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.....and this current administration was finding it hard to even pay the #19,800....Now they want to increase it to 49800....
Won't believe it until I hear from those who are still serving....

Any thing labelled "APC" should be taken with a pinch of salt.....I no wan hear say lai Mohammed refute this report as the handy work of miscreants!

Denial Administration!

Some ladies can be so unwise with their decisions.....always acting without thinking!

Some even see marriage as a safety measure that will enable a guy to be faithful?
Chai

Just because a guy decides to marry you doesn't mean he will stop cheating.....Its all about the guy you are marrying.....
If you guy wasn't faithful or loyal to you,just know you dodged a bullet and a better guy is on the way!

But leaning on the mentality that you must have more than one bf just to avoid disappointment and heart break is only just the beginning of your problems!

kandi006:
I used to believe in putting all ur eggs in one basket and giving in 100%.. I even criticised girls that keep back up boyfriend until I learnt my lessons in a hard way.

The truth is that Nigerian guys are very selfish, they expect and encourage you to be 100% faithful and not talk to any other guy while they keep 3 or 4 backup girls for emergencies. The moment you guys break up, they switch over in seconds without hesitating.

My advice to ladies is this:

While you 're dating that your Prince charming that has promised you heaven on earth, please keep male friends, go out on dates, hangout with ur female friends, don't push anybody away. The truth is that not even an engagement ring will make a man stay so until you walk down the aisle, you are still very single!

In other words,you should stop being good since others take ur goodness for granted right?

So You should also stop being faithful simply because your exes took your faithfulness for granted?

....And you think once the guy marries you,that will stop him from cheating?

Where are you folks getting all these misguided and unintelligible ideologies?

So let's say you have a backup plan which is a spare bf,how sure are you that ur spare/emergency bf doesn't also have his own spares?

Its so unfortunate that every dick,tom and harry will claim relationship expert and start dishing out ridiculous and stupid advises that only put unsuspecting folks into more bondage and endless depression!

I pity the lady that will listen to such senseless and wayward advise!

izzou:


Did it occur to Joro Olodo Olumofin that the CONTIGENCY BOYFRIEND whom she just loves on a platonic level, and refuses sex will have like 3 other girlfriends on the sidelines giving him much more than what she's offering?

The truth is there's no perfect way to find the perfect one. Just pray you end up with someone faithful. Learn from your past experiences. Learn to endure some shiits and forgive, because you'll need a lot of that in marriage

Over-sense will not kill you!

Thumbs Up bro.....

4. Saving your CV In the wrong format
Word and PDF format should be the only systems to use when sending your CV to potential employers. Avoid sending your CV then saving it in a format that cannot be accessible.
The end result? Employers will not get a chance to have a look at it and it is your entire fault.
“I have had applicants sending CVs by sharing it on Google docs where I have to have permission to view the file, something which is impossible,” says Ms Ndegwa.
To be on the safe side, just save it as a word document since it’s the easiest.

......if you are saving a CV in word format,ensure that its saved on "compatibility mode".....

Antipob777:
Conte is a big fool, why bench Costa, Hazard and Kante is a crucial match like this.

Conte is a big illiteracy although I have faith Chelsea will still won this match.

What?!!!

BabaO2:
which humongous money Amaechi brought? Let's live above this childish talk, how much money would he have brought that would have been more than Tinubu's etc contributions? Politics is not done that way, he couldn't have brought all rivers state money to singlehandedly fund a new party that he's not even sure of winning.

Your recent comment just shows that you don't really know what went down during the 2015 elections!
Have U asked why he hasn't been able to account for the billions of naira that went missing in his state coffer...?
Am not saying that the likes of tinubu or fashola didn't contribute financially to APC's course but taking the likes of Amaechi for granted is the height of political insensitivity on your part!

I guess the saying that "you don't know the relevance of someone until they are gone" is not yet obvious to you!

BabaO2:
Agreed, only SW block votes made the difference. Buhari had not been winning because he had no SW in the past. On kwara politics, things have changed so much between 79/99 when most popular parties were writing results. The invincibility of the saraki's have thinned out, in recent governorship election, ACN almost won the election but due to power that be, the result went in favour of PDP. Therefore, kwara is winnable for APC in future election under free and fair.

