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tydi:
A man identified as Maxwell Banzi, is currently trending on Facebook after he shared how he stopped himself from cheating on his wife with an old co-worker.

Man shares

According to him, the said co-worker contacted him on Facebook and revealed that she was interested in him and is willing to do anything to be in his life.

After receiving the message, Maxwell who was lying in bed beside his wife, said he thought about the lady’s proposal and concluded that his wife doesn’t deserve to be cheated on.

Read his full post below,

“As I was sleeping with my partner last night �I got a notification from fb. I stood up to check; it was a friend request from a lady. I decided to go through her profile to know who she is. Finally, I found out that it was my old time coworker.

I accepted her friend request and she sent me a massage “Hello” since I was still online. I replied “Hi, I heard you are in a serious relationship ” I responded, “Yes”. she said, “I used to have a huge crush on you and I was afraid to tell you but I’m not afraid anymore✋really love you and I’m willing to do whatever it takes just to be part of your life”.

Hmmm�I quickly closed the chat to make sure my partner was sleeping�and I just slid off the bed and sat my ass down and asked myself is this girl worth my time�.

I looked at my lovely wife , she was deeply sleeping after the busy and exhausting day she had from taking care of our son and chores. As I was still looking at her, something came into my mind. “This woman doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, look at how safe and comfortable she’s sleeping in our bed. She really trusts me so much that I can’t hurt her” I started thinking, ” she left her family, her caring mother and father, who at all times were providing almost everything she needed and her siblings who always brightened her day. But she decided to leave all that behind just to come and share her entire life with me. All these thoughts and more were driving me crazy. Then I asked myself, “how can I do this wickedness to this innocent woman?”

So I hurriedly picked up my phone and hit the “BLOCK” button.I turned to my lovely wife and I rolled over to the bed and cuddled her and she adjusted herself to accommodate me�♥️ I can’t afford to lose her trust or make her cry. Never!

I really hope my bond with my partner doesn’t break, I really love my Ayanda Chantell Mnyambo ❤️�”

See his post below,

lalasticlala

pls share it with the olosho men that are on nairaland. After dem shop clean mouth with Thier side chicks ,they will start getting all bitter because thier wives discovered thier infidelity and started to deal with them at home.
Na man you be ...If we have this kind of men in Nigeria,our women won't be miserable in thier marriages.

donbachi:
South south will produce the next president,northener as VP.

East for senate president.
West for apc party spokesman.

Dream on..ooo!! SE or SW the once dragging for the presidential seat .

JimmySwaggart:
The south shouldn't trust umahi with federal capacity. He will only akin to will of his Fulani Masters. And if he doesn't, he will be impeached. Reviewing the Constitution/or we return back to regional government, might just be the way forward, so no one will feel marginalized.

Ya! True. He is not bold enough to restructure Nigeria. We need a strong willed man that is willing to restructure this nation and turn it around for good .Umahi,try sha for his people in the East but he is a Fulani lover.

Cryofigbos:
U are right and I understand that your life must have been so terrible under Buhari administration of doom...no reasonable person will say dis Buhari administration is not a disaster and tinubu might not be what we deserve but d kind of politics of hate, insult and attack those idiots play here won't stop him coupled with d fact that dey have turned it to indirect attack on d good ppl of south west at large

D only way to stop a candidate u don't like is to support a more reasonable and formidable one not by insult and attack bcoz we all have a right to our choice...over 5 candidate have shown interest in south east yet its only tinubu that ur ppl choose to always cry about........maybe bcoz is impossible for an igbo man to be president sha.. ....so much ethnic hatred

Bring an Osibanjo ( who Tinubu will not endorse because he feels entitled to be president) if we from the South won't support him wholeheartedly.
As for the SE, let them unite and select thier contenders.As it is,it seems the serious once such as Peter Obi are waiting for PDP to zone the ticket first before they can throw in thier cap in the ring .
As for those in APC, such as Okorocha, Urji Uzo Kalu the ex-convict and thief are all joking . Gov Umahi is also another formidable candidate the SE can select .

