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HCH3COO:
Don't make it seem as if women don't do this too.  Dare I say it's even worse on the part of ye women.  Spend 50 hours at a mall deciding if the pink sock is better than the white sock.

Oh watever, any senseable women knows if she can't decide between the two, you buy both.lol. anyways you know what i said previously is true. Guys go around saying they want this women who compliments them and is down to earth and what have you. but who do they go and date, the complete opposite.

syren:
Lol I can never understand them, myself  

The go around saying "Women are so complicated. they want this, they want that. they don't know what they want" Whatever guys have no clue what they want in women. They say they want down to earth chic, and go date the black version of Paris Hilton. Abeg these men can drive a woman crazy.

Orimili:
Great response. I was actually thinking about that. The best change is a slow change, but today, people want instant gratification, and that is problematic. The civil rights movement in America is a good reference point, but there has to be an effective way to rid people of such mentality.

You would think people will see what happened in Zimbabwe as an example. Their tyrant of a president wanted results so fast that he ultimately set his country back then actually moving forward. To rid people of this mentality takes time, support, and God. I feel if one person would just stand up and see "You know what, im tired of waiting for the gov't to fix our roads. Why don't i just raise a fund and fix them ourselves." But you see people don't want to do that. They don't wanna do anything without receiving something first. I mean the country has so much to offer but all is put to nothing because the mentality of the people and gov't are holding it back.

syren:
@ Hannibal

how is a woman being popular a turn off? I'm confused. If she gets on well with people surely that's better than a social outcast right?

don't mind these men. they don't know what they want.

michelin89:
@ topic

That's why women shouldn't be let out of the kitchen. Give them an inch and they'll take a yard.

More like a mile.lol.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=154623.msg2562076#msg2562076 date=1217093624]Hire thugs to rape him!

Then kick him to the curb [/quote]At least you said thugs not Goons.

Orimili:
I agree, but for this to be a success, we would all have to put all our effort into it. Leave other people's problems alone and focus on the ones we have, so that we can effectively fix them. That would be a step in the right direction.

In theory, it sounds nice. But in order to make change, you have to first change the mentality of the people. Alot of the people have this false sense of pride mentality that "if you don't do something for me, then i aint doing nothing for you" we have to first tackle that then start building up the country. Just look at the Civil Rights Movement in America. They first started with the mentality of the black americans to show them they are worth more than what these people are treating them. When they understood that, that is when things started to change.

HCH3COO:
The most important word in your sentence came last: sometimes .
What gives you the audacity to determine who makes a good friend or not. I am sure your friends put up the many flaws you exhibit.

What flaws are you trying to say i have?

@baby4u2
AA don't say "mom". they say "ma" instead.

HCH3COO:
It's not my duty to judge their character or insult their flaws.  They are no more different from you and me so why shouldn't I associate with them?  You have a penchant for bad boys despite their bugged attitude (you call it swagger); comparably, they have this swagger for doing stuffs like that.   Not saying it's okay.

As the post says "You are only as good as who you date". well it is still the same with friends. "You are only as good as who you hang with" sometimes.

HCH3COO:
A lot of my friends have dated girls below their standards just for rebounds.

And you associate yourself with these people?

Why would i blame the girl?? If she is being raped, then it is not her fault. Has for my husband, i will give him a ten second head start before i . . .

ahh sisi that is one of my favorite songs. and it surely speaks the truth. When you finally find a man you feel fits that total package of "Homie, Lover, Friend" then you dismiss everything your friends and family say. You feel that they don't know what they are talking about and just trying to become an obstacle in your relationship. In your eyes, you see this incredible man that in a sense completes you. Even when things start getting dark, you still can't leave. He has a hold on you. Not a physically hold but emotional. The memories of the times you spent together, how you held hands in the park, and fell asleep on the phone. You know things aren't how they use to be but, you love him. He is your other half and what would you been with out him. But are you when you are with him?

@poster

Yes there are some ladies that rather hold on to memories of when times were good and romantic. So they stay thinking that some how things will go back how they use to be. Men do the same thing too. But you can't say that deceit is instilled in a woman's brain as if we have no common sense.