Bro this your yanning is not only empty but purely speculations and at best beer parlour gist.....
What are your facts to back your ridiculous assertions......?
Even the presidency knows how powerful Saraki is...thats why they have been trying in futility to impeach or slander him with accusations!
APC knows PDP just scored a huge point by convincing saraki to embrace their fold!
SARAKI is not just a local champion,he is a well known politician nationwide that can wreck havoc to the presidency!
You are the only one that still hasn't understood the grave error of APC to let the likes of SARAKI and TAMBAWAL go....

Am happy you acknowledge the fact that buhari could never have won without the SW BLOCK votes....

BabaO2:
you are not a realist. Saraki I told u brought electoral value, but without him, Kwara State is winnable. Amaechi is a wonderful team player, but APC didn't score minimum percentage of votes for the presidency in rivers state. Those states in the north u mentioned were natural buharists. APC tsunami won election for most of those senators you are talking about e.g Dino melaye etc.

Still wrong again....

Amaechi is not just a wonderful team player(Don't underestimate anyone in politics)...stop belittling the fact that he gave apc the humongous funds needed to prosecute the 2015 elections...
Its quite clear that you are oblivious of the fact that the saraki family has been controlling the state of kwara for a long time hence discarding a Top politician as bukola saraki is plain ignorance on your part and that of APC!
Dont also forget the immerse contribution of the SW.....if not for the required votes there for APC,GEJ would have won again!

Bro if buhari was as popular in the north as you said,how come he could not win the presidency in three attempts with the northern votes....?

secondly,at that 2015 election,any northern politician would have won that election aside buhari!
Its not even about buhari,its about the "collaboration" and the fact that majority of nigerians wanted GEJ out!

Saying that the likes of amaechi,saraki and a host of other pdp defectors did little or nothing prior to the 2015 election is sheer ignorance and i do hope you underrate these politicians to your own detriment and get ready to be shocked by 2019!

PDP underrated them and see where they are today....Unfortunately,Apc is following in that same footstep......

Rotentina:
Both APC and PDP members are all rogues, let support likes of Ahmed, Fela, Sowore, etc

Good....now you are talking!

if fela,ahmed, sowore want to become president of Nigeria,they must do better than what they are presently doing!
They must convince Nigerian that they can do better than past leaders with better policies and superior ideologies!

No emotions whatsoever.....

BabaO2:
Yes, they won the election without them adding electoral value except Saraki, even without Saraki, Kwara State is always winnable for ACN/APC.

That's not true!
You are being irrational!

Go back and check all the PDP defectors before 2015 elections, their overwhelming contributions decided the 2015 elections for APC!

if I may ask....what party did Amaechi come from?
what about tambawal? ortom? Saraki? Even the current governor of katsina masari was from PDP....

Go to the senate or national assembly and take out all the PDP defectors before the 2015 elections and you will be left with little or no one at all.....

Hence saying their contributions would have meant nothing is preposterous!

BabaO2:
The man is right, Saraki is the main cause of APC under performance by hijacking senate leadership, if APC were to keep to themselves by not accepting disgruntled PDP members, they would have been the model for African politics.

....and you think APC without these so called disgruntled PDP members would have won the last elections?

Rotentina:
Anyone supporting looters of our common wealth will die by Thunder and Ogun in conjunction with Amadioha.

So let's say most of the APC law makers leave APC, does that make them "looters".......?

Even the same man calling others looters,what did he do with the huge funds given to him by world bank when he was governor of Edo state?

"The PDP has nothing but pity for the APC, who, in its blind desperation, cannot see that the train has since left the station and that no body, no matter the lure, abandons a cruising liner, which the PDP now represents, to jump into a sinking ship with a disoriented captain which the APC has become."

Damnit this level of savagery can put a person on life support...how much more a drowning party.....
cruising liner

Kai

Please can some one remind me about the purpose and function of a TRANSPORT MINISTER?

Colourich:
And why should she seek your consent? are you her husband, shift jor make we see road.

This kind of mindset is extremely difficult to comprehend!

So she can only seek his consent when they are married?


Please what to you is the definition and purpose of a relationship?

If she can't be humble or respectful enough to seek his consent during a serious relationship, how would she be able to do so when they finally get married?

Alariiwo:
Saraki capitalized on the politics of bitterness played by Igbos to become Senate president.. The seat is meant for SE but they played themselves out.

