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sistawoman:
Rampant and I both just told you we get more toasting than our made up girlfriend's when we go out.  How much more side by side do we need to be?

Do you mean when you go out at night, or in broad day light??

rampant:
says who onyinye?

It is just what i have noticed. more and more as time goes on.

Im not saying there isn't any guy who doesn't like woman "natural", but i bet if you put two woman up on a line up. I bet you the girl with the make up on will get more compliments then the girl who goes "natural"

michelin89:
Bury as in dead and gone?

Because I think at some point the girl will want something else in her mouth.

Gurlie, you is a freak!!!

Any guy that says he rather see his woman natural is a bold face liar. You know good and well that you love seeing your woman all made up, hair permed, glamed up. so i don't wanna hear any "I love my woman natural and simple" because i knew if any woman walked by you looking "natural" you wouldn't even give her the second look. But if a lady walked by you with her make up on and glamed up you would stop and stare.

triistar86:
Have we thought of asking ourselves why the gay people didn't go ahead to form a Muslim gathering rather than attaching themselves to Christianity. The answer is not far fetched Christianity is an Open religion. So many people find there way into the church because they bliv that Christianity can afford them the chance to turn a new leaf and live a righteous life more easily than any other religion. Hence the gay people also adopted it and tried or are still trying to frame up holiness in their disgusting act by claiming to be Christians too. I recommend that they also form a Muslim gathering for their Muslim folks too(if any comes out publicly) so they can see wrath of the muslim community(No harm intended to my Muslim brothers).

I aint against anybody being gay, But must you attach yourself to a religion. can't you guys form another religion so You wont have to go through any persecutions from people and with that you guys can enjoy urselves to the maximum.
No body was born a gay. The primary aim of marriage between a man and a woman it to procreate, Is this possible with gay marriages, if not for the advent of adoption can homosexuals give birth or have children? So why are they married or engaged.

Why would a normal human being put his d**k in another guy's asshole all in the name of sexuality, even with the advent of diff STDs, why would I want to go through that kind of torture when God has already designed everything for us in the best possible way.
Are these guys forgetting that there are more females out there compared to males waiting to get hooked to a guy and enjoy sex naturally in God's own fashioned way.

GOD HAVE MERCY ON US[b]_{(why we dey always try to vex God with our ways of life,make we just dey grateful say the Guy no be like us)}[/b]

Truly questionable.

Joseph6:
ok diedre and onyinye we get your point so u guys shld shut it andstop arguing for peter petrelli's sake

Who's arguing?? we are just saying out point of view.

dreeldee:
Does this means that we should allow immorality to continue to grow among us all in the name of not wanting to judge others? Saying it out doesn't mean we're judging them, if we are then what about Pastors who preach against all forms of Sins, are they judging us by telling us what's right and what's wrong?

What im trying to say is that if one has fallen into being gay, adultery, so an so forth, who am i to judge them? That is there life not mine. If they want to be gay, so be it. Doing i believe being gay is a good thing, no, but if the person next to me is, am i going to judge them. I might tell them that the bible doesn't support being gay and leave it as that. I have a friend who is gay i don't look down upon him. That is his life, not mine. As for your pastor comment, pastor's don't judge people. There job is to spread the word to those willing to receive it. They might point out to a gay person that being gay is not right and still don't judge them for it because they know there is a higher power for that. Im not saying we should turn our backs on this but im just saying that when a person decides they are officially gay, there is very little you can do to change that.

HCH3COO:
Yeah onyin, I understand your point   .  It works very well here in America.  I'll be very interested in knowing what becomes of that church if it really is in Nigeria.  The country as a whole is too religious to leave it alone.  

If you are talking about the previous Anglican church i went to that the Bishop was gay, it is located in Houston. It is closed now. go figure.

HCH3COO:
onyinye, not being judges does not stop us from spreading the true word of God.

True but if one does not want to receive it, there isn't much you can do. When it is there time to state their peace to God, then He will decide their fate. Not me. I can go around quoting bible versus towards the gay community, and i bet i might only connect to probably one percent. Anyways as i said earlier, i went to an Anglican church that had a gay Bishop. Although we went there only once until we relocated to another Anglican church, i didn't judge the man. Im not saying that what he was doing wasn't wrong, but i didn't judge him for it. If he wants to be a gay Bishop, all the power to him. I will not be the one to judge him, there is a higher power for that.

dreeldee:
The days of Sodom and Gomorrah is back, this time even worse. Lots of people don't see anything wrong now in being gay but one thing is certain, the fact that everybody is doing something wrong doesn't/can never make it right. Christianity does not support Homosexuality

Leviticus 18:22, 24 "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind, it is abomination. Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things"

I don't care if you lie with your fellow man or even animals but what i care about is associating such despicable act with Christianity which is very much against it.

