kneehighbootz:


Omojudy, please can you post the link to the strong women whatsapp group here? It would be much easier than pm'ing you. I would like to join the group

True but then I won’t be able to screen intending and that way get the group compromised.

Men no dey think say their cheating or adultery suppose pain us.

During divorce spouse try to exaggerate issues and add lies.

Ask my personal story about that. Then you will advice yourself. In private sha.

STDs knocking. Outside children knocking. What do I know, they may be practicing an open marriage so she too enjoys guys outside.
Marriage is overrated. Ordinary faithfulness men can not do. See most of the men above me hailing the woman.

Gladly Polygamous.
Posted by strong nigerianwoman

Yesterday in class, during a free period, I was trying to get some reading done when I heard Khadijah tease a fellow Muslim classmate about her friendliness with a male married class mate.

She said to her, Uncle is married oh abi you want to be a second wife?

Aunty replies her; there is nothing wrong with that after all my religion permits it.

Khadijah: So you won’t mind sharing your husband for that reason?


Aunty: I am prepared for anything.

Khadijah: But you have to pray or say what you want, after all even the prophet’s wife prayed against her husband marrying another woman.

Aunty: But after she died, didn’t he marry many wives?

Uncle at the center of the debate then asks; but it is permitted isn’t it?

Khadijah: It’s not like it is permitted but because it is mainly the male gender who go get this Koranic knowledge, they tend to pick out the part that suit them and leave the ones that don’t.

Uncle: So what are the ones that don’t?

Khadijah: Well other than a man should only marry if he is financially stable to have more wives, he should also not love one more than the other, then he should only marry another woman if his wife is too sick to meet his sexual needs and if her “libido” is not as high as his.

At this point I ask if “libido” is stated in the Koran. Well they think I am serious about my butting in and start explaining to me the terms used translated to modern day English is libido. I thank them for the enlightenment and they return to their discussion.

Khadijah to Aunty: So what do you mean by you are prepared for anything?

Aunty: Let me tell you the story of my mother.

My mother was a businesswoman when she met my dad. She paid for my dad’s education, trained his six siblings in school, built a house for them in his name and sent him for his first Hajj.


At this point I was interested in the gist, I ask what happened?

Aunty: Well he brought in another wife then he later sent my mother away from the house she built.

At this point the whole class who had been listening with half ears while not contributing, shouted “AHHH!”

Khadijah: Where is your mother now ?


It is said that only reciting this word three times by the man, a divorce is sealed.
Aunty: She is on her own living fine. My point is if she had this mentality that she was prepared for anything, polygamy and divorce would have been a possibility in her mind and she would have directed her actions with such in mind.

But my mother could never have imagined her husband could cheat on her not to talk of marrying another woman nor divorcing her.

She always thought it was “She and her Husband forever”.

Khadijah: But what really happened?

Aunty: Well I will say he was under the influence of his step mother.

Me: Which kind step mother? How old is he and how old is the step mother? Which kind gross immaturity is that?

Khadijah: How did he come into such a spell bondage?

Me: She didn’t say it was a spell!

Khadijah: It’s a spell I would call it.

Aunty: Yes it was a spell. It is as a result of wanting something you are not supposed to have.

Khadijah: Very true

Aunty: My mum isn’t from Nigeria, dad’s step mother didn’t want him to marry someone outside their tribe but he insisted on doing it. Guess it was the way he fought to marry her that made my mother trust him so much.


Wasn’t as mixed as this though as it was simply from two neighboring countries.
Me: Hmmm

Aunty: So now as the step mum is showing(being mean or wicked) the new wife, I am just smiling and watching.

At this point I decided to go use the restroom. I had heard enough. I however took permission from Aunty to share her story.(by the way I have always imagined polygamy as one man having threesomes and foursomes, even fivesomes legally! Lol)

They like gist in my class too much, later in the day, they debated on the fine imposed on “Busola Dakolo” in the rape accusation on a Nigerian Pastor.

I will not help you deduce any lessons from the gist Aunty provided above since there is no way for me to balance out the story, abi make I go ask the spell casting step mother her side of the story? � So let me simply drop it as it is hot with the sensational approach.

donkelvin10:
I am Don Kelvin in search of a true relationship.... any serious lady should WhatsApp or call me @ +2349023630072

How true? Lol. Ladies, he is only looking for sex oh. Na your choice sha. Hahaha.

Gladly Polygamous.
Posted by strong nigerianwoman

Yesterday in class, during a free period, I was trying to get some reading done when I heard Khadijah tease a fellow Muslim classmate about her friendliness with a male married class mate.

She said to her, Uncle is married oh abi you want to be a second wife?

Aunty replies her; there is nothing wrong with that after all my religion permits it.

Khadijah: So you won’t mind sharing your husband for that reason?


Aunty: I am prepared for anything.

Khadijah: But you have to pray or say what you want, after all even the prophet’s wife prayed against her husband marrying another woman.

Aunty: But after she died, didn’t he marry many wives?

Uncle at the center of the debate then asks; but it is permitted isn’t it?

Khadijah: It’s not like it is permitted but because it is mainly the male gender who go get this Koranic knowledge, they tend to pick out the part that suit them and leave the ones that don’t.

Uncle: So what are the ones that don’t?

Khadijah: Well other than a man should only marry if he is financially stable to have more wives, he should also not love one more than the other, then he should only marry another woman if his wife is too sick to meet his sexual needs and if her “libido” is not as high as his.

At this point I ask if “libido” is stated in the Koran. Well they think I am serious about my butting in and start explaining to me the terms used translated to modern day English is libido. I thank them for the enlightenment and they return to their discussion.

