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Nigerian state would have killed this dream...Congrats guy, more achievements will you record

My own is imagine your wife doing all this rubbish you are doing right now. How would you feel?? The pain you will feel seeing your wife throwing herself at another man as you are doing right now with the lady, should be enough for you to kill whatever feeling you have for the other lady. Atleast you have explored and enjoyed yourself with her. So if you are not a devil and selfish being, allow her to go

[quote author=soojar post=113171196]All is now set for the grand finale of this presidential race suspense to climax.

Tinubu to join a yet to be named party after it is clear he is to get his own betrayal from Buhari just as Peter Obi just got his from PDP

Obi to contest for president with a yet to be decided strong Muslim from the north as VP and [/b]Tinubu to serve as the Kingmaker God has destined him to be to mentor them[b].



The bolded is so funny to me ehn. So God's destiny for him is not to be a president

Tinubu they said you are destined for kingmaker oooo. What do you have to say??

Thinktwicemybro:
Only one man can save this nation.

Join the alliance, don't be left behind.

This is funny, I don't see Kwankwanso forming a party with his massive structure only for him to be a VP to PO. PO doesn't have a structure, save for us social media campaigners and advocators, who think he is the best for the job, but for Kwankwanso to be a VP, I don't see it happening

bigfrancis21:
You are still young and you need to understand certain things about life:

1) Nobody owes you anything in life not even your relatives (uncles/aunts) or siblings. Your parents are directly responsible for you until you are at least 18 years old. After 18 years old, you are largely responsible for your life affairs.

2) You are not entitled to your uncle's money neither should you have any say in how he spends his money, he earned his money by serious handwork. If he decides not to help you even despite making promises, honestly speaking life continues, he won't experience any sort of downfall as we Nigerians like to wish upon people who did not help us. God is not remotely biased as we humans are. If for anything, your life circumstances should spur and motivate you to work thrice as hard to better your economic situation and trust me, where there is a will there must be a way.

3) Certain traits such as appreciation, gratitude, positivity etc. will take you very far in life. Truth be told, your uncle did not have to send you the N30,000 that he sent. But he did, even if it was not the amount you were expecting, you need to be grateful for the amount that he sent. Little shows of appreciation spur even bigger acts of kindness towards you in the future. In Igbo, if you are Igbo, e kene dike na nke o melu, o mekwa ozo. Try this out, if you haven't already: show enormous gratitude for the little help that he rendered to you. Next time, he will be willing to do even more. However, when you don't show gratitude but entitlement, you are blocking any future assistance that may come from him and you burn bridges.

4) Life abroad might seem alluring and fun to Nigerians back home but it is not a bed of roses as Nigerians think. This can be quite hard to understand until you cross over and experience the system. I will not spend much time explaining this part because from experience, no matter how hard I've tried to do so in the past, Nigerians who have never stepped foot out of the country all their life cannot seem to relate until they relocate and live abroad for a while. When you are much older and life has taught you certain things, you will get to appreciate people's help towards you, no matter how little it is.

5) Understand that life is about choices. I come from a family of rich uncles and aunts (I mean direct siblings of my parents) but my mother (and I am very grateful for this) raised us to be very independent and not depend on anybody for financial help in life. We lost our mother as teenagers and without the help of my rich relatives, we forged ahead in life and today all of us are successful. When we lost our mother who was our major financial backbone, we had the choice of either sitting around, entitled to our rich folks' money and complaining or taking advantage of the situation to work even harder and better our situation. We all chose the latter and this mindset has taken us far in life. Now our rich folks all want to identify with us and surprisingly they talk about us as a case study of success to people around them. Do we have ill feelings towards them? Not the least because we never felt entitled to their help to begin with.

My two cents.