@post

it is a yes and no topic. As they say opposites do attract. You can find love or what have you in people you wouldn't normally associate yourself with. But on the other hand, lets say you is a lady that some how only gets love from them no good thugs. If this consistantly happens, then there obviously a message that you is sending that brings them over.

Hannibal:
I am yet to meet a better math disciple.
Einstein has nuthing on me. . . . . . I would school u in math.

Ahh math is boring to me. History and English is my thing. you stick with your numbers. . . even though you have given a bad impression of your math skillz with your recent post.

Hannibal:
A resounding YES but the chances are very slim.

Probability of finding a faithful woman-----1/10,000
Probability of finding a faithful man---------1/8,000

Probability of finding both=1/10,000 X 1/8,000.
You do the math.

You get an F as a grade for math. you need to go to tutorials.

HCH3COO:
You contradict yourself. You mentioned on the other thread that you like to run your mouth to air what's on your mind. If I can't stand it i can always walk away ; it's easy.

I said i was quick at the mouth when im angry, but as you can see brutha, i aint angr.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=2990.msg2561728#msg2561728 date=1217089024]Was the bolded part an error?[/quote]Oka thanks for pointing that out. That was an extreme error.

HCH3COO:
I hope that will be the day you repent and stop running your mouth.    I don't think that's going to happen.

I don't run my mouth. I just say what i feel. if you can't stand it, then sit down.

Oka im not saying that im attracted to dudes that steal cars and rob old ladies. It is just that swagger, that attitude about them. But i just feel every guy has a little bad in him no matter how much he tries to deny it. Some just have more than others.

HCH3COO:
I can easily be an alpha male without hoisting the label of a bad boy.

you an alpha male? dat will be the day.

ibkaye:
@topic
by the way, it is not 'always', just sometimes, being a 'bad boy' is not what gets me attracted, it just adds to the interest, only sometimes

truth in that

Hannibal:
Must one steal, rob, kill and rape to be a bad boy??

Tell that to HCH3COO.

ibkaye:
Hmm, bad boys, it depends in what aspect you are talking sha, in some areas, it can be damn sexy

you speak some truth.

gabrywyl:
uhm. . . . I actually have no complaints in a man provided he has a good personality and thats all.The rest am not bothered ohhh. . .

Yeah personality means alot but for me, i like athletic guys. or guys who atleast care enough to keep in shape.

HCH3COO:
like what? steal a car    i don't get what you mean.  it's vague  

Yeah i would go and steal a car next we will go rob a corner store at night

albridge:
I couldnt agree with you more, its think your very correct. girls are used to behaving like the perfect creature, like angels when no dey mess, when in actual fact they are not. Thats why they preffer being with bad boys who will allow them to express their dark side and not expect anything better from them.

Wow he got it right on spot. I don't know but something about bad boys are just alluring to me. I know at the end of the day, they aint nothing buy a bad boy. but it is so exciting to be with one you know. like you do things you wouldn't dare do with any other type of guy. But i also know that i truly only see the potential of them being a "good" boy. so you try to change them but you can take a bad boy from his life style but you can't take out the bad in him.

tunslala:
@every body

    me as a person i don't love by mouth
i love by believing
      i make sure i enter uy pusssy
before i agree

Please dismiss yourself from this topic.

rampant:
@topic

what r d things women like most in men?ok

the pocket,

the bankaccount

the owo,kudi

the cars

the mansion



and so on,or im i wrong?

yes you are wrong.

ayo84:
what does a girl really want ?

she wants someone who will make her laugh always and ease her stress

someone with a great sense of humor

someone who is financially independent and socially stable.

and someone who will make her wild fantasies come true

right on spot!!

rampant:
u will and u must,it helps prepare u for d big day

That day is FAR from now. and besides i rather learn on the job, then practice.

ibkaye:
not from experience o!  

i just sabi wetin my aunty dey yarn about

that is one class i aint willing to take.