₦airaland Forum

SAMBARRY:
smh


Accidentally rich people with the mindset of poverty will still become poor because they lack the principles to sustainable wealth that is why the likes of Abiola will become so rich and his family/children will become broke.he was rich,he wasn't sustainably wealthy.so there was no how he could maintain his wealth


Check out people who become unexpectedly rich and aren't givers.they eventually go back to square 1.its an inevitable principle of wealth.

Even the Toilet Cleaner of Abiola House is richer than the richest person your can put forward in your broke-azz family
It is funny when poor people like you try to make "Rules or offer advice" for the Rich

AsomughaChuks02:
The article didn't say what he was arrested for. And then Awkuzu Sars usually holds kidnap suspects, armed robbery suspects, suspected cultists, Yahoo suspects, murder suspects. So which was he accused of?

Didi2d:
How many times will they approve billions of naira for road construction, still nothing to show.
Bad roads everywhere, even the one they claim they constructing still looks like unfinished project.

Naija which way

He said: “The first one was to aid the completion of the Enugu – Lokponta section of the Enugu – Port Harcourt highway, it was augmentation of existing contract by N25bn, the council approved that augmentation. “The second memorandum was the award of three different roads.

“The first is Dikwa-Marte-Mungunu road for N60. 273bn and the Numan road linking Borno and Adamawa for N15.527bn and the third is for Gombi-Biu linking Adamawa and Borno also for N7.643bn.” The Minister of Education, Adamu Adamu, said the FEC approved an agreement between the Kaduna Polytechnic and an investor to renovate 18 blocks of student hostels.

Maxymilliano:
Nigerians are their worst enemies.

Why not come back and stay here in Nigeria and pass your votes of confidence, rather than stay in another man's already made peaceful country and be passing speculated rubbish.

These are souls wasted by Boko haram, just on Tuesday in Danbua, Borno State and the only crime they committed is serving their fatherland's.

abidem4real:
Men are just senseless in between their legs

davillian:
We know how far women can go just to take their pound of flesh when dumped or betrayed...
Castrating a man for rape should be for men who rape underaged...
And again what would be the punishment for false rape accusations....
Women will use this tool of castration to deal with lots of men....
I don't think we have the tools to effectively investigate rape..

cococandy:
You don’t know this victim in this situation.
How do you know if they have blame or not?
What makes you okay with his post that tries to minimize this grievous situation but has you spitting venom at mine? Maybe because you recognize that you’re a rape apologist [/b]that no one even called you. If the shoe fits anyway.

Your stupid gender bias and hate for women cannot let you allow a dead woman Rest In Peace.
You have to find a way to [b]make her responsible for what her killer did. Even though you ABSOLUTELY DO NOT KNOW HER and was not there when any of what happened took place. You want us to learn from what? From a situation that you know nothing about?

You see a dead body and assume she must have brought it on herself. And want to teach us lesson based on it. Dense and denser.

And you have the nerve to talk about rationality and seeing things for what they are. Pray tell what other facts are you seeing that the other readers aren’t privy to? If not your misogynistic hate.

Nonsense.

ceejay80s:
olodo if u have sense u will know yoloba is not yoruba, except conscience is worrying u, guy go find pillow sleep, if u have one

Dicktion:
Afonja rapists

Spits

Sofistcatdmoron:
Afonja from South West Travel to another mans land in kwara for crime

ceejay80s:
yoloba people sef

You slowpokes should Stop stoking tribal tensions, if they face you now, it is the same people like you that would be running to the @Mods.

I hope the Mods are blindly "sleeping on duty" righ tnow. and dont know to remove tribal bigotry inciting posts like this

davillian:
Bro you right, looks like theft and murder
Not rape and murder....

cococandy:
Of course the victim blamers don’t disappoint.

So, those online people are the reason why this girl was killed?

SAMBARRY:
oga shut up

So much pain that you have to wish someone you don't know this much evil against her children just because she doesn't buy your rubbish?


Then you were talking about bookmarking.seriously? As in you expect a sensible woman like me to bookmark all this crap?