All the guy needs is what you gave him in this write up. God bless you sir and may God open his eyes to see the deep message in this two cents

You have achieved nothing with this write up, 'cos to me, you have not said anything

Actress tag has suffered, everybody is actress, even the coded oloshos use actress as a cover

IkeIgboNile:
I really don't believe this story because i think the Op wants to start a tribal war here. The guy must have known the nature of their relationship and agreed to be the side chick in the relationship

Its an old story anyways, I read it sometimes last year. If it actually happened, it did not happen to the Op's neighbour. He must have unearth it from another platform

Recycling in action. From Ajimobi's son to El-Rufai's, to Fayose's son. Hmmnn!!!!

chatinent:
So we should advise you on how to keep having premarital sex? Ori e ti baje

Nonexisting:
The possibility that she fuccked around to afford those gifts is high but nigga, let the sleeping dog lie. Fucck your turn and let other niggas fucck their turns too. [/b]I don't have a girlfriend but I fucck every week, no be people's girlfriends I dey fucck?[b] If you continue like this, you will drink sniper in near future on top toto matter. Your girlfriend is even an undergraduate and you think you are the only one fuccking her. Mtchew

Baba ooooooooo!!!!!!!

Demigod22:
Don't feed your female ego with this imagined feeling, if I am not that good she won't be coming around. And if I don't have options, I might still be simping for her.

I am not a redpiller, I am just an exceptional individual that doesn't encourage been taken advantage of.

I like the way you write and if you ask me, you did not do well only, but you also did very very well in the way you handled her. Her case is a case of wanting to eat your cake still want to have it. It can never be possible. Ignore those bashing you, they can go and help who turn them down, it's their choice

You can feel the passion in this writing...Goosebumps were obvious on my body while reading this. I could feel,sense and internalize the passion behind his writing. He is a good writer by the way. Welcome to my club bro. More success awaits you here in madrid

AdeniyiA:
Now this is slaying... A true slay queen

Not those who open shop inbetween their legs

setobaba:
I just cried my eyes to stupor seeing this, what will happen to Africa should nuclear war start

I didn't cry, but I thought far, my thought was when will our leaders have a beautiful plan for us the citizen like the finland government has done?, just when? I am really sad, people in government will rather send their children there with our money, while they leave the rest of here

El-rufia want to VP, he can't achieve that with Tinubu, due to muslim-muslim ticket, hence his praise-singing of Amaechi. He is cunning, even Amaechi should not take him serious

Verbtips:
bro why una dey decieve una self i i post i swear and i no con give you ground no go shake just take am as i tell you,i am a proffessional gambler if you want get the kind of moni sef massage me for email i go teach you how much be 1m

Abeg teach me

We Ronaldo fans know this since. However, I am not sure Ramos said this explicitly like this

He should have kept this formula to himself for now till he becomes the president

I think Buhari should be invited to AY live show to perform. He is more of a comedian to me than a leader. He has so lost touch with reality that he has to read a prepared speech to even respond to issues. I won't be surprised if he is greeted good morning, he will have to check a paper before responding.

Freedom is golden. Lots of lessons learnt

This their religion sef. Is their God so powerless that they have to defend him? This is sad!!!

I really like the free-spirited nature of Dj Cuppy. God bless me too, so that my children will never have to worry about money and enjoy life like Dj Cuppy

We have lost every sense of shame in this country. Instead of the lawmaker to call out the ineffective Buhari and the security apparatus of this country, he is busy calling on the Chinese government. Very pathetic!!!!

How much do you earn?

He needs Buhari to win the primary, hence this kind of approach. However I am sure deep down he knows, Buhari legacy is trash and he won't want to build on it. Either him or Peter Obi is my choice

Don't give him free, people are wired not to appreciate free things. His initial reaction when you bought the bus matters a lot. It simply mean he's envious, you a single man buying a bus, while a married man has none. If he was actually happy, and he's not the expressive type, he would have congratulated in you in a way. As it is right now, if you must give him the bus, volunteer to drive and him buying fuel, or give him some change to assist him in looking for vehicle, while you tell him yours is booked. Don't trust the man with your bus

Irupetepete:
Orisirisi

Wish I was the lucky person, I go reach cotonou before I even look back.

But I don't believe them Sha, apc is full of lies

Nobody is chasing you na...you only got your share of the N-cake (your right)...lol

Uncle96:
Bullshit, davido can do better, I'm not even a celebrity but most of my ex's are finer and doper , body and face wise. I don't even understand the hype.

I won't even date her for more than a month if u know me well

Your taste not his taste and his taste not yours...that's the beauty of life

You should have said this when Buhari was in the hospital

If Ayade can declare, I can too...the difference is the 100 million naira, which I don't have