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TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Laycon Becomes The First Housemate To Get 1M Instagram Followers by oshaosha2014(m): 9:08am On Sep 20, 2020
More endorsements, more paid ads on his Instagram account, the list goes on.
pretydiva:
How's that profitable
Foreign Affairs / Re: Iran Says UAE, Bahrain Will Bear The Severe Consequences Of Israel Deals by oshaosha2014(m): 8:02am On Sep 17, 2020
Yes. Their own juju is making safety plans and gathering intelligence before allowing their president to arrive at a place.
Lorechino:
Is well

Trump hv done more than his predecessors

But I wan ask question ooo
"Do Western world politicians eg Trump do juju to fortify themselves, just like our Nigeria politicians do ?"

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Travel / Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by oshaosha2014(m): 4:19am On Sep 09, 2020
You sound like someone who’s doing research on the subject matter. Continue.

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye Buys New Helicopter For Rural Evangelism by oshaosha2014(m): 8:59am On Sep 03, 2020
Did Jesus while reaching every corners on the earth they should not use helicopter. Even Paul used boat in those day for outreach. Today we have jets that can move in microseconds, I think the Pastors who are about winning souls should get them too.

Biafrannuke:
The type Jesus and his disciples used?
Politics / Re: Adeboye Declines Interview After Closed-Door Meeting With Buhari In Aso Rock by oshaosha2014(m): 4:56pm On Sep 01, 2020
It can be called silencer if you must misquote it.

emmabest2000:
All those mumu journalists. They rush to grab some news but then
Silence can never be misquote grin

Well done Pastor grin
Family / Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by oshaosha2014(m): 5:45pm On Aug 23, 2020
Jazz will not get you if you have not been walk in the path where it will easily get you. He must have bee. having something to do with the ugly lady, maybe wanted to chop and clean mouth, and that one just did a fast one on him by way of jazz or whatever.

Klass99:
My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef) cheesy

Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.

Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike (not his real name) did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.

Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.

Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men grin
Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 1:30pm On Aug 11, 2020
Talking about “peak achievement,” you need to know that getting married is a totally different ball game from your aspirations, career and achievement. As a woman, your career is one area of your life, your marriage is another area. When we are talking about marriage please keep your career in your pocket. Because you can be the president of a country as a woman and no man still finds you marriageable.

If getting married is what you want to delve into in the future take it serious like you take you career or whatever serious. You all just go to school acquiring degrees more than a thermometer thinking that is the only thing that qualifies you for marriage.

Most men don’t care about how many degrees you have or if you head an organization. If they can’t see feminine qualities they are gone. You certificates and qualifications don’t hold those men down.

So, separate marriage from whatever you want to be in life.

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Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:59am On Aug 11, 2020
It is nothing to be ashamed of. Thank you very much.

REDBUNNY:
i speak for myself.
If you want to, you can remain in your father's house until you're 70.
Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:26am On Aug 11, 2020
E good as e get why e be guide. I am not disputing that fact. However, current circumstances that we all uniquely pass through in life, sometimes, we just have to be flexible.

Wigetsolar:


E get why it is a "Guide".
Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 4:10am On Aug 11, 2020
In this case he’s a black knight.
Mgtowmonk:
guy shut up abeg..you think these women will throw you a pity f**k cause you are defending them ?undecided
Quit white knighting !! it makes you look foolish undecided
Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 4:06am On Aug 11, 2020
Any man getting married is actually doing the lady a favour. Because men don’t have to marry before they can get all the privileges of having a wife. A woman on the other hand is looked at in a bad light if she’s not married and hopping from man to man claiming sexual liberation up and down. Even western nations where their men have not been emasculated find such women as damaged goods and men should only use them to pass time and not commit, let alone marry.

ChristieCrown:


Some of you speak as if a crane ran over your brain cells!

So, getting married as a man means you've done the woman a favour? So your dad did your mum a favour, lest her life would have been in shambles?

Even your sisters' lives are not worth living until a man pity them with marriage?

Were you high while typing that�
smcheeewww

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Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 3:46am On Aug 11, 2020
Hahahaha.... hilarious.
Oghenerobo2002:
That's definitely the right thing. If he's not ready to rent an apartment, he shouldn't get married. My neighbor built a house with over 10 rooms and made all his children live there with their wives. You should see North Korea threatening America right there

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Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 3:37am On Aug 11, 2020
But the Bible did not say that you’ll go to hell if you stay with your parents while married. The Bible is a guide not an enforcement.

Wigetsolar:
The man is a "mummy's boy" and is a recipe for bad marriage. Your sister is right.

If we go biblical, "...for this reason shall a MAN leave his parents..." Clealy, the man is still a boy.
Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 3:29am On Aug 11, 2020
Words are different from life experiences.

