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there are more men than women because female children are routinely killed in preferrence for male children. I dont think this will stop men from behaving badly towards women.

I hear say that humans are constantly evolving and even now we are constantly gettin smarter etc. I honestly feel that the more advanced man is a gay man. We women continually procreate with these "early men".

if men out number women excessively they will fight even bigger wars, unless we women find a way to harness men to power generators and use their testicles to generate electricity and power. that excess energy they possess should occur to us to be a source of renewable energy

I think women should rule the world. I know we will do a better job because women have heart.

bacterium. to hell with you ohhh. you sword weilding manaic and religious fanatic. black women dont want you. you smell like cat litter

well all I really remember about my first toasting was that I sliced the agege bread into thick slices and then probably put the bread in a white toaster and it got burnt.
but it still tasted ok with egg stew.

I strongly believe its because from what I hear in the states and what I see in the states with many naija women; there really is no treasure to scout after. We women are making ourselves very available to our men and they dont value us like they used to.
On the other hand I think in these days of equality, women are just as bad as men and why should a man who is the same age as you and making the same amount of money as you have to run after you like a devil. if the young man is just as desirable as the woman and about the same age and making the same amount of money or of equal socio-economic status why shoud he be hunting the woman with gifts he can scarcely afford.

the men who lavish gifts on women are commonly old and fat with pot bellies and a lot of money. I mean how else will he get the girl with his physical appearance. nooooo.

My mother always told me that I should never be mean to men when they wooed me because it took some gut to approach me, plus its a compliment that I am not a wretched looking madwoman who no one wants anything to do with.

I think women should be wise when it comes to men, sexual liberation or not. Use the sex as a trump card and leave a lot of loosers behind in the game and only allow a man trully worthy of you/her to win her hand.

But then again men have hearts and breaking it can cause a lot of them to become something else.

gosh too many pros and cons to this issue.

But Nigerian men are really dogs sha well a lot of them are. not all of them. may god help you guys

I have never heard of anyone naming their son judas. but that being said there is a man in the state of pennsylvania in the states who named his son adolf hitler campbell. you can google it. the local giant store refused to make a birthday cake for the boy inscribed with "HEIL HITLER" on it. so I guess people are naming their progeny after this ingeniuos man whose genius was channelled to the macabre. anyways i think in mabybe about 200 years when we are all gone or still alive by means of modern technology or cryogenics, people might forget what a basterd the man was and name their children hitler or adolf.

ezinne1212:
Your pic is luvly. As for moving to Ghana, i don't think you should fret. I've got Nigerian friends who live in Ghana and they love it.I'm sure you'll blend in , afterall, Ghanaians are quite civilized.

thanks for your compliment and advice. do u know how easy it is to find work there. i have a college degree in biopsych.

My husband got a decent offer in ghana for work so I am thinking of relocating there. I just want to know what I can expect as A Nigerian, Married to a Ghanaian in ghana. I have heard so much about them hating us etc. would I be able to do anything or will people pelt me with poo in the streets for being Nigerian. what can I expect when I shop for food in the market? what should I do? I am getting afraid.

I want to add that any Naija guy who has a problem with me marrying a Ghana man should not reply or should reply with sense please. Dont start telling me silly things about my fault etc. please. usefull advice only.

Thank you sweethearts

feyisan:
In all honesty I don't particularly hate the man for his past. However he must show
remose and repent.

His coming back might be to the advantage of Nigerians as his aim might be to repear the
damages he caused, win the confidence of the general populace back and receive God's favour
before the last minutes.

Feyisan, I am so happy that people got on your case in regards to your support of IBB.I cant believe you would be so naive and utterly devoid of common and neccesary sense to suggest that IBB come back to power to repair his damage. I trully hope there are not more people like you. You are so awwfully, painfully and so upsettlingly stupid. I am so sorry I have to insult you you are an idiot and an slowpoke. A pathetic slowpoke at best. HOw can you suggest this to your own people?? How old are you? Do you see Nigeria as it is? do u know who took us down this spiral. How dare you come on here and suggest to these eminient Nigerians on this site that we should accept this mad-butcher to lord himself over us again? A man who has not done anything philantropic since he left office. How dare you, You mediocre excuse for a blogger. Oh my gosh I am boiling all over,,,,, how dare you. How dare you. How dare you. HOW DARE YOU.!!!!!!!! you foolish idiot how dare you?

jagunlabi

thank you very much. you said my mind.

bawonmolo,

I am straining not to give you a snide answer.
Feminism is not a bad thing because you seem to assume it is. Feminism is a movement to improve the way women are treated as human beings. it is not wrong to advocate the rights of women who are also human beings. Feminism is humanism. it is not different from the civil rights movement to grant black Americans basic human rights. it is not different from advocating the end of slavery. it is not different from advocating the right of children not to be trafficked into prostitution. I have said nothing about christianity advocating anything. I said by example of behavior, Jesus Christ advocated for women to be treated fairly. which he did by equating the sin of adultery to the sin of lying, cheating etc.

