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CelebritiesRe: Kemi Olunloyo: Bobrisky, Alamieyeseigha Dressed As A Woman, Homosexuality by overseasnbeyond: 4:13pm On Sep 02, 2019
Kingpee2:
This woman pant has been used I swear,my dog seem to have more sense than Aunty Kemi....Let me ask her one question,ever since this bob that is risky of a guy changed his mode of dressing,has he tried dressing up again as a man ?No,Aunty is just trying to stay relevant ni ,you are the singular and plural of foolishness madam..
She said the right thing, stop your hate.
AutosRe: Hyundai Santafe 2005 For Sale by overseasnbeyond(op): 5:16am On Aug 26, 2019
overseasnbeyond:
I have a tokunmbo 2005 hyundai santafe for sale
Lagos cleared
Price 1.550m
Location is Lagos.

Ask for detail
08031330505
Call to test drive
CelebritiesRe: Braless Lady Throws Herself On Ground After Naira Marley Commented On Her Pix by overseasnbeyond: 6:50pm On Aug 25, 2019
Who is naira marley?
Christianity EtcRe: A Spiritual Weapon That Can Help Overcome Masturbation (lustful Craving) by overseasnbeyond: 4:23am On Aug 13, 2019
Inteltower:
I don't know where to start with you...
if indeed you are Christian please answer me this question.

during the process of masturbating doesn't the person committing the act fantasize/lust after a woman/man just satisfy that orgie ?

What did Christ say about those who commit adultery
did he restrict it to physical union.?

some lust without masturbating but its a must in the act of masturbating..
so is it a sin or not ?
Study these benefits

1. Pleasure and convenience.

Upon being challenged for masturbating in the marketplace, the ancient philosopher Diogenes the Cynic replied, 'If only it were so easy to soothe hunger by rubbing an empty belly.' According to Diogenes, the god Hermes, taking pity on his son Pan, gave him the gift of masturbation, which Pan then taught to the shepherds. Masturbation has no need of special equipment, sexual intercourse, or even a partner. Although it is often looked upon as the poor relative of sexual intercourse, many couples engage in mutual masturbation, either alongside or instead of intercourse, to simplify, improve, or enrich their sexual lives and arrive at orgasm.

2. Fewer complications.

Masturbation is safe as well as convenient. Unlike sexual intercourse, it is very unlikely to lead to pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases such as human papilloma virus, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, and HIV/AIDS.

3. Stronger, more intimate relationships.

Contrary to the popular perception, there is, at least in women, a positive correlation between frequency of masturbation and frequency of intercourse. People who masturbate more are more sexually driven, and mutual masturbation is likely to increase the frequency and variety of sexual contact. Both in the performance and in the observation, masturbation can teach partners about each other’s pleasure centers, proclivities, and particularities. If one partner is more sexually driven than the other, masturbation can provide him or her with a balancing outlet.

4. Better reproductive health.

In men, masturbation flushes out old sperm with low motility and reduces the risk of prostate cancer. If practiced before sexual intercourse, it can delay orgasm in men suffering from premature ejaculation. In women, it increases the chances of conception by altering the conditions in the vagina, cervix, and uterus. It also protects against cervical infections by increasing the acidity of the cervical mucus and flushing out pathogens. In both women and men, it strengthens the muscles in the pelvic floor and genital area and contributes to extending the years of sexual activity.

5. Faster sleep.

Masturbation invites sleep by reducing stress and releasing feel-good hormones such as dopamine, endorphins, oxytocin, and prolactin. Orgasm in particular brings on a state of stillness, serenity, and sleepiness, sometimes called ‘the little death’ (Fr. la petite mort), which can usher in a deeper sleep.

6. Improved cardiovascular fitness.

Masturbation is, in effect, a form of light exercise. Compared to regular exercise, it is more effective or efficient at reducing tension and releasing feel-good hormones. The muscles and blood vessels relax, improving blood flow and lowering heart rate and blood pressure. No surprise, then, that there is an inverse correlation between frequency of orgasm and death from coronary heart disease.

7. Brighter mood and other psychological benefits.

Masturbation reduces stress and releases feel-good hormones, which lift mood and reduce the perception of pain. It promotes better, more restorative sleep, locking in sleep’s myriad benefits. It enables younger people in particular to explore their sexual identity and master their sexual impulses, leading to a happier, healthier sexuality, as well as greater self-awareness, self-control, and self- esteem. It offers an escape from the demands and limitations of reality, an outlet for the imagination in fantasy, and a medium for the memory in nostalgia. And it culminates in a transcending experience that unites mind with body and life in death
Christianity EtcRe: A Spiritual Weapon That Can Help Overcome Masturbation (lustful Craving) by overseasnbeyond: 4:12am On Aug 13, 2019
Inteltower:
I don't know where to start with you...
if indeed you are Christian please answer me this question.

during the process of masturbating doesn't the person committing the act fantasize/lust after a woman/man just satisfy that orgie ?

