₦airaland Forum

May God continue to have mercy on me

There's a difference between STUPIDITY and CONFIDENCE

sylve11:
that state matter touch you one kind. be like you na from Ondo state.

No, I'm not from Ondo state. I have no connection with Ondo. But I know and have met people from Ondo male and female.

PhonesGadgets:
I quite agree with you to an extent just because I want peace to reign in my home and life. She's the very stubborn type and the only language she understand is violence/beating. Am not the type that's trained to beat up a lady. I have never slapped her before not to talk of beating her. I tried very hard to speak/talk to her on several occasions but won't just change like she's possessed. Had to get my pastor to counsel both of us for weeks at a point,but only changed for few months before going back to cheating. She's good in every other area but just the cheating aspect of her life

How you relate with a woman from friendship to dating to courtship etc is the programming information you're loading into her memory that she will operate with you during marriage. And just like a normal 0/1 computer, it will be garbage in, garbage out. A woman's system is like what programmers call an IDE. Whatever code you write in there, will determine how she will run your programme, whether it will run correctly, or you will have syntax error or bugs. Masculinity is not just a thing of gender or a thing of having a stick in between one's leg. It is your in communication, it is in your actions and reactions that a woman will know whether she will submit to you or not. Every woman is like a wild horse that you got from the forest, never ridden before. It is not just about being able to climb on top that makes you the master. It is about taming it that makes you the master. When a wild horse is tamed, you won't need a leash to tie it to keep it from running away. When you tame it, wherever you leave the horse, is where you will find it. It will wait there for you, you don't need rope again. A woman's mind and emotions, and body is like a wild horse. Masculinity is how you tame that horse, and make her feminine nature to submit to you. But I won't tell what to do or what not do to. It is up to you to decide what you want and do whatever works for you.

UDUJ:
How do you place a gif on a post? I tried copying the gif image address and then inserting it in-between two nairaland image files but no luck. Tutorials please

This will help you
https://www.nairaland.com/3143077/how-embedd-videos-gif-files

PhonesGadgets:
Correct!
You quite understand...
She's from Ondo
They like fun too much
They can't do without a man

Oga stop saying rubbish and face your life. You're so weak minded to the point your wife was not even scared and she look you eyeball to eyeball and told you she loves another man. Now you're condemning a whole state because of your own personal inadequacies and skirt-wearing mentality. Are you the only man that married an Ondo woman? I live in Lagos and know many people with Ondo wives, that didn't cheat and rub it on their husbands faces. You're a weak man period, and it has nothing to do with money. Better remove the skirt from your mind and start wearing trouser, and wake up your masculinity, so that in case you divorce and marry again, that new wife too won't use you to play pingpong and badminton. And then maybe you will blame Nassarawa state or Enugu or Accra this time around.

Lemme juz sherrup my mouth
[img]https://media1./images/c597efef2c9ec5d42da28aa468a9f758/tenor.gif?itemid=7400775[/img]

Ok

Another extremely low IQ female. What has "male privilege" got to do with this or even relates to it? Probably just another miserable frustrated pained rejected extremely low IQ female that can't keep a man, so they waste all their lives on social media attacking men and the male gender. How many hundreds of millions of females post nude pictures and videos 24/7 on social media, many even do live nude broadcasts, you won't hear a word from extremely low IQ females like her. They will claim it is their right to be naked, they will claim female nudity is body positivity and all kinds of dumb jargon, they will claim they are nude activists....... Mtchwwwwwww!

Google Translate Only an extremely low IQ police officer will think a person will Google Translate app is a scammer. In short, using the word "extremely low IQ" is me being very conservative

President of Clever Girls Foundation...... Ok!
[img]https://media1./images/95c369a0751026cc5e33d1785a1a28d2/tenor.gif?itemid=15464202[/img]

They will surely count cows too . They will say our population is 230m. 200 million people + 30 million cows U go fear 9ja census. A country where 4-legged cows are seen as citizens

Ok

MMempire:
Dj Cuppy na bad luck. Any team she support must fail. Make she no carry her bad luck come support my team o.

To Cuppy this tune, press Man U

Buhari asked Nigerians in 2015 if $1 = N220 made sense to us, if we are ok with it. Well fast forward, the same Buhari has made $1 = 470 and he is ok with it. So can we now see the kind of mindset he has?

IamWonderful:
Epe is a lovely and beautiful place, especially with the road network within the town, Ambode really tried in constructing the roads.

What Ambode did in Epe and to Epe, in 200 years, they won't forget him

Super cool . Except for those Crocs. As much as I hate Crocs, they are very important in the balance of the aquatic ecosystem. Therefore, by the decree of section 28, part 2, of his Eminence, Emperor An Mal Rite, Protector of the 4 Realms, you are hereby commanded to set those crocodiles free...

sammysneh:
May she be found alive, The insecurity these days is nothing to write home about

I don't know why guys here always tag any missing girl as slot or she has gone to meet a guy

It's sad really, but read the article, the comments from her classmates seems to suggest that. They are not bothered. "She will return when she's hungry", what does that sound like? They probably know where she is or who she's with, or probably chatting with her on phone. Maybe they even advised her to go back home and she refused, hence their comment that when she's hungry (or when the person she is with can no longer cater for her) she will return. This gives room to think maybe she wasn't kidnapped.

