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Romance › Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by onlyinJESUS: 7:26pm On Sep 02, 2020

Berryli:
Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year, I ran into my Neighbour and we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn't happen.

Fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone. He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.

He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him. We are very different people, socially and even our views about life. I enjoy his company but that's all there is. As a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.

He stylishly refer to me in future as his wife. What do I do? Is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn't asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people who just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control, which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.

Do I just go with the flow since I'm currently not in a relationship? But won't that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don't like him in that way. or I'm over thinking the whole thing?

My view,
Answer these questions;
Do you love him?
Do you want a relationship with him?
Do you want to give him the impression that you want a Marital relationship with him?

If your answer is No, then there are several ways you can politely decline his request without really hurting. You take him to place where you can talk and tell him what you think about him and why his advances towards you can't work.

Please for your own good, don't try to fool around with him. You might regret it. Come out straight. He will even love you more for bring honest.

Taaaankyu

Politics › Re: Borno After 11 Years Of Insurgency (Photos) by onlyinJESUS: 8:51am On Aug 24, 2020

Anuoluwa1234:
Keep dreaming , when u wake up let me know.. .. this is not a curse, and it's not prayer or whatsoever.., what we are battling in Nigeria is Human nature!!!.
With this nature and attitude we HV towards everything, it's not a curse, Nigeria can never be a better place.. it's either is stagnant or its worse.. believe me.
God is not a magician, not at all... Holy book says, righteousness exalts a nation.. that is the procedure to hvn a great nation..
But here when an average Nigerian think about nothing else but how to cheat another, how to fraud etc...
Continue dreaming you hear, ~~God is Ur strength~~

Satan is their strength

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Romance › Re: 7 Most Important Bro Code Every Guy Should Never Break! by onlyinJESUS: 7:49am On Aug 24, 2020

highdon:
There is this new sex style call buhari.

Don't panic is not difficult, u will just be on top doing nothing.

Politics › Re: Police And IPOB Clash In Enugu, Two Dead (Disturbing Photos, Video) by onlyinJESUS: 7:12am On Aug 24, 2020

seborrhic:
History,sadly would disagree with you.

Even if you resort to violence. You only declare war on a nation you think you have the military strength to defeat.
If ipob declares war on Nigeria. It would have itself to blame just as like in the civil war

Politics › Re: Police And IPOB Clash In Enugu, Two Dead (Disturbing Photos, Video) by onlyinJESUS: 7:09am On Aug 24, 2020

Bkayyy:
This is the most reasonable post I've seen on nairaland.
Some people might abuse IPob or Igbos because of Biafra but any reasonable person will know that Nigeria is a ticking time bomb that when it explodes will affect all ethnic groups. You can't expect people that lost a war after resisting for three years to make the same mistake twice.
The mind of an average Igbo man (whether IPob or not) is gradually accepting violence as the only means of emancipation from Nigeria

Should they fight this war a hundred times, ipob still won't win over Nigeria

Travel › Re: A Visit To the Beautiful Lekki Art - One of the Biggest Art Markets in Nigeria by onlyinJESUS: 9:35am On Aug 06, 2020

Ever been to Nike art gallery? You'd love it

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses Not Marry Other ' Christians '? by onlyinJESUS: 7:51pm On Jul 26, 2020

Janosky:
You have been brainwashed by Pastorpreneurs you dey form say you get SENSE

You know NOTHING

I dey form sey I get sense

Oh really?

I know nothing? How do you even know that ��

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses Not Marry Other ' Christians '? by onlyinJESUS: 9:13am On Jul 26, 2020

Because the Jehovah's witness as well as many so-called Churches are cults.

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Crime › Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by onlyinJESUS: 5:30pm On Jul 22, 2020

a house that is being headed by a woman while the husband is alive is cursed.

women aren't good at leading, they mess things up

and the men that murdered them wives, SHAME ON 'EM

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Celebrities › Re: Nicki Minaj Is Pregnant, Shares Baby Bump Pictures by onlyinJESUS: 10:11pm On Jul 20, 2020

ProfAmaben:
I humbly thank the OP for this wonderful information. As I speak, Covid-19 has been eradicated from the world solely because of this news. Poverty, killings perpetuated by Boko Haram and bandits have all ended. This news have boosted our economy to the point where akara sellers make hundreds of thousands of naira as daily sales.

Upon hearing this news, the minister of foreign affairs Geoffrey Onyeama has fully recovered from covid-19. This news is indeed wonderful!

Christianity Etc › Re: Atheism And Islam On The Rise In The UK As Christianity Suffers 'dramatic Decli by onlyinJESUS: 4:05pm On Jul 14, 2020

kingxsamz:
People are becoming wiser daily. Hundred years from now, religion would be practiced by the minority. %50 of Nigerians won't practice religion.
Sanity would begin to be restored. Can't say much about those Islamic states though. Those ones are doomed forever.

doomed forever? is there any such thing?