What did Christ say about those who commit adultery
did he restrict it to physical union.?

some lust without masturbating but its a must in the act of masturbating..
so is it a sin or not ?
Am not a baby christian!!!!
Masturbation is an act of self sex satisfation by imagination or sight seeing of opposite sex or same sex.
This started back in the jail house because inmates incarcerated are denied of sex for several years, this is usual practice which continues till today nothing spiritual but psychological
Christianity EtcRe: A Spiritual Weapon That Can Help Overcome Masturbation (lustful Craving) by overseasnbeyond: 3:48pm On Aug 11, 2019
Inteltower:
I too have been in the act masturbation & shameful about it. it was a struggle, I resisted many times & fell to it many times. as a Christian I knew it was abnormal & there were many factors that can cause one to masturbate like not only at the attractiveness of women, but high libido, sociocultural & economic condition (normally from 24/25 one should be getting married), spiritual husband/wife, porn & erotic images, sex chat & immoral songs.

So you see the temptation of masturbation can come in diverse forms, & even if it is not masturbation as a reaction/response you see people committing other immoral acts like premarital sex (gf/sugar mommy/prostitute), homosexuality, rape, sex imaginations, defiling children (not cool), etc

My focus is on Masturbation & for those who think its right, it ain't because it isn't God's will.

So in my struggle, it was really that hard, I prayed over it as well but I saw myself doing it again, I knew I was disappointing my heavenly Father. to note I have high libido & attracted to ladies a lot, but am not a flirt offline & I respect women & their bodies, the mere sight or thought of lusting at anyone I vehemently rebuked but my flirting is more mainly online (its strange).

Now I heard about a message on masturbation (forgotten where) & it pointed out that amongst many sins lust is a spirit that comes & goes & that a scheduled deliverance won't be effective.

Now there came a night, while attempting to do the usual with a stubbornness in me to just do it even when I knew it was wrong & resisting a bit, I started hearing a gospel song emanating from me in that process, a song am familiar with, you know that type of gospel songs you sing/listen that revives your spirit, very heavenly & holy, yea the song started right there was reducing that sexual hunger, the immorality of the act was leaving me, I discontinued without even telling myself not to, it was supernatural, as if sin just gave way to something superior to it, the song felt like it invited God right there on my bed, I just couldn't continue with what I wanted to do because I felt freed, mind you it wasn't guilt or the knowledge I have the Holy Spirit in me or that I was abusing God's grace but what made me stop was this invitation of holiness through that song & the lust fled & my sexual urge settled down.

This morning as it had been a while back of that experience, recalling this the Holy Spirit reminded me that heavenly songs are weapons of spiritual warfare against lust & not many use it against problems like that.

Yes there are practical human ways to avoid masturbation but many are weak in the flesh to be constant with such prescriptions.
time & time again the temptation comes I either get myself busy or sing of song of praise to God with revelation & gratitude especially when alone.


I hope this solution helps my fellow brethren experiencing such.
Table the problem before God to help you overcome the immorality.
Remember Christ said the immoral won't enter the kingdom of God, so lets not be lack luster about it because we have Grace, because it can also affect your sexual health & generations to come.
Enough is enough, Christians should stop misleading people. Masturbation is psychological issue and not spiritual.
This is not new in Prison/jail system.
Inmate in America call it jerking.
The worst you can do is to stripe them out as punishment where no physical contact or open/indecent exposure is involved with the opposite or same sex.
Go get a job please.
CrimeRe: Photoshop User, Ayothecreator Beaten By SARS For Strange Photos On His Phone. by overseasnbeyond: 2:28am On Aug 11, 2019
The country is lawless, the youth have no focus! The poor are getting poorer!!
Dont even no what to say but for your future support sowore's revolution
BusinessRecycling Plant by overseasnbeyond(op): 11:16am On Jun 19, 2019
I need information about recycling plant (plastic and can).
I want to invest in it
You may contact me on overseasnbeyond@gmail.com.
TravelRe: Lagos Goes Tough On Traffic Offenders, Cars To Be Forfeited (Photos) by overseasnbeyond: 12:13pm On Jun 14, 2019
Mr governor, there is nothing like forfeiture of car for offense. Why not keep the car in safe keep while the court imposed a high bond. Imagine how much you will generate on safe keep of property everyday on cars you impound.
Get sense!
CrimeRe: Cops Who Killed Osaze Osagie, Nigerian Student In US, Cleared Of Charges by overseasnbeyond: 12:23am On May 13, 2019
Darkpanthera:
The cops will be jailed if he kills a Japanese or German


Nigerian government don't value life and the world know it.
Stop writing things you know not, many Americans died in the process of force attack and police do get judgement and vice versa.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Scared Of Returning Home, Allegedly Breaks Traffic Rules In US by overseasnbeyond: 12:35am On May 06, 2019
Auxtin85:
Going to jail abroad seems better than being deported back to Nigeria.

