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Nwodosis:You are being unfair to this Man! He never said he opned his brother's wife's pot to serve his friend. You are obviously prejudiced on this matter., since you cant stick to the stated facts It is there in black and white: I went to the kitchen to COOK and SERVE my friend. Back to the issue. I appreciate the Man for maintaining his cool and not responding to his brother's wife provocation. It shows he respects his brother and that is a sign of good home training. On the other hand, a good wife who respects the husband, will not throw his brothers things out onto the streets and lock him out, in the absence of the husband, it shows total disregard for the husband! Even if she is the one feeding the husband, she should have deferred to him. Some good wives will say: I will report you to your brother, when he comes back. But this "wife" has ejected her own in-law from the house, even before the husband could say a word. Now, if we imagine that the Husband is a "family man" who does not take this sort of insult on his family member or if the matter reach "Village Family" and they (or the Husband) instruct the brother-inlaw to move back inside the house, what would this wife do next? Pack out or Poison the Brother-inlaw? This is how arrogance kills some wife o! And yes, l have seen situations where two brothers build a Business together, one serving as the master/CEO and the Other as the Manager who does the day-to-day running. I have seen where a Senior brother forgo his own education so his junior brother can go to and complete Medical School. Due to that, the Senior brother is struggling financially and if in such situation has reason to live under the roof of his junior brother, does the wife have the right to thow him out of the house because he cooked and served food to his friend in that house? In most cases, men make their Money before marrying a wife so the wife are usually "come and chop, food don done". That is why most Wives like to dissociate and separate family members from their husband, they want to assume total control of the Husband, which at times, can be dangerous to the Man. @poster: Everything depends on your brother. If he is a real man who is not yet Pussy-whipped, he will order that you move back into the house immediately because your ejection was without his consent. You are his blood, not even his wife. Blood is always thicker than Water. If he is a SIMP like most men of today, he will be claiming "my wife and myself are the same and whatever she did,na me do am" .But his eye go clear when the woman begin show him the other side of life. I dont know your age but please, know that your brothers place has become a temporary abode, the day he got married. You have to think about living independently, your brother's wife hates you and she will go to any length, even lie that you are trying to sleep with her is not out of the tricks of such women), to get you out of the way and create enmity between you and your brother. Such is Life. When women want to deal decisively with their Husbands, the first step is to isolate him from good friends, good family members or anyone that could come to his aid......... then see-finish wan start be that. The next step is to create a situation that will make him loose his financial independence. Edit: I came late to the party! I can see one of the Fugly Slay Mamas is already foaming from the mouth and farthing everywhere with her toxic, yet crassly utopian idea of feminism. Dem Slay Single Mamas plenty for here, anyoen who takes their post seriously needs a shrinkhead. ![]() |
EgunMogaji2: Deep and straight to the point. ![]() No Favours. ![]() |
diordaves:I have been wondering about what all the huff and puff is all about. I dont want to "open this up again" otherwise l will say that the Client has genuine reasons to shout 'fraud', if and when the TIME-BASED contract agreement between him and the Contractor for delivery of items paid for, was breached by the Contractor going AWOL and not picking the call of the Client, while he was in constant communication with a third party, who as we know, has a Horse in this fight. So, 'legally speaking' he is justified in thinking he has been defrauded and he so raised the alarm. So trying to intimidate him into apologising when he obviously doesn't feel guilty (rightly or wrongly, it is his call) and acting as if anyone can throw him in jail if he does not apologise, sounds very hilarious to me but l have decided to siddon-look on the fence but this is getting too far As have been pointed out, the Client will apologise, if he feels he needs to apologise, that should be between the Client and his Contractor. Aside that, no one should punch above their weight on this matter otherwise we will ask them to exercise any right or power, be it legal or otherwise, that they think they have. Respect begets Respect. Please, l am just recovering from Covid-27, l have lost my hearing ability. ![]() |
JustCryptos:Th eissue of these American Panel Doors have been discussed in previous pages (you can search for it) and the overall conclusion was that they as as bad as they come, a sheer waste of money. I used them as internal doors and l had to replace them. In terms of strength and durability, they are nothing, compared to a Wooden Panel door. If you want to build strength into the beauty, then use those doors offered by @michelins (l can see the price of his doors creeping up gradually, from #18,000 .... #25,000 though Materials prices are not stable in recent times).Run away from American Panel doors, not buying original ones wont be enough excuse, when they fail you woefully. |