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Christianity Etc › Re: Sanctions Must Be Placed On Nigeria After Christian Persecution - UK Group by onlyinJESUS: 2:24pm On Jul 14, 2020

Oghene1st:
You mean a country of 66 million people is about to sanction a country made up of closely 200 million people?

The small respect wey we dey give UK be like dem nor want am again.

Busy body nation.

oh really? when it comes to war your corruption stricken country can't stand great Britain and all of its allies.

Business › Re: How Do You Earn On Upwork? by onlyinJESUS(op): 10:26pm On Jun 16, 2020

ElRapido:
There is an option to wire your money straight to your account.

for real? i mean, I have never heard about that. I thought they pay only through PayPal and payoneer.

thanks so much, I'll make more enquiry about this information you gave me.

Business › How Do You Earn On Upwork? by onlyinJESUS(op): 10:17pm On Jun 16, 2020*

hello, great freelancers, my name is Israel, and I'm somewhat new to upwork. I discovered that you don't even need to hide your identity as a Nigerian to get approved.

but where I'm lost is how you get your money.
they pay through PayPal which Is not available to Nigerians in terms of withdrawal. so, is there another option and how may I go about it.

I believe that there are successful, honest Nigerians who have made Good money on that platform without being fraudulent in anyway I need such people alone to advice me on how to go about earning on upwork.

thanks, looking forward to seeing your valuable replies to this post.

Christianity Etc › Re: I Am An Atheist. Who Can Convert Me Without Using Religious Books by onlyinJESUS: 10:48am On May 21, 2020

IlovePMB:
See who have eyes and can feel.

*See* who have eyes? And should I believe him because he claims to have seen the sun?

Christianity Etc › Re: I Am An Atheist. Who Can Convert Me Without Using Religious Books by onlyinJESUS: 12:15am On May 21, 2020

IlovePMB:
Is there a Supernatural life/force? I need real life
proofs without religious quotations.

Many claim to be Christians, Muslims and so on just because of what they were taught or what was written in the Bible, Koran or other religious books. I here by challenge your faith. Prove your faith.

A man born blind asked me prove to him the existence of the sun. He also doesn't have the ability to feel. How In the world am I going to do the task?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 12:06am On May 21, 2020

[quote author=CAPSLOCKED post=89780689][/quote]"PEOPLE THAT EXISTED WROTE A BOOK ABOUT TALKING ANIMALS AND INVISIBLE PERSONS. UNTIL THE END OF ALL OF US ALIVE RIGHT NOW ON EARTH, WE MAY NEVER WITNESS BOTH"

Why is it considered impossible for animals to have talked at some point in time? By what standard do you deem something impossible?

Isn't the concept of talking animals as ridiculous as a causeless cause.
But atheists affirm "causeless cause"
which happened at some point in time and we have never witnessed any such thing again. That we don't see such things happen now doesn't discredit the fact that they could have happened sometime ago.

"THE WORLD HAS PROGRESSED THIS MUCH BECAUSE PEOPLE LOOKED FOR CLUES AND EXPLANATIONS FOR THINGS. WE MAY NOT HAVE HAD IT 100%, BUT AT LEAST, WE CAN NOW EXPLAIN LEPROSY AND LIGHTNING, AND SEVERAL OTHER THINGS WHICH MADE US KILL GOATS IN APPEASEMENT OF GODS" the problem with atheism is that they want to make sense out of what is nonsense (according to their world view).
I am not arguing for all religion but Christianity. Now, we believe that sin is the cause of all misery on Earth.

But, the atheist. Thinking he is wiser says that parasites feasting on humans is the cause of sickness. But they themselves have never been able to answer the ultimate question. Which is WHY? why should parasites feed on living things? Isn't this a destructive process, why are atoms in the world trying to self destruct. Since the big bang was a creative process, why should a product of it be destructive?
It turns out that any atheists that trys to make sense out of this nonsense called the world isn't consistent with himself.

"ATHEISTS, JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE HAVE THE UNDENIABLE FREEDOM TO BELIEVE WHATEVER THEY WANT. BUT FACT WILL ALWAYS BE FACT, AND LEGENDS WILL ALWAYS BE LEGENDS. "
Where does this concept of freedom of the will comes from? Those born blind, did they choose to be born that way? If atheists are consistent with their worldview, they'd acknowledge that nothing can possibly be random. A particle behaves they way it does because something cause it to behave that way. Not that it choose to do so.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 11:48pm On May 20, 2020

LordReed:
We agree we are clueless it's much better than deceiving yourself into claiming you know what you can't possibly know.

Our cluelessness allows us the opportunity to ask questions and grow in knowledge while your self deceit makes you wallow in dogmatic nonsense that blinds you to your humanity.

You probably forgot the meaning of 'atheist'. Could it be that you misunderstand it to mean agnostic?