I don’t wish for any of the options though
Says who?
Stop deceiving Nigerians, I work in the jail as a certified correction officer.
No Nigerian will ever like to be jail here in the united states due to so many factors like food, intimidation and harassment, background etc.
AutosRe: 2002 Ford Track by overseasnbeyond(op): 1:04am On Apr 27, 2019
Available
AutosRe: 2002 Ford Track by overseasnbeyond(op): 1:48pm On Apr 25, 2019
PEPPERified:
send more photos. interior.

Autos2002 Ford Track by overseasnbeyond(op):
Now in Lagos Nigeria
Interested
Call
+234 803 133 0505



Price 1.950m

Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Johnson Suleman Resurrects A Dead Boy - Omega Fire Ministries (Video) by overseasnbeyond: 11:59pm On Apr 15, 2019
Hmmmmm, I initially look so stupid so many times in the united states because africa is so backward and attached religion to all things.
Firstly, who certified him dead?
How many Nigerians know about CPR?
I train and work with people in the United States and realised we are far away behind in technology and religious leaders are capitalizing on Nigerians weakness of lack of information for exploitation.
TravelRe: Ship Carrying Over 2000 Cars Bound For Brazil Sinks by overseasnbeyond: 8:27pm On Mar 19, 2019
Cry for yourself in Naija! All the cars got insurance
TravelRe: Why Do People Become Less Religious When They Travel Abroad? by overseasnbeyond: 1:26am On Mar 19, 2019
OkaNaUbe:
embarassed

When they are in their shit holes, they pray day and night, make vows, pay tithes, visit aladuras but as soon as they travel abroad, they hardly go to church or places of worship.

What could be the causehuh


lalasticlacla, mynd44, dominique, ishilove, justwise, DisGuy
Sometimes you want to go to church on Sunday but when you remember your bills and and quick transformation to the street with no roof on top of your head! you will prefer to put in the hour and pray in your room. My pastor's work not relying on my tithe.
AutosHyundai Santafe 2005 For Sale by overseasnbeyond(op):
I have a tokunmbo 2005 hyundai santafe for sale
Lagos cleared
Price 1.550m
Location is Lagos.

Ask for detail
08031330505
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FRSC Recruitment Mail On Screening And Physical Fitness Assessment by overseasnbeyond: 7:02am On Mar 10, 2019
Impactever:
pls sir, i have a plans to travel to the US come 2019.....pls i humbly request for tips on how to get your kind of job in the US....

If you are not comfortable sharing it here,
You may send me a mail at scholaremma1010@gmail.com

Thank you ....
Sorry for my late reply.
It is easy to get a correction jobs in the United states either at Federal, state or county but you must have a work authourization permit.
The agency is responsible for training ( pre service and aftermaths).
I am currently in the Criminal Justice Academy courtesy of my agency.
To be certified you have to take 4 examination and your score in each should not be less than 70%.
PoliticsRe: ‘this Is Not Kwara’ – Tinubu Kicks Against ‘O To Ge’ In Lagos by overseasnbeyond: 5:14pm On Mar 09, 2019
Darksider131:
This tinubu ugly shaa. I hope e children no resemble am
Show us your own father?
TravelRe: ₦38,000 Per Night Guest House With 77 Lions In South Africa(Photos) by overseasnbeyond: 8:47pm On Dec 30, 2018
Donexy16:
Lol. 38k just to stay close to lions in one night... What a waste
Poverty is evil!!! Advert not for you.
TravelRe: My Monthly Savings In Canada by overseasnbeyond: 2:50pm On Dec 22, 2018
[quote author=yemiosinbajo post=74064968]Mann, that's a lot of hours. Do you work weekends too? What type of job is this? This is one problem with Yankee life: you need to work really hard to make ends meet. Initially when you move from a country like Nigeria having experienced severe poverty, it seems cool that you have the opportunity to work multiple hours without rest. You seem to enjoy it and try to save as much as you can. However, after spending some years here, you begin to feel it's too much labor, and your interests begin to dissipate. You cannot stop otherwise you rake in too much bills and debts. Welcome to the American life![/quote
Am a correction officer scheduled to work 13 hrs for 7days but unfortunately the facility is always short staffed so i put in more days overtime sometimes i work 16hrs but really crazy. My bill is always moderate. My rent is $950 light and water is $450 and insurance is $259. But despite all this my mobthly saving is $2000.
If you need the job, i can send you a link but only for people in America.
The truth is that, the facility will pay me for $500 for bringing you
TravelRe: My Monthly Savings In Canada by overseasnbeyond: 3:15am On Dec 22, 2018
Nice job, God will punished all naija politicians and people in authority. I started my job in the state of south carolina getting paid $14.20 per hour and i have to work 13hrs everyday including overtime. My basic for two weeks is 85hrs anything after is. Overtime.
I lovw the job i do as a correction officer in the detention centre.
I make average of $2650 after tax every two weeks but do not want to kill myself any longer because they see me as workaholic.
The job is cool and steady
PropertiesPOP Ceiling by overseasnbeyond(op): 11:10am On Dec 18, 2018
I need a pop ceiling man in the house?
Drop your design and number
House is located in Ibadan area
PoliticsRe: Religious Leaders Kick Against Security Levies On Churches, Mosques In Oyo by overseasnbeyond: 1:53am On Dec 03, 2018
Nigeriapen1:
News By NIGERIAPEN.COM.NG



