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we created the institution of marriage to satisfy a certain kind of need.

The moment I saw this, I knew even you the poster don't know what marriage is about

Soon you will say you created yourself

You should be bound girl. Your liberation time never reach

Very well cus I don't have an ex. Lol they're the one who refer to me as ex. I value everyone I come across. Most times when I reach out back and chat with them, they end up wishing they had not broken up with me. Some will even narrate all the ordeals they've been through since they left me, some ask for financial support for thier babies. I just laugh. I've never broken up with people and I've never used the block button on whatsapp. Im too mature for that. If your talk is unbecoming, I'll just quit replying/chatting with you. It's simple. I separate not break up.

I see those who use the block button as emotional weaklings or people with emotional excesses or esteem issues. If you want to show you're tough, challenge the person physically or through a phone call. Why hide under whatsapp block to show toughness.

Even you op don't understand this thing called tithe. How can a pastor send a personal account number for tithe. Tithe is to be paid to the general church account or purse and it's at the will of the payer. God won't force you to pay it neither should any genuine pastor do. The decision is yours.

Even if you make above 200million, one-tenth should never be too big to pay up to God. Considering it as too big is already bad and could hinder ones prayer. The bible says God loves a cheerful giver not a grumbling or a doubting one. You should give that tithe with joy that you have the grace to do it not with a mindset of ..chai, all this money as tithe?...

Gidigbo service.

American pastor in Naija native. Nice!

Lol, the punched guy no even care say na front of pastor he dey? Like, wetin I do you, I no know you, you no know me, I no borrow money from you, me and you no get business together. You just come land blow for my face. Forget church o, I go punch my own, you dey craze? That guy ancestor na naija-delta militant from warri weh slavery carry go america. Very defensive.

But that pastor get work to do o. I'm sure if he's the one that was punched too, he will raise his hand in defence. Nobody even remember where Jesus say turn the other cheek when slapped.

Hope you never nack magun or std

But seriously all I see is eczema, purify your blood. Eczema is not a skin problem

State your ordeal clearly first

Later you will say girls are mannerless and rude. How can a girl be getting this kinda attention from numerous guys and still be humble.

When she see real guys who mean well for her sef, she will bullshit them

20k to survive in a month? Only one day off and I'm sure it's Sunday, no accomodation.

Don't take it.

Instead apply for a teaching job in a boarding school. They're plenty in lagos, they'll pay you for teaching and as one of the hostel masters. You should earn between 50-80k for an average school. And you will even learn from mentoring those adolescent kids.

While there, apply online for accounting jobs, submit cvs etc. Once vacation begins, bounce into the streets for interviews. You can even go for interviews while school is in session, just give a tangible excuse. Don't tell them you're going for interview o. Dem fit sack you before you hear interview result

I know say na woman you dey spend the money on. Cus if na wife, she no go dey comfortable with the debt

Can you give examples of such bashings? Cus hard truth does sound like bashings too

Generally older ladies are better peaceful than those small small beleke

Yinkakolawole:
9 years gap is okay, so that u can easily control her if she start misbehaving.

If you can wait till 40, you will marry a mature-minded lady of 31.

If you try to marry at 30 to a 21 year old, my brother that control na the other way round. Believe me she will control you in broad daylight. Don't ask me how

If satan wan come use your gas cook, give her belle when you're 28, wetin the 19 year old go show you na 19 miracles

Husbands love your wives
Wives submit to your husbands

No law is greater than these for a lasting marriage.

Both parties should work out thier compatibility to align with these laws

Lol. Your own life no be measuring yardstick for others. Believe it or not, girls who are good in character and past exist.

What I just noticed is it's not how one expect to meet them that they're met. That's why prayer is needed in choosing a life partner and a blank mind to accompany the prayer. Blank mind because when one looks towards the bloomy right, the answered prayer may come through the left

Besides, a man who is able to look beyond beauty in choosing a life partner.. who has experiences that inspires him beyond beauty.. is not likely to make mistakes in choosing a life partner. But most men are overwhelmed by beauty.