Cryofigbos:
No 1 will blame u for being foolish, bitter and unfortunate in life....if at all I want to its ur father that I'll blame for bringing such a useless boy into d world

Tinubu carelessness that u say is not ur business, on d election day take ur PVC if u have anyways, to vote....u have only been advised to channel ur energy of hatred on tinubu to promoting ur own candidate to be elected as president of Nigeria on nairaland republic....too much of everything is obsession and obsession can lead to mental health and depression

Oga abeg shift go one corner abeg.
Nigeria belong to us all and we all have a right to know the caliber of human being that is going to lead us. Especially when we are still suffering the Monster that Tinubu sold to Nigerians.
This was how you idiots were busy abusing us back then. Shouting sai sai Baba like stupid zombie without brains. Knowing fully well that the man Buhari is dull,old and a nepotistic bigot whom your Tinubu parkaged for you zombies to support and vote for . Because he feels a Buhari will be his access to Aso rock .Without minding the human being he is selling to Nigerians. What a wicked fellow that you are abusing everyone over for.
Now where has it gotten us ? Sorrow, hardship , worse insecurity that we have ever experienced. With herdmen killing across the country & having federal protection from thier patron Buhari .
Now you have started again by bullying people that have contrary opinion to what you are paid to hear.
Oga, when a stupid and selfish leader get to power, both the high and low suffer it together . So stop bullying people ..if you are that jobless and only depend on the N30k you are paid to fight dirty online for Tinubu, then get a proper job and stop selling your future and that of your unborn generation for someone that does not care about you.

Avoid any where Fulanis are.They are evil people .

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-icslYp9y6s

A black lady caregiver gets a very unfair and wicked treatment from her white boss's mother.

I mean, what was she suppose to do in this situation? Terrible and troublesome old woman o

Picks a knife. Insults the caregiver. Tosses the caregiver vegetables away. Smh watch until the end

Very old story. The old woman has dementia or Alzheimer disease.She act up aggressively sometimes. It's very unprofessional for the caregiver to have put this out on the internet .

Invictuse:
Lazy n unproductive yet same SA as the biggest n largest economy in the same Africa even without crude oil. Many of you Nigerians are born lunatics without functional brains I swear

You meant to say SA white made your country what It this today ? Because the black SA are just a bunch of lazy Animals In human skin just occupying space and expecting goodies to fall on thier lap without working for it.
They are a big disappointment & a disgrace to the black race
If not for the white, your country would have been no different from other poor countries in Africa .

asgard01:
I am earning 75k now as bank teller and its not funny the way things are going. No career path, time consuming (been 2yrs now), no increase, nothing.

75k in this present Nigeria situation is not it at all. Banks should not be paying anything less than a 100k. This is what I call slavery .

headSmasher:
Igbos has less than four million vote in about 28 million votes in Nigeria, how far will that carry them and they have been belligerent to the northerns, how will they become president?

To the bolded,I suppose the north has be kind and fare to the south .Abi??

NaijaRoyalty:
If you burn down the country , where will your family run to?

The northerners will run to Niger & Chad ,while the SW will run to Benin Republic,Togo, & Ghana .

InoGetJoy:
You have a good heart. I pray life works perfectly in your favour, and soon.
Consider going into I.T. Learn a digital skill

Good advise.

Theevilone:
I have always dream of having at least two orphans a boy and a girl when I marry and can give them very good life,

A speaker in our youth week program once asked us to list our goals and keep to ourselves, and my first wish was to have one of the best orphanage homes around but today I’m 32 and can’t even boast of any tangible thing and this is a guy that planned to finish school and marry at 25, life sef .

Don't worry. One day, God will bless the work of Ur hands beyond your imagination. That it will look like a dream to you . Then you can be able to fulfill ur dream of giving two orphans a home and putting a smile on thier faces .

Dsalvo:
You're just another sentimental and emotional Igbo so no need to take your hateful rant seriously.

Bottom line is that Tinubu is the modern equivalent of Awolowo. There is a vast difference in the times Awolowo practised his politics to what Tinubu faces today.

Only hateful Igbos will not accept that because your only mission is to discredit and disqualify all Yoruba candidates.

As an example, there was no online Nigerian porn or universally famous pornstars of Nigerian origin when Awolowo was squaring up against Shagari.

Today, it is our reality we must deal with. Nigerian male and female pornstars, who show their face and identity proudly, is the current reality of the nation Tinubu wants to lead.

So you think it is possible or even sensible, given the difference between the 70ties and today, both leaders should be measured with the same ruler ?