davodyguy: ollykay619:But l understand that you cannot REGISTER the "RED COPY Survey" at the Land Registry, if another individual has registered a previous Red Copy Survey for the same land (same geo-cordinates), with the and Registry. Apart from the first registered Survey at the registry, any other SURVEY will not be registered for the same land, at the Land Registry, and such survey is just a dimension drawings. In essence, a properly registered Survey at the Land Registry, is PART of Title Document. It is infact, the first Title Document, upon which other Title Docs will flow from. |
lawofeso:Sorry if this is coming late, l have been off for about a week. To your question: It will depend on what the Property Manager is engaged to do. Some have responsibility to clean the compound, pay the Mai-Guard, repair and replace WHATEVER needs to be repaired or replaced (from light, pumping machine, Toilet, Soak Away evacuation, etc). But the general cost per Flat ranges from #7,000 - #15,000/Month, depending on the standard of the building, some locations even pay higher and it is called maintenance fee. It is not enough to just give this money to the property manager, (I am against it, personally), you need to ensure they actually perform the responsibility otherwise you will have a lot of disgruntled renters on your hand. |
lawofeso:Hope this helps. |
Fahdiga1:Exactly! Even his Sai Baba chanters are all over the place shouting l have to leave this Nigerian by all means possible, bu ttheir BMC chnage cannot buy them any foreign Passport, hence they sleep at the Embassy while chanting Sai Baba. My prayer is that no one ever make this kind of mistake some of us made in 2015, ever again. We jumped from fry pan, rub ourselves with petrol and into a gas fire. ![]() May the wrath of God never depart from the household of those who made Nigerians 'IDPs' in small-small countries like St Kitts and Grenada. |
Cindino20:Cant remember properly but l think his Brand name is Regal Paints. But take the advice, he does very good Paints, even better than the more popular brand names. I have used his Paints and for some years now, it is still intact on the walls. When it comes to Paint, l am sure a lot of people here have had a taste of his Paint and can testify that it is good and well priced. We wont mind a further reduction is price sha, if possible (Oliver Twist mode activated) ![]() Edit: Just saw that @gbadexy has provided the answer. ![]() |
spyder880:I think the price will go down a bit, after the new year. Reason being that every year, around October, November and into December, Prices of building materials always go up because there is pressure on purchases as everyone wants to finish their project and move into their New House on New Years day. I will always pause major purchases around this time and wait till January when most people have done their rush, even sellers are more responsive in the New year when sales are down and everyone is broke, spent or more concerned about School fees. InvertedHammer:At the bolded: Will this increase not have an inflationary effect on house prices /house rent, as we move into the new year or would people build/repair at such exorbitant price and still rent at the same price of last year? |
tobolos:I was surprised that People were protesting #EndSARS but where not protesting #EndRRS. What does that tell you? That with good leadership, these organisations can serve the purpose for which they were created. Kudos to the departing Lagos RRS Chief, History will remember you well. |
motasty:Haahahahaa ![]() Maina sef don learn how to faint for Court! This Nigeria is more than a joke! - Fayose fainted and had upside-down Neck brace, so tey the Judge had to release him to go abroad for medical checkup, only for Pictures of him partying abroad, to surface. - Prof Pondei sef faint at the Senate hearing of his looting of the Niger Delta Commission. - Olisah metuh sef faint so tey, Judge became confused. Look, our Judges should be sent to train at School of Medicine as well, so that when these criminals faint, Judge will just set-up drip for them and continue with the trial. The crook, Maina did not faint in Niger Republic where he was hiding all these time, until Security caught up with him, now that trial has started, fainting don start,. Imagine, allowing our distinguished Senator Ndume to be remanded in prison for two days! Issokay. |
davodyguy:Waoh! That is bad business sense. Once you pay for something, money changed hands and good are delivered, it becomes your goods, you ate at liberty to sell it back, to the original seller. There use to be someone here that used to sell Cables, on this thread. I bought Cables of almost #3M from him a few years back and l still have a few bundles that were left over, in my Attic right now, to be used on another project. The Cables were original, direct from factory. Even his other items like DB's, Wall Plates, Sockets, etc are still serving and intact till this moment. A little pricey but you are sure of what you are buying and he does not do all these nonsense + Cheating If you can find him, it will be worth your while. His username was @Alcopacetic, back then. https://www.nairaland.com/4434421/prospective-home-owners-guide-domestic One of his threads that l still have.
