₦airaland Forum

Purvan:
So you're okay with all the christian nonsense happenings??

Where is it in the bible that say Christians should be walking around naked?

There's nothing "christian" about indecent exposure.

You could as well say LGBTQ parades are Christians because they're being spare Head by Western countries.

It has nothing to do with Christianity. It's purely satanic agenda

Kirchoffs:
I have just 2fans and a television set. I am just so angry right now cos am about to spend another 7k again. This is crazy what sort of Government is this for crying out loud.

Switch to rechargeable fans and lights

What about those without jobs/ Unemployed people? They should go and die?

They have stable civil service work, let them thank their stars first

Nbote:
Seriously ehn, anyone who supported Buhari should be shot on sight. That useless Mai Suya with his useless "Darling Daddy" rantings should be sent to mop Bar beach. That relic set this nation 50years back

Who sold Buhari to Nigerians?

Is it not Tinubu/APC?

List is incomplete without Mariam Anazodo

lagusboyyy:
Dope Midsize Sedan.

I find the front grille wide "mouth" very ugly

Why did it fail for presidential election when house of reps and Senate went smoothly?

INEC should simply say they disabled the uploading function/code/algorithm in the presidential results uploading page in the portal's back end so they can do their wayo

Other pages will work, but the particular disabled presidential election results uploading page/function won't work

Deltamani:
Women's World Cup Set To Feature Four Foxes Players.. Ashleigh Plumptre , CJ Bott, Remy Siemsen, & Courtney Nevin.

They're all Blondies

Lekan239:
I dey drive roughly with speed 140km/h -170km/hr go long distance Ph, lagos with my V4 honda civic every month since 8month. My engine never shake and them never touch my engine till now. So this your theory wrong bdat.

The whole stretch of Abavo- Urhonigbe on the Abraka - Agbor Road is a mud pool. If the folks passed through it instead of taking bypass through Owa-Alidinma, the road might have taken toll on the car

Conner44:
ahhh, eh me ke? naive bawo?

abeg explain make I understand you io

You will jack up the car and keep raising it with 4 skate boards or similar stuffs under the tire until it is above the demarcations.

Then push the car

What is the job of the BEDC?

Ishilove:
Thought I should share this, although I don't even know if my vehicle has this button. I'll have to check when it is back from my Kazeem. It is currently being repaired after my folks traveled with it to Delta state and when they returned, the vehicle was singing fyuuuuuuyuh when you start the engine. 😑

Why you no follow them come?

You no get vacation time?

If na I4, it has to sing o, except den drive am jeje. Na v6 you fit drive back and forth without shaking but as fuel price be now, na to carry passenger for road join motor

CockAndBullStor:
Q. Do you agree that network failure is also a glitch and there was a glitch on the INEC site at that time.

A. I disagree, network failure could have happened on the side of the person performing the upload.

Q. You said in your affidavit that the INEC site crashed.

A. That's right


Logically there could have been a temporary gitch that prevented documents upload during the election. Case closed! They helped her to finish herself and LP. Amateur witness at best!

How can a serious petitioner considered this dummy a star witness? Oh, goodness!

Labour Party has lost! There's no way back into it.

What if the glitch was deliberately caused by the app's owners?

Its as simple as changing a string of code in a particular page and the page won't work even if other pages work.

For House of Reps and Senate to work, but presidential didn't work could mean INEC deliberately took down the presidential elections uploading page or they deactivated the uploading function in the back end

NoToPile:
This your bolded analogy sha

It's very easy for a man to have B.P issues and if it happens, he will be the one to suffer.

If he dies, his wife will simply wait for the next nigger too come and toast her.

If he throws her out of his house, the society will say he is wicked.

What is the man's gain? Nothing.

So many things about this country are stressing men already. Just for peace of mind and health management, if a woman decides to become unreasonable, cut your losses and move on because if he dies on her matter, there's no gain..... And another man go still carry her.

Leave her find peace of mind first

Zonefree:
Imagine a full fledged man absconded from home cos of a woman he accommodated in form of marriage. A married man squatting with his colleagues just to enjoy peace of mind

A man gains absolutely nothing in marriage. Marriage was designed, orchestrated and championed for/by women.

Most men married to Nigerian women don't stay up to 65 years. Nigerian women are making marriage horrible for men.

When Elijah and Ahab were quarrelling, Elijah full ground gidigba.

But when Jezebel got involved and wrote to Elijah swearing to deal with him, what did Elijah do? Elijah packed his bags and ran away.

On certain issues, as a man, if you love your life, no drag some things with woman. Just leave her and run. E get why

Instead of the company to be tilting towards electric vehicles production.

Electric bikes for example, will sell like mad

uwemjack:
He may be a collector or he sells them

All the 5 owned by same person

cococandy:
So your solution is not for more jobs to be created for everyone to have equal access. It’s for women to leave so that men can have less competition

Entitlement mentality from Nigerian women is too much. Just too much. They should calm down, aha.

