Family › Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by osborn4u: 11:18am On Feb 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Get busy, that's the only wisdom you need.
I've never seen a busy woman with a job or business that takes her out of the house from morning till evening, bothered about who is opening her pot.
Busy women just prepare the food and are very happy they don't have to dish it also when they have places to be and other things to be doing.
If you're so bothered about your BIL finishing your soup/stew and protein, then cook and package some of it for storage. Also take out your husband's portion and store it in a flask or container to warm it when he's ready to eat.. The only quantity of food you should leave in the pot is that which is for your BIL and he can go to it and eat it anytime he likes. The only thing you can tell him is to ensure he cleans his plates when he's done, it's a simple request - you can even say it casually and in a playful manner.
This is how you handle visitors who are staying for extended periods.
I don't know if women don't teach their daughters how to act in their matrimonial homes anymore.  Everything must turn to fight with you young women. You have spoken pure undiluted wisdom. I don't know why some women are so intolerant. Any little thing can get them angry. For example, go to female hostels in schools and see petty issues that causes serious strife and quarrels, spoons, pillow, buckets... Kai, na wa oo |
Family › Re: Domestic Abuse Of Men By The Women. by osborn4u: 8:22am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Beautiful and apt write up. May God have mercy on some women whose mouths are sharper than razor blade... |
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Sacks Ihedioha, Declares Uzodinma Winner Of Imo Election by osborn4u: 7:37pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
This is the worst time to read Law or be a practising Lawyer in Nigeria |
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Court Sacks Ihedioha, Declares Apc’s Uzodinma Winner Of Election by osborn4u: 6:25pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
Nigeria my country! Na wa oo |
Politics › VISION 2020 by osborn4u(op): 7:16am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Whatever happened to Vision 2020, were the proponents short sighted or it was just another propaganda? |
Romance › Re: Am I Making A Mistake? by osborn4u: 3:30am On Dec 17, 2019 |
I thought you have already married him but, from what I read, thank God you are not married. Believe me, I am a married man and can tell you that, that guy is a disaster waiting to happen. If you love your sanity, quit |
Romance › Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by osborn4u: 9:07pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
ursullalinda: Wonder what I'm doing in this good for nothing thread....Op if your mum, sisters, wife and daughters have nothing to offer......Pls treat is a family issue.....don't disgrace yourSself in a public forum See one of them here! She did not even bother to read the body of the message, voom, she jumps to conclusion |
Career › Re: Online Training Or Physical Class Training: Which Is Better? by osborn4u: 2:21pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
mrlycan: If i show you my CV, you'll wonder where I got my experience from. Its all online and I dont pay for anything. If there is a training that will be expensive for you. I can help you get the videos even if they ask you to pay for it. Let me know what you need. Online makes a lot of sense
Send me a mail and we start from there
bammyunlimibiz@gmail.com Bro, I will appreciate if you can send me the videos. Regards |
Crime › Re: Photos Of The HIV-Positive White Man & His Victims After He Slept With 600 Women by osborn4u: 9:21pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
This guy Is more of a beast |
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Crime › Re: Serial Robber Nabbed For Stealing Less Than A Month After Prison Release. Photos by osborn4u: 8:12pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Just give him a permanent room in one of the Prisons |
Romance › Re: Guys, Name That Thing Women Wear Which You Don’t Like by osborn4u: 9:37am On Apr 08, 2019 |
Who advised ladies to start wearing that irritating eyelash? I hate tattoos too |
Health › Re: I'm A Virgin HIV Positive Lady: Please Help! by osborn4u: 8:41pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Please, go to another lab and do the test. It is very possible they made a mistake. Have faith |
Family › Re: 4 Best Friends Who Got Pregnant Same Time, Poses Together After Delivery (pics) by osborn4u: 9:51pm On Dec 15, 2018 |
Beautiful |
Politics › Re: UK Advises Saraki, Dogara, Others Against dereliction Of Duty by osborn4u: 2:59pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
They should keep their advice to themselves. What value have they ever added to Nigerian Politics other than undue interference |
Romance › Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by osborn4u: 8:48am On Oct 11, 2018 |
Jamariwolff: Arrant nonsense!
I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools. You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing? Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!
