MasterJayJay:

What's the Facebook link so I can share?

Hmm. I really didn't drop it on my page but closed groups. But their instagram handle is my signature or simply "mysurrogatetwins"

Trayceey:
I saw this story on Facebook. Copy copy

I did share it on two Facebook groups and am sharing it everywhere I think to. Feel free to share it for me to with link to my handle or my name at the base so people will actually follow me thank God, then be motivated on their own journey.

CaptBabosa:
Wawu! you must be a very strong lady to have gone through all this unbroken. I admire your resilience..

Who tell you say I no break? I dey patch each break as it happens. If I don't take care of me, who will? Smiles.

Bonapart:
madam you started well and ended very badly in trying to discredit the work of God. Life itself is a waste of time no matter your achievement. Heaven alone counts. Congratulations mrs surrogacy or whatever its called

Dear obviously you didn't read or understand that last phrase. And stop being so angry.
Let me break it for you, God does every pregnancy despite the route, that's why people should be empowered with knowledge to seek the routes that work for them, so they don't perish for lack of knowledge.
Thanks for the congrats you chipped in.

cococandy:
Congratulations OP.

thank you to the doctor/s who finally made the correct diagnosis.
So many people suffer needlessly because they rather believe an unseen being is responsible for whatever is going on.

Abi. I for don lose 20 pregnancies by now as conception wasn't a difficult thing for me.

Sijo01:
Read your testimony on Facebook. Didn't know you're nairlander too.

Congratulations once again.

Btw, I watched your beach video. you're such a lively fellow.

That beach video still dey there? I am me oh. Infertility or not, na one life I get. Can't afford to let the world still my joy!

Alero3Arubi:
Congrats.
I am happy for you.
Please i would like to have an online focus interview with you.
I am on a research about socio-cultural impact of childlessness among married couples.
Your story will go a long way in helping me out.
Whoa, congrats ooo.
Didn't know people bought into surrogacy in Nigeria.

Sounds like my project topic. I am trying to choose one at the moment. Talk to you soon. PM ok?

I think it's time I dropped my childbearing story.

Thirteen years ago, aged 22, I married right out of university without the wisdom to realise the importance of finding my feet first. My husband was 11 years older than me. He wasn't rich but I thought we loved each other. Youth service year I conceived but lost it right out of service.

Hubby was helped to get a good job, stable government job by my family. When I lost my first pregnancy, we were staying a few months with his parents due to our financial situation, my father in law said to me after that loss while my husband travelled "did your ladies in the water say to you that the day you give birth you would die?"

With the new job right after the loss, we moved back home and continued our lives. Three more miscarriages came along with many drama ranging from deliverances to traditional midwives to in law's commanding the home.

Finally one day almost 5 years later, hubby travels and his father calls my aunty to tell her that "they don't want to marry their daughter again". I was at work when aunty broke the news to me. I travelled that night to the inlaws with my aunty and grand mother to beg, we were not given audience. They didn't even open their gate despite we could see my husband's car in the compound.

At 9pm my companions begged me to go home with them, I refused and chose to spend the night in a shed close by. The was no electricity in the neighbourhood, everywhere was dark. At midnight Power was restored, and from the shed I was hiding, I saw my father in law walking round the compound spraying incense, (he attended celestial church) I call out to him "daddy, daddy" obviously he hears me but does like I am a ghost.

At that point, I knew I was wasting my time, I started trekking. I trekked to the motor park which was very far, vigilantes stopped me numerous time and my tearful face made them not question me too much......a lot of drama in between, I traveled back and resume dwork while praying and fasting for his return. Mehn I lost weight without even trying. I met many scam pastors which are another story.........

One day, I suddenly realized I may have the password to hubby's Facebook, I tried it and it worked. What I saw pained me but it gave me strength knowing the break up wasn't because of anything he was accusing me of (like saying a pastor revealed to him that I was sent into his life by Kingdom of darkness to destroy him. To this I asked if Kingdom of darkness gave jobs, he said he has repaid me ie Kingdom of darkness back in connecting me to the job I had then which didn't last. Oh he wanted me to be paying my salary to him by the way).