Even in some instances, when the man is able to provide, there is no appreciation or reprieve, they will be requesting for more and more as if the man's hair is money.

Men already have so many loads to carry. Good men are scarce and hard to come by. If you see one, manage him like that.

Many men would simply have taken one or both of those children to do money ritual and be giving their mother the money and start another family outside since their mother is pushing him to the extreme.

What about gay men or 419 men or those selling fake drugs in the market? Don't you see NDLEA parading men everyday for drugs peddling?

Most Women cannot even do a fraction of what men have been doing for ages without complaining. That's where my annoyance is. Imagine husband have been filling gas for 5years without complaining. Then gas finish once and wife has to fill it and she's complaining about how she has to work and toil and call people for money to fill gas just once. What if the husband is dead? What will she do? Many men are dead and a lot more are sick and dying. Her husband is still alive and healthy, appreciate him.

nairalanda1:
All this your comment would have made sense if the guy was actively hustling for legit job.

But he isn't. That's the problem

It's a one sided story. Have you heard the man's side? Women will paint any story to make them look like they're the victim.

Women have taken over so many jobs men used to do before. Go to offices, civil service and banks and schools, over 80% of the staff are women.

They're taking all the jobs and still complaining their husbands are jobless. They still want a man to be running from pillar to post to earn to give them additional money. The entitlement mentality is too much.

I often wonder what is the essence of female education when at the end of the day, they will still be looking up to a man to take care of them? let them resign from their jobs en-mass and stay at home so there will be more vacancies for men. The way the economy is now, I can't blame any jobless man. You can't eat your cake and still have it

Responses on this thread are one of the many reasons why men are pushed into doing ritual, fraud and other gory things in order to earn money.

All they care about is themselves and children. Nobody care about the man's wellbeing. If he die tomorrow, God forbid, what have the wife gained? Is being alive not enough reasons to be thankful and appreciative?

When he had a job, he was taking care of everything. But there's no job, what do you want him to do? Should he go and rob and burgle.

Everyone keep saying he can't take care of his children.. his children.. shebi the children are his? Oya let him carry one of the children and use to do ritual money.

One man has about 8-10 collections of power bikes on my street. His house always looks like bikers are doing meeting there.

I will snap pics from afar when I'm passing there

HarunaWest:
Naija and abuse of the word 'upgrade'.
You changed the front grille and headlamps and the bumper and that means you have upgraded. What was done in the interior? Can't the seat be covered with new seat covers, what happened to installing android screens?? If una wan do something, do it well.

Give am money to do the extras nau

mrmislim:
I think you didn’t understand my question. In my culture, attention is on the parents of the couple, so I am asking you, you won’t want to wear same clothes with her but she will sha seat as the mother of the bride abi? Note that I am not referring to the general tent for families.

In your cousins case, the situation are not the same because the dad’s father brought her up and in one way or the other over the years they must have communicated a lot of times so that isn’t a suitable comparison.

Even if it were the case my cousin mother abandoned her, for the sake of the wedding, everybody is obliged to behave themselves before their inlaws that are also present at the wedding venue.

If the bride is insisting on having her way that the deadbeat father or his family side must not attend the wedding, it will look selfish of the bride , it will make her look like she will be controlling and stiff- minded after her marriage.

Words Will start going round among the guests, unnecessary gossiping during the wedding... It can even lead to quarrel on the wedding day between the groom family and the bride. All those stories of in-laws fighting over food on wedding day, it's not about food. There has been underlying grudges before. It's tensions like this that cause it.

The foundation of the marriage would already be affected by such negative perceptions right from the wedding day. It's not healthy for the marriage. Any disagreement the couple have later, people will now start referring back to the wedding day that it's because you did not do this or you did not do that, that is why this is happening now.

Don't give room or chance for that kind of future allegations. It's better to fulfill all righteousness, find a way to balance everything and be neutral.

After the wedding day, anyhow the bride want to do with her deadbeat father, that's her problem

In an emergency situation, like say, during childbirth complications or accidy, the bride need blood transfusion and only the father can donate blood for her , that is when the husband will now go and look for the father?

It doesn't work like that. It's better to be neutral and carry everyone along... Just formal recognitions here and there, that's all. After the wedding, anyhow the bride want to do, that's her wahala

mrmislim:
Yeah I get, so if he wants that you’ll tell him to go ahead, deliberate on how she wants her owambe to be and you guys will sew matching clothes as daddy and mummy of the bride ? Please answer sincerely like you previously did.

It cannot come to the level of sewing same cloth.

If the partner of my child want to see the mother, he/she can go see the mother at her area of residence.

During the wedding, if the mother wants to attend, the way we do parties here, there are canopies for different groups of people. The mother people can have their canopy farther away from my side.

