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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 8:34am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Preggymum:Seen now? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:06am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Lagbenjo:Hugs |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:01am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Perculiar:Did you just request it from your doctor or what? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:00am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Preggymum:Amen. How are you holding up? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 3:14pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
passendi:As at last year the minimum cost was 3.5m. And all big ivf clinics give the service. |
Family / Omojudy Non Fiction Stories 1 by Omojudy: 3:14pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Let me share a rather hilarious but stressful Surrogate's transaction I had. I run a surrogacy agency. I am mainly based in Abuja and Lagos. Earlier this year I got a message from a lady let's call her Victoria. She was Abuja based and wanted to be a Surrogate. I began communicating with her. Some days later I see a text on my phone from her number which I had not saved. It sounded romantic. I didn't realise it was her number so I thought "who is this again?" Then she called with the number and I blasted her her telling her how unprofessional and weird that text was and I do not think I should work with her anymore. She begged and apologised. I then went further to tell her that I had no Abuja vacancies either. She said she will come to Lagos. I told her I neither had accommodation nor assurance of Lagos, she said no problem. I said No. I was really getting bad feelings about her. A month later I was in Lagos and I get a call from her saying she was in Lagos and wanted to come to my office and I was like seriously? Well she did appear. She met another Surrogate applicant the day she came in. After a regular briefing, I take them both to the diagnostic center for pre tests as part of their application process. She obviously gets the other lady's contact. Her pre tests were OK. I put her in transport to go to her place and I will get back to her. She began making entreaties requests with her eyes like a lover for transport fare home. I cleared her or thought I did. Victoria, you knew what you requested for when you insisted on doing this etc. She was really embarrassing me. An hour later, she calls me to tell me how she was stranded returning home and a stranger had to borrow her money. At that point I really should have cut off things despite cost of tests I had spent. Nonetheless I continued. Maybe out of sympathy for the sacrifice she has put to get to Lagos. After she had passed our other accessement tests and she started treatment in the fertility clinic she began writing complaining about her accommodation and her host that she was being almost killed that I should find place for her to stay. Mam what is this? You are not pregnant yet, be grateful for your host, put your head down and manage the place. Then she calls the other Surrogate she met, tries to use her mum in Uyo to guilt trip her to beg her to move in with her. She writes and complains and I eventually had to restrict her number. One day I offer her a single room telling her she will pay for it indirectly but when or if she is pregnant she will get a real accommodation. Aunty say no except its flat and in her area that she wants to find a job that do I know how she has been feeding? I say wow. Then one day at the hospital still on pre transfer medication, she says she saw vacancy for cleaner in same hospital and applied and got the job etc. Victoria are you reasoning well at all? How can you be a Surrogate and a cleaner? Where is the rest? Didn't we discuss this? And even where you want to do ivf? She starts with the complain of I don't know how she is feeding. I threaten to change her at the center. The process continues. I had to send her money for anti malaria one day as directed by the clinic, she didn't buy it for days and I had to force her to buy it by insisting on pictures. Transfer was around the corner, she was given last dose of drugs, then she starts another round of complains about how they told her to eat well, how will I solve it? How the drugs make her eat too much, how will I solve it? Then one day she says "the matron said I am cancelled, that they saw blood". Victoria, what happened really? She cannot explain. Well, the matron saw her as irrational as I would in her shoes(she mentioned the cleaner job to her and blames the matron till today for not letting her take the job saying she reported her to union that she is a Surrogate for a person there etc), yes she saw blood but that could be worked on as has been done in similar cases in the past and all things put together with the IP decided to change the Surrogate yes even without informing me so I lost money. I lost a client, money and wasted time but I don't regret her being cancelled. The stress was already this much at this stage, imagine if pregnancy occurred! Oh she writes me everyday now with forwarded daily greetings, she once asked me if I will see another IP to link her up to. I am like seriously? When I am not on ment. Beautiful day to you. |
