codemaniacs:


Every part of this country can survive and prosper without the other parts, they don't need each other at all only parasitic, manipulative and covetous people say every part needs the others to survive.

Igbos didn't develop any part of Lagos.. Lagos has a development and infrastructure masterplan it follows created by Yoruba leaders who use the revenue Lagos earns to build it's infrastructure..

There are oil producing states in Nigeria who don't spend the revenue they earn on infrastructure and are less developed than Lagos..

will you blame the Yorubas for the under-development and bad infrastructure of oil producing states and other states in Nigeria

Lagos can make so much money and still have bad infrastructure if the Yoruba leaders in Lagos steal Lagos blindly..

Is it Igbos that are signing road construction contracts in Lagos?

Is it Igbos that are signing rail construction contracts in Lagos?

Is it Igbos that are drafting the development plan of LGAs in Lagos?

Is it Igbos that foreign investors will set up meetings with in Lagos?

Stop saying nonsense..

It's useless having any intelligent argument with a tribal bigot like you. Anyways those that are your leader in the SW know better or should know better than you. Have a good life if you can.

codemaniacs:


the SW is not a comfort zone it is Yoruba territory and geographical location and it is the duty of Yorubas to build, upgrade and develop their territory.. It is not Yoruba duty to go and build and develop other people's territories because Yorubas are not greedy and coveteous of other people's belongings..

BAT is not going to rule this country because all the Yorubas voted for him, same way Buhari could not win when he was getting all the northern votes. Every part of this country needs the others to succeed. The igbos that you are against have majorly developed several parts of Lagos and even increased it's GDP and IGR. So whoever you are I employ you to see the bigger picture and stop being myopic in your world view. Abi if God opens the way for you to go to America today won't you like to own properties there? Is that your fatherland.

Yamiriflathead:

Although disappointing
Tinubu tried to hold Lagos with the figures he pulled so far. Lagos is the Capital of Southern Nigeria, so what were you expecting?
This was a fight between ibos+SS+woke yorubas against Tinubu supporters in Lagos who are mainly yorubas and maybe Hausas in Lagos.

I hope Tinubu and yorubas have learnt a bitter lesson from Lagos Elections not to befriend and feed a cub because it is homeless, hopeless, and dying. It will grow up and eat u up someday.

I'm happy yorubas can now sit down and ask qtns as to how they got everything wrong and redress it with BAT as President.

The take home from this defeat is..

Yorubas need to stop drafting non yorubas into the civil service and stop giving them prominent appointments. There are always technocrats who can always fit into any political office from the SW

Yorubas need to stop selling their lands to non yorubas in Lagos and SW

Yorubas need to stop giving out local government of origins to non yorubas in Lagos

Yorubas need to stop allowing non-yorubas contest for Elections in Lagos or SW

Yorubas need limit the numbers of voters registration of non yorubas going on in Lagos, they care so much about Lagos and don't care if their homes rot, Henceforth let them go home and vote. They can't come and dictate to you on how to govern urselves after creating an enabling environment for them to thrive.

Contain them politically, Period!

Congratulations to the incoming President of Nigeria BAT the ASIWAJU of Lagos for winning the most Free and fair Elections since our Nascent Democracy nothwitstanding

Yorubas should also stop behaving like the ostrich and advance their frontiers into other places by been a little bit more nomadic. You people like your comfort zones too much.

He might be experiencing a past life spill over and he's able to recollect because of his age but he will begin to forget as he grows older. Reincarnation is a true phenomenon.

Toks2008:
Gum chewing is not a bad thing as long as you do it in peace without constituting nuisance with it.

No matter the love I have for any lady, once she develops the habit of incessantly chewing and popping gums in her mouth loudly,i will humbly walk out of her life if she refuses to change.

I don't know if I'm the only guy with a
Misophonia for loud gum chewing and popping.

I could run mad if I stay in a place with such a sound.

Misophonia is a real condition. I also react the same way when my wife chews gums around me.

if this were to be true, is it by writing letter that they will do their work. this DSS sef.

For those of you calling Nigeria cursed and still expecting the land to yield for you, sorry o. Many of you don't even have anything productive to give to the nation yet you are expecting hugh returns on no investment. No be here Wizkid, Burna boy and co dey make their money. Nigeria is blessed for those who count it so and cursed for those who says it is. Chikena.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....
To be sincere i nor see any difference here o

My man, your eyes dey sharp

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalists would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

the white wedding that we consider as Christian wedding is actually the English traditional wedding, Jews don't wed in like manner as the English because they also have their traditional wedding, so what is wrong with our own traditional wedding

are you a passive parent? your son is at a age when they are able to negotiate what they want with some ruthless tactics, but most parents just see them as children throwing tantrums. I advise you begin to be more assertive with him and let him see certain favours as benefit of obedience.

