kaysy: This info is not true and totally misleading, NYSC has since Batch C 2014 gone digital and all these analogue process are no longer in vogue, i wonder where some of u dig out nonsense and feed the public.
NOW THIS IS HOW ITS DONE
FOR LOCALLY TRAINED GRADUATES Once u have satisfied all requirements and has passed all your courses in your school, After Senate/Academic Board's Approval, your documents is sent to your school's NYSC Office which is always domiciled at The students' Affairs Unit of every school.
NYSC always has a periodic timetable for each batch and every institution will be communicated to on when the NYSC portal will be opened so they can upload names of graduates approved by their senate or academic board. The timetable will also be on NYSC website for all to see
Once that is completed, the next step is NYSC online registration. Based on NYSC establishment act 2001, the system has been configured to automatically determines who is mobilized, exempted or excluded.
NOW HOW DO U KNOW YOUR MOBILIZATION STATUS 1) Local and foreign trained Full Time students who graduated on or below the age of 30 will be mobilized for National Service 2) Local and foreign trained Full Time students who graduated above the age of 30 will be exempted from National Service 3) Local and foreign trained Part Time students will be excluded from National Service irrespective of their age
Locally trained graduates that will be exempted will have to collect their exemption certificate from their institution while foreign trained graduates will collect theirs from NYSC, Abuja.
You have to NOTE the difference between Exemption and Exclusion Exemption Certificate is issued to Full Time graduates above 30 Exclusion certificate is issued to all Part Time graduates.
The reason why you see some old people serving is because they graduated below 30 but refused to go for NYSC, now they have reached a point in their life where NYSC is required, they have to come back and do it.... Even Kemi Adeosun can still serve if she wants to.
I keep quiet on Nairaland when people post rubbish and senseless news about NYSC but i just can't hold this one.
I honestly recommend this movie & Titanic for singles who value their future than present. Try d tactics & U'll be happy 4 Ur choice come rain or shine cos U'll experience both weather but Ur foundation matters!!! Gr8 Eddy!!!
I do not want to quote you, but I will point out some facts, and correct you.
1. You wrote and I quote you: "If you go to any of the original, undiluted, African spiritual energies, such as Sango, to make a request, the Deity or Sango, would give you conditions to fulfill there and then. You would not have to go home and come back for Sango's response, and if you meet the conditions set, Sango would oblige you with your request. It is as simple as that and it could happen within minutes of your request.
If, on the other hand, you go to the diluted or adapted spiritual energies like the Christian and Islamic Yahweh, to table a request, you don't get an answer right away. In fact, you could be talking to a brick wall. You keep praying, begging and fasting, hoping that someone is listening."
Who told you that you do not get instant result when you choose the christian or moslim path? Hmmm!
A portion of the book of Christains says, broad is the way which leads to destruction, but narrow is the way which leads to life. It quotes Jesus and says "My sheep know my voice". My brother there are many people in religion, but very few people in living a "way of life". Narrow is the way which leads to life.
Religion is a tool in the hands of the master of this world. Christianity, Islam, Hindu, etc are all religion. Religion traps. It enslaves. Even Sango worshopping which you praised so well is a kind of religion too. How dear you say recklessly that "thunder fire you" when Sango was still active in those days? Even a foreigner was pissed of with me because I annoyed her, and she said "thunder fires my enemy (not me)". I had to explain what the phrase really meant. She later said "Oh My God! I am sorry dear. I thought it is just a slang because it is common phrase on nairaland". So, can you see how that Shango which you portray so powerful is presently a common commodity on nairaland to the extent foreigners play with the god of thunder who used to spit fire out of his mouth? Who born anyone well to joke with the god of thunder in those days?
Hmmm! We all saw the video of one governor's unclothedness while swearing oath in a shrine in the eastern part of Nigeria some years back (I will not mention any name). But that governor later violated the sworn oath, and the only way they got at him was to show his unclothedness online. Why cannot that god of "okirija" or whatever the name is called killed the governor, and they had to take his unclothedness to the world to destroy his reputation? And was the governor really remorseful? Lol. Of course not. The man just dey do his thing dey go. And even with the swearing, that man still dey pull babes up and down. Do you want to tell me the girls the man dey pull up and down were not aware of the so called covenant he had taking?
Let us look at the yahoo boys. If you really want to get first hand information, go to twitter and not nairaland. You will read tweets about pastors and imams, and not only traditional priests assisting yahoo boys with spiritual powers. Who told you that what they give them do not work or works? Do you have any confirmation?