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bigcountry234:@SurveyorGeo. He would the answer to your question. But l do know that it is location-dependent. |
zuraking: One4me: zuraking:Something is certainly wrong with you this mentally deranged imbec!lle.. Okay, before l respond further to your idiocy, l profiled you and l saw the following: -You are a wayward, young lad who is gambling his life away (not my money or that l care but people with such pedigree are known to lack proper home-training, desperate and prone to anger/problem transfer unto others, when they lose money on their bets. Maybe that is why you ran mad and started blaming my writings for your woe[/b]s). - You are most active on Football Gambling threads and House Clearance Sales where [b]people under financial pressure come to sell their properties, which again, confirms your nature. You also confirmed that you have sold your “inheritance”, to play Football Bet and you have lost it. Again, it should surprise no one that you suddenly ran mad and started blaming my writings. - You have been fumbling about trying to build that your eye-sore, No foundation, No DPC, Chicken-leg Pillars 4Rooms rubbish that is not even fit for a Poultry, since 2015 and even now in 2020, what you have on ground is nauseating yet, you are all over this thread making noise and disturbing our peace, like you are building something worth our time, which again shows your level of foolishness, dumbness and mental instability. Even the starkest of illiterates will not build that thing below and it just shows your case is beyond redemption. - You have been rude to so many people here that l have lost count and that might just be the confirmation l need, that a very poor job was done on a nincompoop like you. Someone complained that you are acting like a Bully on the Betting Thread. Pride and Arrogance will destroy your life eventually, if you dont calm down, it is not a curse. If l write a lot, l am sure l did not force you to read what l write and how that became your problem, indicates that a child that hates education/knowledge, will always turn out the way you did. A hoodlum When l put everything into perspective, l decided to heed the advice of good-spirited people here, I gave you the opportunity to reflect on your madness but you blew-it and ran your filthy mouth at me, a second time. From now on, you can bark all day from now till eternity, l will ignore you because you are not just worth a second of my time.... and l will continue to write, it it pains you further, please go and jump into Ogunpa River, Nigeria can do without one more Hoodlum and Nincompoop styling him self as Zuraking, King indeed. ** I have not said or manufactured all the above from thin air, they are based on the below attachments.**
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oluwatosink:So the Husband was sleeping throughout the pregnancy, ehn? Some of you sef. The Husband is the HEAD of that Family, whether Religiously or Culturally and he has the right of first refusal. He would give the child his firs name and then the Mother can add the middle name. Even Cousins, GrandDads and GrandMas can add their own, it should not cause any disagreement Even Jesus was named by his Father, Abraham named his Sons, Isaac name his Sons, etc Let me ask out of curiosity: Who gave you your own name? Your Father or Mother? I will not be surprised at your answer because it may be responsible for the way you are reasoning. ![]() *** runs away before Pot, Pan and Spoons start flying*** |
michlins:Welldone and keep up the good work. It was the Clits that l was after. |
internationalman:A DNA test will put her such effort into nullity. |
Strongwoman444:Why do you keep saying "MY children"? Did you have the Children all by yourself or he impregnated you and you had the children? If the latter is the case, then it is [b]OUR children and you cant deny him access to your Children, you both own the Children. That said, if all you said is 100% true, separate from him, then divorce him and then make arrangements on how he will have access to his children.[/b] What you do with your body and your time, is your decision. If he has not killed you for about 15 years of marriage, even when you denied him sex that time your helper slept with you, then he is not going to harm you in anyway, stop using that B.S to gain sympathy. Wish you luck |