May God help them find her safe and sound.

uboma:
There is nothing about ethics or common sense here.

The guy is only after flimsy excuses to end the relationship with her. There was nothing wrong in what she did.

ok, that's your opinion

Big eye opener for the guy. He just learned a life lesson. You have to stop crossing oceans and crossing galaxies for people that won't even cross a tiny gutter for you.

uboma:
Why did he not inform her earlier not to bill his mother? Why did he not inform m her earlier that he will be the one to pay her instead?

She offered to send the money back to him but he kept on insulting her.

Businesses thrives when families and friends pay for the goods/services they receive. Life is not that hard...

He's obviously angry and that's his own way of venting his anger. But that's not the issue here. She only offered to return the money, not just because he confronted her, but because he reminded her of the benefits she has been enjoying from him FOR FREE. That was the reset button that reset her brain to see that she goofed. Imagine it was the other way around, and the girl gave the guy half of the money to rent shop for business, let say a barbing salon, buys the guy clothes, bought the phone he's using, pays some of his bills etc, then one day she recommended that her father, whom the guy knows is her father, should go and cut hair at the guy's salon. Maybe the barbing fee is N1000, in your own view, will you say the same thing that the guy should collect the N1k, after all he is running a business? Sometimes, we need to be factual about life, not being sentimental. Common sense dictates that the guy will cut the father's hair and if he wants to pay, he will turn it down. And then maybe later on, the girl can pay him or not pay him, it doesn't matter, he's already benefitting much more from her already. You see some people just lack ethics and lack common sense. No wonder they say common sense is not common.

Dayoebe:
When you are dating business minded people

There's nothing like business minded here. The guy is a business man too, read the chat well. He is selling phones. This is a matter of personal mindset and ethics. Phone of N48k cost price, which he sells for N60K, he sold it to her brother for N48K, just because it's her brother buying.

For me, I won't delve into who's right or who's wrong etc, cuz you will end up arguing back and forth for nothing, because this matter is a thing of perspectives and mindset. To each his own or every mallam to his kettle. But this is a classic example or reason why men need to choose spouses based on compatibility, it's very important, intellectual compatibility especially. Mindset is very important. If your way of reasoning is conflicting, or you have conflicting values or ethics, or your mindsets are opposite or you have opposing mindsets, then you can always expect more clashes and dramas like this, and possibly breakups. Mental compatibility and compatibility on values system or ethics & principles is a critical aspect to consider before marriage. Imagine a guy that pays your bills like he supported you with half of your shop rent, bought your phone, buys you clothes, probably gives money for upkeep from time to time too etc, sold phone for your sibling at cost price without making any profit just because he is your brother, but to do hair for his mother, you feel 100% entitled that she must pay for your service. Well, fortunately for him, he hasn't signed court papers before his eyes has opened to reality. Their mindset and way of life is obviously different. If he marries her, he will surely have many problems with compatibility issues.

uboma:
To the contrary, the lady did nothing wrong. She accepted payment for her services irrespective of who's involved. I see nothing wrong in it.

Businesses thrives when family and friends pay for the goods/services they receive.

You misunderstood the chat. The guy didn't say she shouldn't collect payment for her services. They guy said she should have asked him for it. He would have paid for it, that he was the one that recommended her to his mother to fix the hair. So he has a very valid point.

Na for Old Trafford dey beat dem oh, beat like thief dem catch wey steal iphone for inside computer village . DJ Cuppy juz jump from frying pan to fire Anyway, Up Blues

So sad. So horrible. What could have pushed a woman like this to brutally murder 2 of her our own children and even tried to kill her little relative? And then some people still think that demons are not real. We are not alone in this world. May God continue to have mercy on me.

Skmoda360:
Hmmmmmm.....the essence of sanity in this country has been lost by many....you can be killed by a friend over money, they can even pay your friend to kill you, all because of money but this her death seem like political issue...

office politics is real, especially in government agencies, ministries and parastatals. Obituary posters is always a regular thing, they are always killing themselves for position, power, corruption etc. That's why many of them are into juju, and why many of them get corrupt after they enter the system, because if you don't join them or want to expose their shady or corrupt system, they will eliminate that person. But as for this woman, seeing that her killers took her phones and car etc, it could have been someone in the area that she knew, maybe a domestic worker, or relative or secret boyfriend or neighbor or it could even be thieves or criminals that have been monitoring her before. I pray the police find and bring her killers to justice. And I pray that may we never be unfortunate in this life to buy a stolen phone or stolen car that was gotten through the murder of the owner. The unfortunate buyer that buys that phone or car is finished. May God continue to have mercy on me, Amen!