Bros no vex, I guess your wife just wanted to hit you where it will hurt you well because your response to her actions wasn't what she expected. why don't you mention it to her how much her words hurt you, because keeping it to yourself might cause resentment to build up.

sapele914:
You lack common sense comprehension? Was it not POTUS that instigated those criminals to match on Capitol Hill? The insurrectors both in Yankee & Nigeria must be put on trial.

who is this idiot to say someone lacks common sense, did you read my comment well at all or you just didn't comprehend what I wrote. no talk anyhow because you be sapele whatever no let me drop uwvie groove for your head o

what is this one saying, twisting the truth... like in America, was it not FGN officials that escalated the "endsars" protest, now this idiot is calling it a regime change.

"the gift of a man makes way for him", so says the scripture. a little bit of emotional intelligence could have helped this bro. nothing wrong in taking a little gift to your prospective mother-in-law. bro wasn't wise.

atimes I feel like slapping sense into this narcissistic brother's head. his mind control techniques are on another level.

SilverNorGold:
For once, I must admit that President Muhammadu Buhari has failed... President Buhari has failed WOEFULLY to deal ruthlessly with this anarchist parading himself as a Bishop! Too bad and I am highly disappointed in him!..

Instead of you to do justice, you are merely issuing warnings? Really? Is it until these pharisees and sadducees burn down Nigeria before you understand they are criminals and terrorists hiding under the cloak of religion to unleash mayhem? Please DO SOMETHING URGENTLY! beloved father! Save us! Save Nigeria! Deal ruthlessly with enemies of this great country!

May God grant you the strength and wisdom to flush them out!

God bless all patriotic Nigerians.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria!

Who is this one, can't you see that your daddy bubu has already set Nigeria on fire... Shior

Islie:
Kannywood Actress, Zainab Abdullahi, Asks Northerners To Kill Nigerian Activist, Aisha Yesufu



https://saharareporters.com/2020/10/24/kannywood-actress-zainab-abdullahi-asks-northerners-kill-nigerian-activist-aisha-yesufu

Even if she's a Jew, does that give you the right to condemn someone to death... Yeye things in the name of religion

Difrent:


you see why people are saying its the Ibos behind the Sacking of the Oba palace........who make you people the mouthpiece of the yoruba?, can any yoruba in iboland lead people to burn down the palace of a traditional ruler?......you all have been saying the king is this is that to his subjects but its THE IBOS that kept pushing the narrative, WHY? because of your hidden agenda, your lord abino has commanded and you have obeyed...........there will be consequences

Consequences kee you there..

@DenreleDave Shut up, who is this one. Why didn't you go out and stop your brothers from the looting and arson that has been going on in Lagos since. You come here to spew rubbish and blame others for nothing. You think there are no Yoruba's frustrated with tinubu style of leadership. Keyboard warrior oshi.

@DenreleDave
Shut up, who is this one. Why didn't you go out and stop your brothers from the looting and arson that has been going on in Lagos since. You come here to spew rubbish and blame others for nothing. You think there are no Yoruba's frustrated with tinubu style of leadership. Keyboard warrior oshi.

myBraine:
Typical Nigerian mentality.

Can't an accomplished politician prosper in peace again?

A man that singlehandedly built Lagos from scratch doesn't deserve to own a mansion. Now I know how backward people's reasoning are in this part of the world.

sharap, which Lagos did he build from scratch.

I wonder how these set of people sleep at night after spewing illogical analogies like the one ascribed to Garba Shehu, its the first time I'm hearing that tax from herdsmen and farmers now subsidise our petrol imports. God, what do these guys drink in the villa that makes them loss all sense of decent reasoning

Xisnin:

Have you ever seen how Alphas behave in the wild?
Especially to "inferior" strangers?

Oga, five men raping an eleven year old has nothing to do with been alpha males, those guys are just animals. please read more about the characteristics of an alpha male. thank you.

Xisnin:
Alpha males strike again.
This isn't just rape, it takes extreme hatred to behave this wild.

please stop clothing them in borrowed garbs. these are not alpha males, they are cowards

feelme2020:


A lot of young people will see this and will want to go into immorality and pornography.
They are rewarding irresponsible behavior.
How about a reality show for Inventors. There are many inventors in Nigeria and Nigeria needs to develop
in Science and Technology. Why not reward people for inventing things

cash price for an inventors reality show might not exceed N1million

it is the action and inaction of those in authority that makes the ordinary citizens believe that covid19 does not exist in Nigeria and people are beginning to go about there normal lives.

hashtagged:
I wonder the simp who invented kneelimg down

it is an English tradition called chivalry

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state. I came to this state, as an intern and thereafter, still served here and in the course of all these, I thought out and established a laundry business, which is just about 8 months old. This was to keep life going and to better bond well with the lady in my life currently.

