Is she clean...?I mean down there..panties and all
manos: Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.
The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.
I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)
For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.
The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."
I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her. While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.
This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.
There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.
0truthseeker: I just complement my Typhoid/Malaria treatment only drug no drip, used the last tab this morning. But before then, I frequently urinate, at most an hour after drinking water, I assume it may be of Typhoid or Season, I worried less for my physician(nurse) to do.
Forward to this night i had expect the frequent urinating to have reduced but negative. I was scared it my be symptoms of Diabetics, out curiosity i had a taste from finger touch, the urine taste just like ordinary water, i wasn't convince so i pee in me had to have a lick, the was the same pure water.
Could this be result of previous medication or I should see doctor
Bros..u sabi book.Abeg help me ask dem o..without social distancing numbers keep going down.
PapaNnamdi: The govt will do anything with your intelligence because they know in this part of the world,
Majority of the population don't use it..
I need one of those ncdc staff doing make believe on this platform to explain to us how the cases have continued to reduce all of a sudden even without people observing the guidelines..
hedonister: Hello Everyone, so today i will be showing you what Ikoyi looks like in 2020. I took a drive all the way through Alfred Rewane Road in Ikoyi.
Ikoyi is the most affluent neighborhood of Lagos, located in Eti-Osa Local Government Area.It lies to the northeast of Obalende and adjoins Lagos Island to the west, and at the edge of the Lagos Lagoon. Popular with the extreme upper class residents of Nigerian society, Ikoyi is arguably one of the wealthiest communities within Nigeria. It still beats me why the yorubas dont want a country of their own.
It is also home to some of the Richest Nigerians such as Mike Adenuga, Aliko Dangote and Folorunsho Alakija as well as Celebrities such as Linda Ikeji and Davido.
slyfox35: This lockdown has been hard on almost everyone, any money you use for foodstuff, your pocket go feel am.
Apparently, this family of five have been staying at one corner in my compound without paying rent.
Some guys came today to fix the mosquito nets on the windows when they spotted the den of these animals.
Na so we descend on their den with water,we eventually caught four,one remaining inside, their Papa I guess,that guy stubborn gan,upon all the water,e nor come out,no wahala, he should be there, I have collected my rent in kind.
They call it African Giant Rat, We call it Rabbit Ofiontor.
My man..these are rats!!Lassa fever still dey o..no take am joke.
kenzysmith: This girl rape me four years ago in school when she called me on phone to come to her room to help her get drugs that she was sick, that she want to give me money i went there innocently to collect the money to buy the drugs , when i entered her room i noticed the room was neatly arrange spray with a nice spray and she was playing love song with her laptop she was laughing when she saw me i was like where is the money for the drugs she told me she was not sick this girl was putting On mini nighty gown she gave me food and coke to blend the food which i ate then she started rowing her waist on my face i look at her in amaze i told her i want to go this girl rush to the door lock the door put the key in her pant i was i like what are you doing she push me to the bed i told her i don't ve condom she remove my belt drag my trousers down and climb on my erected dick will went like 2 rounds. i haven't report this to anyone i cried the next day when i went to my hostel cause it was my second time of havIng sex and the ist time i was rape. her pictures