You're a joker. How many nations of the world today can provide free education Awolowo managed in a time the population of the world had not outgrown resources available as is the case today?

If you're not a clown, can you make a case for free education when Nigeria's population was 73 million in 1980, after Awolowo lost the Presidential election to Shagari, as practical and feasible today when Nigeria's population is conservatively at least 210 million? Almost triple what it was in 1980?

Your kind will remain the problem of Nigeria because you cannot judge Mike Tyson, in a boxing arena, on his boxing skills alone and must bring in unrelated talk about his anger issues etal when those have nothing to do with his ability to win a boxing match.

Can you show one leader who is a better example than Tinubu in terms of delivered and tangible administrative, political and leadership achievements the entire world can see and feel since our current democracy began in 1999?

Just give me a single name and show how they match Tinubu's universally acclaimed achievement of making Lagos 6th biggest economy in Africa and the unbelievable achievement of defeating the "biggest ruling Party in Africa" that proclaimed itself capable of ruling Nigeria for 60 years.

Tinubu is the closest Yoruba leader to Awolowo today all things taken into account in Nigeria's reality post 1999 till today .

So Nairaland only belong to the Yorubas and Igbos, abi? I am from the SS and I saying the truth as it is .
I don't blame you . You are only doing your . You have to defend your boss by all cost to get paid Ur 30k monthly . That is ok .But don't tell the rest of Nigeria that, that old man with urinary bladder Inconstinence is the only one fit to rule us. ...haba na !! He should go and take care of his health abeg.
We have not forgotten his have ENDSARS unprovoked military shootout in Lekki. This selfish human being is the one you are painting like a saint.
He is too old and sick. We are done with his kind .Have we not suffered enough or is the crumps you collect from his table on a monthly basis more important than a better Nigeria?

LikeAking:
The Igbo region which is the eastern part of Nigeria has many potentials,opportunities, wealth, etc. Yet the igbo region is not a migration destination for Nigerians from other regions.

In summary why are Nigerians from other regions not migrating to the eastern part of Nigeria for work, money etc, the way the easterners migrate to other regions?

Are Nigerians scared of the east?

Is there an eastern phobia/ Igbo phobia in the country?
I have been observing this trend for a long.

I stand to be corrected.

If the Igbo land is running away from his region for greener pastures in other region then know that the land has little to offer .

Dsalvo:
Please shut up. You are not Yoruba. Even if you are then you are undoubtedly an 'omo ale'.

No politician is without enemies in Nigeria. Yet the sum total of Tinubu's worth is very good and positive per his administrative and leadership influence in SW and Nigerian politics.

Beyond Nigeria's clannish and ethnocentric borders, Tinubu is beloved throughout the world for his standout pivotal political and administrative achievements.

This is Awolowo part 2 playing out again. I.e envious, bitter and 'dark' Yoruba (OBJ comes to mind) trying to bring down their brilliant brother because their wicked 'Fadeyi oloro' souls hate progress.


As wicked individuals, mainly OBJ, succeeded to frustrate Awolowo, "the greatest President Nigeria never had", they will not succeed against Tinubu because most Yorubas now realize they let down the sage to their own detriment.

They did not fight for Awolowo when they had to and the mess we are all in today is the result of that big past mistake.

Yoruba leaders and people are now ready to fight for Tinubu. We will face greedy, paid, envious and wicked omo ales like you and others who cannot see the big picture and, in the past, contributed to destroying Nigeria by scheming out Awolowo to pave the way for inept Shagari.

Don't ever in your life compare Awolowo to that selfish & heartless man called Tinubu .
Awo loved his people and provided free education for the SW&Mid west region . So many elite in the SW region are who they are becos of Awo legacy .
What has Tinubu done for his people ? Aside from elevating the status of Agberos and legalizing thier activities and supporting his stooge to prepare him for his presidential ambition?
Where was this wicked Tinubu when the whole of south west was under siege by the Fulani herdsmen? Did he ever condemned Thier activities or condone with his people for the various massacres they suffered in the hands of the herdsmen?No, he didn't .
Did he ever send money to help those that took refuge in Benin Republic just like he often does to northerners? No he didn't. But he became a philanthropist to the north for thesame calamity his own people suffered. He was seen doling out millions open millions of naira to the northern people but he forgot his own people.
He does not love his people or the masses . He just want to test power just like Buhari..
They have money and thier desire is to test power and that is all that matters to them .
Tinubu is old,sick & frail .He should go and rest.

benuejosh:
Insulting a man that you're not sure anyone in your generation but past, present and future may ever attain his feat in life. An army general and then a president. Stop being a hater.

oga what about the people that his kinsmen have killed because he allowed it? What about that ? He is worse than a monster.

