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Women with rational sensitivity like this op are rare.

Keep it up op! Your husband is lucky

Even d bible says Jesus endured d cross because of the glory set ahead of him.

No matter your level of endurance, something has to be ur motivation to endure unpleasant marriages. If there's no motivation, it's better u find ur happiness somewhere else.

So sitting on d floor is now humility

Insensitivity.

Unconsciously expecting the man to be all-knowing and bear all kinda rashness just because ure a woman. Expecting to be understood all the time when you don't do same. Expecting him to be answerable to you over all ur needs

Guess he was sleeping with the 6001st woman.

He's my mentor though I look forward to 12000 women. So help me God

Nawa for pastor o. When d wife toto dey sweet she be angel that time. Now weh her toto don sour with slackness after children, he come dey see devil.

SinglesNetwork1:
Advice to Men.

Listen to me, there is one Grace or power that God put in women. There are like small God, sometimes the way you treat them determined your success in life. Old men with life experience will tell you this. Women can raise you and they can pull you down.

Be wise to tolerate them. Ignore their weak point and worship them as well cause they are small god. You may totally disagree with me but those who has understanding will know.

Respect women and when they bless you it works cause there is authority in their mouth. Believe it or leave it.

You shd be careful how much ignorance u display in social media o.

Pray for a good wife my brother. I come from a family where my mother was loved with all her insensitivity with d hope that she'll get mature and change. As I speak to you now, I'm d one teaching my own mother the rudiments of how to respect and care about other people's feelings

My dad is in deep regret having being adviced then dat this woman is serious trouble..back off. He was instead blinded by love and bore sacrifice dat has no fruit. How will u describe a woman who can slap elderly men in public and by herself quit from marriage. She's rude to people even in my presence and her grudges na PhD level

O boy u better be careful.

Small girls no know where them dey go, they're still living in fantasy of a guy they can misbehave to anyhow and will keep loving them. The older ones who are mature and in need of a life partner and seeing you have a good job develop feelings for you.

Lol. Sarcastic but brings back the memory of natural affection. I like d part that says ...I like the way u play with us and makes us laff... No money or expensive gifts...just little things that sensitize emotions. You don't hear such from grown up, so-called big girls with tall wishes. Its all about money money money as if its a taboo for them to work with thier hands for thier own money

Its good to find out that some women recognize the fact that some men are also abused too.

dollyjoy:
Hi

Hello joy. Loong time

You get problem. The suicide tendency still dey your body.

HarunaWest:
you know d problem is masturbation and yet u dont wana stop...dem swear give u ni

The prob is not masturbationn

Op you're normal. Find a calm shy girl to boost ur confidence, you'll come over it as ur confidence increase.

No go near all this unrealistically expectant girls o weh dey very rude. The kind stupid vex weh some of dem dey vex unnecessarily fit make erect penis come down

Otherwise, use Viagra but with d excessive masturbationn, u may not release on time. You even may not release at all

She falls sick when u use her things but she doesn't fall sick when u mix ur saliva in her pusssy...Lol. Abeg which one worse?

Bro d only advise I have for you is to maximize every opportunity u have to fucck d living daylight out of that her pusssy, cus sooner or later she go still see another guy weh she consider neater than you.

abc115:

We are living in a generation where people “in love” are free to touch each others’ private parts but cannot touch each others’ phones because they’re “private”.

Lol. Private parts are now public parts.

You asked for it and you got it. Do you not know d meaning of stale? This one is not stale sef...u suppose see maggot inside.

How this one take ad value to the life of any nairalander now?

internationalman:
Didn't you think the thread would go into oblivion before you finished typing?

No thread goes into oblivion bro..threads of 5 yrs ago are still rooted out all over social media, at least u have seen it, many others would. I'm not a freak of "likes" if that's what you're talking about..I make my points as it comes to mind

They have lots of guys dying for thier fresh body and believe they can brk any guys heart at any fucking time and get away with it...the delay in marriage and childbirth some of them later have in thier late 30s is a s a result of the intense curses issued by a guy that was loyal and truthful to them but got nothing for it. Some who learn hard after an eye opening heartbreak always go back to that first guy to apologize at least even if there's no relnshp btwn them again which I think is good cuz its a sign of being sensible and sensitive.

Most of them grow with the crude instinct of expecting a guy to submit to their desires, then they'll claim to like him cuz he does what they want..whereas marriage is d opposite..they're to submit, while d man is to love. But before they become reasonable enough to align their instinct with this hard truth they've been avoiding, they'll be approaching 30...that's for a lady that mixes well with the right ppl. But surprisingly, I've met quite a number of 34-36 year old ladies who are still very insensitive. They're self-centered and want their will satisfied before any other person. Most of them have friends their age who give them useless advice that increase their grudge level to misbehave further going far and far away from making peace.

It makes me wonder whether its d way they were raised that is their problem or they didn't mingle with ppl at all in their young days. And to make it worse, once they give birth and become single mothers or lucky to hook down a man, they become untameably relaxed and live with that blind mind thruout life. In fact for some, its their children that will be teaching them how to talk properly/wisely and how to appropriately do things in consideration of the other person's feelings. It could get that bad..

There's no love in the relnshp bro. Na give and take una dey do. You dey spend for her, definitely, she go dey encouraged to give u sex. When she see person weh go spend for her pass u, the cry go turn to serious disrespect.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
A decent lady will give you high respect if you can keep your hands to yourself. Shows self control.

Nah. D lady never like d guy then. When she like am finish, she still no go take d first step or show anything. She will still expect you to start the touching as if u be mindreader

Something weh ppl don know long ago, weh u papa apply take give ur mama belle weh she born you, na him u just dey discover come dey loud am join

mubaking:
Ladies have a lot of ego and this ego is mainly on their looks. Naturally a lady always feel sexy and beautiful. A guy making sexual advancement to a lady will go a long way to boost this ego of hers even if she's not interested in the sex she still feel happy inside that the guy could not resist her. I had this girl that is always refusing my advancement Everytime she comes over. So this particular day, she visited and I did my best not to make any move. She got up angrily and was asking why the hell I invited her over in the first place she left angrily and this was a lady that doesn't allow me to touch her. So please guys whether she go gree or not try to smooch her except u really wanna bruise her ego intentionally which I think some girls really need.

Nawa o. Nobody send again for this generation. Everybody just dey do wetin dem like

She no get right to look wetin she wan look again?

Tie the knot well o. Use wire tie am

Amakababe:
Why not just pick both. Three heads is better than two.

Gbam!

I concur.

Better ready for d sex now bcus if u marry finish and ur hubby job no give am time for you, u go turn dog o. E better make u see all d fun now before u enter marriage. Sha no abort too much.

Plenty things dey involved

I think both of you may be inexperienced. If he never questions ur dp, you should not expect him to be answerable to you on his. You should ignore it as he did urs.

You don't win a guys attention by competing for his dp o. He hasnt promised u marriage. Leave him and just be there. He'll choose you over a troublesome girl. However keep ur options open. If he comes and shows interest when ure still available, fine. If you've been taken, then you were destined to be friends and nothing more. If God say he's ur hubby, he'll be.

But remove quarrel from d matter, it doesnt make it any better. Be good.

What makes you think its not the opinion of men that makes a woman make up? They themselves like men's opinion on d matter and it influences what kinda make up they wear after hearing different opinions from men some in the form of compliments.

Just imagine no man in d world at all, if everybody were females, would there be need to make up? Basically, make up is to appear good before men, self esteems-confidence are secondary reasons..perhaps to appear confident to other women.

SBL28:
But you deserve an english teacher.

You just confirmed why we dey hate una here

Lol. Funny.