I don't bookmark nonsense abeg

Lastly assumption is a sister to foolishness for you to assume that I chased away the father of my children or I'm a bitter woman.

Something is wrong with your head you better go and drink water and sleep

The confidence of a fool

Unbelievable

you will reap, at the appropriate time, what you sowed in YOUR OWN marital Home. The woman involved in this video is reapingher now and she cant blame me or Nairaland for it
It is not as if l know your husband but you are condemned BY YOUR OWN WORDS and l am specifically quoting it below.

SAMBARRY:
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you cannot be a bad husband and the woman will be ok with you having access to her kids because SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TRANSFERRING YOUR EVIL BEHAVIOUR ON THEM HENCE SHE KEEPS THEM AWAY FROM THEIR FATHERS AND NOT BECAUSE SHE'S TRYING TO GET BACK AT THE FATHER

her thinking process is I DON'T WANT MY SON OR DAUGHTER TO EXHIBIT HIS/HER FATHER'S TERRIBLE CHARACTER

that's why you will hear some women who are not in good terms with the father of their children saying "see as you're walking like that your stupid father" or "please stop talking like your dad" or " do you want to be useless like your daddy.
.......................

Saucyxo:
Ireland and America are two different countries. I just don’t know families whose children have been taken away, I oversee and manage cases of hundreds of children. I know children with cases of sexual assault in the family and they are still there! Don’t tell me about my profession! It’s okay to not know things .

I can see now I’m talking to someone who has again made judgement without context.
No matter the homelessness, there are newborns that are sleeping in shelters in Ireland. There are newborns on the streets in Ireland.
No they won’t! This is not america!!!! America is not standard for what is done in Europe. Stop watching tv and travel! Irish parents beat their kids. I don’t know a single Irish child ( and I know THOUSANDS) that did not grow up being spanked. Parents have told me what they will do to their children when they get home. Spanking only got banned FOUR years ago. And it was a struggle ban. Lots of resistance. And it’s not enforced at all.

The child will be taken into foster care right away. Fantasy land. Safeguarding isn’t a one case issue. The government do not want to take kids away. To what benefit? So they can pay for the child’s accomodation, food, personal costs. Have you seen the statistics on children raised in care, what government would encourage this?!

Let me just SMILE and Give-Up on this your 'I know Ireland more than you'.
McDowell must be having a laugh at you right now.
Only "If you know"

Saucyxo:
I have personal connections. If you go on the instablog twitter page, other personal connections have come forward to make corresponding statements and they’ve made an update.

Please stop with this narrative. This isn’t conspiracy theory. Most people that adopt black kids adopt them from Africa and they’re Americans. Ireland is not America. The Irish government won’t even take your kids away if you’re homeless. As someone that also works in child protection I’m telling you taking a child away from their parents is EXTREMELY tasking.

Saucyxo:
The boy is 17. Has lived in foster care for over four years because of repeated abuse cases. The police don’t like taking children away from their parents. For them to take the kid away, she must have been very abusive. She poured pepper in his eyes because he wanted to go to university. Well done. Nigerians love passing judgment without context.

SAMBARRY:
o my goodness... See balderdash and you're proud of the complete thrash you wrote?


Are you trying to be funny or what?


You clearly lack comprehension and engaging you in a conversation is obviously a waste of time.keep Taking my points out of context

Smh...asho Goh bayi?

armyofone:
Best thing is call the police and file restraining orders.

What a wayward son!

Hopefully mama send him out asap. Doesn't look like a responsible son (who put on nightie in the daytime)?

Abimbola29:
oga forget when you are the only son,I am the only child Dem no even born me well...

DexterousOne:
90% ?


You're joking

[/b] "see as you're walking like that your stupid father" or "please stop talking like your dad" or " do you want to be useless like your daddy", just because she is not in good terms with the Dad, [b]is that not the height of the same idiocy we are seeing responsible for the misbehaviour of this Boy?