While in Edo state, having rounded my internship & kickstarting service sometime around 2017, I met this Kiki Osemudiamen (Name changed), and it was nothing serious at 1st, cos I never really thought I'd date someone here, fact is that I never thought I'd stay beyond my service year. I met her while she was in 200l. We encouraged each other, she saw potentials and had faith in me just like I have so much faith in her. She is simplistic, encourages me to save and I in turn, encouraged her and guided her through some of her studies. She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

Problem is that she came from a not buoyant family financially, and although both parents are alive, she struggles to survive/feed daily. Her dad supplies about 1000litres/trip water to households, while her mum sells at the local market. I on the other hand, came from a middle class family but my Dad is late since 2012, and I've been a sponsor of my education and that of my younger ones through the lil I inherited (which mum manages for now) plus my various endeavours. She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

The latest challenge came about, yesterday. While she slept in the shop, I was out on errand, someone sneaked into the shop and stole her android phone with all of her e-medics textbooks (she reads mostly e-copies because she can't afford hardcopies), she has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do. Since I knew her, She'd been an appendage and an extra financial burden to me, I can't begin to list what I've done for her, although I kept reminding her never to not have entitlement mentality and she does appreciate. Out of desperation to ease her pain, I promised to sponsor her in getting a new phone. I have burdens, huge ones, I'm yet to acquire a diesel engine for my laundry (I use ponytail industrial iron which has higher voltage/current than normal ones), plus other related merchandise that I need to set up and I feel like she slows down my financial pace.

Honestly, I don't do all these for her, hoping for any personal gains, in the words of my daddy in the Lord, Prophet T.B. Joshua, He said and I quote: "We make a living by what we get and we make a life by what we give" but I am almost fed up and tired, especially when I remember that both her parents are still alive.. I am scared that that for the 1st time, I may fail her in that financial obligation because I honestly need money now, with the whole pandemic issue plus, I feel like she slows me down in life financially and a huge burden to me. Right now, she's so attached to me, more so that when I initially wanted to hault our relationship, it almost nearly affected her academics negatively. Please I need matured minds to help me think this through and garnish me with advice(s) because I almost feel so choked up and a rising urge to relocate from here, so i can breathe again.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.

Modified: She went to her bank (First bank) this morning, only to be informed that about 20k (Her mum's business money) has been used to purchase recharge voucher. Her mum sends/receives money from distant customers through her account. Yesterday's scenario, all over again. Please folks, lock your SIM cards just as much as you lock your phones. Learn from this painful experience please.

being responsible for another human being is not a small burden especially when you are trying to find your feet in life but it also defines who we are and who will become in life. the whole essence of a lifetime is to grow in our humanity. so brace up brother this is just one of the assignments that life will trust at you in this your sojourn on earth, moreover you can never tell how God has planned to use this to favour you in future, just be upfront and honest in your dealings with her. as per her phone, you can get her a functional Android phone that will not bite you much. good luck to you bruv.

MiamiePizza:
Had to pause the music I'm playing so I could give a better advice.
See ehn, this life nobody is 100%, that is no one is perfect. One of the holy books says 'To err is human but to forgive is divine'.
They say love is blind, you know what that means? it means when you in love with someone, you don't see no fault in whatever they do.

This your case, I'm not sure you really love her. If you do really love her you'll forgive whatever she's done in the past and forget also all the pains, disgrace she's caused. What you get for this lady isn't love(I'm sorry) its just emotions, and you know one thing about emotions, it comes and goes.

Marriage isn't what one rush into, you take your time when choosing a life partner. You don't want to marry her now and divorce her later (maybe 2, 3yrs time). Marry who you truly love so you enjoy and not endure your marriage.
If you can't forgive her and let go of the pains, please don't marry her.

the girl has always loved him but she was just immature at some point. I had encountered such in my younger years.

proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

bros, it is not strange to see a 24yo behaving childishly but she truly could have matured in the last 2 years. so if you truly like her don't let your ego stand in the way of your future happiness. just observe her a little more before taking the plunge

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

ehya, see how someone is pressing your mumu button anyhow, you better wake up and smell the coffee dude.

UniqueQueen12:
Lol. Okay make I go sell my car

Noooo o