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jericco1: lol she understands, i'll struggle for the future. our marriage is safe and Loud

okay ooo...wishing you well in life oooooo....


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kodewrita: Pay someone to come in and help out once in a while. You do not have to do it ALL.

A non-live-in housekeeper who comes once a week to wash all laundry and sweep the place would not be a bad idea. if she can run market errands, even better.
Add a dishwasher for the plates and you are good to go.

coool.....

ogaofficer: "Picture Sm1 goin 2ru d best experience they've ever had in terms of Health trainin". My 2cent. . . A long story bro.

nice idea.......

jericco1: Well I did promise my future wife that I would help her presently, but when we finally get married she gonna do the rest.

oga jerrico.....hmmmmm.....remember marriage vows oooo...tell her now so she will stay...let her stay than pending sweet-mounting her for what will not happen ooooooo....my advise.....to avoid future marriage crashing .....

GentleMimi: Lol. No be small tin.


Bro,it hasn't been a very good experience ooo. That stuff affected me for yrs. Even now,i find it difficult to trust. As if e never do,the person i respected the most on this earth failed me too,on top the same matter. But the consolation be say good men are out there. I've met a few.

It is hard to trust especially when disappointed ones or couple of times......please take heart and believe that life goes on....it is well....

dokson: The man can help out in domestic chores provided it is not a command or authoritatively frm d wife.

simple but meaninful comment to those that will learn ni sha oooooooo

jfem: DETAILED SOURCE: http://nationalmirroronline.net/new/49-8bn-oil-funds-not-missing-says-senate/

…rejects proposal to remove fuel subsidy
Condemns Emir of Kano, Sanusi

The Senate yesterday delcared that the alleged $498.bn missiing oil proceeed are intact just as it opposed a fresh proposal to remove fuel subsidy.

The proposal to remove subsidy was made as senators considered the report of the joint Committees on Finance and Banking and Currency, which investigated the alleged missing of $49.8bn from the Federation Account and opposed the recommendation of the committee that fuel subsidy should be removed.

This was also as the lawmakers advised President Goodluck Jonathan to prepare and present to the National Assembly a supplementary budget “to cover the expenditure in the sum of N90.6bn for PMS (premium motor spirit) subsidy 2012 and N685.9bn for kerosene subsidy expended without appropriation by the National Assembly.”

While rejecting the idea of fuel subsidy removal now, the Senate advised the government to instead, ensure adequate punishment for those defrauding the nation under the guise of fuel subsidy claims.

The lawmakers lamented that a number of cases against subsidy fraud seem to have been abandoned in the court.

The former Governor of Central Bank of Nigeria, CBN, Mallam Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, had alleged that the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, NNPC, had failed to remit $49.8bn to the Federation Account over a 19-month period

DETAILED SOURCE: http://nationalmirroronline.net/new/49-8bn-oil-funds-not-missing-says-senate/

Where is it/


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Ewuro1: Getting through to a partner who doesn't listen is frustrating, difficult, and likely to seem like an exercise in futility once you get exasperated enough. It's not necessarily that your partner doesn't want to listen to you; he or she may simply lack active listening skills. Sometimes, of course, there are deeper issues at fault. Every relationship is different, so you'll have to consider why your spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend isn't listening to you. Whatever the case, getting through to a partner who doesn't listen isn't impossible – it just requires some dedication and patience.

CONSIDER YOUR DELIVERY

How do you talk to your partner? Do you stage a frustrated ambush at the end of the day? Start complaining about something days after it happened, after it's had time to build up and blow up? If you want to start getting through to a partner who doesn't listen, you have to think about the way you approach the situation. Every person is different, and your partner may do better with a different delivery method. Think, too, about how you like to be spoken to, and try to approach your partner the same way.

THANKS....it an helpful tips.

InesQor: Haba. Why nobody answer her na?

After all, this is the Nairaland section and people always ask questions like "how do I insert a you-tube video? How do I insert an image, etc?" and I have seen tutorials where the OP was answered properly

I will put it in a quote, cos it seems the spambot doesn't like this kinda post

hoooooops ......thanks it helps....

GentleMimi: Then he should be ready to make his input. I'm not the type to talk too much or nag about home matters. I have a job and career. I believe in contributing towards family finances. If he thinks being a provider is an excuse to be lazy,then i'm allowed to be partially lazy.
I'm not gonna ever ask my hubby to cook or scrub the toilet. Infact,i find it difficult to be impressed by another person's meals. All i'll ask for his help in some heavy duty back-breaking work. If possible,he can help wash some clothes in the washer and iron,weed,arrange the sitting room,garage,store,wash the cars....i can handle the kitchen,room,toilet and bath,cook,market stuff...blablabla. Just an example. Is it too much to ask?
No reasonable and loving man will see his wife down on her knees,slaving away,and still sit his azz on the couch!

fact ni o..... all boils down to the level of understanding of both parties....i guess........

