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Stop dodging and answer the question. Why are you constantly questioning the Bible?

Before i answer your post, may i ask you this? Why are you constantly questioning the Bible?? What do you think it is comic book or something? I bet you are on of those people who reads "The Da Vinci Code" religiously.

Just as the shawty before me said, it wouldn't happen to me, EVER!!! and even if it did, there is no way in hell im telling a soul. It will go to the grave with me, and only My Savior will know my dirty little secret.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155315.msg2579167#msg2579167 date=1217384357]Onyinye, when was the last time you were flogged?? I can see that you intend to exercise some kind of authority over your husband that even God did not give you. All this your talk and gragra will only work if you are married to an effeminate man.
Whatever happened to you being submissive and all that stuff in the bible.[/quote]Ahh submissive ko, stuff ni. I don't intend having authority over any but the kids. You can do your little man things you know. Go pay the bills, wash the car, mow the lawn, but i have say so too. Somethings will go my way and that will always involve the cleaning. And i hope i mean i sincerely hope by you asking when i was last "disciplined" doesn't imply that you are a wife beater.

StephenP:
I am saying you should talk to him and let him know the importance and why he should do it because he may not know that the place is filthy as opposed to turning off the TV while he is watching it. See what I mean?

Hmmm, not really. By the time a man marries me, he will know my ways. And that is im a neat freak. So he should know the standards i expect our house to be. I mean i wont imediately run and turn the television off when the house is mildly dirty. I will nicely ask him to help me straighten up the house. But every coin has two sides. If the house is screwed up and WAY below my standards, Tv off, video games off, radio off, computer off, cell phone off. We have some cleaning to do.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155315.msg2579137#msg2579137 date=1217383300]This just goes to show the nature of women.

If the man does not fulfil his duties as the breadwinner of the house, he is a bum. If a woman does not fulfil her role as the house-keeper, it's because the man wouldnt help around the house.[/quote]Oh dont give me any of that lame played out psychology. You are just using your self proclaimed "title" as an excuse to be a lazy slacker.

StephenP:
Onyinye, you need to know how to work a man to make him do housework. You don't just turn off the TV and stand in front of him and make him do it; you'll end up in the ICU.

Like I said, I don't mind doing housework; cooking once in a while, doing laundry, dishes and vacuuming. I can't dust and clean cause of my allergies. Wash the car, mow the lawn if I don't have a gardener (I most likely would).

I strongly don't agree with the whole ICU comment. If some one is going to go to the ICU, it aint gonna be me. All im saying is i like my space clean. Not just getting by, CLEAN. that is just how i was raised. I mean i wouldn't just go up to my husband like when the Super Bowl is on, oka that is just plain stupidity. But if i see the house i dirty as a freaking shelter, oh hell yeah im going to put every thing off.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155315.msg2579126#msg2579126 date=1217382932]Not at all, but hey, look at you already planning on destroying me just because I wouldnt do the dishes. Imagine what you would do for the money    


You seem to be forgeting who married who. I am the boss. Thats why you bear my name. Thats why I paid for you.[/quote]I don't give a damn about your money. I aint going to be no housewife so don't even bother yourself.

You aint the boss of me. Maybe the kids, but me. tisk.

HCH3COO:
200% serious.

False.

dreeldee:
only a man without an ego will succumb sheepishly to your order "Nope, when i say it is time to clean, we all clean." and i'm still wondering if they exist (definitely not Nigerian-African)

Fine, so you want me to keep the house dirty, oka.

HCH3COO:
Onyinye, you need to understand that I get to decide when to turn it off.  I am the househead.

Ha ha ha!!!! You're kidding right?? last i heard a marriage was a partnership not a dictatorship

dreeldee:
onyinye, just pray and hope that you don't end up with men like me (millions of us) and i'm still wondering if you wont except you marry an oyinbo man otherwise you'll calm down

Just because i want you to get off you lazy behind and clean??

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155315.msg2579108#msg2579108 date=1217382527]And you will be back in your fathers house faster than you can spell "DESTROY", with nothing _{(THANKS TO THE PRE-NUPT   )}[/quote]You really want to bring up that pre nupt thing again, abi?

StephenP:
You been dangerously misled.

This is how i was raised. When my mom said it was time to clean, t.v. went off, radio off, everything off. Then we would all go get a mop, broom, something that involved cleaning.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=155315.msg2579087#msg2579087 date=1217382152]Who made you the boss??[/quote]the day you say "I Do"

HCH3COO:
This is silly!!! You are basically pushing me out to commit adultery.  You will be held responsible for the sin.

I don't tolerate slackers. Either get with the program or starting eating box dinners.

@Okija
I would destroy your ego if i was your wife.

dreeldee:
No girl said that to me i only gave an example. [b]personally i don't see anything wrong in assisting my wife in doing the house chores but i'll do it only If and when i want to do it. [/b]The issue of cleanliness, i take it seriously so i guess my concern about that will be reflected in assisting with the house chores. infact what are we talking about here, technology has made everything easy, only in the days of the earlier generations that these things seem like a heavy/difficult task, now with the press of a button, all is clean and set so no qualms.

Nope, when i say it is time to clean, we all clean.

HCH3COO:
What consequences, onyin?

I will feed my children and myself, and exclude you. Don't even think about sex, that will become foreign. And the silent treatment shall last until you clean your mess.

Joseph6:
well i disagree wit u on that one, most gays hit on u within 2 hours of meetin them true talk oh

So when you meet a girl, you don't hit on her??

StephenP:
Stuff is whatever I want I want it to be.

Oh okay i see. All i know when it is time to clean, that "stuff" will be put aside.

HCH3COO:
Clean it or leave it messy, you are the neat freak not me.

When i say it is time to clean, all previous activities end. Or else suffer the consequences.

HCH3COO:
lol onyin, would it make you feel any better if i was playing video games instead?

No, because i love video games as much as the next guy, but when i say it is time to clean the house, you besta save your file and turn it off.

StephenP:
I don't mind helping out to do chores and stuff.

What is "stuff"?

HCH3COO:
Nope! I meant so you shouldn't complain about doing the chores.

I wouldn't complain cause i love having a clean house. I will only complain when your lazy behind is on the couch eating Doritos while him sweeping the floor.

Gaby i see what you are talking about. If someone wants to be gay, let them. There is NOTHING you can do to change that. One of my male friends is gay. He is a very nice person and caring but he was at first straight. Went out with girls and had relationships with them. Then one day he told me that he just started having these feelings that he couldn't understand. So he tried to reject it but eventually it caught up with him. Then he finally admitted he was gay. His mom was supported his decision, while his dad sent him to a shrink for therapy. But nothing the shrink could do made him change. Unfortunately his father wouldn't except that so they lost ties with each other. He is still gay till this day and has a male partner. It is his choice and i respect him for that. Do i believe what he is doing is right according to the Bible, no, but who am i to judge?

dreeldee:
we do but you ladies do it a whole lot more than the men

Oh watever. The simple things a woman does goes unnoticed. She will take of the kids, you, cook, clean, work,keep herself looking good. All taking for granted.