Here is my point - only few know the way of life. Those few know how to reach God. If you understand this concept, you will realise that those traditional people always say that it is the same God we serve. Only christians and maybe moslims say that no no no and that their God/god is different from other's. But let me tell you, there is a similarity with those who know the way of life. Religion is just to enslave.
Number one similarity is that those who know the way of life travel in the spirit. That is what you called witchcraft. I agree that they travel, but that is not the only way. Anyone can travel. The good and bad, the beautiful and ugly, all travel. They are few these days. And it is why deception is numerous out there. The Bible says that at the near end of this world, there will be lovers of money and many fake prophets. This is what is happening.
But when you meet a real man of God who is filled with the spirit of God, you will get instant answer. The funny thing is that you hardly hear their names out there. Do you think Pastor Adeboye does not have people he still consults? Or the bilionaire Bishop Oyedepo too? See, the Bible says my people perish because of lack of wisdom. There are still very few old babas we do not know who are in their 80s, 90s, or above that the Adeboyes and Oyedepos acknowledge as powerful people. I am not saying they go there to collect powers ooo. Do not misquote me as I am not ready for religious debate as the members of their churches wil come out to defend what they do not know, or start saying what I have not said. I am not here to argue with anyone.
When Elijah ran for his life because Jezebel killed all God's prophets. Oh! So thought Elijah. But God told him that he has in reservation a huge number of prophets who had not bowed down for Baal. There are few unknown silent powerful people who are christians and moslims.
You wrote that christians do not get instant answers. A dey laugh at your ignorance. If you want to try what I am saying, just be bold. Book an appointment with Dr. Daniel K. Olukoya of MFM, or even with his right hand man Pastor Kehinde. Go there with the god of whatever you have and try your power. If you return home, it is the mercy of God. I repeat, try your power with Olukoya and come and testify here that you defeated him. This is practical. Do you hear me? I mentioned Dr. Olukoya because you specifically pointed out christianity.
Have you ever heard Olukoya talks about politics and who is to be crowned the king of Aso Rock, or how to buy private jet? Go pick his books, they are enveloped with prayer points for unlocking, binding, winning in the spiritual world.
Let me close by saying that one common attribute with any powerful man whether he is a christian, moslim, sango, obatala, hindu, jumbo, crambo, marmon, eckankar, shango, obatala, yoga, memkrabolistikola , or whatever religion you call it is that they are silent. And they meditate deeply. What they medidate on is what differenciates them from one another. Think about it. Think well.
If you want to know what meditation is, visit a yoga center.
They move into the realm of the spirit during meditation. How? Man is made up of body, soul, and spirit. Your spirit man is the real you, connected by your soul to your physical body. How can anyone in the body connect to the spirit? The soul is the answer. A line of thought of a group of theologians says the soul comprises of the mind, thought and emotion. This is where everything happens. When you feed your mind (soul) with what can make you travel in the spirit, and you medidate deeply in it, off you go. So, what do you feed your mind on? All these people meet in the spirit realm.
Many materials out there. Many ways out there. Moslims have theirs, so also christians, hindus. Even Asians medidate more than any continent. Think about yoga again. You think say na joke? Just be careful of what you read and meditate on, and the approach you decide to take if you want to be powerful. It is a delicate and dangerous adventure. You get it wrong, though you travel in the spirit world, your soul can be condemned eternally.
There are powers, but there is a power which is above all powers. It is your duty to find this power. The power that is above all powers. Yes! Other powers can enable you fly, dance, kill, eat, or do whatsoever in the spirit..but there is a power which is above all powers. In order not to stir up religious conflicts here, let us stop here.
There is something which amazed me some few years back. We all know who the late Chief Dehinde Fenandez was. At 19 years, he moved containers of tin (solid mineral) to the US. Fenandez, who George W. Bush called the ambassador of extra-ordinary ambassadors. Fernandez, who was the finance Minister and Economic coordinator of another African country apart from Nigeria, and the country had to make him a citizenship. Fenendez, the owner of one of the most productive gold mining and refinery center in Africa. Fenandez, the Oluwo of the Ogboni fraternity.