Don't worry , when the fire that is burning get to your house hold, then you can come back to say this same thing .
The only thing this clueless president is good at is traveling. That is what he knows how to do best.

Popsmoke2:
come dash me 10%

That 10% belong to God oo!

I concur .

Amunaotutheory:
Chai I like Tinubu sha, so I no go talk anything but he has money, he can put a catheter that can be easily hidden to avoid the embarrassment.

By the way, a half dead Tinubu will be better than Buhari any time any day.

No..non is better . What is wrong with you people self!! Are you saying that from the whole of the 200million Nigerians, we are better off with only these two invalid
We reject another Buhari and a Tinubu . Nigerians deserve better . Except God has cursed us to remain perpetually stupid in electing capable leaders into power ..

SlyDev:
Many of them are either half Yoruba, or non Yoruba pretending to be Yoruba.

They don't want anything good for Yoruba, look at afenifere endorsing igbo but their igbo friends are banishing igbos that support Tinubu.

Why can't Yoruba use their brain, Borno is there, North Central is there, part of South South, these people will welcome us warmthly and will never insult us or wish us bad.

I'm not saying all igbos are bad but huge percentage of them wish Yoruba bad and the good one among them are scared to talk because of danger and abuse they will get

Do you guys wish the Igbos good ? The hatred is both ways .

Incontinence is one of the signs of old age ,yet he still want to lead a complex nation like Nigeria. Next time he should put on pampas .

Mrseroh:
Thank God for his safe return, PLS DON'T DISCLOSE THE HOSPITAL that he's receiving treatment, the perpetrators might come for him to further conceal their evil act. I wish him speedy recovery.

Was he kidnapped ? Did they pay ransom before he was released? I didn't follow the story .

Hublot1:
Glory be to God. I decided to send your a dm or mention you today to ask for updates and I saw this.
Thank God!

He doesn't need to talk now he's traumatised, but the most important thing is that God intervened.

Garri know werin e see inside hot water before e change name to eba. Give him time, he will come good!

>: ;DD

TrueNigerian300:
Fools everywhere all over the country. There is no such thing as blood money these fools are just killing innocent people thinking their blood or whatever will turn to money. To those who believe in this bullshit please tell us where you ever see head producing money or whatever part of the body. The foolish herbalists are even looking for what to eat themselves. It is always "hear say" and no one has ever seen it real life. If you ask them they will tell you my father said this or that. Ask their fathers he will also tell you he heard from so and so.

Sub-Sahara Africans are the most foolish people in the world, in the 21st century people still believe in ritual money. Smh. Black people are foolish - that is why we are the most backward, poorest and useless self of people in the world.

Before you argue with you have seen ritual money. Please go read about Quantitative easing and come argument.

They use the name ritual to cover up for the real crime that is going on underground which is organ harvesting. That is one business that they use ritualism to over up .
These people kill, cut off human part and sell it to organ dealers ,who freeze it up with some medical personnel and sell it both locally and internationally. It is a booming business in the underworld.

seunmsg:
But they prefer to be led by a more corrupt leaders like Atiku and Peter Obi Pandora, right?

Peter Obi & Tinubu who is more corrupt?

jumper524:
oga muric ain't wrong here.
why would dey force people to remove their hijab in the first place?
why the hypocracy.
even if kwara is not Muslim dominant, why would they force people against their religious beliefs?
even the Western world don't do this nonsense.
if the north starts forcing christain girls in school to wear hijab na islamization bullshits we go dey hear.
I hate bigots from all cylinders.
to all those quote me with a different explanation,.
the below quote is for you..

