₦airaland Forum

Flattire:
I meant how on earth could the husband pull that stunt on her when the money was not withdrawn once.
All I can say is that the woman is too careless because she must have noticed that trait in her husband long ago. So,she should have done something drastic like constant changing of Pin or even destroying the card permanently.
This is her life savings for goodness sake.

Fountainofyouth see what I'm saying

Fountainofyouth:
So the man's evil behaviour is the wife's fault, but if reverse was the case this thread would have been on its 12th page filled with insults of women generally, continue to excuse the wickedness of a grown asś man as usual, the rest of you are no different.

We're not making any excuse for the man.

We're just saying she should have known the kind of person she is married to (according to ahnie, he's not been responsible) and applied caution appropriately.

Anyways Sha, e don happen, let her move on.

But we're not defending or making excuse for the man. He deserves to rot in jail if the narrative is true

Fountainofyouth:
So all men wey dey thief na yahoo dem dey do? They ones wey dey rob at night, come home and tell their wives say na night security jobs or another excuse dem dey do, na yahoo be that? And you went to school

Well, women and accountability are opposite.

Everyone is responsible for the choices they made.

If the choice turns out to be fine, okay.

If the choice turns out to be bad, we accept responsibility, learn and move on and not blame the other party.

Shifting blame for bad choices made is one of the things women do

Fountainofyouth:
Really? So a man can be a thief who then tells his fiancee that's he's a thief if she can cope with his personality, and he would have definitely shown his thieving behaviour to her before marriage abi?

Or is it laziness, he would have shown his lazy and entitlement personality to her before they got married abi?

Nairaland sef 😒

Aha, na wa o

Yahoo boys are not thieves?

Are you saying yahoo boys don't have wives and girlfriends or they don't get married?

Are you saying yahoo boys girlfriends don't know they are thieves?

Don Waney the kidnapper no get wife?

Now ask yourself your question again

ahnie:
Lolz kobojunkie yaff vex

Let her vex o.

Anyways, I'm just being sarcastic

ahnie:
Owen this your theory get as e be.

Men marry women, hoping she will never change

Women marry men, hoping he will change.

He's obviously been like that before they got married and she's fully aware of his personality. For a man to abscond from his responsibility as the bread dinner.. she is definitely aware of his character.

Is like all these girls that want to marry Rambo, terminator and Schwarzenegger shooting other people while hoping he won't shot her one day

Kobojunkie:
Abeg keep quiet and go sit for one corner o'jare with your nonsense reasoning.

2023 and a grown arsed individual still reasons like this? Tufiakwa!

Auntie Kobo, I have washed hands off your matter o.

Patapata

Abeg o

ahnie:
Will love still shack you to come back?
That's if he sent emissaries to come beg you to forgive him

It is her fault.

10 men may be asking a lady's hand in marriage, it is up to her to choose one out of the ten men to be her husband.

During the payment of dowry, they will ask her: is this the man you want to marry? She will say yes.

So if a woman ends up with a 'bad' husband, she is the one that accepted him out of the many men toasting her.

It is her fault. Let her carry her cross

bassdow:
so you want us to go back to LeadAcid battery when we have our HighQualityAlmight Lithium batteries just because your client needs money.

Na everybody get money to buy lithium

Kobojunkie:
Ok naw! The Radio station should demand the man go get a legit fertility test done to counter the woman's claim.

After her discovery that he is infertile/unable to perform in bed, why didn't she simply divorce him and go have children with another man without rancour.

But no, she fraudulently tied 4 children on the man's neck

williams20:
My car does about 280km on full tank
I think it's a little high tho , Honda pilot 07

Pilot dey chop fuel normally

Where is Plumptre?

And Alozie?

Drgreatone:
Thanks everyone for the contribution. Want to set up a low cost 12vsetup for my mum thats why I asked abt difference in pwm/mppt charge. The pwm seems cheaper and within budget but want to be sure if 4 150w panel or 2 300w panel wud give same results with it.
Would also need recommendations for an efficient pwm charger too? Thanks

Two 300w panels are better

Deltamani:
Victory is sure ✌️

Betting hard o

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.

Why all these rants?

In normal circumstances, ten (10) men may be asking a woman's hand for marriage, but it is up to her to choose one man out of the 10 men she want to marry.

During the payment of dowry, the girl will be asked in front of everyone.... "Is this the man you want to marry?" And she will reply yes.

