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Ryan03:
there is a thin line between sarcasm and bitterness, you are on the other side. And yea, your comment wasn't sarcastic to me

Not everyone gets sarcasm.

But this nigga bad a little. Is just that him don spend tire.

Born2Breed:
The "my called me there is nothing at home...." ish

Sounds as if your son is not just a bedmate but a cashcow. The leech is milking your sons dick and pocket.

Meet up with the girl,access her and put a stop to the relationship. Also, I think the girl is working in your firm too.

Your boy is too young for such.

@op this comment sums up your solution. Take it.

lavylilly:
The other day I got so bored that I decided to take a stroll out in the evening,went to a sit out, got my juice and was slowly sipping while shaking my head to the music playing, quitely enjoying myself and the environment I was in.

This two guys walked up to me and asked if they could sit down with me, I said yes, after they must have gotten comfortable, they asked why I was all alone there, I told them I felt like being there, the next question I heard was " how much for the night"!!

At first I was surprised but when I eventually cleared the air that am not there on a business basis, they started advising me that it's not proper for a lady to go to a sit out alone, that even if I need something from one, I should get it and go back home
That it sends a wrong signal to who ever gets to see me there

Now my question is, are they right??
Why must all the rules and regulations in Africa centre around women??
Am still thinking about it

I will answer this like NwaAmaikpe.

Any woman seen without a man is very much available.
You going out to enjoy yourself all alone shows you are up to something.
Any sane man who sees a lady out without a man knows she's very much approachable and will make his move. It will be stupid to approach a lady with a man by her side whether brother or cousin as you ladies like to put it.

You don't want such embarrassment go out with your brother or cousin or better still tell them the price you charge per night. That's business right there.

Ryan03:
lol, this one is mad o. I dont give birth to babies, its for the female folks. Stop your bitterness on feminist, it's making you sound like a mad person

If you read that well without bitterness, you'd understand I was being sarcastic. But hey, not everyone gets sarcasm.

Ryan03:
feminists dont marry or what?

Nope y'all don't marry. Y'all just got Chimanda group where she shares y'all babies.

ericsmith:
I am really disappoint in these comment speak volume about average gurls. what if OP as spent more on her, the only reason that gurl reciprocated is becos she knows what her man can do as well. besides the guy only opened a thread to " praise her" why other ladies are bitter is what i don't get. S/O to my bae tew

That I am not aware of. But it's not easy to get a girl with that mindset. And as humans we are those who has such just few know their worth.

It's a good thing a female is spending for a change.

Victoronah1:
This is not funny, I still doubt if I was the one that broke her virginity but this girl has surprised me so so much.
Last week she took me out and spent 5k buying me food.

Before then she bought me clothes for new year ,bought me shoes upto 17k. Bought me a game controller ps4 game controller.
Now today, I told her I wanted us to go out she said she will bring her cousin I told her that I don't have money for the both and she told me she will support me. Do you know she came and gave me 5k, she was hiding and giving me the money so the cousin won't see it. We spent bout 8k for everything. She still brought out 1k bought ice cream for me, pop corn and bought for her cousin.
She gave me 10k last week when I asked. The truth is she kind of making fast money. My salary is higher than her own, but she makes tips upto 10k per day.

I've never given her new year gift 2020. Also I only spent 5k on her to clear her school late school fees.

She is so free to give me money and spend.

She allows me to Bleep her well too. Infact she bleeps me 4 times in a week and she never complains!! Infact sex is amazing

Never knew they were rich girls

Moral: don't date broke girls guys. Never settle for less

She ought to invest that money. Definitely you will abandon her. And if you do, she has the right to scream men are scum.

Good thing women are spending for a change.

But she ought to invest that dough.

Martinez39s:
Don't mind them. The reason why they think the op will cheat on his gf and he is not genuinely in love with his gf is because they are projecting themselves on the op. They don't love their boyfriends apart from their boyfriends' money and they cheat so they think op will do the same. They inwardly see the men that spend on them as foolish and manipulated (rightfully so) so they think the op's gf is like that. They are all calling the op a gold digger and they are certain he is because it's what they are.

Just take a look at the post above me. The poster even refers to the op's gf as stupid. She (the poster) thinks the op will take his gf for granted because that is she (the poster) would do to her boyfriend that's spending on her. Women!



Ubunja, Omar09

Very much correct. And that's why older rich women always win younger naive bitches.

mharyamikeola92:
U can continue...u are really making sense to me

Peer pressure. That's how far I could go.

MrBrownJay1:
HE IS NOT YOUR TYPE, HE IS NOT THE TYPE OF MAN YOU DESIRE SO WHAT ARE YOU STAYING FOR?!