Have you forgotten that Nigeria is a secular country ? Has religion eaten into our head that we have forgotten that where your right stop is where another start ?
The school is a religious school .A christain school and all student must follow the rules and regulations of that school . That is why there is a general uniform for all student across various religion. It a place to acquire knowledge and not a place of worship.
There are so many Muslim schools , do they allow christains to conduct their regular Prayer services at thier spare time in that muslim school ? Do they allow them to dress without wearing the hijab to school? . The last time I saw pupils in Muslim school, all they were all on hijab .It shows that it is a Muslim school and every one enrolled there must obey the rules and regulations of school because it is affiliated to a religion .

I don't know why Muslims like imposing their things on another institution, knowing that it is a missionary school . They are just trouble makers . They can never leave in peace with thier neighbors without imposing thier religious laws on others.

Kano state is busy destroying people businesses because they said it's contravene Islam to sell alcohol..forgetting that Nigerians are all not Muslims and they have the right to reside everywhere to do thier business peacefully. They have continued to destroy non Muslim businesses with impunity and this mad fanatics that called himself MURIC will applaud them.

Where is your voice when this injustice is being melted out to non Muslims?. You people are the first to quote Human right but your eyes,ears and mind becomes closed up where due to your religious practices, people are refused or granted thier right as citizens in northern Nigeria . They are forced to abide by the laws of your religion. .

So, dear Muslims ,what do you want ? Do you want to force people to accept your religious practices but you are just too Rigid and arrogant to accommodate others? . Why ? Why are you people only good at disturbing the peace of the land? If you so wish to wear hijab why dont you go to the various islamic schools in the state and stop looking for trouble in a missionary school ! . .

Poleski:
I didn't brush all Nigerian graduates into this bad category. That was why I said most. I know a guy who got second class in Nigeria but achieved first class in the Netherlands.

So, of course, there are brilliant Nigerians who happen to find themselves in a useless country like Nigeria, where the education system is moribund.

This country doesn't have an enabling environment for intelligent students.

To the bolded . . That is actually the situation of things in Nigeria.

Poleski:
Most Nigerian graduates are unemployable because they're poorly educated. They "sorted" their way through school and thus can't defend their paper qualifications. Some of them are incapable of filling out job application forms!

Our education system is terrible but Nigerians are creative and resilient.
My sister struggled to have 2.1 in Geology but got a distinction in her master degree in the UK .
So many Nigerians are doing well outside this country . They put in thier best in a system that works and they are doing excellently well out here in various field of work.
Some un-serious Nigerians may have these attributes that you mentioned. But that is not the reflection of the rest of hard working and intelligent Nigerians that don't have the opportunity to be selected for such interviews.
Poor op got a bit of bashing .. Nigerian are not smiling .

gidado14:
if I called you a Child you will argue and I said simple things and you are calling me a lunatic and you wonder why I call you a Kid am done with you all and still stand by the Muric, For you Information Division is far away from what the muric said, masses have been divided by the west world since 1960, so stop bluffing and learn.

Read very well.I called Akintola a lunatic and not you.You keep blaming the west for what now? when the agent of division is right in front of you and you are here endorsing him and his divisive tendencies. Continue.
If you so much love to me a fanatic, why dont you move to Kano and see if these Muslim in the north really love you!. Embrace peace and leave violence for those that crave for it up north.Religious Violence has no place in the south.Peace.

gidado14:
you are no different with wike and Obi, wait until you grow up and know the difference between Nationalism and Ethnicity before you come to me am not here to argue with kids like you. your type are always use as political thuggery. The truth is always bitter boy.

You are already so gullible to accept that lunatic that represents MURIC. That fanatic that cannot see anything beyond religion.He has never condemned the atrocities of the Herdmen in the SW but he is quick to incite Muslim against christains in the south. .
What has religion brought to you guys anyway ? Does it stop the Muslim and Christian politicians from stealing together? When these politicians, across religious line are stealing ,do they remember the teaching of the Koran and the bible?
They do things together, then use that lunatic MURIC to cause division among the masses .Then you gullible masses will be thier foot soldiers to do thier bidding of divide and rule .
I believe that MURIC guy was paid to cause religious disharmony down south, because they (Northerners) are not happy that the southern Muslims are living in Harmony with thier non Muslims neighbours.
I am not a child , rather it's you that could easily be used as a weapon to fight your brother's in the south, that need alot of growing up to do mentally.
If you can fall for this fanatic MURIC and his stupidity, that means you can easily be brainwashed by a Shakau .

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