At the later part of his life, he moved to Belgium. And what amazed me was that Pastor Tunde Bakare was at his burial ceremony in Brussel at the front row of the church service, and was beside his wife during interment. Hahahhaa! Is the Oluwo's body not that of the Ogboni? They are always buried in Naija. And the fraternity makes it a big ceremony. Their Oluwo's funeral ceremony in a foreign land? Fernandez is the first I heard of. The body must be brought to Nigeria. His heart (physical) belongs to them. And there are rights to be performed. But who am I to judge. Maybe they have flown there to perform whatever they suppose do. But here is my point, do not judge. There is a mystery there.
There is a friend who asked me to confirm if tales about human beings who turn to cats and birds at night are true. She wants to know about Benin City, as she is always reading on nairaland about these strange tales. I was trying to look at the best way to explain the little I know about the subject, but I realised that she is always eager to argue that it is unreal. I was not even saying it is real. I have not taking my position at all. And recently. She was saying I do not want to discuss the subject. She is right, i do not want to discuss it because she is too forward and it is hard to have a good conversation with someone like that. I was patient to see if a day will come when she is calm that I can say the little I know. But as soon as I mention anything along the line, it always turn to religious argument and debate? Who has time for yelling about such topics. A beg, make a go use my time do more productive things. My people perish because of lack of knowledge. #ByeByeToFoolishnessAndCrazyArguments
I have spoken, and I will not return to explain, elaborate, or debate anything with you.
Let me shock you. Even a few Athiests know how to medidate. And it is why they sound very sure of what they say. When they say there is no God, they have a reason they say so. I am not an Atheist, and I do not judge them. In fact, I always have good conversation with Athiests better than religious people.
I like how Aristotle put forward the "unmoved mover". And I believe Thomas Aquinas did justice to the subject.
I wish you best of luck in your pursuit. But do not go and injure yourself. Stay safe.
Hmmmmmm! What an eye opening information! Truely information is power!
HardMirror: Besides Rumours, Do You Have Any Hard Evidence Money Ritual Works?
It is unfortunate in this day and age, nigerians still believe cutting someone's head off would make them right (i sincerely wonder how this wld work).
In my opinion, it is all a scam and does not work. All we hear are stories, but never a first hand evidence to prove it works.
Do you have any evidence these rituals work?
Let us stop this madness and wasting of human lives on something obviously based on nollywood and not reality.
Yes boss! You r very correct! Even if you go out of duty call to assist; they still wont recognise those good deeds...This is very obtainable here & when they try you severally without success, you are tagged "a fetish being" but never mind; Truth must prevail: jst a factor of time!
Check our list right now if you don’t want to pay a huge sum of money for your car maintenance.
Every car on the market has its own price and their maintenance costs are also varied. As we all understand that the more luxurious the car is, the more it costs for maintenance. And it is said that cars made by Asian manufacturer seem to be comparatively cheaper to maintain.
Although what a vehicle is built for will undoubtedly affect its maintenance cost, there are still other factors that affect the car maintenance. The most prominent of these are the driving pattern of drivers, periodic problems and routine maintenance frequency.
This article will provide you with a list of 12 cheapest cars to maintain in Nigeria with our hope that it will reduce your stress as buying a car.
1. Toyota Camry
If Volkswagen is dubbed “the car of people” in Germany, the Toyota Camry is known as “the car of Nigerians”. The Toyota is named first on our list because it is easy to maintain and its parts are available widely. There are some things what you need to pay attention to as maintaining a Camry, including:
Oil change:
This work should be done after 6 months or 5,000 miles of running.
Brake Pad change:
The brake pad should be changed after the car has gained 2,500 miles. With excessive use, it should be replaced earlier.
Although the Camry is considered as the cheapest vehicle to maintain in our country, it still has its own problems. One regular problem of the Toyota Camry is its excessive oil consumption.
2. Toyota Tacoma This truck is one of the cheapest models in its class of Toyota. The car was made to be an everyday vehicle and a car for delivering goods. It is an ideal car for Nigerian roads with a great durability. Its maintenance is also not expensive at all.
At moderate and low mileage, the Toyota Tacoma showcases an excellent performance. However, when the car’s mileages have reached over 100,000, there will be more problems with its transmission’s shift. To avoid these issues as much as we can, follow our below tips:
- Change filters and oil after every 5,000 miles. - Check the fluid levels after every 5,000 miles. - Repeat this work with the braking system.
3. Toyota Corolla
The Corolla is listed to be one of the cheapest cars to maintain because the only one common problem with it is a water pump failure, other recurring problems almost don’t exist.
You should check the oil level, the drums and brake pads of the Corolla after every 5,000 miles.
