₦airaland Forum

tunlex01:
it depends on your assessing body. Vetassess will be okay with bank statement only but with DHA and most other bodies, you will need pension or tax in addition to other payment evidences.

austinceasar:
Very clean 2008 Honda Civic, Untampered Engine and Gear, AC is super chilling. Going for a distress price of *#1.850M*, Abuja Deal🇳🇬

09038687770

Emir8:
Yes. They said national ID, international passport or driver's license. I only have national identity card slip for now

A001:
Anyone with practical knowledge on how to become a research analyst? What skills do I need to become one?

Tips and advice on the subject are welcome. Thank you.

Lastpharoah33:
I'm typing this with deep regrets.


I made a post here earlier this year, seeking for advice on either staying back in my birth town and hustle more or relocate to abuja where my uncle is living with his family.

Check the thread here
https://www.nairaland.com/7054956/dilemma-please

Please good people of nairaland, things have gone south between me and my uncle. He said he can't have me stay under his roof anymore. That I should go back to my people living in onitsha and I am not thinking about doing that either. I know what I went through at onitsha before coming to abuja.


He gave me a 5days ultimatum to leave his abode. Guys, I'm so downtrodden.

Any job with accommodation within abuja will be mostly welcomed.

I do paint welded fabrications, that's all I have learnt since I came here.

crood:
Christmas gifts especially something to remember and someone to remember to me text me etc

Justnow2022:
Thanks for the input. I track all my expenses using the isavemoney app, but going through I realize that every penny matters. The last time I bought wears for myself was august, I noticed that all those 2k, 3k expenses were big expenses.

Mystic216:
Atiku and Obi has a shameful and well cultured family
Unlike this imp that his family is growing by evil

Your father should be contesting as well but no
You chose to do BMC work
Your father will be ashamed of you boy

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Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

tyinfinity:
And peter bitter Pandora obituary 's son is smoking hemp following Ipob and ESN up and down

Positivepoint:
150k+52k=202k
300k+15k=315k

Difference 315k-202k=113k

femisplash:
Let that fraud reply Soludo and refute his claims if dem born am well.
We have a duty to Educate Ipobs whose souls are steeped in hate and bitterness.
https://edurank.org/uni/chicago-state-university/alumni/

IgiveLadiesBj:
Good morning sir

I am planning on relocating to Abuja for greener pastures mid December or Early January. I am in the East right now and I've never been to Abuja before though I do pass Abuja enroute

I have a budget of 150-200k for accommodation.
Which good place can I get a nice accommodation with this budget and opportunities.

Please I'm waiting for your response
Is there

buhariguy:
tinubu has be moving from state to state talking to reasonable Nigerians.
We have already gotten his message.

Confirmedzombie:
He is very bias. If I am obi I won't bonjour future invitations.

I now see reason why Tinubu stayed away.

Only reasonable persons can now justify Tinubu absence

Shame on Abatti

Tinubuwins2023e:
That has been Peter Obituary trademark.

olulove:
Demn never start ooo...abi dey candidates no show

DenreleDave:
THE ONE HE RULED IN ANAMBRA, HOW MANY LIVES DID HE BETTER? DIDNT PETER OBI AND HIS KINSMEN TROUP ENMASSE TO LAGOS FOR SURVIVAL

DenreleDave:
No wonder he employed 60 million nigerians to his beer factory.. na why Obi supporters dey always behave..


Obi the palm wine tapper

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

APC2:
Greetings nairalanders,
I need your advice regarding this issue:
I set up a new business that cost me millions of naira and I told my wife to write application letter and submit to me so that I can employ her to manage the business, she refused. She said she will not write any application letter and will not collect any appointment letter from me to work in my establishment. She just want to be in charge of the business without any formal documents.


Maintain your stand. She should graduate from university before you engage her to work for you. Business is different from family, and should be treated as an entity having spent so much.

I have told her that I will employ another person if she did not want to pass through the process of formal employment. My wife is not working and she is in 300 Level in a Federal university. She is not serious with her studies, having carry overs every semester. I'm the one sponsoring her education.

I am thinking of informing her brother that if her sister did not write application letter and pass through formal employment procedures, I will employ another lady and will not be responsible for the social needs of my wife. I will only give her money for transportation to school and not for birthdays of her friends and the unnecessary visitations she always do to relatives houses.

I can't trust my wife with any of my businesses without formal documents. She may one day claim she is the owner.

What do you think?

Nicepoker:
You are pregnant. Who is responsible. Because from your post seems you don't have a husband

VTJN:
at least Buhari didn't lie having PhD unlike your Obi who lie for a living. A known perpetual lier who presented a special centre GCE result to INEC and dropped Photoshop B.Sc result to his online zombies

What a shame

VTJN:
Tinubu is the next president to succeed Buhari

Viraltrends123:
Obi didn't perform well as a governor, we won't vote him to be president. you idiot. Which one is if he underperforms, we should vote him out after 4 years. He has already done woefully as a governor, and we are not voting him

plaindealer:
Take your case and pointless headache to INEC, no be me compile list, na wetin Pandora give INEC den publish.
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