₦airaland Forum

AbijaJ:
It was only a matter of time. They've gone to the opposition where they belong. Dem go soon begin fight and drag for recognition with the 'legacy' PDP structures in the state chapter of the party. No be PDP again? Lol. Jimi Agbaje 2023.

Lohmo34:
No be girls high school I dey see for their interesting

Maobichek:
You will be disappointed today, there will be election and a winner will emerge.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Maxymilliano:
He should be charged for manslaughter due to his negligence and dereliction of duty which made him morally complicit in the whole mess ... An approved 15 storey building couldn't have gotten to 21 storey in a day or month

Charmingrascal:
Lol.
Be deceiving yourself

Easylion3569:
It is not congratulation.. I'm still under my parents, and i'm still schooling

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.



You have all these signs and evidences and you're still planning to go ahead, sister think twice, marriage is not by force, the same you're running away for today may cause you ur life in the future!

GraciousGod190:
upgrade myself?
so to you am not upgraded enough? because am an Ssce holder.
please bro this discriminations needs to stop.

Juliusmomoh:
Honestly i whould not be happy... But no am not the one engineering this..

I was told by my dad friend yesterday.

Am a man, hence the reason why i neet advice

Pearlyakin:
Who is bankrolling him ?

iamphilips:
It all depends on attitude and character of the landlord and his tenants... Tenants ain’t saints either. My parents have tenants also and trust me, those guys can give someone high BP. One is still owing 200k from his rent of last year Nov and another November is here already. Whenever you ask, he would say business ain’t going fine so no money. The other day it was the pumping machine that spoilt, everybody locked up... For 2 weeks straight no water, Had to send money for them to get a new one... after splitting the money... some have still not paid their share, claiming that things are hard........ So it’s not always landlord and land lady. Tenants have their own.

CaptainAyub:
Lol.
How many votes do those ppl have?

Babzrockman:
They will go and sit in foreign land only to come back few months to electioneering campaign to contests.

How they will know the problems people are facing from afar?

Nigerians aren't ready for good leadership

moscobabs:
Yes, infact that state is cursed.

Crossroad1:
I won't blame ffk now.
It cost a lot for a man without job to pay for,
Security details
House help
Child support
Maintain his lifestyle
Fuel his cars
Buy foodstuffs
Prepare soups.
Pay for laundry
Buy clothes and shoes
So where una expect am to get money to finance all these things?
Times are hard, so he is just adjusting to the new Nigeria like everyone else is doing..
And least you forget, BETRAYAL AND BEING FAIRWEATHER POLITICIAN RUN IN HIS FAMILY, Google is your friend if you think am lying

thelivingpen:
a man who has taken the vaccine in my office got infected. I seems not to understand the essence of the vaccine

overdrive:
That man doesn't look upto that age.

Lollittaa:
[color=dodgerblue]This king is actually good looking. Very handsome. Anyone knows if he's still single? [/color]

chyzoo4u:
Happy birthday pretty...

My mum was 21 when she had me as well, and I'm her fourth child.

festacman:
This is one big downside of being an obedient church boy. But the truth is that the Bible said "who findeth a wife" and NOT "who committee recommendeth a wife". So, you may need to go Talibanistic and take over KABUL boldly and apologize to 'whom it may concern' later.

God bless brother.

orikoku:
Even his father will prostrate before Oni.

simple250:
Which mandate ...obaseki was disqualified from contesting during the election .

dyangprof:
Hmm, can you imagine! "Daddy is back"

Brainwashed is really bad

Indispensable85:
He'll still use government money to replace them.

hahn:
Na only jollof rice you fit chop without Aso ebi. All those efo na for people wey wear aso ebi.

Gozzzy:
I stay in Ogun state and I Tell you, majority of the roads in Ogun, except parts of Ijebu ode, and parts of Abeokuta, are much worse than even roads in Aba..... It's not hearsay.... I stay here... I've stayed in Abeokuta, Ijebu-ode, Sagamu/Ilisan Remo, and Sango Ota.... You see Sango and Agbara..... Don't even go there... Their roads are heart breakingly dilapidated..... Dapo Abiodun is a misfit, infrastructurally.....

milann:
Fashola of all people. A man i respect so much. Who would have thought?