More To Follow Up Below......

News Source: http://nigeriapen.com.ng/religious-leaders-kick-against-security-levies-on-churches-mosques/
They should go on strike
SportsRe: Leicester Helicopter Crash: Faces Of All Victims On Board(More Photos) by overseasnbeyond: 1:40pm On Oct 29, 2018
dallex10:
RIP
So who's gonna take over the ownership of the club?
Buhari and Osinbajo
CrimeRe: Principal Flogs Corps Member In Akwaibom by overseasnbeyond: 10:55pm On Oct 21, 2018
This one doesn't look like principal, has resemblance of. a priest!
TravelRe: 7 M Annual Income Or Move To Canada by overseasnbeyond: 7:54pm On Oct 21, 2018
ahiboilandgas:
This for persons in Canada or ireland if u earn 7m in nigeria per anum would have move to Canada or if u have a 7 m offer back home will u relocate to Nigeria...a colleague is about to resign ooh he got pr
What you earn should not be a major factor for relocation but the kind of life you want to live cum the future you want your children to be.
Ire oooo
TravelRe: 17 Nigerian Nationals In Maryland, Grambling And Texas In Marriage Fraud Scheme by overseasnbeyond(op): 3:24pm On Oct 21, 2018
matuskyoo7:
I reserve my comment
The hustle is real!!!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FRSC Recruitment Mail On Screening And Physical Fitness Assessment by overseasnbeyond: 1:10pm On Oct 21, 2018
guru90:
I SWEAR YOU DON BALANCE..... $14.2 x 62 HRS = $ 880.4 X N360 = N316944 (JUST IN A WEEK).


9JA NA H.E.L.L

FLEX MAN !!!!
Not working like that bro, 40hrs is my regular time the remaining is multiply by $21 for overtime.
To be honest with you, my average in two weeks is $2500 before tax.
With $50,000 insurance dangling incase of whatever!!!
Bleep Naija
Travel17 Nigerian Nationals In Maryland, Grambling And Texas In Marriage Fraud Scheme by overseasnbeyond(op): 8:15pm On Oct 20, 2018
United States Attorney David C. Joseph announced that three Nigerian nationals living in Grambling and Texas have pleaded guilty Monday to roles in a scheme aimed at obtaining permanent residency illegally.

Adebisi Philip Bode Adejumo, 34, a Grambling, La., resident and Nigerian citizen; Godspower Raphael Sobaeh, 31, a Fort Worth, Texas, resident and Nigerian citizen; and Olabode Ebenezer Olubodun, 37, a Houston, Texas, resident and Nigerian citizen, pleaded guilty before U.S. District Judge Terry Doughty to one count of conspiracy to make false statements in connection with immigration documents. Adejumo also pleaded guilty to one count of making false statements in connection with immigration documents, Sobaeh to one count of marriage fraud, and Olubodun to one count of making false statements in connection with immigration documents and mail fraud. In May, a federal grand jury returned a 42-count indictment charging 17 Nigerian and Cameroonian nationals living in Louisiana, Texas, New York and Maryland with the marriage fraud scheme. Sobaeh, Adejumo and Olubodun are the first to plead guilty. The court set sentencing for Feb. 6, 2019

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