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FamilyRe: 'You Tie Smelly Wrapper, Smelly Vagina, Yet Want Doggie Style From Your Husband' by Oluromantic: 11:36pm On Oct 30, 2018
MarieSucre:
Even a machine cannot stay the same way for years talk more of a human being who is destined to age. You yourself do you think you're the same way your wife met you. Think about it.
This is part of what I'm saying..
You're totally out of point. You need to see that!
RomanceRe: Is It True That Am Now A Nuisance On Nairaland by Oluromantic: 11:13pm On Oct 29, 2018
You're a nuisance o. Original one. E show for ur face sef. Useless nuisance grin
FamilyRe: 'You Tie Smelly Wrapper, Smelly Vagina, Yet Want Doggie Style From Your Husband' by Oluromantic: 11:32pm On Oct 28, 2018
No matter how much a man explores a lady today, he wants to come back home the next day to meet a lady that looks as fresh as if she's not been explored in months. But most women don't have d ability to keep that moderation.. They're always at the extremes of things..either she always ties wrapper and look so local and unpresentable or she overdresses salaciously and becomes so addictive to it even when going to church that you'll start doubting ur trust in her sef

Same with their emotions.. One extreme to the other... No moderation. Same with their thinking capacity.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are The Three Most Vital Things To Take To Church Every Sunday? by Oluromantic: 7:21am On Oct 28, 2018
Phone
Babe
Gala and coke money
RomanceRe: Do You Believe This Lady's Post On Facebook About Relationship? by Oluromantic: 5:06am On Oct 28, 2018
IamD18:
Ladies don't like anything in a relationship except money.
And big/strong dick. Any man weh dey fall in love dey waste him time
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong For A Man To Live With His In-law? Advise Needed Please by Oluromantic: 10:42pm On Oct 22, 2018
Quality20:
it depends on his type of personality. If he is free easygoing jovial man who care less about trivial unspoken things ,then no probs as he gonna enjoy every moment. Also if d parents and d girl are well up religiously ,morally and ethically, why shouldn't he live with them? But he too should strive to rise up n make more money
I love your point about personality.. Its very true. Some ppl don't take every offensive words or actions too seriously.

But about the parents. My brother parents who are religiously, morally and ethically upright would consider establishing the young man and his wife on their own than going for this option they chose. This thing they did in d name of love for their daughter is not ethical and so do not expect ethical uprightness from their daughter. What they did is an extension of the over pampering they've been used to giving the girl. Of perhaps something else is involved.
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong For A Man To Live With His In-law? Advise Needed Please by Oluromantic:
frozen70:
God is blessing someone and you guys want to use family drama to spoil things for him

Pls you people should leave him alone

What will 35,000 salary get for him as married man even if the wife is from a rich home

Do you know that he is going to sacrifice alot to keep that marriage and still be a happy man there after


What ever makes him happy as far as that marriage is concerned, you people must give him the support he needs

Who doesn't like good things?
Would you approve same for your brother?

The familiarity will get so worse dat d wife will see nothing wrong with addressing him anyhow or deprive him of his due honor. And when he brings up a complain, he will firstly be seen as an ingrate who does not appreciate what was given him, then they'll support their daughter's terrible actions especially the mother and sisters-n-law bcus d men might understand except their minds have been poisoned by the women in d house. They will ridicule him to nothing with untamed mouth. Where he go hear him matter, him sef go shock.

And if he doesn't go home often, even you(op) and ur parents and other family members would not reckon with him again, because you'l all think its him and his wife alone that have been enjoying their money not knowing he's been suffering ridicule ..this one that you're sounding like a concerned brother now, that will not be d case later.