Whatever man/woman wants to do is their decision. Who am i to judge? am i God? i will continue to do me and when judgment day comes, you go and speak for your defense against the almighty God.

Ahh negro, getting in touch with his poetic side.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=152170.msg2567765#msg2567765 date=1217214997]I believe the gays should go to church on Sunday. seems more befitting.[/quote]They can go to church, i just wonder what church will accept? well i guess gays in the states have opportunities to go to church.

My family once went to this Anglican that allowed the Bishop to be gay. of course my father didn't allow us to go back, but alot of naija people continued to go. But of course, the church eventually lost members as time went on because they were split on the issue. I personally at the time didn't see the problem with the man being gay but as i grew older in my new Anglican church,i understood why my father didn't allow us to go back.

But i feel you can get through a child without getting physical with them. I knew plenty of bad ass little kids in school who changed because of strict teachers who were on them on all the time. and never once hit them. And besides i just don't see it as right. i mean hitting a child that aint yours.

Orimili:
Very true. If not by itself, other opportunists are willing to lend a helping hand in the destruction. You think European colonization is bad? Wait until the Chinese begin taking advantage of the mess that is going on. If people continue as they are now, we will have nothing. The best way would definitely involve the younger generation, especially with education of developing situations. I'm actually going to have a talk with a couple of people about putting something together in my area.

Good luck with what that idea. But i do fear that such countries like China will see the country as another dollar to add to their pocket. The country has potential but potential as to be in act at some point and time. Before what little potential you had before is demolished.

@post
Yeah im definately glad that i went to school in the states. I mean i don't think i could deal with the knowledge of knowing that my teacher could instantly come and "discipline" for doing something wrong. I guess it would make kids straighten up in a sense but i don't want to go to school in fear. School is suppose to be a place you feel safe and able to learn not feel that you might get "disciplined" for something you did that day. Then go home and deal with more punishment.

KarmaMod:
If anyone has attitude it's you.

You're always looking to fight someone and frankly the whole facade is boring.

I asked you that question because it's obviously you are NOT aware of the trend of young girls going with old men/old men preying on younger girls. Has nothing to do with "arranged marriage" nowadays.

Oka cool your jets. i don't believe i was looking for any altercation. geez.

KarmaMod:
can you just answer the question?

If your question is when i last visited Nigeria, it was in December for my cousin's wedding. what is with all the attitude? geez

KarmaMod:
when last have you been to Nigeria?

Ever heard of internet??

4 Play:
Why won't aging men "prey" on younger Nigerian women when these women allow them to? Nigerian women just love money and sometimes,they have to pay the price.

Please don't put all naija women in one category. What if we put naija men in one category??

dudu19:
I think marriage is a sham for men. There is no benefit. If you are about to get married, think it over. Don't let your privates do your thinking for you. Don't let your punch-drunk I'm in love euphoria put you on auto-pilot. You will wake up in a hell of a hangover staring at this woman who will control your life.

Please stay single. you don't deserve the fruit of marriage.

Yeah i heard this on the news. I have to admit, it does sound like an arranged marriage. i mean 50 and 28. that has arranged marriage written all over it.

HCH3COO:
shut up is your favorite word.  you too shut up.  maybe you're on your period   .  Lighten up.

Whoa, that was mean. even for you.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=153004.msg2566702#msg2566702 date=1217193831]What r u? 5?

keep on wishing girlie, u're setting urselfup for a rude awakening [/quote]im going to be the bigger person and not say anything.

HCH3COO:
did someone ever tell you that some wishes are out of reach  

oh i was just playing. i know i can't get whatever i want. even if i deserve it. but i can't be selfish in marriage.

HCH3COO:
keyword: wish.

Didn't someone ever tell you that wishes do come true.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=153004.msg2566641#msg2566641 date=1217193007]I want my way. . . all the time[/quote]i truly wish things worked out that way.

I want to get married so i can settle down and start my own family. And wake up knowing that the guy right next to me is mine for life. Have kids and see them grow up. And finally have. . .

Hannibal:
Get a Naija guy to date and he should teach u the nitty-grittyz of a Naija kiss.

Whatever, such kiss probably don't even exist. if it does, May God help the poor soul you will experience it.

what is the naija kiss again?? you kiss then feed each other rice and stew?? i mean seriously what is it?

HCH3COO:
Truly questionable.  Unless you mean you know a lot of people that are employed at virgin nigeria.  I was told those people are called virgins too.

It is true. i know people who are 25 and over who are still virgins. as hard as that is to believe. i guess people who have morals is becoming an extinct group.

agaba123:
Acid never said so. Just asked you how old because an 18 year old who have not had sex should be commended but it is not very uncommon. If you are 25 and never did, then na de koko.

Well people dee do all sorts apart from penetration and they are still virgin ooo.

Abeg no vex lol

Truly questionable. maybe with the folk you hang around but i know alot of virgins who are 25 and over.