₦airaland Forum

HORLADSTAR:
How would a wife send her husband out of the house, isn't it suppose the other way round .The man is the head of a family so stop this stupid assertion of a man been sent out of his house.

DexterousOne:
Both your aunty and the man that married her have problems

Like real problems

As a man
Its your duty to raise your sons

No matter how a woman tries
A woman cannot raise a boy into becoming a man

Only a man can do that

I'm no misogynist

I'm no red pill man

But that's the truth that I have come to learn

Most of the men I have met that were raised by women predominantly with no male I guidance always had one issue or the othe[/b]r

[b]Just make sure you never attempt to relocate your family abroad!
Otherwise you will have a culture-shock

Evercurious:
Pls stop pushing the blame to the man. It's that woman"s fault.. I have seen cases like this .. I mean cases pertaining my friends in handling their kids.. leave him alone for me ooh. 'Pls don't touch my child or beat him for me". This is the outcome of such talks..Displacement of emotions for me is a major issue with women.

SAMBARRY:
let's Tell ourselves the truth for once.

Fathers have failed in their roles as fathers

Impregnating women here and there when they know they are not ready to father a child

Beating their wives and raaping them in the presence of their kids

Coming home drunk

Bringing prostitutes home and forking them in the presence of the wife and children (this one no be say them say,it happened in my presence, the man took the prostitute to the room and left his door opened while i the visitor was in the sitting room. the mother had to tell the kids to Go out and play)

But the kids have seen some of the rubbish.do you think such kids Will not be dysfunctional and repeat the crap the father did?

FirefliesSun:
This person is a grown man. He shouldn't even be living with his parents at this age. As a mother there are some times you close your eyes to tell your children the age they should start living separately

revolt:
his father clearly wasn't in his lifd...They are calling him.... the woman raised this boy u can tell the man has washed his hands off this kid. Make the mana face her handwork.

Mynd44:
Someone I will personally call the police on and then have him cut off financially

Faithy247:
In all these where is the father.Most time when there is an absence of a father figure things like this are bound to happen.I sincerely feel for the woman.This is beyond mental issue.

But it is obvious the Boy does not have anybody he is afraid of or respect in that house.
Even that Man who summoned courage to go near him was trying to entice him with 'I promise to give you something'!? Somebody he should have given a dirty, resounding slap.

This is what happenes to those women who drive away their husbands because of Child Support Money, Single parent allowance Money and other Social Support Benefits.

Pompoms:
Thank you so much, sir.

On that note, can anyone vouch ,checkmate or stand as surety for @Adedward , please?

@Dennis3D , he mentioned you in particular but I just want to put it out here.

Is @Adedward genuine? Thank you.

tuniski:
The worst of democracy is better than the best of military rule.

MrPolitics:
If this is true then he won’t be impeached.
There are 26 seat[/b]s in the house. 18 seats would be needed to impeach him.
If 9 members dissociate themselves, [b]then they would have 17 seats at most and that’s not enough

Kriss216:
Facts are not allegations... Magu is a thief!

freeman67:
This is governance not war. The junior minister has done the damage and exposed them to Nigerians. Inorder to allow them(Ministry of Labour & FG/Executive) to achieve their desired aim now, the senior minister has to salvage the situation/do the damage control by massaging their battered ego to be able to fudge ahead of not they (Legislators) may spoil the plan.

The already said whatever has been done is null and void. If the Executive goes ahead without looking for a common ground. They may refuse refuse to approve money for that purpose. Without money it cannot be achieved.

SmartProf:
How can you apologise for a just action by Keyamo. It only shows u lack principles and will compromise serving society in a just way in order to protect your future political interest. Remember life begins where fear ends...I prefer dangerous freedom than peaceful slavery.

Laple0541:
Every prisoners will groan at the sight of a judge so I don't blame Bode George.

ajbf:
You people are too pretty and sentimental.
While Bode George may not be a saint, he has been however cleared off any corruption charge against him even up to Nigerian Supreme Court.

awoluyi:
I never knew that this man is the Atona of Yoruba youths.
Very interesting and congrats.
But wait o, wetin concern me in dis tin wey no concern me!

muykem:
I believe Bode George is right man to have headed that panel. Not only because his name sounds like Judge but because of his experience in fraud related matters as a former chairman of Nigeria port authority.

And Bode George, as an accomplished, Ex-Prisoner, Ex- CONVICT himself!
He did not even bother to tell us what the Judge has done not to deserve heading that Panel!
Bode George a.k.a TEWON'DE, was sentenced to prison for Corruption, under the OBJ regime.