4. Toyota Sienna The Toyota Siena is more familiar with Nigerian transporters. This has also proven for the car’s durability and easy maintenance. It is also not easy to break down a Toyota Siena.
It seems that the Toyota Yaris was designed for those who don’t have very high requirements for their car as the car has a quite low price. Therefore, the Yaris components are not expensive and are widely available on the market. The Yaris’s common problems are involved in its ignition. These problems are often repetitive and irrelevant to mileage. They usually happen in the Yaris that has mileages as low as 200.
Although the Kia Optima needs virtually the same tips for maintenance as other Toyota models, it is not completely similar to them. The Kia Optima components’ weakness is that they need to be changed regularly.
7. Toyota Highlander
This is the only Toyota SUV on our list. Although it is very solid, it comes equipped with much larger components than other Toyota vehicles. This means that the cost of buying its parts will be higher when the demand arises.
The Accord is the least expensive Honda model to maintain in Nigeria. The car’s basic routine maintenance doesn’t cost much money. Therefore, any demand for replacement of components will lead to a little high fee.
Apart from the parts’ price, the Honda Accord often has problems with its transmission. If they are not repaired properly, this could lead to an expensive price for the car maintenance.
After the Accord, the Civic is the second popular Honda car in Nigeria. However, the Civic is not similar to the Accord as its durability is not very good. Although the cost of its parts is quite cheap, still, it is not an ideal car for Nigerian roads and has some problems with its gearbox.
10. Volkswagen Jetta
The Volkswagen Jetta is not only easy to maintain but also very sturdy. That is why cab drivers love to use this car. Volkswagen Jetta is not broken down regularly. Therefore, it will be a long time of using before the car gets a fault.
Although the car has a great reliability and durability, still, it is not named at the top of our list because it has a lot of common problems. Some of them include the electrical fan’s continuous running when the car has shut down and gearbox problems at a high mileage.
Although the Lexus Rx300 is not known as a luxurious car, it is still a luxury variant of Toyota. So it can be said that the Rx300 is the only luxurious car on the list. It is also one of the most favorite vehicles on Nigerian roads and has been in our country for 10 years.
Although the Lexus Rx300 does not have any serious problems, its maintenance may be a bit demanding because the cost of its components is quite high.
12. Toyota RAV4
The Toyota RAV4 is famous for its durability. Its components are also easy to find on the market as needed. The car’s multiple problems start after it has gained 70,000 in its mileage.
The older the car is, the more difficult its maintenance is. And it is noteworthy that the car’s age is based on its mileage, not its using time.
Generalmac: It's been a month plus now, the car started only to drive out of the compound and the car suddenly broke down, since then, it refused to start, when diagnosed with a computer, the response is always 'failed'. It's a Honda CRV, 2004 model. The signs include;
1. Battery light does not show up on the dashboard.
2. Gearbox light does not show up on the dashboard too.
3. The gear does not move upto park gear.
Other dashboard lights do show up.
It was suggested that it could be from the gearbox, a new gearbox was bought and put but still same 'failed' result.
Also, when accelerating from gear 1 to gear 2,the car jerks, it's been like this for more than 2 years before the car broke down last four weeks without the problem being known.
Confirmed electrical issue! Chai! Aye ma ni ika o!
Lovely cum great reminder for those of us who are so engrossed with other stuff thereby fuelling our cars & speeding off just to meet deadlines. What a gr8 reminder!!!
CastedAyo: A Nigerian woman resolved to become successful in her own right and build her house after she was abandoned by the man she built with.
Blogger Okoro Blessing Nkeiruka took to her Instagram page to share her story. She said she always prayed for her man's success above hers and, as a result of her prayers and support, her man moved from living in his father's house to building a 1-bedroom flat in his father's compound, and from that to building a 3-bedroom apartment.
She said she couldn't wait to live in the new house and dreamt of what life would be like in the house. But she never lived in it. As soon as it was completed, her boyfriend separated from her.
When begging didn't change his mind, she vowed to succeed in her own right and build her house. Today, she has completed a 2-storey building consisting of 6 flats for rent.
She went on to advise women to ensure they don't forget to build themselves while building with a man.
Sharing a photo of her new building, she wrote; "Let me share this to inspire you.....
I was once like you, that little girl with no dreams. But I grew up so fast because of my early experience in life.
Once upon a time when all I did was pray for a man to be successful but never prayed for my self, maybe because I believed that some things are meant just for the men.
