER GIVE UP.


2. To the ladies reading this, please note that good woman works together with the man to help him grow and not be a liability in his life.


3. And for those guys hoping to troll women who refuse to build with men, note that Sir Tony obviously had potentials he was working on and actively developing himself.
Don't ask woman to stick with you when you don't have a blueprint to elevate yourself to begin with.

SmartPolician:
There are by far richer people on the island than Ikeja.

Don’t be so sure ooo
Some landlords of the island stay on the mainland
Especially the Igbo men

Jealousy chai
Always looking for a way to taint someone’s wealth
Someone shared a testimony how sure are you it’s not I heard they said that he or she said
Abeg calm down go and hustle and stop d hate

Mercychen:
Is it not the same island I was born? (Ikoyi precisely.) We know what Most of them do. They are into shady deals. That is why I don't envy them.

A young guy shared his testimony recently when he went there to work in someone's house. He said, he mistakingly entered one of the rooms and saw different diabolic things and fetishes there. As he made to leave, he discovered he has been locked inside. He began to pray and after a while, the owner ( a young boy) opened the door. As he proceeded to leave,the owner told him to stay there and work but he refused and left the place in a hurry. Leaving the job he was called to do.

I'm contented with what I have now while waiting for increase from God. I can never envy them.

Stan2330:
DVT? which medical school did u graduate from ?

See this one mtcheww go browse DVT abegi

needhelp909:
My younger who is age 20 has been battling with a sickness for over a year now.
His body is swelling up.
Eyes, neck, legs and stomach. They all appear puffed.
We have done all kinds of test and treatment, nobody has been able to diagnose the nature of the sickness.
There is no pain whatsoever, just swellings especially after a nap.
Also he sleeps more than usual.
There was a period it went down for like 3 months.
But now we are back to it again.
He is having difficulty in breathing because of the throat swellings
I will be attaching some of the drugs he is using.
And will be available to answer questions.

Pls ignore the typos here.

Check for DVT
Go to a good hospital and not a clinic head to Abuja or better still Lagos

Stan2330:
from what you complained and the drugs u posted, ur brother is battling with kidney disease

Kai no go kill person pikin
Check for DVT
Go to a good hospital and not a clinic head to Abuja or better still Lagos

Manq:
Money isn't everything but something in marriage.. I got married with an income lower than 50k managed to startup a small business for her, along the line she got a job, now I have my own business combined with my job. We have a kid and now thinking of adding another one to the family. So we combine all our incomes from work and business.. wasn't easy t the start but look at us now! Na God.. I'm not saying she's the best human in the world neither I'm I. But when you see what you need in life, kill (not to spill blood) to get it cos it's either u or them. I took her from someone who was playing with her heart cos I saw the potentials in her.. plus always pray to God and use your head before you select a bride..

Don’t be too happy taking a woman from someone the same would happen to you sooner or later �

HRSweetness:
LOL. You're very small minded and definitely intellectually fatigued.

Your assumptions and decision to resort to throwing tantrums is proof of your juvenility and obviously non existent experience.

Not that it matters, but I obtained my first degree (a B. SC) in the year 2005.

Oya make una clap for una selves all this years u ppl r mentioning and yet both of your names no de for influential people of the year for your country or village sef both of una dumb die
The cars the guy de mention na low budget Ben…ur degree since 2005 and u never reach point of minister or commissioner or even local government chairwoman or man
Getat

onedayatime:
Still proving you lack home training.

Now quote me again and thunder fire you

I de wait the thunder and by d way thunder is a sound so how e go fire me na ur generation generator go burn lol