REDBUNNY:
But why on earth would a man get married and move his wife into his family house, his father's house.
Any man who does that is not ready to be married.
I can't even imagine living with my parents right now talk more of getting married and living in his own family house with his family.
No way.
Family / Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 3:15am On Aug 11, 2020
Lol... you are not a serious human being.

J111333:
Yea, your sister is doing the right thing. The man should at least kill his mum or chase her away before planning to get married so as not to discomfort his wife.

Biko advise your sister to keep waiting on the Lord for a good man.

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Religion / Re: You Are Inside A Woman's Private Part - Female Pastor Tells Man by oshaosha2014(m): 4:19pm On Aug 07, 2020
You are right. Had my own fair share of this Toto bondage. But I can tell you I am free now. It was a spiritual battle that I fought and got discouraged but I kept on however discouraging the situation was. I am free now.

Righteousness89:
People are Laughing but its a Serious Matter..

The Destiny of so many have been Bottled and Calabashed due to 2-7 minutes of so called Enjoyment!!

Great Destinies have been Wattered down by Marine agents Camouflaging as slay queens and slay kings..

But if you Can Genuinely Surrender to Jesus, there is Hope for you..

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Crime / Re: Dr. Olufunmilayo Sues Bola Aseyan, Demands £10,000 For Damages by oshaosha2014(m): 2:36pm On Jul 03, 2020
Two drunkards not one.

XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.
Romance / Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:29am On Jun 27, 2020
I see a regular SIMP here. Hope you are not leaving anything out of what your madam has told you to do today.
Xisnin:

That's a good one.
Being a control freak isn't a crime but
you can cahnge things by taking sniper or using the lagoon and
encouraging others like you to do same.

You will not only improve the gene pool but your sacrifice will
contribute to creating awareness about the issue.
Romance / Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:56am On Jun 27, 2020
So, I think we should find and kill them wherever they are because they are the worst.

Xisnin:

There are o African man mentality at least not to this extreme.
Of course, there are men like him but they were never in the majority.
Romance / Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:53am On Jun 27, 2020
Exactly so.

AfroKnight:
Looks like there are two captains on this ship.

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Romance / Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:52am On Jun 27, 2020
The only sensible reply to the OP here. Real talk.

peacettw:
Sweetie, most men if not all are overbearing and that is the honest truth. The trick is to find a balance, most do, others dont.
You sound smart, so believe me when I say that you will find a way, just like every other women have. As long as he isn't abusive, you will learn to work his buttons over time.
And remember, you have tons of other places to assert yourself like the work place, church, etc. So don't worry about losing your essence completely. Just be certain he respects you well enough and isn't abusive.
Romance / Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:43am On Jun 27, 2020
Their ladies who would like a guy to always keep them in check like your bf is doing. If that side of him is not bearable for you it is better you leave him and look for the one that can allow you have your way as you please.

The thing is, you ladies think you don’t need a man that is “controlling” but without such a man in many of your lives, you’ll definitely self-destruct and destroy everything thing good around you.

Alwaysachick:


If i keep pacifying him and he has no control again, won't it lead to physical or public abuse one day? What If he raises his voice at me in public one day?

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Romance / Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:40am On Jun 27, 2020
Newsflash, there are good guys out there who are easygoing about life and their relationship.

Yes, easygoing guys, but not without their own side effects. Stop talking as if there are perfect people out there. Just choose your own demon.


victorian:
Better free yourself. You guys are not married yet and you are getting all. Worked up over a bf who is overbearing.

Newsflash, there are good guys out there who are easygoing about life and their relationship.

Cut off from him and give yourself Correct breathing space.

He's not the end of the world.

Just free yourself jare.
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by oshaosha2014(m): 4:15am On Jun 21, 2020
Why is it that only the males have been hitting back at this girl. That tells you a lot about the inner workings of all the females that walk on this planet earth. This is what they all want, don’t be decieved. This one is saying their church mind. And most of them don’t care how you made the money. But Mother Nature distributes accordingly, they can’t work against that. NO BE ALL OF UNA GO MARRY THOUSANNAIRE LET ALONE MARRY MILLIONAIRE. Billionaire many of you will not smell, no matter how pretty. And guys, don’t kill yourself because of female validation. On the long run you’ll realize all they have to offer is the hole between their legs.

Gkemz:


Whoever heeds to this foolish counsel is heading towards fire.
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by oshaosha2014(m): 4:09am On Jun 21, 2020
How many of you are going to end up with thousannaire let alone millionaire.

koyyess:
Ned just vomit this one. Jisos shocked

Money is sweet.