So I got some courage to begin living again at this point and apply for a divorce. To this he also said "that good wives wait for their husbands no matter how long they go, but me I ran to apply because I want to remarry."

We got to court and he was accompanied by his father and them claiming that hubby didn't abscond but I did. Guess they were afraid I wanted to request compensation. Walking out of court, his father waves at me and I wonder why.
He was barely divorced then remarried and yes has kids now. Things went sour with my place of work and I relocated to a bigger city and that was my fresh start.

Met my husband two years after the divorce, I hid nothing from him especially my challenges with infertility. We got married same year. And got pregnant and miscarried. Second pregnancy for now hubby, I was put on cerclage, yet the pregnancy still ended and I almost ended with it as my body was going into shock due to its inability to dispel the dead foetus since a cerclage held the products in.

I had an history of pregnancy losses at 14 weeks. After 8 miscarriages and no living child, I visited more hospitals, met insensitive money alone conscious doctors, finally a correct diagnosis was made.

I had no demons worrying me, my womb was just too small to carry to term, it wasn't expanding with the pregnancies. An hysteroscopy was the procedure used to diagnose this.

Getting a diagnosis at last was some sort of relief, but what can we do doctor I asked? Doctor said "have you considered adoption?" I was shattered.

I went home and discussed it with my husband. We agreed to adopt and we applied two years ago. We only just got feed back few weeks ago from them self.

Then one day I was on social media and I saw someone advertise needing a surrogate and like a light bulb the idea stuck, I wrote to the woman and we started chatting. One day her Status said she needed someone to donate blood for a relative of hers and I say where to an online stranger I had never met. That was the first day I met my good friend Mrs R. I also put up an advert for a surrogate as I couldn't afford to the price agencies were charging. After two bad experiences, I finally got one good person that we could afford. And God just sent money mysteriously.

Then when God wants to turn your story around, you know it's just your time. I paid for one cycle at the hospital we used, already looking for money in case the first cycle did not work, guess what?

IT WORKED! MY TWIN DAUGHTERS ARE 3 MONTHS OLD NOW.

This is not your everyday testimony, I no get time to dey give testimony like some people wey go go church dey say "after waiting for 20 years, God blessed us with triplets, tell the journey when telling your testimony sisters, don't let the holy sister at the back waiting for a similar miracle be thinking God doesn't answer her prayers. Be real, stop pretending.

Edited:
Please someone take me to front page for the first time in my life na. ����

After I did a successful surrogacy, I have received a lot of requests for surrogacy from my networks. I know a few people may want the job here so I decided to post.
What the intending parents can afford is 800k for single births and 1m for multiple. 20k monthly feeding. If they could afford more they would have gone straight to the agencies.
Relocation isn't compulsory.
This is no role for agents, so don't bother if you are an agent.
Everyone else, feel free to check my successful surrogate journey after 12 years waiting and 8 miscarriages on instagram.
Criteria for a surrogate are
1. Age 22 to 35
2. Have had at least one childbirth and the child survived
3. No fibroid
4. HIV and Hepatitis Negative
5. Willing to abide by the terms of an agreed agreement.

If you think you can do this job cheerfully, feel free to send me a pm and I will make the connection.

Denique:


Pls pardon my curiousity, again I know about Google... Lol...
What is the process involved?... Does she get operated upon to take out the eggs or via her v.agina?

Taken from the v.agina. I did an ivf or rather I had my eggs extracted recently.

Because he is bigger than the whole country and we are created to serve him. Ok

They can't pin his source of contracting it. Not possible.

twintower:


Two years!!! I am presently not in Nigeria, I want to know the procedures so I can start as soon as I come around

Well you either walk into women's affairs ministry in your decided state. I hear states other than Lagos are faster. Or you find a connection high up and use.

twintower:
I am considering adoption while waiting, please if you have idea, let me in please

Hi, I once applied in lagos state. It took them 2 years to reply me. They just replied me before Covid lockdown. Which state are you?

Perculiar:


omojudy ma, please can you assist our mamas here

Thanks for the mention. Just seeing it. Will reply her.

ebonynelly:


U can contact me through this mail:
chisconatural@gmail.com

Hi mama. How your cutie? We should chat please sometime. Pm?

twintower:


Dear congratulations, please can you explain further for me to understand, why can't someone stay in that area?

