Bullfallo: Not wanting to have a child isn’t a choice per say. I hate to put myself into pressure or do things just because others are doing it, my lifestyle has always be different from public opinion. In fact opposite of the popular views or majority behavior. I don’t send or give a Bleep what anyone think about me.
Example is that people live there live on public opinion. They create a life of public presentations just to please public and get validated but i am not of public views. I do my things the way it pleases before considering public.
If I have billions of dollars like dangote the choice might have been different. I don’t live a life of faith. I must have concrate evidence of things or resources before i made any vita decisions. I hate to borrow or beg. I live a life of comfort. I am rich and comfortable but not for many mouths. Because I don’t want to adjust resources from my lifestyle
Since You have made up your Mind and You said you don't need public Validation, Why Did you Write it Here?
Are You Having Second Thoughts? Are you now needing Validation?
Risingblue008: Whc one be bulb of 500k? The tenant no pay caution fee, Cos if u pay caution in any apartment b4 packing in Thats mean u have paid for damages ahead Even if u pay 200k as caution fees and u damage things worth 400k,guy u no get anything to do with ur landlord cos u don pay down If na court,carry me go court make i tell u the reason even the landlord go shock for the kind of tenant wey he give house
That one is your Explanation.... The Court will Force you to pay up the Balance.
This is the mumbling of an emotionally battered and subdued man that wants to be free.
Truthfully, he could have lost it and escalated the whole scenario but methinks that the dude is a weakling.
The tremor in his voice says it all though that can help his case in the court of law as he seems for divorce.
It's debatable that this can happen in the advanced countries but I doubt if any right thinking woman would do that to a man that is in control of his world financially .
Dey Play. So you have not Heard Stories from the UK/ west You , the Breadwinner can be thrown out of your own House. and you will continue to pay the mortgage and pay Child Support from the Street that is your new home. and your Wife will be Bringing in Boyfriends Daily to your face... and you can do nothing about it!!
Women are Mega powerful even more than a Providing Man!
Omoawoke: This is how an average black african want to live. To be called chief, madam, odogwu, alahji. People should queue in front of their house for food and favor
BondRiv: Smh. You always find people like this who derive joy in belittling their fellow humans.
it is in almost every Nigerian... It's Called Pepper your Neighbor Syndrome.
choke Them, LET them Worship me!!
That is Why you will see Someone who cannot Afford 3 Square meal will go and Get an iPhone 15 and be recharging N200 Airtime Just to Pepper the next person and Paint the 'I am Rich' picture
OboOlora: Nigerians and turning brands to generic names
To them...:
Every noodles is indomie Every detergent is Omo Every toothpaste is Macleans Every SUV is Jeep Every hair is Brazilian Every pen is Biro ................................... Every Beef Roll is GALA
Cantonese: In these days of yahoo, the lazy and silly young woman does not know that a 14 year old can pay her bills and yet mess her up completely.
And by the way, what’s her business advising the young man to face his studies? What about her own studies? Or she thinks that a future hoped on men and sex can guarantee her a good life ?
YES naa. she feels she already has her own life sorted - with her Physical Assets, she can get all she wants in Life- her thoughts
Toks2008: In the intricate dance of love, our commitment is often defined by the sacrifices we're willing to make. Whether grand gestures or subtle acts of kindness, we journey through the realm of affection with open hearts and eager spirits. Yet, amidst this exchange of giving and receiving, there's a question that remains unspoken: What significant gift or financial sacrifice have you offered in the name of love?
In today's discourse, discussions often revolve around a man's role as a provider, with expectations of financial support and material gestures. But shouldn't true feminism advocate for equality in all aspects, including reciprocity in relationships? If we expect to receive, shouldn't we also be willing to give in return?
I find it absolutely ludicrous for a lady to hinge her decision to date a man on the criterion that he must be able to take care of her or place her on a monthly salary in the name of monthly allowance even when some of these ladies do not have any tangible income but then as they say, it is all about preferences.
This reflection prompts me to create this piece and to ask this vital question that delves into the essence of partnership, equality, and the profound depths of devotion.
"Ladies, What is The Biggest Gift Or Financial Sacrifice You've Made For Love?"
She Gave him Kpekus a whole 3 times in One Day !! She Gave her all!
ajepako: Russia fished out and rounded up all living terrorists that attacked their city within 24 hours!
No guessing or wanton-destruction of innocent civillians or perceived enemies
But precise and exact military intelligence gathering and swift tracking
The terrorists were even arrested with the clothes they wore during the attacks showing how swift the apprehension/ arrest was
Believe me, those morafokas already knew they were doomed for being caught alive and at a point, you'll have to pity them (really) for what awaits them in the hands of the ruthless russian military and police.. Check their panel-beaten faces already while being brought to court.. Lol
Even top terrorist groups like Taliban and Hamas are dissociating from and condemning the Russian attacks to show their fear of Russia's gruesome and unexpected counter attacks..
And here, terrorists are so comfortable enough to be on tiktok, get likes , share and monetize their videos ( eemo wolu, )
Yet, they could not be apprehended much less arrested and prosecuted.
O ga oo
kindly share the Link, i want to see the video thanks
adioolayi: I know. That would have opened her for further critical questions like what happened to the baby... miscarriage, deliberate abortion or still birth...
And this would help further reveal if she is suffering from post traumatic syndrome of those experiences and why she is afraid to have kids
She wanted to Avoid that Line of Questions completely
We did all kinds of manual labour Cutting grass Carrying Sand, gravel, blocks Fetching water etc etc
If our parents only knew what we were put through in their absence 😢
What you Don't Know....is that: That Process Has Contributed to your Progress in Life now. It has helped you toughen up to face any Adversity in life and become victorious. It was essential
These days...when upcoming children just face a little Hardship....they just commit suicide... why? They are not mentally Tough. Parents have painted a Life of Roses to them,,, so they cannot easily survive on their own when Reality sets in!
slaawomirr: Damnnn niggar He cast for Benin city Fuel na 700 naira per litre And no protest is going on All of them are silent
Tribalism wants to finish Nigerians
The masses are tribalistic, hypocrites, wicked and very fake
Sportbet way men be still take dey follow up don turn something else. Na the opposite way person stake dey always happen. Yesterday I book game club way them give a whole 9 odd to win begin beat who them give 1.30 odd with a goal margin of 3 vs 0 I shock
At the Bolded, You Said all of them are Silent....and Not Protesting
Is tribalism now happening in Edo too? or Why are they Not Protesting ?
ayoplenty: Was there anywhere in the story that said he begged for the money, he was diligent and trustworthy that was why the students decided to surprise him. Pls work on yourself and stop this internet rascality.
He Begged Codedly by Saying in almost any disscussion: i have not seen my family in a Decade to get Possible Sympathy...
ekhai: What you are ignorant about is that security job in UK or USA is like CBN or oil worker in Nigeria. It's not easy to get after going through the training. It's very competitive.
CBN Job my foot!
But he Needs a GO FUND ME to Raise transportation Home WOW