So if he's wise and doesn't want to lose on both sides, he shd stay in his house or better still, let d father-in-law buy them a duplex somewhere else or just settle him with money so he'll build his house. Its a wife that goes to husband's house not d other way round. For them to even ask u to come live in their compound house sef ..bro, they're already selling you off small small. Very soon you won't even be able to make a choice of food in dat house again.
RomanceRe: I Am Looking For A Tall/short Light Skinned by Oluromantic:
First of all, I admire ur observation. But ladies' choices on skin tone in this part of Africa is baseless o. A man makes his choices between attitude and beauty of a woman. A woman prays to be chosen and also works on her beauty and attitude to have a better chance of being chosen while d man works on his finances. If however a woman wants her man's skin toned, she'll tell him subjectively and not by choice or authority ...that's by d proper man-woman romance

I'm not ignorant of the fact that ladies nowadays choose men and not men choosing dem and even tell d men the haircut or skin tone he must keep..such girls don't marry till 35. Its a man that grooms a woman not the other way round.
RomanceRe: This Pretty 20-year-old Nigerian Lady Is In Search Of A Husband by Oluromantic: 4:57pm On Oct 21, 2018
You will see boyfriends. U no fit see husband now. No be curse
RomanceRe: Couple Prepares Meal In The Kitchen In Pre-wedding Photos by Oluromantic: 6:44am On Oct 19, 2018
Why is it that in every pre-wedding pic, the men are always concentrating on the yansh.
RomanceRe: Man And His Lady Kiss Passionately In Adorable Pre Wedding Photos by Oluromantic: 6:40am On Oct 19, 2018
By the power conference under in me. I hereby declare you husband and wife
RomanceRe: She's 27; Already Dated 8 Men At Different Times. by Oluromantic: 3:14pm On Oct 17, 2018
pocohantas:
You mean there are girls that still tell such?

When will these girls learn that most guys do not love to hear the truth. They don't wanna know you better, they wanna judge you better. Even if you say you are a V, he won't rest till he pokes his head inside there.

I personally do not make any effort to come off as a good girl. Not when I know there is this part of their brain wired to doubt every and come up with conjectures.

The last time a guy asked me a question like that, I told him I have lost count and watched him choke on his saliva. I refused to shift gaze, just kept watching him struggle to act unperturbed gringrin grin
Have you reached 35yrs?
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 11:45am On Oct 17, 2018
nyovest300:
AM JUST Asking oooo but by the looks and advice you gave this man am just thinking how many face surgeries ya mother must have done
You're entitled to your opinion. Advice the op with the last little sense you have. The op is where u shd divert ur attention
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 11:43am On Oct 17, 2018
JuanDeDios:
Ok.

But I do believe in for better for worse. It should apply if she falls ill and you have to start carrying her or something like that. It should not apply if she decides to make your life miserable by her words and actions.
You're entitled to your opinion. Advice the op not me.
RomanceRe: She's 27; Already Dated 8 Men At Different Times. by Oluromantic: 9:31am On Oct 17, 2018
She even try weh she tell u half truth. Multiply 8 by 2 and discard d part where she said she didn't cheat..its a blatant lie. You shd confim how many belle she don abort too. Enjoy ur time cus many dey line up after you..in fact beside u sef. No forget to use manpower o bcus na d man weh dey strong for bed pass she go dey give pass. Forget love, they don't deserve it.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 7:49am On Oct 17, 2018
JuanDeDios:
Which understanding? You're the one who appears to lack the maturity required of adults if you think it's okay to talk with your hands. You don't go around hitting people - men or women - because they're not behaving to your liking. Would you really like to live in a world where disputes are settled with fists just like gorillas do in the jungle?

It's because of religious indoctrination that you people think a marriage is written in stone and indissoluble. Wrong. If someone you're with becomes unbearable - married or not - and every effort to resolve the situation fails, you don't dehumanise yourself and her by beating her. You remove yourself from that situation; you end the relationship temporarily or permanently.

It's better to end a marriage that has broken down and thwarted all effort to fix it than to kill somebody.
We share same idea bro. U believe in gentle divorce I believe in brutal separation.. It's who I am. Its not a maturity issue. I could as well say ure immature for agreeing to divorce after d "for better for worse" vow. I'm not a gentle man.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic:
tayooluwole:
Bad guy... Some ladies can frustrate your life ehn... You will not understand except you are living with a lady under the same roof... Some ladies will make you to lose your gentility... Some ladies needs slap and little brutality to restore thier brain to factory settings...
I swear my brother, you will pet them, beg them, buy them gifts, talk to them and no change. In fact for some, you'll report the matter to their parents and their parents would warn them, still no change. Abeg what next...Na blows remain or in a more gentle way, one can buy a cane and flog sense into them like sec sch pikin!
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 10:18pm On Oct 16, 2018
MariaLavina:
If anything happens to this young man seeking advice in the cause of acting like he was told, people like oluroomantic will be the first to type RIP, say hurtful words and all where as they are the ones dishing out insane advice to the gullible ones here. Stupid hypocrites!