I met my ex in his room right in his fathers house, I prayed for him and he built a 1 bed room flat in his family compound. The family compound got so hot for me and I prayed again and begged God to give us a bigger place so we can move and he started completing his 3 bed room apartment.
I had so much hope , so happy I will have a big kitchen and a compound to myself , could not wait to have my room, as we went to inspect the place during weekends.
But guess what ?, I never lived in that house, we separated before he finished . I even went back to beg him because I felt cheated and felt another woman will come and enjoy my sweat but he did not want again.
People suggested juju for me , some suggested prophet, and some said they will take me to Ibadan were they will make him come back to me so I can go back and enjoy my sweat ? but I had a powerful mom , God bless her . She told me, NKIRUKA, listen to me, there is nothing your ex have that you can not have only if u work hard .
I took my mums advise and started my journey to succeed. This is 6 Flat’s for rent .
Just wait until you see my personal residence ??. Abi Bom therapy lounge ? Hey you young lady .
As you build with a man don’t forget to build yourself . You can do everything a man can do and even more Build yourself is what we call plan B.... I am a product of grace."
I guess d guy took off because U see marriage as a means of escape from poverty or fending 4 ursef jst like many Naija niwadays girls; however he strengthend U d more, so thank GOD for d guy & b humble not stupid in Ur next relationship!
delugajackson: Relationships were only meant for two, but sadly, some b.itches don't know how to count. Well this isn't new, as 95% of Nigerian ladies keep more than 1 man in their lives, each serving one purpose or the other.
If you check a typical Nigerian lady's phone, you will see contacts like - Emeka shoprite, Chukwudi SARS, Prince Camry, Nnamdi Venza, Femi recharge card, Subscription guy, Big Fish, Fresh fish, My crush, My school love, My first love, My second love, My First heart, My second heart, My X, My former love, My current love, iPhone maga, First Bank guy, U.B.A guy, Cab guy, Ice-cream guy, Cool room guy, Hotel guy, Sweet Choir-master, Sweet neighbour, and finally, My Daddy in the lord.
They are all undercover p.rostitutes and packaged hoes, packaged hoes parading themselves as girlfriends and wives-to-be. Later, they will be running from Shiloh to city of zion, looking for a God fearing husband that will take over their rotten, dilapidated and worn out holes.
Jesu Almighty! Haaaaaa! Nowadays ladies ehnnnnnnn!........am jst short of words! Haba!
judeodion: ...but I think they all had you for one reason: Sex.
delugajackson: Relationships were only meant for two, but sadly, some b.itches don't know how to count. Well this isn't new, as 95% of Nigerian ladies keep more than 1 man in their lives, each serving one purpose or the other.
If you check a typical Nigerian lady's phone, you will see contacts like - Emeka shoprite, Chukwudi SARS, Prince Camry, Nnamdi Venza, Femi recharge card, Subscription guy, Big Fish, Fresh fish, My crush, My school love, My first love, My second love, My First heart, My second heart, My X, My former love, My current love, iPhone maga, First Bank guy, U.B.A guy, Cab guy, Ice-cream guy, Cool room guy, Hotel guy, Sweet Choir-master, Sweet neighbour, and finally, My Daddy in the lord.
They are all undercover p.rostitutes and packaged hoes, packaged hoes parading themselves as girlfriends and wives-to-be. Later, they will be running from Shiloh to city of zion, looking for a God fearing husband that will take over their rotten, dilapidated and worn out holes.
Jesu Almighty! Wa yo Allah! Chineeeeeeke! Haaaaaa Oluwa o! Nowadays ladies ehnnnnnnn! Chai Internet love! Hey Gbese! See gobe......am jst short of words! Haba!
bigpicture001: Ambode got tinubu's body language and was reluctant to buy the APC nominations form thereby sparking speculations he will defect, tinubu noticed he myt go away nd win with his authority as governor from another pair and thereby offered him the olive branch, ambode felt comforted nd fell for it.. immediately he purchased the form, granted he can't cross carpet anymore, tinubu set machinery in place and put up support for a nu guy whom he encourage to get a form...now all he need to do is simply defeat ambode at the primary level and ambode us finished. except pdp can save him now,by jettison of thier candidates and adopt ambode so as to use his incumbent power nd love of the ppl to defeat tinubu.... ambode is finished!!!!!!!
Hmmmmm! See BAT game! We all know what BAT means and as an animal too-decode the rest
WISH THIS STORY IS TRUE. LAGOS IS GETTING INTERESTING
Governor Akinwumi Ambode has just been told very expressly by the messengers of his estranged godfather that he won't get APC ticket for second term.
