₦airaland Forum

dudu19:
@okija, Clearly, our society won't make it if men don't marry and don't have children, prenuptials have their limits. They work reasonably well in protecting assets from spouses, but mostly don't when it comes to child support and custody.

chika98:
It is very easy to say that marriage has its good and bad but no one really understands how horrible the bad is. You just have to experience it. By the way, a married man shouldn't go anywhere if the wife doesn't support the decision.

KarmaMod:
Are you sure (f) shouldnt be near your name?

LASIEFAIRE:
I can't do it ok, but I appreciate those who do. I don't see them as idiotic.

KarmaMod:
Doesnt make you any better. Point is you're a weeping coward.

Join them and maybe we'll take you seriously.

doyin13:
Mehnnothing more noble than putting your life on the line for your country.

HCH3COO:
Dude, I weep with you.

onyinye2:
I appreciate these people alot. But it is just that how do you expect me to hold it down at home while you are out fighting some war? how do you expect me to sleep at night when all im thinking about is that i might wake up to be surprised with news that my husband was killed by a suicidal bomber? How do you expect me to let go of him when he is about to deport into a foreign country?How do you expect me to tell the kids that daddy will come home safe and sound when i know there is a possibility he might not??

HCH3COO:
Onyin, you wouldn't even have a family when that bomb is dropped on your little hut.   Be glad you have people making the sacrifices to prevent that from happening  

HCH3COO:
Thank God the world is not completely filled with shallow thinkers.  We would all be dead right now.

davidylan:
One of my uncles, then a Major, had to go to Liberia for 3yrs with ECOMOG shortly after his first kid was concieved. The poor boy didnt know his own father until he was 4 but they all survived and are living happily today with 5 kids.

It all depends on if the woman is willing to make some sacrifice to allow her husband fulfill his dream.

KarmaMod:
It's not even the fact that the person could die

Have you seen how mentally damaged some of these people are? Nightmares? PTS? It's so depressing

and what do they have to show for all that? A stupid purple heart badge.

Come to the city and see this "veterans" begging around with their badges and half their limbs blown off.

Dont know how anyone would willingly put themselves in that mess

Plenty of rednecks that can take my dude's place.

Pataki:
Marriage is about give and take. You should be able to tolerate his absence for just 3 years.

Pataki:
Am always laughing whenever I read it from you.

Hannibal:
What is selfish in this arrangement.
The man wants to better himself in the job market and cater for his family. . . . . .and y'all are complaining.
Would u feel the same way if he was going to Prison??

Pataki:
You are now DISMISSED.

You have learnt from the MASTER tonight.

Hannibal:
It seems u are forgetting the fact that his degree would lead to a good job that would feed wives n kids.
Why are women not as far-sighted as men??

Pataki:
You learn things from comparison come on!

I have learnt a lot about life from playing that board game since my early teenage years.

Leilah:
The lady doesnt seem to mind at all!! For me now waaaayyy! just imagine all those stunning Ukrainian women!!

Not just that I would be lonely. There are four kids in this marriage.  

rampant:
its either we all go together or nothing else,simple

HCH3COO:
OMG! I just laid out what I would do.

I would much rather satisfy three years of her accomplishing her goals, than 70 years of hearing her whine that I blocked the path to her achievement.

HCH3COO:
See insecurities on display .

If my wife wants to move abroad to study and I trust her, she can go but has to make sure she visits, or lets me visit when I want during her three-year program o.

KarmaMod:
would you ask a dude to get a blow-up doll in the absence of his wife?

ibkaye:
Yeah I feel you, of course majority o guys will go for the glammed up girl, not every girl has natural beauty, i was just totally against your previous statement 'Any guy that says he rather see his woman natural is a bold face liar.'   Sounded like you were generalizing. Just wanted to clear things up.