I didn't say someone can't stay there. Just thought it was cheaper and time saving not to spend time in the town unnecessarily.

damselhoney:

Kaffy4bill?

Sounds right!

IVF is a roller coaster journey. God will help us all.

Fruit4me:
pls reply me. I went to the hospital and I was diagnosed of staph infection, and I was placed on 5days injection and drugs. I started taking the injection yesterday. Now my big sis bought a very expensive herbal medicine for me, she said it’s both for infection and conception and will prevent uterine adhesion which cost total 43k. Pls should I treat my infection and not take the herbal? Or should I just take the herbal along with the injection. Pls I guess my mums and doctors here will tell me the right thing to do. I don’t want to make a mistake. And I forgot, I just had 2 evacuation (d&c) last two weeks in one pregnancy/miscarriage. Pls help me���

The way I run away from herbals nowadays! I saw something with them, bitterness, irritating different colours and sizes. In the end I decided that they were all trial and error. Never worked for me. And we're not cheap at times.

Crownofwealth:
First time to comment. Have been reading and following up each chat here. I will really say I appreciate you guys on this platform for your decision to share ideas. Amen

Sending you comfort and Strenght. Please you and madam need to be closer now and don't allow frustration come in. Nice regards.

Trying to locate a nurse here her moniker go start with K and works in LUTH. I just wan thank her for her assistance to me years ago when I go gyne there. And she needs to know of my birth join!

Momsietwins:
. Congratulations dear I’m very happy for you, may God almighty bless your babies. I still can remember your chats on ttc trend back then. God has finally done it. We give him all the glory.

Our old timers. Hope things are going well with you?

Abeg make una no vex, I want to create an app to compile a directory of safe but cheap/affordable ivf centers across the nation where people can also drop reviews etc. Also where women can learn more about this infertility journey and stop falling for things as myopic as crypto pregnancies.
Too much hush hush is being made about this infertility journey especially in Nigeria. And if you know me at all, you go know say the matter dey pain me.
Help me make information accessible and crash down these prices even more.
Don't just like my posts on my different platforms, write me private chats about cheap good hospitals you know of and their contacts and prices so I will follow up on investigating them.
Together let's fight infertility in Nigeria. You can be anonymous if you never chop my ginger,
Also, I NEED PARTNERS, LET'S WORK TOGETHER IF YOU ARE LED, I can't do this alone. Thank you!
Thanks to everyone who congratulated me on my twins. Celebration will not cease from your home!

Goldenheart002:





I just shouted "it's a lie" and everyone is looking at me lyk Chaiiii! God is too faithful to fail, abi no be mama Omojudy again? They will live to be yours and u will live for them in Jesus name

Na so oh. I had to run from this app self as the journey seemed so long and focused onot other aspects of my life while not giving up on the dream of motherhood. Thank you all for your support and lover all these years.

Ayaoye:


FIRST OF ALL, CONGRATULATIONS Mama. I'm so so happy for you. Before commenting I had to go search for your story online, scroll to the first post you made on your Instagram and read every single one of them. I'm happy it ended in praise. I love your courage to talk about your journey and also encouraging others. I love you and kisses to your bundle of Joy.

Thank you. I always say that we hide too much in Africa causing others unnecessary pain.

Forgive me for only just registering my birth.
Last month, after 12 years of infertility, a divorce due to it and 8 miscarriages, losses etc, I birthed twins via surrogacy. I detail my story constantly via on my Instagram.
I am beyond happy.

Forgive me for only just registering my birth.
Last month, after 12 years of infertility, a divorce due to it and 8 miscarriages, losses etc, I birthed twins via surrogacy. I detail my story constantly via on my Instagram.
I am beyond happy.

Forgive me for only just registering my birth.
Last month, after 12 years of infertility, a divorce due to it and 8 miscarriages, losses etc, I birthed twins via surrogacy. I detail my story constantly via on my Instagram.
I am beyond happy.

.

Xanderk:


will u teach me?

SMH

Xanderk:


What about fun loving guys. Don't segregate us na

Lol. Surely you know how to open a Whatsapp group chat?