Johnson5258:
You've points but not well presented, this is a bill on tertiary institution sexual harassment, not office which is not biased, however it was based on BBC eye report so that's it's basis. It's unethical for a lecturer to date a student, in onr way or the other, the student will be intimidate by the lecturer, marriage is different. Marrying a student wasn't debarred, if any lecturer wishes to marry a student, it's fine let them go ahead, what's the concept of dating between a lecturer and a student? That's a subtle way of sleeping with the student, which yeye consent?

Mayflowa:
Of course the bill is biased. Sexual harassment occurs in the university as well as workplaces all over the nation. To be fair, sexual harassment bill should cover all workplaces, including the university. Just as some lecturers bully student to submit to their sexual demands, bosses also bully or subtly harass their subordinate to summit to their sexual demand by creating unpalatable environment, threat of sack or promise of promotion. All these remove merit from workplaces. So bosses and supervisor should face still penalty for sexual exploitation just as professors and lecturers.

Secondly, there are loopholes in a bill. How can any law remove consent from dating and sex. There should be age of consent in any sane country. At this age, once you agree to date or have sex with anyone, it should be anyone trouble or argument for crime. The only time consent is waived is when is a subordinate- supervisor relationship in some work places. while this action is not crime, it has ethical implication because a supervisor may seems to favor or deny privilege to a subordinate under certain circumstances in their relationship. It is also create an hostile environment to other subordinate watching the relationships. That is why some company policy recommend resignation or transfer for any of the people concerned. If a student has gotten to the age of consent and want to date a lecturer who is not in his/her department or have direction supervision over, then the law should allow it because what the law seeks to protect is abuse of position or power to favor or deny previlege. It should not stop a lecturer from marrying a student that have come of age.

The question should be: What is the age of consent in Nigeria? Do we want different state to have their age of consent? Right now, the northern part of Nigeria is afraid to go into this conversion because of early child marriage which should all be termed abuse. You see why the legislation is biased?

mukthar2000:
‘A Bill for an Act to prevent, prohibit and
redress Sexual Harassment of students in tertiary
educational institutions



Selfish group of Senate, why .not prevent, prohibit and redress sexual harassment on Nigeria's as a whole, why only students in tertiary education institutions? Trying to stay out of the bill when it become law not to catch them.

TGM2015:
The way the passed this bill against outcries, hope their daughters, sisters, runs girls, family members, etc have not been victims of the sexual harassment.

Because, I just they wonder why the bill to discriminate estimated billing and makes electricity becomes pay as you use becomes so difficult to pass.

Anyway, the passage of the bill is help our female gender in Nigeria universities. It is a welcome development, thumb up for them.

luscioustrish:
One of such was the chairman of the Academic Staff Union of Universities, Biodun Ogunyemi, who described the legislation as biased.
He said the bill will stigmatise lecturers in universities.



Really? How so sir?

DuBLINGreenb:
Won't happen but las las hush done chop money, flex life, lived lavish, flown choppers, flown private, had the most exotic cars, mingled with celebs obtained connections, became a known international brand.

No jail can take that away from him, if he comes out of prison he will be better than most poor Nigerians because he has a platform, he has connections, he has experience, he is known and so on. He won't be starting from square 1

He can write a bestseller book, be a TV host, sing music people will buy, sell his story to American media companies, work for security organisations abroad etc

ExAngel007:
I heard swine flu is on the increase in China. Hope is not what I'm thinking ....

https://edition.cnn.com/2020/06/30/asia/china-swine-flu-pandemic-intl-hnk-scli-scn/index.html

efavour:
same mistake was made in my name at waec, correction process was long and I never had it corrected. I went to uni with it during clearance, someone detected it and I explained to them, just one name was spelt wrongly, am sure it was someone from another tribe if not,the person that originally typed it would have known that was wrong. I graduated and I still carry my waec like that with my uni cert.Apc was just playing politics. Believe me, if it was fake, that error would never be there.

OPPPS:
Oooooooo. So the 3 units credit Gov knows what he should have done before

vineyardfarms:
just wondering how president M. Buhari history will look like at the last day

JWTheocracy1:
I asked him earlier today, he said is for the pillars. Is just a storey building remodeling. Is the 20mm neccessary?

JWTheocracy1:
I sincerely don't know what he's using the 20mm rod for.

Thank you so much sir and God bless for all you've written to assist me, I appreciate.

Dennis3D:
That line sha "I will get back to you".

Better say sorry I can't deal with this than to leave the person that way with that statement. It helps the person move on and maybe decide on how best to deal with clients subsequently. It's an honorable thing to dismiss a vendor, artisan or worker or even a contractor in a simple fashion than suspending or keeping the person hanging with that statement.

If need be you don't say it in front of him. Leave them a text or whatsapp message thereafter. In my opinion, it's the best way to treat people. Positively or negatively in brings about a defining closure of a discussion. Thank you for your time.