Oh! we all know the Nl Alpha male grin. Wait does he even have a partner to start with? grin grin
Nairaland gives u attention for the mean time Yeye! You even edited my monicker just for gossip purpose. Childish person.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 10:16pm On Oct 16, 2018
MariaLavina:
You win. Go to bed already, your brain has exhaust it's reasoning capacity for today. smiley


Don't reply, I won't read. smiley
Enjoy your foollishness on Nairaland. Marriage will open your eyes
RomanceRe: My Dear Nairalanders Help Me, She Wants Me Like Madness by Oluromantic: 10:14pm On Oct 16, 2018
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 10:10pm On Oct 16, 2018
MariaLavina:
Kindly write 'Oluromantic is a dunce' on your signature it will help never to take you for a sensible person. Sorry for disturbing your brain smiley
Lol leave my signature and face your horrible weakness. You have a long way to go.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 10:06pm On Oct 16, 2018
Bholutife18:
dont mind the online egocentric animal, people like him coming online to form tough man are always slaves to their partners. Retarded slowspoke
Your understanding is very minute! You should be ashamed on social media!
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic:
JuanDeDios:
The only time it's okay to get physical with anyone - girl, boy, woman, man - is if you're defending yourself or someone close to you from a physical attack.

Responding to stubbornness with a physical act is something an animal might do since it can't talk or think logically.
The funny thing is if you have this type of understanding, you won't even be rude to ur man in d first place. But you lack the understanding and expect him to bear it all bcus he's born to bear all ur rashness bcus he has no feelings or how?

I still repeat if he's not married u, he shd leave but if he's married and he's tried all civility and diplomacy possible, then desperation is d next step to instill the maturity expected of a married woman.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 10:01pm On Oct 16, 2018
Bholutife18:
If you are yet to marry her, just let her go (given the fact that you are not the one causing the problem) but if you are married to her already, you should have sense this before puting a ring on it...

She has become your cross, bear it but don't lay your hands on a lady no matter how bad they tend to be. There's always a way sensible guyr control such people without violence.
Did u read the original post at all? He's been civil and diplomatic and the childishness in d girl is not reducing.

For you to even think you can be unreasonably rash to ur man and get away with it just because you're a woman..something is wrong with your understanding.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 9:58pm On Oct 16, 2018
MariaLavina:
And when she stabs him with a knife or cut up his wee wee, I hope you will not chant 'RIP' or 'WOMEN ARE EVIL' .
Are u supposed to be rude to ur husband in d first place? You think its all men that will allow idiocracy? I will return u to ur fathers house with terribly disfigured body and no front teeth! Mumu.
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 9:55pm On Oct 16, 2018
Bholutife18:
you have a problem. Bad adviser
You have no hope. Retardedd speaker!
RomanceRe: At What Point Is It Permissible To Slap A Girl by Oluromantic: 9:48pm On Oct 16, 2018
Have u married her?

If not just quit and leave her alone. All of them are made of fish brain. Even children are rational than most women.

But if you're married, give her d terrible bashes of blows..reset her face join d thinking faculty
RomanceRe: Unbelievable-my Husband Chose His Best Friend Over Me by Oluromantic: 12:21am On Oct 16, 2018
Its now left for you to prove him right or wrong to have chosen him. Your next reaction says a lot.
RomanceRe: Lady Shares The Chat She Had With A Man Who Offered Her A Job With Conditions by Oluromantic: 5:46am On Oct 15, 2018
Lol. The man is really foolish. You want to chop a girl you wan employ and you don dey talk like say na one night stand..person weh u never see o.

If I were d girl, I won't even insult, I will just block him right away.
RomanceRe: Which Is Your Habit: Do You Drink, Smoke, Or Womanize? by Oluromantic: 12:08pm On Oct 14, 2018
The only way I compensate myself from the irrationality most women give is to have at least 3 of them at hand and fucck as many as possible..after all, they're plenty. I don't drink, I don't smoke. Stay blessed!

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