Openmine's Posts
Nairaland Forum › Openmine's Profile › Openmine's Posts
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 (of 313 pages)
Realdeals:okay thanks |
is there a railway from Lagos to kano? |
If you want to live in perfect peace,reduce your expectations about people esp friends or family members! Don't think because you did something worthwhile for a friend or family member,they will do the same for you! |
Most of the accidents that we face in this country are purely based on negligence and carelessness! I don't believe that such accidents like this one was spiritual like some misguided folks are speculating and even if it was,the devil always uses our ignorance and carelessness to perfect his plans! So let's say a driver forgot to fix his tyres before embarking on a distant trip,and one of those tyres blow up and causes a fatal accident? Will people attribute such accident to the devil or to sheer negligence? There are many factors that could have caused this avoidable accident... it could be recklessness on the part of the driver or bad roads or failure of road users to adhere to simple safety procedures....! If our roads are good and the right safety procedures are adhered to,there won't be a single hint of accidents! For those who are insinuating that the couple never prayed or settled the spiritual aspects of their lives,were you there or did you know if they prayed before embarking on this journey? |
do4luv14:Exactly but mancity fans wont see that one! |
borie4u:which one be daylight robbery again? aguero received the ball from an offside position! That's why there is VAR! If man city,last week, had taken care of the opportunity VAR presented to them in form of a pen which aguero squandered, we won't be talking about daylight robbery! |
![]()
|
BeeBeeOoh: ![]() ![]() Their own don too much ![]() Like play all the Manchester clubs have been bundled out of the champions league ![]() |
is it true that Manchester united players only know how to score goals on chivita advert? ![]() |
man city are out!
I repeat man city are out of the champions league again! ![]() |
initial gragra no good ohh.....na Porto way first find trouble....now its 4 ![]() |
Chai mane why? open goal.... ![]() |
dominique:Bad belle ![]() |
Porto will need to score FOUR goals to qualify hoping that Liverpool do not score another goal! |
Chai ![]() |
ajax dey vex ![]() |
CarlsJaz567:The highlighted is my issue with your likes! Some one made postings on social media which allegedly found the OP complicit and you believed without finding out how true? I also read a post where he/she alleged that the OP had an affair with the bride's younger sister.....and people believed without trying to ascertain how true the information is....at the end what we are left with is nothing but an allegation! Like i said in my previous posts,whatever may have contributed to the cancellation of the marriage is none of our business and we must respect their silence...! |
Am really shocked that that some ladies here are accusing the guy or even insulting him by assuming wrongly that he is indirectly heaping the blame on her! Comon nah....don't tell me you are slow in thinking or lack simple comprehension! The guy has shown that he is noble by respecting her opinions by calling off the marriage! He never blamed her for whatever happened or led to the dissolution of their scheduled marriage! From his statements, he never came online because he wanted to be pitied or be seen as a victim in the story but he used the social media to inform his friends about his cancelled marriage which to him was a bitter pill to swallow! It would have been interesting to know what led to her decision...it could have been the guy or the lady or both! We may never know! Whatever may have informed the bride's decision to end the preparation is no longer imperative and their privacy must be respected by all and sundry! I can only wish them well and their future endeavours! |
peacettw:One of my best match commentators on the now famous pro evolution soccer game(PES),Jim beglin would say it so eloquently and excellently.... "You can never put a good man down" Yes he made mistakes in his life just like you and everyone...the only problem was that he was a celebrity who must be seen as perfect! However,No one is perfect! Despite all his adversities and mockers,he still rose up just like the phoenix out of the ashes! |
wonder233:true! |
1-0 |
JasonScoolari: ![]() seconded! |
![]()
|
iTearHerToto: ![]() |
When the people you really loved and wanted left your alone by yourself in time past, did your life stop? Did you stop living? Are you not here today? Haven’t you come this far without them? If your answer is yes then you really don’t need all these mean wicked abusive, exploiters in your life and career to move ahead. Dump them. Set yourself free by really loving yourself. Always see yourself from the perspective of where you’re headed and not where you’re presently at. The bus stop is not your destination; you’re still on your way, think, act and represent your destination, not your bus stop. You’re better than this. Please fall in love with you. Enjoy your day. Muyiwa Afolabi Frankly Speaking
|
You’re unique in your way and complete by yourself. You don’t really need any man or woman to complete you rather, they are to compliment you. Stop underrating yourself and your potentials. You’re a champion in the making. You will get there, the negative perceptions, opinions and comments of your boss, colleagues and friends can’t define you unless you let it. You’re better than it. Don’t hold on to approval and commendation too desperately. People are selfish by nature and once they notice your desperation, they’ll exploit you. Nothing in life is by force, everything is by choice! |
My dear friend, I plead with you this morning. Love yourself, respect yourself and value yourself. Know who you are and never buy love or acceptance. Be yourself and let people love you for whom you are. You can’t go around changing like a chameleon to please and impress people because you want their approval. Break out of that negative upbringing, love from a parent should be unconditional, it shouldn’t be earned. Love should be free. Don’t love yourself less than you ought to. People will naturally return the hand you deal in life, they will treat and value you based on how you treat and value yourself. Don’t ever think you’re not good enough, not smart enough, not beautiful enough, or rich enough. No one is there yet, any smart person would continue to improve and develop, we are all diamonds in the rough at different degrees, the fact you think someone is better than you today or superior doesn’t mean it’ll be like that forever. The room for improvement is never full or congested, you can be better than anybody as long as you don’t relent in self-improvement..... |
A moment afterward, the Director opened a conversation on alcohol consumption. I envy you Muyiwa, he said. You don’t drink? Wow, that’s impressive. I wish I wasn’t given to so much alcohol myself but it’s too late. I’ve been drinking since I was a teenager and now close to sixty it’s in my blood already and it’s tough giving up. I’m addicted. One of my greatest regret in life is this beer. It’s gulped so much of my money and despite my health issues caused by excess alcohol intake, i still can’t stop. Muyiwa you’re a lucky man o, please don’t join us o he concluded and laughed. My friend was so embarrassed and disappointed in himself. He placed his glass on the stool and began to sweat. I know he doesn’t drink at all but he compromised to impress this director and at the end, it didn’t pay off.... |
Many years ago I was part of a brand strategy session somewhere outside of Lagos, and we were in a hotel for some number of days. One of those evenings after a hectic session we were at the bar chilling with one of the directors of the company. He ordered for drinks for me and one of my close associates. Personally, I don’t drink; i don’t do alcohol at all and am aware my colleague didn’t as well. I told this director I don’t drink and I’ll rather settle for non-alcoholic beverages. My friend maybe to impress this director, picked up a bottle of alcoholic drink, opened, poured and started to drink. I was a bit surprised but quiet and i guessed he wanted to impress this big oga. |
Many of us today are going through very difficult times at home and at work because we hate ourselves. By nature everyone wants to be loved accepted and celebrated. Of course, we all want to be loved. We hate rejection hence, we do all we can to gain acceptance, approval, and love. For some of us while growing up our parents didn’t love us unconditionally. We had to earn their love and approval through submission, obedience, success in academics and being useful at home. Hence we believe for us to be loved and accepted we must give something or sacrifice something, or be somehow, or do certain things, or compromise our selves, standards, ethics, and principles to win the love of people that matter including friends, colleagues and superiors at work. |
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 (of 313 pages)