Money. Status of I have a boyfriend. Hoping for marriage. The list could go on. Pls don't ask me to continue. I can't go past three.

AdorableSapphir:
You're still repeating what the op said and I still maintain my stand.

Read it again, but this time slowly and to understand.

Great100000:
....

Stemmed this from Ubunja's work. It's noice tho. Preach the word.

Auntyesther:
Men nko? I know men who spend their lives on social media, growing vaginas with their spare time, lambasting every female out there with their tongue soothing phrase "she is a runs girl, olosho" yen yen yen . Don't you think we should aviod these men too or don't we women deserve peace too?

It's very much advisable to avoid them.

AdorableSapphir:
Your assertions are very wrong.
Before the advent of social media, were there not women with razor tongue?

Was social media rampart when the movie checkmate was being aired in Nigeria? Where was one of chiefs wives portraying the character of a razor tongue and troublesome wife from? Social media? Then?
What of some of the dramas we saw on tales by moon light where there'll be two different characters of women. One with a sharp tongue and the other a good wife.
were they a reflection of social media behavior too?
What of Ramota, wife of Jegede in New Masquerade with a sharp tongue?
Ogar have a rethink cos this your write up no follow.

A woman having a sharp mouth Is an individual thing and has absolutely nothing to do with social media or its addiction.
I for instance, I'm a social media addict due to the nature of my bizness, but if you see me in person, I hardly talk except if I'm with my siblings but it still has a limit. When I'm with a guy, hmmm...youll be begging me to talk. So this post is declared null and void.

You don't seem to get what he's saying. What he is saying is, social media shapes one life whether or not that person wants or notices. There are girls who are not razor tongued when growing up without cell phones but as soon as they get one, they begin to display what they see with that cell phone. This explains why a girl will be morally OK at home but as soon as you introduce a cell phone to her, she begins to receive calls at odd times.

Now this doesn't mean all girls will be like the above stated. Some are cultured to the core. And those cultured doesn't necessarily mean they don't use social media. It just doesn't affect them. And check well, the reason it doesn't affect them is because they barely use it tho they are on those social platforms. And I can tell you for a fact what the OP said is very much true.

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

We don't know what we have unless we loose it. Nowadays, men are not really after beauty as beauty deceives and fades.

That girl made you her choice and I can bet you she will do anything and everything to keep you. Because she chose you and is chasing you. You make a mistake and loose her, the next girl, you will do the chase and believe me you'd get tired. Read up this

https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen

Ubunja
Martinez39

How the hell did this guy Etinosa1234 make the front page with this shitty article? Bro you gotta teach me skills.

Michellekabod2:
at least he was honest unlike many active nlanders that are in secondary schools with a java enabled phone but pretend to be working class adults

I'm surprised y'all didn't see the "class" he belonged.

hazard7:
You gave him the perfect reply

Waiting patiently for you tips.

liab:
lol , but I know mention prick naa, just to hold on to something as source of happiness

Don't make anyone your source of happiness, they'd fail you. Going back to that girl, there's no 100% assurance you will hit that pussy. It's okay to meet a girl and not fvck her. Move on. Focus on any other thing but a woman. Thank me later.

ePoster
Michellekabod2

Thegamingorca:
Yeah here is a candy bar

Yummy.

Thegamingorca:
How does fvcking sheep sound?

Amazing voice. Beats your mom to her records.

Michellekabod2:
I just wonder why feminists were dragged into this

Because they are confused lots. I mean Nigerian feminists. They tell you they are financially independent yet they will rip you off. They tell you they are free to express themselves sexually and would look for that gentleman who has been chaste to wife them up and he doesn't, they tag him misogynistic. Confused lots.

Kennedyiheme:
this is how they lie.. there defence is the guy has small penis thats why.. its just like saying a short pencil wouldn't get sharpened by a sharpener...

I know they are defending their kind. It's in their DNA. They keep coming up with excuses instead of solution. If they could use the energy for all these excuses and get a solution. Imagine that world brother.

Thegamingorca:
You don't think often, do you

Yeah. But I don't speak when I didn't think.

Michellekabod2:
Believe lies at your own peril
Do you agree that no matter how tight a lady is,a guy with a tiny dick will not find her tight?

Yeah I know no matter how tight a woman's Vijay is, a tiny dick won't feel it.

I still believe that sex is the major cause of loose vijay

Michellekabod2:
you disappoint me! How does this relate to promiscuity or tightness? Think! How can you let stereotype blind you so much?
Research out facts to counter her post and don't create a strawman out of this.

I don't think a girl who is celibate from birth will have a loose pussy.