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Listen up sista jay or what ever you call your self. This isn’t a matter of being a coward or not. This is a matter of being responsible. So what do you expect? I should thank her for having fun, having babies and looking for more ways to leave the kids alone and have more? So, guys should just leave the hard working, responsible ladies alone and look for those that have puzzled life style? Think. Use your head the next time you post your Shit.

This tradition was practiced by the forefathers back in the days. Those that practice it now in the village, in the town, in the western nations are still living in darkness.

If is the guys choice, it may have to do with the ladie's past otherwise is the guys mother that is presuring him.

What's up poster? If you are busy making babies, don't you think you should be a little responsible and try to be busy taking care of them instead of thinking of how to get more babies? To get to your question. It depends on what the date is for, to help you get more babies? I don't know. To just have fun and leave your kids home alone? I don't know. To just go out and drink and forget about your responsibilities? I don't know. Or do you need some one that will help you financially take care of some one's children? I don't know. So to answer your question you need to be specific. Date, doesn't really mean anything, what's for is what counts.

Hazel Eyed or what ever you named your self take your time.

Hey poster? I think you are in the wrong forum. This forum is not for prostitutes, so go find a thread that matches your sexual and financial needs. Retarded idiot.

Some ladies might not want to be open about this but I guess telling the truth is not always easy. I don't know if this thread is for guys or not but the reasons African ladies maynot want to marry African American guys might be because some of African American guys look and dress like gangsters, school drop outs, smoke weed, use and abuse many women simply said impregnate anything that comes their way[condom have cut this trend down by over %75, imagine if condom didn’t exist? It will be a disaster in a way, women are to be blamed for this too, it will rarely happen if they didn’t consent to it]. A.A. guys don’t resemble their parents wish and wants,  most African parents can’t stand akata so they pass that on to their sons and daughters, want some one that can relate to their culture, and last but not least they just don’t get them. So am I. I am just kidding. No, actually is true.

But all this applies to African guys in the US who forget where they came from and want to be akata if you know want that means. This issue still applies to African guys who date or marry African American ladies. I am not aware of my age mates who date African American ladies. Why? That’s another thread. One thing I dislike about African American ladies is their behavior. Bitchy behavior. Not all but most of them. This also apply to any lady, bitchy behavior doesn’t help. Some one may ask what is bitchy behavior. That will be another thread. Is not a gender issue but a culture issue.

A lot of African guys I know date White ladies. Why? That’s another thread.  The once that I know that have married, for some reason end up with African ladies. Why? That’s another thread. There are some African guys that use women and then go back home and marry Ms. Innocent who may not be actually what she seems to be.  They go home like they have been waiting for Ms. right. Also you have to be aware that these guys have baby mamas all over the states, New York, DC, Cali, Oklahoma, the list is endless. Some times you wonder what they do with their money, they don’t drive good cars or live in a luxury place, it have all gone paying child support. Some will even move to another  state after impregnating a lady just to avoid child support. There are some African ladies that I know that don’t date at all, I guess they are waiting for Mr.  right who I am sure is not going to be as clean as their wife to be. or may be because all the African guys have gone dating White ladies, excluding me but don’t be surprised if it happens any time. Do I prefer White ladies over my Sisters? That’s another thread.

All the African guys who have had babies with different women all over the place should be ashamed of them selves especially those who have avoided paying child support or even worse those who have persuaded the lady to have an abortion.



Peace.

This isn't about a lady I want to be with. This is about a lady I think I respect. One that got her act together financially and personally.

What's up poster? The answer to your question is easy. Here is the list of why
1]He found another lady, he found some one who is worth dollars not kobo
2] That’s it, there is only one reason.
When he was working hard for kobo, he didn’t realize that dollar existed. Once he found it, he wondered why he even wanted kobo

What's up poster? So is this question for guys or ladies? So since you are a lady according to your profile. What do you think?

The point of this thread is. Actually I don't know.

Guys are expected to make the first move. A lady's first move might be misunderstood. I think the best option for ladies is to do shakara at first and then make the first move if the guy is not willing. Her shakara should be short or another smart lady will be gone with the guy.

Besides the family,

Love is what you think it is. Is not the same for every body so there is no definite meaning for it. If you have experienced it you will know, if you have not then be patient and not go around messing up the ladies.

Is kind of hard to make good money with stock if you don’t have good money

Bitch 101
Intro. To Bitchology. This class should make it to university studies.

There is a saying, "If a good lady turns bad, she aint going back." So if you want to convert a bad girl to be a good girl, good luck. If you have watched the rip off, the main actor, Cross, tried to turn the bad lady played by Nnaji into a marriage type lady. The conclusion was a pig is a pig nor matter what you do.