Some people are so stupid that they will cut off their nose, just to spite their face.
That is why l said in my ealier post that "the Ego of some women are their greatest undoing", when it comes to making peace with their estranged husband, just so they can both raise the children up to become responsible adults in future.

SAMBARRY:
As usual....


The whining continues

There must always be a justification for the irresponsibility of fathers

And meanwhile I'm not saying the women don't have the share of the blame but 90% comes from the fathers

Please think before response.thank you for your kind cooperation

You would have sounded intelligent, if you give reasons for your "position" about this matter under discussion, like others have done, not just pouncing on my post to vent your frustration with your love life or lack of one.
I enjoy a good discussion as you can see but l dont engage people with underlying emotional/mental issues and until you present your case with strong views, l have no choice than to conclude that you are a perfect example.

From your posts, it is obvious you are one of those women who have driven away their husbands and endup raising deliquent, shameful children who will beat sense into your head very soon.

Carry your issues to the poster below me, maybe he can help you out

Beey:
He actually maybe mentally ill. Police will help de-escalate the situation & help him find help. Otherwise, looks like he could attack his mom & it’s wise to keep her distance. In the West, small issue can get you in trouble. I don’t see any problem with involving the cops. They too are parents.

chiddyok:
Unrepentant fool. Unless it isn’t God that created igbos. You will live to regret every evil word you’ve said about my people.

linearity:
Am very sure, this is a scene from one of those Nollywood scripts.

It can’t happen in real life!

DexterousOne:
I personally believe in some tough love

And some ass whooping for serious offences

But the way corporal punishment is done in Nigeria

Its messed up and is abuse in many instances


That said

The key in my opinion is that your kids should have a degree of (will I call it) fear in u as a parent


If your kids have mo level of deference to you


Wahala go dey


Our ways are not perfect

But throwing it away in totality is not the best

Some modifications here and there is more like it

mickyarams:
I was 12 years old when we moved to the UK, and after some few months I made the mistake of telling my dad I will call the social services on him for shouting at me one morning. The first thing he did, he called his work place he won't be coming in because of family emergency, that was when I knew I 4cked up big time!! The kind of a55 whooping I got, I never ever made that mistake again.

mickyeddi:
The guy might be autistic or suffering from some kind of mental health illness as well.

revolt:
THIS IS THE VERY REASON BLACK AMERICAN COMMUNITY CAN NEVER RECOVER. ONLY A NEW GENERATION OF 2 PARENT HOMES CAN SAVE THEM. IN THE SAME COUNTRY THE WHITE TRY TO MAKE SURE THE DADS ARE GIVEN ACCESS TO THEIR CHILDREN, COS THEY KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF SINGLE MOTHER RAISED MEN. WHEN ITS TIME TO ADJUDICATE FOR BLACK FAMILIES, THEY HURRIEDLY BARR THE MEN AND GIVE THE WOMEN ALL THE RIGHTS. THE FOOLISH BLACK WOMEN REJOICE AT FURST THEN WHEN THE KIDS GET OLDER THRY START RUNNING RIFHT AND LEFT LOOKING FOR MEN TO COME CONTROL THEIR TEENAGE KIDS. THATS WHEN YOU START SEEIBG THE KIDS IN CRIME AND BEING SHOT BY POLICE.

DexterousOne:
I know about the system abroad

While it could be argued that the system is somewhat gynocentric

You can still raise good kids abroad

With your wife


The first mistake we make is the choice of spouse we make

Once you miss this one
Its finished for you
Especially abroad

Even here in africa
We dont raise good kids largely

And we point accusing fingers at the west

When we have an entire generation of delinquents running amok on the continent.

In the case you painted abroad
IF the man was driven out of the house

Amd was given restraining order

That case is different

Greensquard:
Only God knows y she didnt call the police of this idiot,she should continue in her foolishness and petting,some people only understand the language of violence

revolt:
how can you call the police. She raised that child. No parent should EVER call the police on a child you raised. The child is a product of how you handled him. Its your fault as a parent. Live with the consequences... its very unfair on that child.