Mr. Babajide Sanya-Olu, a strong ally of Tinubu and notable financier of Rauf Aregbesola's backed MANDATE MOVEMENT has been endorsed to flag the Guber ticket of APC.
All the chairmen of APC in 20 LGAs and 37 LCDAs have signed the nomination form of Babajide Sanya-olu.
Another headache for Ambode is that the Governor may be impeached if he defect to another party unless the Abuja cabal come to his side through police and public unrest by zealing off the assembly complex till the end of next year general election.
The Speaker, Lagos State House of Assembly, Mudashiru Obasa in a letter to Ambode yesterday advised the governor not to submit his nomination form, warning the Governor that he risk being IMPEACHED if he dare disobey his advise.
Meanwhile, Abuja is considering backing Ambode to run under Action Democratic Party (ADP) like Obasanjo backed Ikhedi Ohakim of Imo State under PPA in 2007 against his party and triumphed.
The next two weeks will be interesting in Lagos Political firmament as the prayers of common People seems to be answering.
[b][/b][quote author=AreaFada2 post=71103275]*Very succinct. Even girls who want to play ball mostly conceal they have a boyfriend.
A woman with kids for another man and get dicked anyhow by her hubby is not really attractive to over 95% of men. Men want monopoly, though secretly a considerable number of women play away of course. But at least the hubby/bf doesn't know or suspect most times.
Whether the guy quickly adjusted himself or not, being seen with a married woman is hardly a thing to be proud of.
1.) Majority of men will rather die of konji than sleep with a married woman!
2.) Only old, diabolical, heartless, irresponsible men sleep with married women
3.) No single guy will be aware that a woman is married and have sex with her, never! Such guys are very few and are usually broke, hungry & jobless
4.) Majority of men see married women as sexually unattractive no matter how pretty the married woman is
Your opinions are true to certain extent but it depends on individual's level of morality. Now check these scenarios 1) An ex who re surfaced after several years(especially if both lost contact due to no fault of either parties)-when did mobile phones become a part of us sef? (2) Ex who after several years suddenly found themselves living in thesame neighborhood again. Would you pretend you never met such persons in life or pick up a fight all in d name of what? (3) A single guy/lady going after married women/men (4) Married men/women going after singles. These are really matters of the heart & quite complicate because we live in a world where hypocrisy reigns supreme!
gennypearl: I can’t believe this happened. My husband and I have been married for over two years. I consider our marriage solid, great, and fun. No complaints at all not until he lost his job and that started weighing us down as a family. My husband was my best friend; everything was going great till that evening when I returned from work and met him at home so downcast. I was surprised to meet him at home unlike other days that he returns very late. Curious to know the reason for his cold reaction, he showed me a sack letter. I was devastated but decided to take it all in good faith. I consoled him and advised him to be on a look out elsewhere because my job won’t sustain us for long. He searched for months but all effort was futile. In a matter of months, I started feeling the burden of running the family single handedly. I confronted my husband on the development of his job search, the answer I got from him was not convincing at all. The frustration was becoming unbearable for me, we no longer communicate as the couple we used to be. Sex in our marriage was history as there was no excitement to it. As an active Christian, I ran to my pastor for counseling. I narrated my family’s problems to my pastor and pleaded with him to intervene by talking to my husband. He agreed and asked me to invite my husband to see him the next day. On getting home, I told him what the pastor said and pleaded with him to attend the counseling with me. He was reluctant at first but agreed at long last. The next day we were at the pastor’s office. The pastor spoke to us on some marital issues and advised us to come for two weeks counseling.