Atheists don't claim that they are clueless as regards the existence of God. They affirm that there is no God ANYWHERE. Now, that's even contrary to logic. You must know all things before you can correctly say that, "this or that doesn't exist".

The more consistent natural view is agnosticism.

Also, to say that, "your self deceit makes you wallow in dogmatic nonsense that blinds you to your humanity" is also contrary to logic. That a man can't see or feel the sun doesn't mean its not in existence.

Some men were born blind and with Many others when various deformities. It would be unreasonable for a disabled person to say that, because I can't do this or that therefore, such acts don't exist.

Atheists should understand that it's possible that diety only reveals himself to some

Christianity Etc › Re: I Want To Give My Life To Christ But I'm Scared, Help!! by onlyinJESUS: 11:34pm On May 20, 2020

Moezzy1:
Pls how can i go about it?? I want to know God, I want God to see me as His son.

But the problem now is that i don't know how to Pray, How will He hear me?

Someone should help me pls, I want to know This God that i have been hearing about..

Let's start with this question. Why do you want to know God?

Christianity Etc › Re: In The Bible, Was The Forbidden Fruit A Metaphor For Sex? by onlyinJESUS: 11:32pm On May 20, 2020

simtosul:
By saying Adam was tempted by Eve to eat the fruit, was it referring to Adam having sex with Eve?

No, not even close

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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 11:30pm On May 20, 2020

Eulalia:
Have you?

Even nature teaches us something. There are people who were born blind and have never seen the sun. How in the world would you convince such people that the sun exists. If light is the one attribute of the sun?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 11:28pm On May 20, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
SO WHO ISN'T CLUELESS ABOUT THESE THINGS?

THE BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN US ALL IS THAT ONE GROUP CONTINUES TO LOOK FOR CLUES AND EXPLANATIONS FOR THINGS, THE OTHER GROUP BELIEVES INVISIBLE PERSONS UP ABOVE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR IT ALL.

"The other group believes invisible persons" you are wrong sir, the Bible wasn't written by spirits. It was written by men who actually existed.

"THAT ONE GROUP CONTINUES TO LOOK FOR CLUES AND EXPLANATIONS FOR THINGS" yes! And some of their discoveries could be very contradictory.
Some atheists don't even believe in freewill, I mean, the best of atheists. Another group believes there's a freewill.

Atheists go against logic in saying that there is no God

Crime › Re: Young Banker Commits Suicide In Lagos (photo) by onlyinJESUS: 11:23pm On May 20, 2020

ProfAmaben:
Life is hard, as an atheist, I don't support him because this is the only life we have.

With all due respect. This words of yours prove that you are an inconsistent atheist.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 11:18pm On May 20, 2020

Eulalia:
Thank God for the salvation of your soul. Make sure you show others the way "sha".

Have you ever been able to clearly prove the existence of our great God to an atheist?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 11:17pm On May 20, 2020

kingxsamz:
Or some would say, "pray something bad does not happen to you, that will make you look for God".
They use this line when they've got no reasonable point.

True.
But we have noticed that atheists tend to look for some Creator whenever they are facing problems

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Believers Use Emotional Appeal To Defend Their God/gods by onlyinJESUS: 11:15pm On May 20, 2020

Modo9:
i am not an atheist but i have noticed people tend to lean towards our emotions when trying to defend god. For example, i was having a discussion with some friends of mine and one guy brought up a point that "it is because i have not suffered that is why i am questioning god"

Dantedasz hakeem4 MJBOLT raptex LordReed CAPSLOCKED hopefulandlord hakeem12 seun hahn GoodBadandUgly

Very Simple answer; they have NO argument.

They don't know that atheists are as clueless as themselves

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Christianity Etc › Re: If You Are Still Under The Law/Old Covenant, You Have ZERO Hope In Christ by onlyinJESUS: 6:55pm On May 16, 2020

shall we make the law void because of faith?

Christianity Etc › Re: Is There Free Will In Heaven? by onlyinJESUS: 4:42pm On May 16, 2020

Mdmelijah:
there is free will on earth
The Lord's prayer: let God's will be done on earth

now the question is, isn't God's will done here on Earth?

Christianity Etc › Re: Is There Free Will In Heaven? by onlyinJESUS: 8:28pm On May 15, 2020

xcabczyxabczzzz:
Then everything is justifiable.

yes, including being punished for something you couldn't help.

Christianity Etc › Re: Is There Free Will In Heaven? by onlyinJESUS: 8:20pm On May 15, 2020

xcabczyxabczzzz:
Thought?

There's no free will here on Earth

Art, Graphics & Video › Re: 4gb Ram, Core I3. Good Enough For Adobe Illustrator?? by onlyinJESUS: 11:48am On May 15, 2020

qodwynn:
2.8GHz. Good enough?

Very good

Art, Graphics & Video › Re: New Whatsapp Group For Designer And Creatives by onlyinJESUS: 7:41am On May 15, 2020

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