davodyguy:IMO, the reason most Nigerians are not into DIY things fully, compared to say the Western world, is because we pay so little for "Services" (relatively) and that has made us develop a mentality of 'Big-mannism', which encourages laziness and idle thinking. Why should l earn to do something, when it will only cost me peanuts, to get someone to do it for me? ![]() I was given a birthday gift by one of my sons and it was a 12V Engine Oil Pump. All l just need to do is stick the hose into my Engine Oil Reserve and it will suck it oil out, remove and replace the Filter and put a new Oil, in less than 30mins! My Dude knows l like to do things by myself. Each time l learn something new or do something l have never done before in life, l feel a sense of accomplishment I have a whole shed of DIY Tools and most times, when people work for me, they are astounded that l know so much about what they are doing. I just tell them that l cannot do everything myself but l am happy to know about it and confident that l will do it, if l get stranded. I even once toyed with using flight Simulators online, maybe it will come in handy one day, who knows, l but pray it does not. ![]() |
zuraking:I know you are Uncouth, lack home training and certainly think you can run that your crooked mouth at everybody.. But l will ADVICE you that you are backing-up the wrong alley. I will still give you the opportunity to back-off, its not too late and l am quite forgiving. ![]() Think of me in the age range of your Dad, no disrespect to him. |
michlins:I keep liking you the more. You are quick and direct with your jobs. The Sky is your limit, if you keep going at this pace. Can we see a closeup picture of the joints of that tank Stand, and in all what was the cost for the setup (tank Stand) Even your Gate is coming up good. Just remember to keep a level head, when things start going good for you. Always remember that first day you came here and we tackled you very hard Dont be like those who say "Danger Over, God forgotten". More Grease to you elbow Bro. and thanks to @gbadexy who gave you the first shot, with that single door |
etokhana:The Witch is still looking for a compliant Judge they can bribe. I hope Sharia Chief Justice will not turn Justice on its head. |
JovialJune:Sharrap dea, Ms. Over-Righteous. If we begin to judge you of your own sins now, you will come out as filthy rags. All God needs is a contrite heart, not castigate sinners. If he is sorry for his actions who the hell are you to say he cannot be forgotten? Abeg, swerve. |
surebona:Go on your knees and pray to God for Strength. Read the Book of Psalms and if you can exercise Faith, you will be shocked at how much strength God will give you. It does not matter who is at fault, God will not send away a grieving heart. BTW, l hope this is a lesson to you men who hinge your happiness on the opposite gender. Infact, never hinge your happiness on any humanbeing because you will be disappointed, afterall, they are just humans. |
omenka:Or an Upside-Down neck Brace, like Ayo Fayose! ![]() Plenti, plenti Weyrey for this Kontiri ![]() |
n3xt:So, what happened in 2014? |
ngadaAwo:It is LiePobs like you that Shittu is talking about. Amotekun will flog any Ipob miscreants that spell their names anyhow Shey you nor dey hear word?. ![]() He has your name on his register already. |
baby124:The useless Mr Shittu's matter is being addressed properly, read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/6296866/indecent-dressing-amotekun-not-established |
NaijaMutant:Then Go back to where you came from and stop moaning. ![]() Did anyone drive you away from Enugu and Onitcha? |
Kaduna1stson: Aaaah, when are we going to stop hearing from these ![]() I weak for these people o! ![]()
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lalasticlala: This Shittu better shut his dirty mouth and face the Kidnappers and Herdsmen that the Amotekun is supposed to face.Indecent Dressing can be handled by the Pastors and Imams, if there is even need for such. |
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