So in most normal dating/marriage conditions, it is actually you women that select the man you want to marry out of the many men asking you out. Nobody force you to accept to date or marry the man.

So why are you complaining about your choice. If a woman ends up marrying a bad husband, it is her fault.... Because out of many men asking her out, it is that bad man she choose to marry. Let her bear her cross

nwadikeokey11:
I stop reading watever crap that fellow was trying to say here when I discovered how foolish and stupid he was. In fact the whole crap he postulated here didn't make any reasonable sense to me, so I deduced he was trying to make things up just to sound relevant, as I never believed all wat he was saying here. Or how best can u describe it? From borrowing money which he would repay in few weeks time just to go for tourism, traveling without money, calling his mom to send him money, getting to the beach in Benin, leaving his bag to a total stranger to go see the water, meeting a fisher man and making promise to get him an Android phone, etc. In fact I regretted reading the few I did. He's worst than a dummy, a slowpoke and an slowpoke all join. Honestly I don't believe in wat that fellow is saying here and if truly they happened, then he's truly an imbecilic, moronic, dimwitted asshole, period.

There are people like that o

I know one. The way they think is difficult for others to understand

bassdow:
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That's good. As for keep an eye on input voltage, that's very simple. Just don't go above what's stated on your charge controller. I only suggested using PWM since they're much cheaper and I havve a spare I might never hence willing to use it for experiment.

Thanks confirming it workks. when I get time, I go do something

boss person fit try this trick to dey charge Tubular battery?

Esude007:
... Go and get Thyme used as spice... Grind it, and pour inside the tank... Dey fast o... Make bees no go kill u ooo

Haba ... Like how many sachets of Gino Thyme?

And what solvent will one mix it with?

Abi just thyme and water?

Esude007:
Gunners160... My garden is 59 days old..stay tuned... Spraying pheromone to attract more polinators...

Boss kindly help with the Pheromes brand name or photo of the container.. I've asked all these agro chemical sellers for it's they don't seem to know it.

Thanks sir

Good pm house. Does the unmatched line mean the panel is defective?

It seems to read fine on the multimeter.

It's sunshine solar 180w panel

gunners160:
. To get one bag of beeniseed hard die........
A bag goes for 110k now but before u can get a bag u go cry.

Chai. I no do again. Make person just plant corn

BRIGHTSOLAR:
Use Jump start method

Educate us further, please

boyjo:
Yes I started with car battery.

My fear is the UPS getting over heated because sometimes there used to be sudden power surge from battery that will make the wires get hot.

First question....

Do you have/know a good mechanic that specialize in Peugeot?

Den no allow you enter the motor?

o42austino:
With open hearts

Toyota Sienna 05 and your own...

Compare the price again

EkelediliBuhari:
My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship.

Una men no dey hear word. Invest in yourself. Don't invest in woman's business.

All the funds you have been putting in her biz, if you had invested in your own biz, would have been better for you.

You see, women, on a good day, want a man that will be laboring to provide for them while they just stay at home doing simple things. Most of them then don't want to task their brain.

So forget all that gimmick of looking for work, she's just pretending so that she will look serious in your eyes. You said she's trained accountant like your Dad, then why is she applying for customer service roles? Because accounting is hard and customer service is soft... She don't want work that will make her to be using her brain

Tailoring requires a lot of brain work na why she quit am sharply..

Just leave her alone. Next time you have money use it to establish another business for yourself or expand your current business. Make she dey do her catering and customer service for one corner.

No be today women dey pretend to be serious about something when they are just doing it so as not to look lazy

Op if den give you 2.3m for this motor, will you collect it?

Dam5reey:
12.2V

Any load above 150w is not recommended because it will sag the voltage below 12.2V, even when there is Sun, you can't guarantee Solar radiation.

12.2 ?

Eh eh.. e go hard o .. very very hard... If you're not there and person wey no Sabi solar dey house, den go dey run am down anyhow

Dam5reey:
Tell your Customer he will change his batteries soon..
11.5V on Lead Acid stop playing...

So what's the ideal lowest volt for lead acid battery?

Na this kind sleek motors den wan use fight insecurity?

I was expecting to see SUVs or pick ups

OyeofIkoTuN:
The capital doesn't have 3 flyovers. ....ediots

Fix the capital for God damn sake

Learn to celebrate the blessing of others. Don't envy, jealous or covet others progress.

I'm from Delta North too but if I am Governor, I'll build 6 flyovers for effurun/udu/Warri/sef