That was where my ordeal with the pastor started. When we got home, my husband was so angry with me and said he will not be a party to that counseling nonsense. He blamed me for dragging our family to the public though I gave deaf ears to all he said that night and decided to attend the counseling alone with or without him. The first day of the counseling was wonderful though the pastor asked about my husband; I gave an excuse a excuse for his absence. On the third day of the counseling program, my husband went to see his parents. He spent three days because his aged mother was sick. It was at this time our pastor decided to visit our home. He said he had come to anoint the house. He knew I was disturbed. When I told him my husband and I were falling apart, he asked me when last I made love to him; honestly I couldn’t remember because it has been a long time. That was when I started having thought about sex. I was filled with erotic thoughts. At that moment, the thought of how handsome and attractive the pastor is filled my subconscious. At first I tried to push the thought off my mind but I couldn’t. The next day, he visited again to continue the praying and anointing. Even though my husband was not around, I still welcomed him because he was always welcomed in members house. Or is it the devil at work? When I narrated what I was going to through, he was moved with so much compassion seeing my tears and came close to console me. He moved closer. He looked me deep in the eyes. I didn’t know how it happened. But our lips met. We kissed with hot passion. We couldn’t hold it any longer and before we knew what was happening, we were already naked and moved to our room. He made love to me passionately on our matrimonial bed. I realized it been like for ages since I felt the touch of a man. We were so deep into each other like our life depended on it. We were both exhausted after we both hit our sexual climax; he told me how deeply he has falling for me and pleaded with me not to end the relationship. Then be brought out anointing oil. He said our marriage is blessed since I have made love to him on our matrimonial bed. He said our marriage will be restored again and that my husband will get another job. Every time he visited and when my husband is not at home, we made love. He will then proceed to anoint the bed. It’s been almost a year now, that I have been having the secret relationship with our pastor. One strange thing is that he always insisted we made love on my matrimonial bed and I could not resist. He was so trusted by my husband that he did not suspect anything. My husband also moved around a lot in search of job. At a point he had to take up menial jobs in some towns and returns weekend. But my husband is yet to get a better job and I am feeling being used. Did he cast a spell on me or I am the guilty one? I don’t want to go to hell fire when I die. I have asked God for forgiveness and vowed never to see the pastor again but that is not helping the matter because whenever I’m with my husband, I’m not bold enough to tell him how I feel. I know I’m wrong but do I confess to my husband? Maybe that will be my only and true salvation. What do I do?
Gagznation1: This is a no brainer... Traditional marriage is the real marriage. It's really painful that there are still people like this lady out there disturbing us with my pastor this and that. To whom brain is given,sense is expected. Six years down the line u are not married u are telling us ur Story... Yimu :-
Recently, I heard from another pastor saying that traditional marriage is also marriage and sex is allowed after traditional marriage... ANSWER!
GoTV: This is indeed very shameful. How many times have we read or seen Muslim women fighting over adultery online Even though I'm a full blooded Christian, it's shameful that we Christians have allowed Muslims and Islam to be the best religion due to our misdeeds. No matter how we despise Muslims, they are very upright and morally better than we Christians. Prostitution and all sorts of immorality is predominant amongst we Christians yet we claim that we are followers of Christ? Even Christ will be ashamed of our irresponsible preachers. I may have to quit Christianity one day if our people don't change. Professor Akintola is always available to chastise every erring Muslim. Can that be said about our money conscious and over politicised CAN
You nailed it sir! HyperHypocrisy has eaten deep into most 'Christian" blood! Even the devil is better than some so called "Men of GOD"
germanized: This is so sad. Government needs to crackdown on most of these religious centers tagged "churches" and some mosques/Alfa or Imam's houses in rural areas. Be it C&S, Cele and some fake "pentecostal" churches too. Most of those places are shrines and their leaders or shepherds are involved in rituals. Most of those who attend those churches too are aware, but because of selfish interest, they won't say the truth.
Babalawos in prophets' garments... God will keep exposing these bloody ritualists.
Oh! Thanx sir but can U link me with a friend who can handle it or can't d engine be restored except purchasing @ Ladipo cos am really scared of those guys there. Too many scamers there
well, as developers bring in more functions to their apps, so are we looking for ways to use them judiciously..
sice these oloshos aint loyal no more, you can now know if your girlfriend is using her whatsapp to cheat on your with her other boyfriends thanks to whatsapp web.
whatsapp web synchronizes your laptops browser with your phone (original intention)
here, we synchronizes her whatsapp with your laptops browser.
what you need:
1. laptop with internet connection 2. browser e.g chrome or mozilla 3. her phone.(for 3 minutes)
4. small brain
PROCEDURE....
1. Log on to web.whatsapp.com from your laptop browser
3. scan the barcode on the laptop with the phone. bingo
done
now your can monitor her chats when she is online from the safety of your home by just logging on to web.whatsapp.com....and she wont know unless she is tech savvy.
@Oga Gazzuz, mine is a "bolugi", old schl, old model 1996 Rav4 but I don't know if its Zfe or Xfe but all I witness is rough idling & misfiring but this morning amazed me with all 4plugs wet with oil; can U pls give me a guide on cost of replacement or can it be rebuild? Can U handle it or would U refer me to a competent hand that I'll have peace of mind cos I love this my rugged plumpy ride?
