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Kobojunkie:
Which God told you this?

Jesus Christ told His followers that they have to hate father, mother, husband, wife, children etc , in order to be worthy of Him. Are you certain you are speaking of the same God at all?

Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you. (Exo 20.12)

No condition was attached

Correct!

Some people are still in bondage to societal norms and it's funny.

Over-rating marriage is one thing in this part of the world that marvels me. People don't believe a male n female can be just friends. Even a 15 year old girl believes you want to marry her when you toast her. Funny

You must dress coporate even if your job doesn't demand it because it's Monday

You must wear native on Friday

The husband must be older than the wife

The man must be the one to toast to propose to pay dowry, to give money. Even after marriage, it's the man that must initiate sex.

If you rear cat you're a witch

You finish rice before touching meat.

lalalista:
we're best of friends now

Oh okay. Good

Op what are you doing in an isolated area of the church

ComputerOperato:
Them plenty sha.
Actually na clowns full nairaland but let me mention some...
BadRadio: Mentioned me out of the blue on a thread I was secretly watching.

Mejiloyon: I can never forget his "How to drive in Lagos, Agbero version" thread. I sometimes go back there just to laugh. By the way, I haven't heard from him for a long time.

Oluromantic: I like his outlook on life.
Brownjay: Same

Chatinent: Same

Mosdii: That all women are useless guy... He is wrong Sha. Not all Nigerian girls are useless. You attract who you are.

The list long Sha.... Let me stop � here
I may add later.

PS: Before your say I didn't mention girls... They are all great on this forum. All of them.
I mean our girls..
And I'm no simpleton please.
Compliments to ya all...

Modified...

Thanks brother. Happy new year in advance

It's better you go beg your mother and talk to her nicely. It doesn't matter if you're right and she's wrong. It's a matter of obeying God's command with respect to the importance of parental blessings

Nice. How lucky can a man be. Swimming in luxury of fresh ladies

Your matter is like mixing honey and bitterleaf together

When nothing inspires one in a failed government again. Risky happiness becomes inevitable

Teaching women sometimes is like investing in business of no return o. Like this one above now.

When you see a woman who learns, it's not what she's taught that works, it's cus she's worked on herself appropriately

donleo92:
I think this write up is applicable to both. but its cool sha

Exactly.

That proves that what actually makes the difference is not the guy's effort but the lady's maturity. Is same effort for both but mature ladies aren't as myopic as the younger ones. The advancement in understanding and selflessness is forged out of life experiences acquired over time.

Leave baba jare. After all no be your money he dey use drink. Person don work all him life, Now he wan enjoy himself, you dey complain. In fact buy him prayer drink... aromatic shinapp and receive blessing

Better no scatter family. If you don tell am severally and he no gree, better leave him to go with his choice orelse, you will become a wicked and evil brother in future. Since his choice is susan, you and other family members should probably open up a business for her. Simple! And if she's unable to handle the business appropriately, then he and his wife will face the music together. You have done your part

Midas01:
Looks like they've used your brain for sacrifice. What concerns your useless post with what the op said?

Myopic gender but it is your useless ejaculating that's causing havoc all over the globe , raping babies in their cradles and committing 99.9% of all the violence in the world.

Big fool.

You're calling a person who hasn't attacked you such a derogatory name. You have mind issues. Nothing else you say makes sense

There's nothing wrong with you being an introvert. You should be an authority in yourself despite your introversion. Being an introvert and having low self esteem are two different things. Your problem is you've not conquered the fear of being ridiculed, taken for granted or being alone and the only way to conquer them is by entering the relationship.

Even though it is 90% sure it will not end in marriage you should still give it a trial. It's even unrealistic to think all the relationship you're into must end in marriage at your age as believed generally by naija girls. That's why they become easy to sleep with once you put a marriage promise in place. It works like wonder.

So enter with out fear but use your brain as much as you can and no get belle.

Welcome to adulthood.

Thank God you aren't a girl. This is how some girls develop feminism or stray into the hands of a deceptive lover outside home and I don't blame them. Theyre naturally unable to endure hardship for long. Yet some still won't respect those who can cus he's not looking rich. Myopic gender!

Firstly I salute your perseverance to still keep your sanity at this stage of the ordeal. It's clear you're going through psycho-emotional trauma. I understand the trauma really well cus I went through it too. I had to spend the day out and come back at dead night for a couple of days

Do you work? Perhaps you could get a roommate and share the rent even if it's a face-to-face apartment, it's not about big boy now, it's about not losing your mind and focus. That's your best option. On a second thought, if you have a relative or friend where you can lay your head at nights, reach out to them. If you're in school, stay put in the hostel and come home only when necessary.

But truth be told, you really need a job if you're not in school. God help you bro!

This pikin na future jackie chan. Action film star

None. I won't even let them know I know till I get a video evidence to keep. Then I'll start fvcking her like no tomorrow that even she too will wonder about the change in fvck intensity. The day she talks about marriage, I'll just show her the video

Ooni came up with strategies that could take him atop others but this inability to control his wives and have a proper marriage aberrated him seriously

Divinely successful

Just be risking your life for no reward

Everything na double double. Congratulations. You na strong man. Just dey enjoy yourself dey go

In patience Jonathan's voice ...T. B Joshua is gone but his manhood legacy lives on.

Good his disciples care still living up to his legacy.

Ebuka must be really rich o.

Nigerian girl apologizing. E be like seeing fire inside well

1. Consider both as friends for a while. Anyone who's not patient enough to be a friend should leave. She's not yours. Don't be surprised, both of them may leave.

2. By friends I mean don't commit yourself to marriage with either of them. Not that if they give you sex you shouldn't take.

3. Don't complain about pictures with skimpy clothes. In fact if they can send you nudes, allow them. That's one way to know who is who.

4. While you're rocking your friendship with them, you'll know the character of the new girl and find out if the old girl has changed and find out thier past.

5. Give your rules, anyone who complies despite it's inconvenience is closer to your goal

6. If you choose the first girl, warn her sternly to desist from going through your privacy on your phone and every other things you don't like.

7. After making your choice, the other maybe your sidechick if you wish.

8. Don't ever tell a girl you quit. Thier brain is too tiny to fathom that. Just be forming busy till you meet again

You don't have a problem

Sit him down and tell him you want to have a word with him. Then tell him all these things he's doing wrongly and why they are wrong perhaps he doesn't know. Then tell him the measures you're going to take if he does not respect himself and make corrections within the time frame you both agree for him to amend his ways.

If after giving him time and he refuses to change, play your role as an elder brother. When your dad comes around, explain what has been going on to him and what you have done as the elder in his absence. He'll take over from there

dollynnn:
The truth,the whole truth and nothing but the truth

Can you initiate friendship with a guy?

Cus you sounding like you're the alpha and omega of friendship. All you do is keep mute while he initiates everything in african cultures name and expect him not to get bored?

If you value your time of young days, you will sparkle up the friendship than he does as opposed to the general believe you girls hold up

She has a point. Six month is not too much to wait. Why rush after failing from one country. You both need to sit down and replan aptly. You can make it in Nigeria here with the prospects you both are already having

Many people think this life is merely physical. There are a lot of unsettled mysteries in the spiritual realms where natural laws are highly respected.

When she start seeking prophets for spiritual help from financial mess and there's no result, she'll resolve to babalawo. You should not owe a person you may never meet again. Borrow me 60k, I will pay you back. It is different from borrow me 60k I will give you numerous sex in return. Agreements are not to be overlooked

This kinda hard truth now, they'll say you're bashing girls. I think girls are just too weak to handle truth sometimes. You're a debtor until you do things right?