Regina, I hope you are saving? It's time for you to build your own house.

You can call those chewing gum boys you used to roll with that think they are God's gift to women to come and clean the house up for you.
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by oshaosha2014(m): 4:05am On Jun 21, 2020
Many of them are empty vessels from being used up ritually by these guys on the fast lane leading to hell.

hybridblood07:
By the time you realize, it will be too late for you. Senseless girl
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by oshaosha2014(m): 4:03am On Jun 21, 2020
When the provider is no more and they have to share money and property nko? War!

AMvanquish:


When there is money to go round sufficiently, everyone go align. cheesy
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by oshaosha2014(m): 4:01am On Jun 21, 2020
Funny enough, the man is naturally the provider. So, dumping a girl because she’s poor doesn’t hold water in the life of a man. How much Regina whole family have that is attractive to Ned. In fact, Ned, I believe is the one feeding her entire family right now. What men really look for in women is beauty, youth and fertility, then other characteristics they look for are secondary.

The woman on the other hand, looks for security, resources, status, provider. Therefore, don’t blame Ned and Regina, they are just doing what is natural.

That being said, I would not marry any girl that is just in for what I can provide. And I would not use money and resources to convince any girl. I look for the true nature of people and if money is what I would use I might never know them. Ned’s wives may all seem to be in good rapport with other but let Baba die then you’ll see war. They are all enjoying the money for now. Thank God for their lives.

remele2:


You are right ooooo... And same with guys, when you jam a lady that is very rich,,,, dump the poor girl i repeat dump her,,,, bcus that pu**y can nva get any better or bring u good life.... U will only die on it... Dump her and go foe the all In one lady... With money... Money sweet ooooooooo dnt forget dump the poor girl

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Family / Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by oshaosha2014(m): 8:36pm On Jun 19, 2020
Submission is submission!!! It means the woman aligning to the man rule.

Ariza:
Exactly!
I sometimes wonder why most fuse over this submission of a thing. You see both gender dragging it like:

Man: "You must submit"
Woman: "lailai I will not submit" grin

And I wonder why submission to most Nigerians is like a tug of war. Isn't submission equal to agreeing? How is it possible not to agree or give a listening ear to someone you claim to love.? Must it be a war thing. How difficult is two coming together to make decisions or giving go ahead to proposed suggestions?

Seriously o su mi grin

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Family / Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by oshaosha2014(m): 8:34pm On Jun 19, 2020
Wow! I have a follower of CGA cool. That man has opened my eyes to female nature more than I have experienced in my 30-something year of living. I have enough information not to be played like a fiddle.

genq:


Facts.
Coach Greg Adams exposes this on a daily. Hypergamy is ingrained in the female DNA

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Romance / Re: Guys Never Invite A Lady To Pass The Night In Your Place (my Story) by oshaosha2014(m): 1:47am On Jun 19, 2020
Special package.

FARA4GA:


Guy.... Your own na still JJC compared to my experience.... Mine did not need a blade..

I was in my final year in the uni then and this babe who thought I was drunk after drinking some bottles of big stout, used their hands to pluck my public hair and threw it in her mouth when I opened my eyes . ...... Na so I grab her throat.... She dey form say she dey choke. ..... I didn't care, I told her the only way I would leave her throaty was that she spat all the contents in her mouth out.....

What exactly them dey even use person hair do?
Romance / Re: Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:51am On Jun 16, 2020
The last paragraph doesn’t happen anymore. Girls nowadays want to mess around with all the bad boys in town before settling for one good guy they are not attracted sexually but he is ready to wife them up. Bring all their emotional baggage into the marriage and making their husband’s life a living hell.

On guys level, job don’t come easily like that. Besides, ladies are working also so that jobs won’t go round as it used to be when it was only the man required to have started working before marriage. Therefore, most men get to their late 20s or 30s before they are ready for marriage.
Votukpa:


Very sound. I am in agreement with you.

One thing though...

You cannot put fire on your laps and it won't burn you. in other words you cannot circumvent natural law and order without reaping the concomitant consequences. Specifically, she cannot date several men platonically and not get swept away by one of them emotionally. This is a woman we are talking about here. This is why they are weaker than men. Emotions and their sway over them. Dating will lead to sex as surely as the sun rises and sets daily. This is why women used to be given into marriage back then, by her father or an elder. Once she has sex (outside holy matrimony) she changes forever. This will begin an unending cycle of sluttery which will not only wipe away her youth and beauty but lead her to marrying/choosing stupidly...that is if ever at all she marries.

Dating wastes girls' youth and beauty and young men's resources to get started in life.

Men should desire to work and get started in life early. Women should desire marriage early and enlist their elders and betters to help them choose wisley.

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