₦airaland Forum

Ekejoestar:
My guy, the truth of the matter is that any lady that won't respect you as a boyfriend will never respect you as a husband. Don't worry about her attitude, but worry about your future cos attitude is more important in a woman than beauty, a woman with bad attitude can never change even if you marry her later unless God touches her heart,.
You are even lucky that she showed you her true character, some ladies can cloak their character that when you later marry them, they will show you shege.... So my advice is that you run away from them... Cos they will never change

Arsenate:
You are a very strange lady. I haven't seen anyone here wailing. If anything, it's just a bunch of guys patting a dude on the back for behaving very maturedly when he could have easily lost it.

I don't know what's getting you all worked up. Perhaps the op's girl reminds you of yourself...

Olanre05:
I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

lefulefu:
aghh marital rights .pls before u thinking of marriage with any lady u should know her inside out and know her friends as well.even though u guys had been together it seems u really didnt know the girl then.e no hard to know a girl wey dey play around with other men nau .there is always something secretive about them.abeg next time take time to know the girl cos if u dont u will just end up marrying a runz girl who will still sleep around when u both married.

sweetonugbu:
That is the spirit.

0ppa:
I don't do relationships. I do marriage.

Respect55:
Brother we didn't start today. It has bn rossy or so I thought for the time we have bn together. We were supposed to start marital rights by next month. Do u even know that the guy updated his whatsapp stories of pics and videos with her earlier this night at a club and I saved them. I would have posted them here but it's not necessary. I saved them for reference proposes

hotwax:
U were ranting manu forever..Bleep haters just few seconds ago..

Now it's Ole out...manu fans get problem

EbukaHades10:
Martial is a bug? But I thought he was the missing ginger of the team and everyone started playing well when he came back from injury..........according to the fans

EbukaHades10:
Comments like this make me laugh bcus y'all type as if u've seen the future.

Dortmund bottled their lead last season but nooooo, because it is Liverpool, everyone now magically has powers to see the future.

PS, u keep forgetting Leicester is above u guys

How and where did I foment any trouble? Let me tell u, I’m not his mate politically. I am far above him. When I was a governor, I mind my business of governance nt issuing empty threats to my opponents. When I was the governor he was too insignificant to even appear in my dreams

Hedonini:
Interesting topic with a VERY valuable lesson for those who are quick to chant 'don't marry a man that does not have a "good job" or a man that earns less than bla bla bla.

Many in this generation with the wrong mentalities would eventually suffer and die of mental ill-health and maniacal depression. They don't know it yet. You think say na by the beginning? Life is bloody long.

You start well on a shaprapra shapropro level (for your mind), you come feel say life soft, dey carry shoulder for your supposedly less fortunate peers, but you forget say the race na marathon and weather dey change. When you reach midpoint come run out of fuel, when life unexpectedly change your reggae to blues, na body go finally tell you.

Two seconds, everything don burst.

Those with sense, let them learn the right lessons.

24kmagic:
I just feel he's kicking against strangers coming into your house because he doesn't want outsiders to find out that you're the one running the home. Because one way or the other, they will know and he'll lose his respect before the public, you know how 9ja people do reason.

As for not wanting to assist, he doesn't want to lose his dominance over you. Cos believe me once he starts helping, you'll unconsciously think that's his responsibility.

Honestly, all I see in this is a family man that is frustrated due to his inability to provide for his family. He will come around as soon as he gets a nice job.

But he's lucky to have you tho, 95 inside 100 women will not take that from their man.

They'll rub his joblessness on his face till he gets depressed, leading to suicide.

You're blessed!

Kanade21:
Fire broke out in their house in the night. Family was fast asleep....

that's why every house in Nigeria should have a sprinkler system..

gurunlocker:
So Musa played in NPFL and he is still 26 years till this moment?



My God is a wonderful God

Asquare84:
Try and see a pastor for prayers there is nothing prayer can't change

MiddleDimension:
can you even give me one reason they should not do it on campus?

Fadomero:
This guy is d reason y naija turn from bad to worse the guy just give all politicians room to steal and loot Jonathan amaka

Sanchez01:
This is blabbering, painment and wailing rolled into one. Live your life, dude. These guys aren't worth your blood pressure.