Career / Re: Surrogates Needed by Omojudy: 1:24pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Let me share a rather hilarious but stressful Surrogate's transaction I had. I run a surrogacy agency. I am mainly based in Abuja and Lagos. Earlier this year I got a message from a lady let's call her Victoria. She was Abuja based and wanted to be a Surrogate. I began communicating with her. Some days later I see a text on my phone from her number which I had not saved. It sounded romantic. I didn't realise it was her number so I thought "who is this again?" Then she called with the number and I blasted her her telling her how unprofessional and weird that text was and I do not think I should work with her anymore. She begged and apologised. I then went further to tell her that I had no Abuja vacancies either. She said she will come to Lagos. I told her I neither had accommodation nor assurance of Lagos, she said no problem. I said No. I was really getting bad feelings about her. A month later I was in Lagos and I get a call from her saying she was in Lagos and wanted to come to my office and I was like seriously? Well she did appear. She met another Surrogate applicant the day she came in. After a regular briefing, I take them both to the diagnostic center for pre tests as part of their application process. She obviously gets the other lady's contact. Her pre tests were OK. I put her in transport to go to her place and I will get back to her. She began making entreaties requests with her eyes like a lover for transport fare home. I cleared her or thought I did. Victoria, you knew what you requested for when you insisted on doing this etc. She was really embarrassing me. An hour later, she calls me to tell me how she was stranded returning home and a stranger had to borrow her money. At that point I really should have cut off things despite cost of tests I had spent. Nonetheless I continued. Maybe out of sympathy for the sacrifice she has put to get to Lagos. After she had passed our other accessement tests and she started treatment in the fertility clinic she began writing complaining about her accommodation and her host that she was being almost killed that I should find place for her to stay. Mam what is this? You are not pregnant yet, be grateful for your host, put your head down and manage the place. Then she calls the other Surrogate she met, tries to use her mum in Uyo to guilt trip her to beg her to move in with her. She writes and complains and I eventually had to restrict her number. One day I offer her a single room telling her she will pay for it indirectly but when or if she is pregnant she will get a real accommodation. Aunty say no except its flat and in her area that she wants to find a job that do I know how she has been feeding? I say wow. Then one day at the hospital still on pre transfer medication, she says she saw vacancy for cleaner in same hospital and applied and got the job etc. Victoria are you reasoning well at all? How can you be a Surrogate and a cleaner? Where is the rest? Didn't we discuss this? And even where you want to do ivf? She starts with the complain of I don't know how she is feeding. I threaten to change her at the center. The process continues. I had to send her money for anti malaria one day as directed by the clinic, she didn't buy it for days and I had to force her to buy it by insisting on pictures. Transfer was around the corner, she was given last dose of drugs, then she starts another round of complains about how they told her to eat well, how will I solve it? How the drugs make her eat too much, how will I solve it? Then one day she says "the matron said I am cancelled, that they saw blood". Victoria, what happened really? She cannot explain. Well, the matron saw her as irrational as I would in her shoes(she mentioned the cleaner job to her and blames the matron till today for not letting her take the job saying she reported her to union that she is a Surrogate for a person there etc), yes she saw blood but that could be worked on as has been done in similar cases in the past and all things put together with the IP decided to change the Surrogate yes even without informing me so I lost money. I lost a client, money and wasted time but I don't regret her being cancelled. The stress was already this much at this stage, imagine if pregnancy occurred! Oh she writes me everyday now with forwarded daily greetings, she once asked me if I will see another IP to link her up to. I am like seriously? When I am not on ment. Beautiful day to you. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Ekweremadu: Ukpo Nwamini Is Lying About Being 15 Years Old - Kperogi by Omojudy: 12:28pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
otipoju:I totally agree with you on this one. Let me tell a collaborating story but this time with surrogacy as I run a surrogacy agency. I am mainly based in Abuja and Lagos. Earlier this year I got a message from a lady let's call her Victoria. She was Abuja based and wanted to be a Surrogate. I began communicating with her. Some days later I see a text on my phone from her number which I had not saved. It sounded romantic. I didn't realise it was her number so I thought "who is this again?" Then she called with the number and I blasted her her telling her how unprofessional and weird that text was and I do not think I should work with her anymore. She begged and apologised. I then went further to tell her that I had no Abuja vacancies either. She said she will come to Lagos. I told her I neither had accommodation nor assurance of Lagos, she said no problem. I said No. I was really getting bad feelings about her. A month later I was in Lagos and I get a call from her saying she was in Lagos and wanted to come to my office and I was like seriously? Well she did appear. She met another Surrogate applicant the day she came in. After a regular briefing, I take them both to the diagnostic center for pre tests as part of their application process. She obviously gets the other lady's contact. Her pre tests were OK. I put her in transport to go to her place and I will get back to her. She began making entreaties requests with her eyes like a lover for transport fare home. I cleared her or thought I did. Victoria, you knew what you requested for when you insisted on doing this etc. She was really embarrassing me. An hour later, she calls me to tell me how she was stranded returning home and a stranger had to borrow her money. At that point I really should have cut off things despite cost of tests I had spent. Nonetheless I continued. Maybe out of sympathy for the sacrifice she has put to get to Lagos. After she had passed our other accessement tests and she started treatment in the fertility clinic she began writing complaining about her accommodation and her host that she was being almost killed that I should find place for her to stay. Mam what is this? You are not pregnant yet, be grateful for your host, put your head down and manage the place. Then she calls the other Surrogate she met, tries to use her mum in Uyo to guilt trip her to beg her to move in with her. She writes and complains and I eventually had to restrict her number. One day I offer her a