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HCH3COO:
Say what?   I'm a virgin so mind yourself.

Truly questionable.

HCH3COO:
If you're in a serious relationship then what does it cost you to tell him something traumatic has happened to you.  If the guy is truly in love with you he wouldn't see you as less of a woman.  It takes a lot of gut to cope with rape but both of you can work on it together.  Don't you think he'll notice the changes in your mood?  You could begin having nightmares, etc.
Ewu! Who said tell him all that on your first date?  Somewhere down the line you will communicate it to him. For my girl, I deserve to know, period.

You don't necessarily deserve to be told. you should know but you deserve it. it is her decision if she tells anyone or not. personally i would actually think i would most likely not tell him. maybe after years into the relationship.

same here ruby

I feel after you say "I do", certain things you did when you were just dating or single should be left alone. What is a married man doing clubbing when he should be at home with his family?

If you don't like it, that is up to you. just don't being going to any naija parties where they blast to music all the way up that you hear it down the street.

HCH3COO:
Don't you think you at least owe it to him to let him know something that important before he at least starts poking you?

This kind of issue isnt something you bring up on the first date. I mean you are eating and he is all like "tell me about yourself." and i would say "Well my name is Onyinye. im a med student. i was raped. im an athlete." you see it just doesnt work.

I don't think i would tell my man i was raped until i feel like i can fully trust him with such a burden of news. i mean it is a very sensitive topic and i don't know but it just would take a long time for me to get it out.

yeah i remember kids in my high school using that set of numbers and symbols. what freaky kids.

[quote author=pussy_full link=topic=154623.msg2565011#msg2565011 date=1217171001]i hope you will one day be the househelp in my house hold - i am sure you will rape me instead.[/quote]Keeping hoping youngsta. i only clean my own home. why would i rape you?? of all the people in the world, i will see interest in you? abeg go and educate yourself before you post these responses.

Pataki:
Interesting to read this from you.

What, do you have this perception of me that i wouldn't any chores in my own household??

stereo2:
Na dough be the thing jare because money gives you the maturity and power. If you are still shaking your head, look at some of those ugly, rude rich dudes out there and see the number of babes they "hammer" . That's why i will continue to tell any young  dude to go out of his way and make money, not in the yahoozee ooooooooo

What are you jiving about? money is unstable. all it takes is one bad decision and your back account is drier than the Sahara. Real women are into more stable things.

ifyalways:
@Onyi,good to hear.keep speaking and don't be scared of being corrected and laughed at at times o di nma mmadu isu asusu ya.ndeewo

Aunty dalu!!!

ibkaye:
ehhn, italiano girls, i will now talk in my own

in yini, ina fata kana lafiya, mene ne yake faruwa?

Haha. go ahead and speak your language gurlie.

ifyalways:
Onyinye is trying.bravo  
onyinye a dim nma mana aguru na agu=am fine just hungry  
o tekwala aka i biasoro ebea=its been long u came around
ole maka akwukwo=whats up with school
gbadokwa anya= cheers and stay safe.
lol nke a wu sunday school  

O di mma. school is fine. yeah i have been learning igbo more and more these days. it is just getting enough courage to start speaking it to igbo people.

Aunty Ify, kedu.

[quote author=pussy_full link=topic=154623.msg2564787#msg2564787 date=1217168489]I will say - honey - don't pour all inside o - keep some akamu for my own pussie o - and i will go to the room to wait for him for my turn/[/quote]please dismiss yourself from this topic.

michelin89:
Save yourself this stress and get a househelp. Male and female so if they should ever have urges they'd be doing themselves!

yeah i live in the states. so i aint risking going to jail over being lazy and not cleaning my own home.

michelin89:
You wouldn't do them but you think your kids would? Don't be a hypocrite.

Yeah im a neat freak so yeah i would be doing chores too. and so would my husband.

michelin89:
To do those nasty house chores!

But damn her if she decides to do the house LovePeddler!

but why would i need to hire someone to do chores that my kids should be doing??

but on the real, what in all that is reasonable would i be doing having a housegirl?? what do i need her for?

@post
in don't think there is a specific number a person can give you on how many partners before marriage. My parents were each others first boyfriend/girlfriend before they got married. So im willing to say that, as many as it takes until you truly find the person you were meant to grow old with.

syren:
FACT! [b]As long as I actually want those things. [/b]I don't want expensive clothes that I wont wear, when there are things that i'd prefer. He's got to know what I like.

Very true. Who wants things they don't use?? i mean if you are that "spending" type, you should first figure out what the chic likes before spraying your money onto cash registers.

@syren
You know there is this line i constantly hear about good girls. That they always turn out to be the wildest once they first taste it.

what you rather me say i would shoot the guy in the arm or leg??

syren:
"Bad" guys, I thought you were different  

What's a "good" girl then   I'm curious.

Depends who is answering the question. Some say it is the girl who is reserved and doesn't associate herself with activities deemed as "wild"

Orimili:
That's definitely a good move, getting to younger people. I should be able to do something similar soon, provided I get my time management together. What is beginning to happen here, as well as in most African countries, is that the people are not seeing that they are the key to making a difference. There is no white knight who will swoop down and make things better. The more the people know this, the more likely it is for real progress to be made.

I personally believe people know what is going on but rather sit around with their friends eating kola nut then do anything. It is hard to change the mentality of the elders.That is why i think you should try and target the younger generations. I mean look at the Obama Campaign. the younger generations are the ones getting involved and getting the word spread. That is what im doing. i strictly target the young because when they what they are capable of, then there is no stopping them. But on the real, if that country doesn't change and soon. The country will demolish and the people with it.

pataki where are we going again??

Hannibal:
You must be very intelligent.
I worked out the probability to be 1/80,000,000.
It means there are only TWO faithful couples in the whole Nigeria(160 million population).

Back again with the faulty mathmatics.

What is all this jive of guns and shooting?? there is no need to be shooting anybody. me i would get my lucky silver bat and i give him a head start to run cause the first i would have done would be to call the cops. And besides i use to play softball in highschool so i got a swing in me.

Orimili:
It's a shame that such a mentality is present, especially on a forum such as this one. People are willing to turn a blind eye to the madness that is going on, only to criticize others on their wrongdoings, without seeing that there is much that we still have to do for our people. If you try to bring the issue to light, others quickly try to silence you, or resort to insults and name-calling. What progress can anyone make if there is so much ignorance? I actually plan to do something. How it's going to be executed, I don't know yet, but it would be nice if I were not doing this in vain. . .

I understand what you are talking about. Alot of people esp. this forum rather be deceived on only the good and bypass the bad. The country needs to be helped and now. That country has so much to offer and it could be one of the top. But some many people are waiting for some leader to come and deliver them from their trouble. But they don't understand it is not the leaders that do the work it is the people. With out the people, there is nothing. Look at the military. The Admirals are nothing with out the troops. Because the troops are the one who go and change things and make things happen. not the leaders. I know you want to help but it is going to take alot of time and patient. If you can get through these people mentally then you are ready help them change. As for me, im trying to help the youngsters here in the states and change their mentality and making them aware of world affairs. so one day their generation could help change history.

HCH3COO:
I don't think a  history/english student is in a knowledged position to comment on the acidity of acetic acid.
  @ acetic acid is as acidic as water     . olodo.

I wasn't talking about your name. i was talking about you in general.

michelin89:
That's why you should never date a CH3COONa, a strong acid or a strong base.
They are dangerous!

He thinks he is dangerous, but he is acidic as water.