I see so many matured & sincere contributions to this thread! It pays to be man enough because you will never satisfy humans! Live your life & assist whoever within your means & ungrudgingly too!
What if U lost contact during d course of the relationship & U never met again untill after a decade plus, both married with kids but still unfulfilled. Meanwhile both of you were d talk of d town then but fate had to pull U apart for further studies. Only for social media to bring U back togeda again accidentally. Hmmmm! Easier said than done: U both need serious grace to keep off each other. You just need to be in such shoes to know how it pinches. What a life of mystery! What a world of uncertainty we live in!
In as much as their is good, there also is Bad. However, that doesn't mean everything in life depends on GOD & Prayers as some religious folks claim. NAY! We actually need to use our brains because that is Y GOD created us with one. ..
Firefire: Some states in the North are openly destroying these source of revenue accruing to the FG and in another breath turn around to collect & share from thatbkf other states. High level of DECEIT & FRAUD.
Let see if Mohomodu Buhary will attend this commissioning.
Racoon: Osinbajo simply have the midas touch.APC should field him in 2019 instead of the incompetent boss he is deputizing for.So pathetic a well read & exposed man is seconding a man with no basic O'Level.Only in Nigeria.
Only in my country do you find a blindman leading those with full eyesights. Only in my country do you find a welder/Carpenter leading an Electrical committee, Oh! Only in my country do you find a "pastor" wanting to purchase a power transformer yet with no iota of technical expertise except been 'religious'! Yet we want things to work out by praying to Jesus Christ & Mohammed: Oh! Only in Nigeria the Hypocritical fellow is loved&praised by so many while the focused&forthright is hated in all totality. What is GODLY about these actions of ours. Oh! What a land mass engulfed in disorderliness embedded in their genes. Who will save us from us?
@OP! Is it your trophy? Free d Man joooor. Let him sell all now then him eyes go clear. Am sure he'll later start blaming witches & wizards for selling them. African mentality, I've seen a 47yr old Airport shuttle driver (drives a Big for nothing Camry) and spends like no tomorrow anytime Ego lands. Using his money to fix tiles &,AC in a rented apartment but to buy land na tabooo for am, all lands na Bush, We have so many like that; they r not useless but useful as a lesson to others! ( never mind my mix ups, I feel free joooor)
Greenleaf247: It’s no longer a new addiction that men will do a lot to please women they are interested in. Most men act childish when they are really in love and this has cost them a great deal. It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one stupid. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know what’s favorable and what’s not.
We are not saying you shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be romantic but not to the detriment of yourself and you should know that, just because something might be done in the name of love does not make it the right thing to do and these are the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.
1. Steal For Her Obviously, we all know where this will end you and by the time you will be back, someone might have taken your place. Never allow anything to push you to steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might drop you, unless of course, you are in it together like Bonny and Clyde.
2. Pay For Her Education It is not a bad thing to support her education, if you can help but to take full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men.
3. Buy Her A House When You Don’t Have One Common sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not favor her and think of yours later. Building a house for a woman when you don’t have one yourself can make you is wrong in every way. When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. There are many men still biting their fingers over this.
4. Fight Another Man Because Of Her Fighting because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen, either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win. Unless it is for self-defense.
5. Reject Your Family Because Of Her A family is everything and no matter what, you can’t reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman.
6. Change Your Appearance These days, there are many men doing a lot, taking pills to make changes to their bodies all because they feel that’s what women love. Changing you to please a woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go, ideally, people you be with should love you for who you are.
7. Give Up On Your Dreams To Satisfy Her So there are many men out there who gave up on their dreams to help their woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women dumped them afterwards. Never do this after reading this.
8. Being Over-Submissive It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.
9. Starve Yourself For Her Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.
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, or whatever religion you call it is that they are silent. And they meditate deeply. What they medidate on is what differenciates them from one another. Think about it. Think well. 
Even though I'm a full blooded Christian, it's shameful that we Christians have allowed Muslims and Islam to be the best religion due to our misdeeds. No matter how we despise Muslims, they are very upright and morally better than we Christians. Prostitution and all sorts of immorality is predominant amongst we Christians yet we claim that we are followers of Christ? Even Christ will be ashamed of our irresponsible preachers. I may have to quit Christianity one day if our people don't change. Professor Akintola is always available to chastise every erring Muslim. Can that be said about our money conscious and over politicised CAN