We need a third hierarchy in the presidential office to be occupied by a traditionalist. An active one who can deal with the likes of tinubu through the air and there'll be no evidence for police to hold on to.

gentleguy1975:
Evening, nairalanders,

This issue has been bothering my mind,is proper to marry a man who is old enough to be a father?

In the Nigerian girls world, money answers all

luscioustrish:
Such a petty man-child

Ole

seguno2:
Yellow everything……….. and everywhere?
Are you sure?
Are you a full body inspector, FBI to know

Yes na. She's yellow under there with black whiskers☺️

Your problem is you believe too much in the work of your hands. Avoid believing hardwork pays. Start believing God's favour is key. The muslims call it albarka. I'm not saying you should not work hard but don't see the hardwork as what pays but as a prerequisite to obtain God's favour which is what really pays.

Bible says, seek ye first the kingdom of God. All other things that people are dying to pursue will come to you without struggle.

Seeking Gods kingdom does not necessarily means you must turn to a gospel preacher. It means anything that makes God primary in your life. Tithe-paying, contributing in building churches, giving the orphanage, lending out your generator or other substances for a Godly gathering for free, doing things that makes God happy and pray.

You don't have to do overtime at work in hustle's name to make it. Some people even pay double tithe. That's because they don't want to struggle like others before they make it. But I'm sure you may be one of those who will castigate them and say they're gullible.

Until you start pleasing God like you don't need money, you won't have it. Money don't go to those who run after it at all. It's those who live like they don't want it that it pursues

Lol. So you're on nairaland without overcoming the fear of disapproval and low self esteem? I don't support guys bashing girls o but sometimes too I don't blame them.

I'll just advice, be sensitive enough to know the kinda guys you follow and not replying some quotes doesn't make you a weakling... It's wisdom. That's what mature men do. You should learn from them.

RoyalBlu:
Happy birthday Mr Churchill.

Many more blissful years.

..."I have become wiser, and now I know that was a miracle done by you, God"

Yes! God really saved you.


*It's about time y'all bloggers stop tagging Tonto's name to his. He's got his own identify now.

He clearly doesn't want to remain in the "shadow of his past".

He's Rosy Meurer's husband now. Make una (bloggers) reason am.

Pls explain the quote more clearly. And how did God save him?

Cus the literary meaning one can deduce from it is that, you also had Tonto Dike's kind of intent too until you saw how it turned against her and you didn't know time is a healer

What did God save him from? He didn't kill nor rape. Probably you think he was going to react with delicate emotions like women do over little offenses. It's funny how women think they and men have same mental instincts. It's a huge gap sis. Silence proves wisdom superiority

Our own muslims for northern nigeria no see front o. Na hisbah police and sharia law the control thier lives

I'm yet to see a wedding couple who solely took up all the expenses alone. There's always support from family members who have been pestering them to get married no matter the size of the wedding..big, average or small. It is with regard to those supports that the couple should plan thier expenses.

It's only the minority who don't have any family at all. Not that they don't have family members but in their family, everyone is on thier own un-united. It's only such I think this is applicable to.

King of boys, iya ibeji, toyin tomato, action mama. Your roles for movie dey make sense. Happy birthday ma.

Yellow everything ☺️

What do you mean you clean cooljk for him?

Lol. Maazi get family for naija. Like 5 children weh dey here compared to the one there. If na you where you go send money go. You better begin plan for yourself and your pikin. Once residence permit/citizenship click, na you and your God go remain

When you say woman in Nigeria, are you talking about girls, ladies, christian or muslim sisters. Cus some of them don't even know what love means

Manager. Have you ever wondered why men love sex so much?

Nurseonduty:
I'm fine o... I was doubting whether you're the Olu I know or not.
How's your end Rotimi?

My end is fine. How's yours too

I've sent you a PM. I want us to chat outside NL

Both are confused

dollynnn:
That's nice
But two divorcees..?
What do I even know?