There have been different posts in many forums and public discussions why good ladies fall in love with bad guys. That paints a picture that all ladies are good and all men are bad. Think again that’s not true. Bad ladies can do anything to get what they want.

I think opposite attracts. In most cases bad ladies fall in love with good guys. The poor guy would have to make up his mind if he really wants to deal with the ladies’ past. Many ladies decide to hide their past than to show it. Hiding it will eventually expose it one day. Bad ladies want to mess around with rich or bad looking guys and when in time for marriage, they look for Mr. good.

The same applies. Most good ladies fall in love with bad guys. Bad guys want to mess with women but want to settle down with Ms. good. But this thread is focused on why bad ladies fall in love with good guys.

Also, if you look at many relationships. One have to be the bad person. Is very rare that good guys end up with good ladies and bad guys end of with bad ladies. I also mean falling in love that is likely to lead to marriage.

Examine your marriage or some one you know. You will notice this trend. So If you are a good person be ready for the bad person and if you are a bad person expect the good person. Also being bad will always hurt you nor matter what the case is.

Any one want to prove this is true or not? Remember the thread refers to most ladies not all ladies. So let the discussion begin if you got something to say.




Peace.

What's Up Poster? It looks like you are hiding something or you are not serious. Fecko started a similar thread a while ago. I never had about him before. He posted a website. I checked it out and the lyrics and beat was good. My point, you need to have a website first. You can just start running without walking.

Also, you can check Fecko out. http://www.freewebs.com/feckoworld The track Nwannem is cool. Also if you got something to prove you can put it on YouTube.
Peace.

It would be the day I. Oh I don't remember. So what about you?

There is really no point of waiting. If you really want her you will go for it or some one will snatch her before you and the same apply for the lady. Another lady may snatch the guy and the shakara lady will be like, what happened?

There is nothing to fear than fear it self

Chikibaybi got the point. 3 yrs is kind of a long time but sometimes you got to let time do its work. Falling in love with some one doesn't mean you have to go crazy or get into something you can't handle. The wise people of this world will take time to analyze the act and see if is necessary and on the other hand if is right. Jumping into something quickly always lead to mistakes.

If you or some one you know have fallen in love and not do anything about it. State your case.

They are not in high school. Your are wrong is not a high school crush. Can you think of something more meaningful?

Hey Poster, you are a retarded piece of shit. You can keep all your diseases to your self. Keep Nigeria clean. Outdated Fuckers like you have no place there.

What’s up Poster? Do you know how many children that live with their single mother or grandmother without their father around? The father is around with another woman in a different location. I will let you google or yahoo that up yourself since you are the one that got yourself into this.

Mr. Poster, you are a disgrace to brotherhood. You are man enough to impregnate a woman but not man enough to take care of your responsibilities.

Wonders shall never end, don't you think?

Based on the response regarding this topic, it seems like a lot of people can’t control their emotions. For example, there are very few men that can resist temptation from a naked woman who is pressuring them to do what they wouldn’t tell their pastor. Very few will walk away. Most men will let their emotions intoxicate them. Some men will give excuses that they were drunk or they went crazy. The same thing applied when Eve gave Adam the forbidden fruit and Adam couldn’t resist it. The weakness that Adam showed is what is hunting most men of this world. Evolution has taken its part, that’s why few men can resist temptations.

The issue when dealing with the opposite sex in terms of relationship and things like that can be tough and that’s why there are a lot of divorce. People get into things that they can’t control.

Shed more light on this topic if you got something to say.

What's up poster? Feminist should sit down for their rights and learn that feminism is just an illusion created by bitches.

When you see faithful men, you walk past them. When you see bad boy looking kind of a guy, you fly like a bee. Birds of the same feathers flock together. So, why are you complaining? Go sit down and find something else to do.

You got money, you got the whole world.

First of all this issue is about some one. I am just curious about your thoughts on this. Technically this isn’t about me. I know some people will think I am involved in this issue since I am the one posting it, “Nigerian mentality.”
The issue is this, this guy falls in love with this lady. He knows it. The lady knows it. The lady has started conversation with him on different occasions but he let the conversation not get any where. They both work at the same place which is making a lot of things difficult in a way. The guy refused to tell her the deal. The lady has been waiting for a long time for the guy to act. So the guy is waiting to fall out of love with her if that ever happen. The guy refused to act because of many reasons.

3 major reasons.
1] Want no drama at the moment
2] The lady try to be friends and nice to any one that comes her way, she even deal with the guys’ enemies, that’s a no go zone
3] The lady developed some bad habits like smoking
And many more.

I don’t need advice on what to do, because that’s not the issue like I stated above. So have you fallen in love with some one or some one fallen in love with you and not do anything about it? Some people may say is not love. Some people may say is lust. That if is really love one will do anything to get closer to the person. I tell you people are different anything is possible.

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and smells like a duck, there is a big chance is a duck.