My cousin sis that recently got married, her parents separated when she was just a baby. It was the father's sister that brought up the girl.

On her wedding day, the father's family were called to the high table.. then the grand mother of the bride represented the mother at the high table..

The event went smoothly and everything was fine. Though the Aunt was angry that she was not recognized as the mother of the bride, but nevertheless, she had her chair on the high table too.

If you call the father of the bride from her father side, and mother of the bride from the father's side too, what will the in-laws attending the wedding say?

So just for the formality of the wedding, 9am-4pm .... Everything is over .... Everybody go their way.

That's all

mrmislim:
Wait, you mean if your wife abandon 3 children with you who are less that 5 years old and they are now in their 20s and one of them is getting married, you’d look for her and make her attend the wedding, greet people, drink and merry? Because obviously she carried their pregnancies and she’s their mother just for the sake of formalities?

Please answer this sincerely, after that I’ll know what to say to you.

And those words are very much necessary.

If the prospective partner of my child that want to get married want to see the mother that abandon then, that's his/her wahala.

The partner can go meet her and see her. I don't have any business with the mother again so if the partner want to see the mother, it's not my business and I don't have any problem with it

Joseph77200:
This isn't a good take on, women lie a lot and you can't judge an issue like this without hearing from both parties and what of if this narration was sold to the daughter and the son-in-law-to-be because the mother-in-law is trying to cover up some past event, what of it she ran away with the child and never let the real father has access till now? Let the guy go ahead and look for the real father that is the best to do.

Women can paint and color any situation to suit their selfish interest.

Everyone else is to blame for a shortcoming, they are never at fault and it is not their responsibility. They will find a man to blame for it

mrmislim:
You must be a deadbeat dad if you are even a dad at all, or an aspiring one, I don’t think you’ll be a responsible man to take care of your home and it is a pity, I pity your innocent children (future children) I have no right to conclude but I am concluding on your personality without regrets..... !

- I expected your tirade.

- Let me repeat again, the wedding/bride price.... IS JUST A FORMALITY.

- If the groom is interested in seeing the biological father, or he thinks it's just the right thing to do, after greetings, small talks and some drinks, what else remain? Nothing more. After the wedding, the groom doesn't have business with him again.

- If we are to turn it around... The groom mother is still alive somewhere, but the groom don't want his bride to see his mother at all for whatever reasons, WILL A SENSIBLE, PROSPECTIVE BRIDE BE COMFORTABLE WITH THAT KIND OF ARRANGEMENT? I understand that women like to dish out treatments that they themselves cannot and will never accept or imagine. That is why some women in that situation may be comfortable with their groom not getting to know their father. It's fine with them.

But if the tables are turned, except the man have something the woman cannot do without, she won't blink twice before discarding the relationship. CAN YOU APPROVE YOUR DAUGHTER TO MARRY A MAN WHO DOESN'T WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER TO KNOW HIS BIOLOGICAL MOTHER? You will be thinking... What kind of marriage will your daughter be getting herself into?

- So if the groom thinks it's best for him to see the man, it's not an abomination... If you see it as abomination, that is bitterness is pro max, it's not healthy. If the bitterness suits you like that, it's okay, no problem.

- But just for the purpose of the wedding, if the groom want to see the so called deadbeat father, let him be. After the wedding, anyhow the bride want to do her family relations, that's her business

There's nothing hard in that. All that strong worded reply you wrote is very unnecessary

Kobojunkie:
It seems you don't respect your fiance at all, and that there is a major issue as far as your relationship. Are you certain you are ready for marriage at all?

She said you shouldn't do it, so why do you think it your place to carry wetin no be your business for head? What gives you the right to disturb those waters? Because you want to marry her?

@ sisisioge MetaBroadband, Biglittlelois, mrmislim

Bride price/wedding stuffs, are all "just a formality.."

Just do whatever you think is right to balance all sides to fulfill all righteousness and after everything, a few days, it's all over.

You don't owe anybody any explanation again

Any how the bride want to handle her family side relations thereafter, is her headache.

It doesn't concern the husband again.

So just a few days, close eyes and clear everything. Nothing bad in that.

If the bride or her mother are insisting on not contacting the biological father, its a sign of toxicity/bitterness, Its better to leave the relationship because that toxicity/bitterness can be served to the husband in the future.

If the bride in particular and her mom cannot accept to relate with her biological father for a few days just for the purpose of wedding, then it means after marriage they cannot tolerate/will be rigid and uncompromising ... It's big red flag.

The kind of home, you will call wife, sit down let's talk... She no go hear word dey form strong head

GAZZUZZ:
Time to Rearrange the place, some items have gotten lost in previous pages.

I will also auction a few things that have been here for a while.

Why not a separate thread for that?

Gazzuzz household items auction

Strictly auctions