single room telling her she will pay for it indirectly but when or if she is pregnant she will get a real accommodation. Aunty say no except its flat and in her area that she wants to find a job that do I know how she has been feeding? I say wow. Then one day at the hospital still on pre transfer medication, she says she saw vacancy for cleaner in same hospital and applied and got the job etc. Victoria are you reasoning well at all? How can you be a Surrogate and a cleaner? Where is the rest? Didn't we discuss this? And even where you want to do ivf? She starts with the complain of I don't know how she is feeding. I threaten to change her at the center. The process continues. I had to send her money for anti malaria one day as directed by the clinic, she didn't buy it for days and I had to force her to buy it by insisting on pictures. Transfer was around the corner, she was given last dose of drugs, then she starts another round of complains about how they told her to eat well, how will I solve it? How the drugs make her eat too much, how will I solve it? Then one day she says "the matron said I am cancelled, that they saw blood". Victoria, what happened really? She cannot explain. Well, the matron saw her as irrational as I would in her shoes(she mentioned the cleaner job to her and blames the matron till today for not letting her take the job saying she reported her to union that she is a Surrogate for a person there etc), yes she saw blood but that could be worked on as has been done in similar cases in the past and all things put together with the IP decided to change the Surrogate yes even without informing me so I lost money. I lost a client, money and wasted time but I don't regret her being cancelled. The stress was already this much at this stage, imagine if pregnancy occurred! Oh she writes me everyday now with forwarded daily greetings, she once asked me if I will see another IP to link her up to. I am like seriously? When I am not on ment. Beautiful day to you. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 3:10pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
MineMK:I would love to know what you eventually did and how it turned out. I also wondered why they didn't advise you to add surrogacy to your options. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 3:07pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
LifeanaxFert:Location? Ie state? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 11:01pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
wonyi:So well that I hardly have time for myself. Thanks for asking. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 1:52pm On May 01, 2022 |
uwasam:I did 2 surrogates once with 5 embryos and zero took in. Ivf is not a sure thing laslas. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:18am On Apr 23, 2022 |
uwasam:I can understand your husband. He doesn't want to risk your health unnecessary. Ivf isn't always rocket science. How about using 2 surrogates instead of using yourself? 3 Likes |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
PossiblityGod:Have you done an ANA test? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 2:35am On Jan 11, 2022 |
legendsmother:Sweet heart, congrats. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 2:28am On Jan 11, 2022 |
enye2000:Why didnt you use a clinic in your state then? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 2:27am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Erechi:I am sorry. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 2:19am On Jan 02, 2022 |
legendsmother:Congratulations. Where is this clinic? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 2:17am On Jan 02, 2022 |
Erechi:At what age did they stop growing? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 2:16am On Jan 02, 2022 |
MummyAD:All you can do now is rest very well. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 10:19am On Dec 21, 2021 |
Erechi:How often did this happen? |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 7:59pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
wonyi:All did. |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omojudy: 5:51am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Busybeehf:Hugs. You will never miscarry again. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omojudy: 5:49am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Khadylolli:Did you try flushing? |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omojudy: 9:27am On Nov 23, 2021 |
Amakapritty:No. You are ovulating. |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omojudy: 9:24am On Nov 23, 2021 |
Busybeehf:This is a good scan. Thickened endo shows that you are either about to menstruate, ie past ovulation stage of your cycle or are pregnant but too early to show on a scan. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 7:13pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Uririandme:She isn't a single mum anymore. More responsibilities. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:36am On Nov 20, 2021 |
mercyooGod:The danger is your mind telling you its not your child in the slightest provocation. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 5:33am On Nov 20, 2021 |
MummyNeto:Congratulations. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 12:08pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Uririandme:No. I used two new ones. |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Omojudy: 9:37am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Admirabellebnf:I vote for the Army Hospital |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Omojudy: 9:34am On Nov 19, 2021 |
I have a confession that has been harding me to say. Maybe I will feel better as I do. I never even tell anyone yet. So i had 5 embryos after my first cycle in 2019. I decided to implant them this year and in two places. Well both failed. And I have no embryos anymore. I actually hoped to have a boy thats why I used them. But most importantly I couldn't imagine one day telling the clinic to discard my embryos or imagine forgetting it there and by some malpractice it is used on some couple without my consent. I don't know how I feel. I feel like I lost a child. Am I making any sense? |
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