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GentleMimi: Fijiano my bros,prevention is better than cure. My bro,i've seen and heard. I've got married aunties,friends and family members. When it comes to men and libido,i cannot bet my life on it. E better make d man sef dey mess up outside,than get tempted with house help.
I lived for a few yrs with a family that i love to pieces. I got close to the ''help''. This girl decided to leave one day,but refused to disclose reasons. I begged her to the point of tears cos i really liked her. When she disclosed her reasons,i felt weak! Oga has been up to no good.
Even someone i trusted with my life disappointed me. Yet u want me to get female help? God forbid. I'd rather slave it through!

na wa life shaaaaaa------with different phase......

VenusBetty: House big pass house

tell them oooo.... if you grow for typical African (Nigeria precisely) home settings...where family join the league of couple and run things as if it be their yard...you go know so teeeee oooooooo..... that house chores fit quench life if not checked.........


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CharlesPhc: Got better for about two straight weeks in Port Harcourt but now its very very bad. No power for one straight week now in Woji axis Phc. The period it got better, the diesel vendor threatened we would soon come knocking again and true to their words, we are back knocking even harder this time...!!! What is most annoying is that Gov. Amaechi's commissioner for Power is busy arguing Argentina vs Germany final match in a popular joint in Phc.

Funnny oooooooo......wetin man love dey plenty for him talk says a proverb.....


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lilmax: Some lazy women go die on top this matter today just watch

eye opened oooooooooo

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MARKone: Hehehehe

And Na'ima mistakenly opened her legs wide

i wonder oooooo

Blackchampion: Mek i read through 1st

better....

teeo: So you're saying its the man that creates all the mess in the home. As for me I would try to assist But she should know it's her duty to do the chores.

ahhhh...while should i say that...Am a MAN....we no dey create wahala ooooo...... just checking to understand and help others better.


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kekakuz: if my sister comes over and cook vegetable soup. the whole house from the gate knows something is going on .I tried the same today .guyz nothing o. the thing no scent.as if am cooking stone.

that is strange......may be you are the one not perceiving it na uuuuhhhhhh.

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Taiwo20: Veg oil and grounded pepper like the hausas do or u pour some milk on it and drink,just like u taking oats

Chai...what are we to name this oooooo?

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Congratulations to him...hope he performs better than predecessors....

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RIP.......Life and its other side.

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Kanwulia: Name one chore wey pass chore!
Only a matter of choice.
Abi man dey carry belle?

Make man push pickin from im blokos na abi?

funnnnnnnnnnny pass oooooo

claireshan: story ,,that's only when you are a lazy azz

let's assume the husband lives in another state entirely so she will wait for him to come back abii?

hmmm...got you better this time.....but when he is not around..... I think the chores will reduce since all the woman cares for is the children (if any yet) and herself.....

RoyalRoy: "Health Is Wealth.... We conquered"

thanks....more....

claireshan: if he doesn't want to help me,,, I will do it myself

DIY method could be too stressful especially when the children are till young to help......I think

walad4yhu: Plz someone should help n suggest a caption/phrase to use on a graduation polo/tshirts... The department Health Education.

Wat I av in mind is:
"Proud Health Education Graduate"

please check out https://www.nairaland.com/1808036/nairalander-needs-suggest-caption-phrase for help...created it soley because of you...read contributions there for help....

walad4yhu: Plz someone should help n suggest a caption/phrase to use on a graduation polo/tshirts... The department Health Education.

Wat I av in mind is:
"Proud Health Education Graduate"

Well to get better help and avoid distraction to the ongoing discussion....... I don waka create a post to solicit for help on your behalf for health section....If bad-bele people no make moderators them delete the thread ooo...you will surely get ideas usable in less than 24 hours...I trust Nairalanders..... check it out now at https://www.nairaland.com/1808036/nairalander-needs-suggest-caption-phrase

Plz someone should help n suggest a caption/phrase to use on a graduation polo/tshirts... The department Health Education.

Wat I av in mind is:
"Proud Health Education Graduate"

Please contribute it urgent.Thanks!

Burger01: Husband wey dey hustle and dey bring money for food to come dey sweep floors and wash dishes for house, abi? Women and their unending wahala. God! Why did You give us women

Btw, men should always try to give a hand or two in house chores. Not a compulsory obligation though. Better still men could employ the service of house helps when needed.. Women. Smh.

Your first paragraph dey make meeee laugh so teee... ...in our world today some women now hustle pass men even for secular world...am I right?

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