Khadijah to Aunty: So what do you mean by you are prepared for anything?

Aunty: Let me tell you the story of my mother.

My mother was a businesswoman when she met my dad. She paid for my dad’s education, trained his six siblings in school, built a house for them in his name and sent him for his first Hajj.


At this point I was interested in the gist, I ask what happened?

Aunty: Well he brought in another wife then he later sent my mother away from the house she built.

At this point the whole class who had been listening with half ears while not contributing, shouted “AHHH!”

Khadijah: Where is your mother now ?


It is said that only reciting this word three times by the man, a divorce is sealed.
Aunty: She is on her own living fine. My point is if she had this mentality that she was prepared for anything, polygamy and divorce would have been a possibility in her mind and she would have directed her actions with such in mind.

But my mother could never have imagined her husband could cheat on her not to talk of marrying another woman nor divorcing her.

She always thought it was “She and her Husband forever”.

Khadijah: But what really happened?

Aunty: Well I will say he was under the influence of his step mother.

Me: Which kind step mother? How old is he and how old is the step mother? Which kind gross immaturity is that?

Khadijah: How did he come into such a spell bondage?

Me: She didn’t say it was a spell!

Khadijah: It’s a spell I would call it.

Aunty: Yes it was a spell. It is as a result of wanting something you are not supposed to have.

Khadijah: Very true

Aunty: My mum isn’t from Nigeria, dad’s step mother didn’t want him to marry someone outside their tribe but he insisted on doing it. Guess it was the way he fought to marry her that made my mother trust him so much.


Wasn’t as mixed as this though as it was simply from two neighboring countries.
Me: Hmmm

Aunty: So now as the step mum is showing(being mean or wicked) the new wife, I am just smiling and watching.

At this point I decided to go use the restroom. I had heard enough. I however took permission from Aunty to share her story.(by the way I have always imagined polygamy as one man having threesomes and foursomes, even fivesomes legally! Lol)

They like gist in my class too much, later in the day, they debated on the fine imposed on “Busola Dakolo” in the rape accusation on a Nigerian Pastor.

I will not help you deduce any lessons from the gist Aunty provided above since there is no way for me to balance out the story, abi make I go ask the spell casting step mother her side of the story? � So let me simply drop it as it is hot with the sensational approach.

Sending congratulations to all recent positives. And encouragement to those still believing. Just thought to check in and give encouragement to someone today.
After 8 miscarriages and all, God kept me strong and directed me plus provided for me, then know that you are not a hard case for God.
Hugs ladies.

ANewMumIJNAmen:
Dear glowing mummies, Good afternoon. I hope you all are bumping well.



Please has anyone had such an experience? What could have caused it? Maybe it's the hormones but I can't stop crying

You will be a new mum in Jesus name!

crackhaus:

Keep your title, but send me the bill.

Omo Olowo

crackhaus:

Send me the bill sugar mommy

Who wan come pay if we dey transfer the title up and down?

crackhaus:



See a therapist please, you too Omojudy.

Yes daddy. But please foot the bill.

crackhaus:

The funny thing about your comment is that you typed it, submitted it, read it over again to check for errors, and you still did not detect the complete lunacy in your behaviour.

Ever heard the phrase, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned?

All these talk wey una dey talk.
One guy did me like this when I was in between marriages, supported me, wanted to know all my people etc. 3months I had no clue as the wife and family where based elsewhere. Later I come Dey suspect one lady with him, that made me go detective.
I visited in his absence and searched the whole house. Guy was married with 5kids to wifey and the name I suspected was a gf with one kid for him.
Well, I trashed his self contained office allocated apartment, flooded it and took everything of value in it which wasn’t much by the way. I remember I had gotten him a gas cooker as he wasn’t cooking or maybe using stove when I met him, took down to bathroom slippers and small bag of rice. Lol.
Then I contacted his wife and gf and accused them of giving him chance to break other girls heart.
The wife later became my friend that he had to warn her to avoid me. The gf first said thanks to me then probably called him then called me back to change mouth, so I asked her what was her wifely position since the other lady has older and more kids for him.
Omo guy was not even remorse, he asked me if I would have left if I was already pregnant with child for him.
So Omo guy used to carry me to functions, I met his superiors etc. I could only wonder how they looked at me while I had no idea.
I don come give una forward gist wey my blog people never even reach yet.

Now this is touching.

Nairaland don spoil.

I just Dey drop this one for here make the thread go up small so She who needs to read this gets a better chance to read it. Lol.

liberalchick:


... because it’s a false story making rounds on African blogs.

Makes sense

High class badass!
But the custody of that child should be taken from her and she sued for a lot of things. How could the millionaire not get a top notch lawyer to win this case?

Please change the communicate with her to him or her.

Eh don reach this extent?

Young man. People no know say them go run from fire before if police no chase them? Na poverty Dey cause am I know. They were trying to save goods at all costs!

Your wife was at home abi? Trash it out with her. Not every man is a child molester. Don’t over stress issues.


https://www.nairaland.com/5394610/sexually-abused-child-own-father

Ryan03:
see better school

Better kwa?

12k. 2009. Private school teaching.

Enjoy your shopping. Men too Dey that market Dey sell after all.

Feel free to have a gender reassignment. We won’t mind you being a woman for just a year. Welcome onboard Sis.

So sorry but only you can get tired with your situation and take a drastic step by yourself the way I did last week In the post with link below!
Till your camel’s back breaks nothing any of us can say will make a difference.

https://www.nairaland.com/5501185/domestic-violence

Ugmama:


Lol

That's it o... I am thinking maybe he has a side chick that warms his back o

And his front!