Had it been PMB removed him from onset, APC wouldn't be facing this much trouble in the Senate.
Tinubu saw all these coming anyway and I'm sure he planned for the eventual outcome.

But U made it sound as if Saraki was there because of Buhari!
Saraki got to where he is not because of Buhari but with the help of his colleagues who are predominantly from PDP.....the rest of the details are not important!

Alariiwo:
Saraki has ended his political career with his recent defection to PDP..

Even if he is allowed to complete this term as Senate President which I doubt, he can't retain that seat after 2019.
Ekweremadu on his own is in deep sh.it already. He is as useless as the "p" in psychology.

Please can you remind us how saraki became the senate president?

Its not surprising that PDP are countering all the MOVES made by APC
Its very obvious that there are some "elements" in APC,loyal to PDP and saraki,that are giving valuable information to the opposition......
I foresee more defections from APC once they reconvene by September.....

The guy died saving the lives of others.
This act,though resulted to his untimely death,is the true definition of LOVE!
....RIP my brother!

itsmeurLady:
But she is right, isn't she? Wats the probability that the humble beginning guy won't call you old fashion when he is made Human beings are deceitful, one can never know the heart of a man, it is desperately wicked.

What's the probability that a lady looking for a made guy won't get dumped by him even after marriage?
What's the probability that the made guy won't see another pretty lady,divorce the first wife and take in the new?
People get dumped before or after marriage!
Marriage is no safe haven!
In life you expect the best but learn to plan for the worst!

OboOlora:
Drink water and have a cold shower , ok?

ohh yes I will gladly do so after you have taken a chilled glass of water to digest,assimilate and comprehend what I have just written to you!

May high tension transmission sense fall on you

OboOlora:
Empire kor Power ni
Build an empire with him and then when he’s made, he will Ubi Franklin u and dump u after one kid to be sleeping around
Better marry rich n invest when he still has money so u can dump his sorry ass when he’s broke cos most of them are wasteful modafokaz in Nigeria!

I totally disagree with this stale and subjective ideology!
For your info,not every guy dumps a lady after they have made it rich together!
Just because a individual did something wrong or bad is no premise to label an entire gender with such!
Well,i guess that your own opinion and you are entitled to it!

nonsense

hisexcellency34:
When Saraki and his followers left PDP to APC then, they said "We are leaving darkness for Light".Can we now say they have gone back to darkness?

They can see clearly now...what they thought was "light" turned out to be "fake one chance light"

chiommy123:
but thats how they describe men's characters

Not all aunts and mothers say so ohh.....
...please ohh don't generalize!
one's level of information is as a result of their exposure!

[quote author=sexyanyabubakar post=69864399][/quote]If you can't answer these simple and explicit question....


ZOOM!

HeWrites:
A Nigerian lady on Twitter has taken to the micro-blogging platform to advise women not to rush into a relationship until they are old enough to know what they want in a man.

According to what the lady identified as Odogwu wrote on her Twitter TL;
"Here's a slightly controversial opinion: I think that when women are younger, they tend to be unappreciative of kind men, because at that point in their lives most of them aren't really looking for long-term relationships, so emotional maturity isn't their priority.

Knowing what you want in a man comes with age and experience. This is why I will always encourage any girl I know to hold off until you've at least established a firm understanding of who you are, what your values in life are, before you make any long-term choices.

Tunde that you're dating at 21 because he has a nice job, nice car, ambition, nice face, etc, but lacks emotional maturity, uses abusive language, ghosts you when you need him, never takes responsibility for his actions towards you, makes you think you are the problem, etc...

You only know how to deal with the Tundes of the world with age. You do not want to end up stuck with an intransigent, gaslighting asshole at 21 because you rushed into it or didn't know any better.

So yes, my advice is to start prioritizing kindness in men early as a deal breaker. Do not settle for a man that lacks kindness, you will regret it later. �️�️

Kindness is perhaps the single most important quality in a lifetime companion. Do not accept anything less."[/i]

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9118/dont-rush-into-relationships-until-you-are-old-enough-to-know-what-you-want-in-a-man-lady-advises-women.html

I agree with the highlighted!

chiommy123:
our mothers and aunties should see this and stop pushing us into troubled homes where the lady receives different forms of beatings and insults and when you complain they tell you men are babies just pamper him and stop making him angry. for how long

Where did that terrible ideology come from?

smh