My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy! I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months. Madam, calm down. She he has not slept with her from what he said |
Family › Re: PLEASE SAVE A LIFE. by osborn4u: 2:10pm On Oct 10, 2018 |
Bring her to my monthly crusade in Benin. Believers Ministries inc Benin. I have seen God heal worse cases |
Politics › Re: OGD, Dickson, Iweala, Fayose, Others Make Atiku’s VP List by osborn4u: 8:22am On Oct 08, 2018 |
Give it to Ngozi and you have my vote! |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Visits Zungeru, Niger State And Inspects Area Affected By Flood by osborn4u: 9:36am On Sep 20, 2018 |
This guy is always active. Should have been the President |
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Health › Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by osborn4u: 8:48pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
soliq55: Without mincing words, I am telling you this happened live. There is lab evidence to that effect. I know you might not believe in miracles but it doesn't change the fact that verifiable miracles happen. Stay blessed
While this it's great your wife turned out to be AA, I'm afraid it is impossible for one's genotype to change. Any church, pastor or prophet claiming that is a liar. Your genotype is coupled with your hemoglobin. Your hemoglobin is a component of your Red Blood Cell. For any non medically oriented folks reading this, YOUR GENOTYPE CANNOT BE CHANGED. |
Health › Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by osborn4u: 9:36pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
[quote author=mamawin post=69410735]LOL!! LOL!! Like my husband would say, there're many things God can do, but there are a lot he won't do. Change genotype you say? LOL!![/quote Are you telling me you have not seen/heard God do something like that? Anyway, I have seen and it wasn't super story, I saw it live. God is still a miracle worker |
Health › Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by osborn4u: 9:17pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I understand your plight. I am AS and was in a relationship for the same number of years as you Stated. However, God was with me all the way. You won't believe that it was while we were already preparing for my wedding that i asked my then fiancee now wife to go and check her genotype because, she was oblivious of it. You needed to see my state while i waited for the result. It was worse than waiting to know ones HIV status after living a very promiscuous life. I prayed like never before while waiting for the result and as God would have it, it turned out that she was/is AA. I jumped for joy like I just won a billion dollar contract. My advice to you is to have absolute faith in God. See a true man of God if you are convinced that you are meant for each other. God is not the author of confusion and would not sanction what he knows would end badly. I have witnessed Gods miracle here in Benin ( Believers Ministries) first hand where God changed the story of one of the couple that intended to get married from AS to AA. Miracles are real but you also need to have an unwavering faith. Conclusively, don't proceed any further if God doesn't do it. Stay blessed |
Health › Re: Arrest Defaulters Of Shisha Ban, Adewole Tells Police - Read More by osborn4u: 7:07am On Jun 05, 2018 |
Tobacco smokers are liable to so many health complications. It is better to desist from smoking and indulge in something that would improve on your health |
Properties › Re: Edo Govt., MIXTA Africa Seal Deal To Construct 1,800 Housing Units In Benin City by osborn4u: 7:13am On May 23, 2018 |
Great move. This guy is really impressing me with his every move. Kudos once again |
Politics › Re: Veterinary Doctor Reacts With A Cow To Buhari's Comments On Nigerian Youths by osborn4u: 9:15pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Please, to whom it may concern, get your PVC and vote out all these old insensitive people whether in PDP or APC. Thanks |
Celebrities › Re: Cyril Stober And Elizabeth Banu's Wedding Reception Photos by osborn4u: 12:05pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
I guess he was married before... |
Politics › Re: 10 Biggest Scandals That Rocked Nigeria In 2017 by osborn4u: 3:50pm On Dec 31, 2017 |
And the list goes on... |
Crime › Re: “Don’t Accept Wrapped Gifts From Strangers” – Commissioner Of Police Says by osborn4u: 7:15pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
anyway, security like they say, is everybody's business... |
Family › Re: Five Unexpected Behaviours To Expect From Your Teen by osborn4u: 9:35pm On May 28, 2017 |
You got it spot on |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are You Going To Heaven Or Hell? by osborn4u: 1:22pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
I see people here making funny comments like its child's play... may God have mercy on y'all because the tribulations of the last days will be too heavy to bear for any mortal. My prayer is that you know Christ and be raptured before the great tribulation. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Juventus: UCL (0 - 0) On 19th April 2017 by osborn4u: 9:52pm On Apr 19, 2017 |
A moment of silence for all Barcelona fans... |