Do not assume you can outwit me with spin. Please.

horse703:
get wise owu gal very quickly becos u r goin down the road of all unwise men please.

Horse703, since you are wise why dont you wisen me up with some real wisdom, seeing as I dont know where to get it which is why i am not wise?which unwise men do you know followed down which path? speak clearly and articulate yourself so that i can perceive "true wisdom" ohhh all knowing one.

Dear Theration,


thank you for your scholarly explanation above. I must admit though That I feel as if you are only trying to show off your knowledge rather than refute anything I actually said.
1) I said I don’t believe in evolution. Natural Selection may result in the diversity of the species, but it still attributes the ORIGIN of the species to random events. THAT I find hard to believe. I don’t think we were atoms that became some water dwelling then land living amphibians.
You asked a lot of questions about How old the world is, I don’t know…. But I don’t believe scientist have a good estimate either. You asked about dinosaurs, well in all honesty I don’t know, but as I said the explanation about them is unconvincing either way. It takes a degree of faith in what evolutionary scientists say to believe. Since I don’t think they know all the answers, and new discoveries are made everyday that change previous theories, I don’t think dinosaur fossils are conclusive proof of evolution. God could have made them for all I am concerned and so it could be argued either way.

Theration, I believe you should censor the way you use grammer, You said Jesus "Stole"…, Well dearie I do not care to check it, but if he did use words that were already in the bible that is said to be inspired by him and his father who are said to be one and the same, I believe he borrowed it,or RE-ITERATED it.

None of his disciples were women, till this day, that is debateble which Is why the DA-VINCI-CODE is a hit movie and book


2)Jesus showed little special attention to the plight of women"

I don’t think Jesus came specifically to improve the plight of women over the plight of HUMAN BEINGS. He showed great attention to the plight of human beeings in general which is what he came for. Unless you consider women a separate species, you can continue with your analogy.

On this issue I think you twisted the truth, he did not call the woman a dog, he used an analogy. Seeing as Jews saw others as dogs at that time, he used the most compelling one. I think he would have still used it if the begger was a man.

You go on a rant about JESUS DIVORCE LAWS, that’s where things get murky, because I believe those are the laws of his apostles and disciples, the ACTUAL doings of jesus to me are different from what those ones went on to advocate.

Thank you, I was brought up listening to mega preachers who secretly are doing dubios acts. it can be hard sometimes to decipher legitimate reasons against things as opposed to culturally acceptable/ religious inspired discrimination.

Miriam Websters Dictionary defines an agnostic as : a person who holds the view that any ultimate reality (as God) is unknown and probably unknowable ; broadly : one who is not committed to believing in either the existence or the nonexistence of God or a god

Its not that I do not believe in God, afterall, I find it hard to believe the universe is a result of random events. I refuse to believe even that. I think it takes faith to believe in evolution and that evolution is a religion in itself and I just dont believe in evolution; it's too much left to chance for my faith to carry.

But I also dont believe God or any god cares about people or the world. I dont think he/she is interested in us. I also do not believe in organized religion even though if I were to commit to any religion I would commit to christianity simply because of what Jesus said; that the greatest commandment is love thy neighbor as thyself. Also being a woman, I feel that Jesus was the first Woman's right activist in that he stopped some hypocritical men from stoning a woman and he also drank water from a samaritan woman who had been re-married multiple times. As a feminist, I am totally a fan of Jesus.

But I dont like when humans get to together to make laws on humans because GOD told them to make such laws. Jesus preached so much kindness and asked us not to judge others that I find it hard that even he advocated organized religion afterall he was against the Pharisees etc and even welcomed the gentiles.

I believe in doing good for goodness sake and because even animals do good to themselves and yet we cant see any real rationalization going on with them.

I believe in Loving one another and not just someone who shares the same religion with us (Jehova's withnessess, mormons take note)Jesus ate with tax collectors yet these jehova's withnesses shun every other person who is not like them. they are not followers of Christ

I am totally against the hijacking of the lives of ordinary Nigerians by the mega preachers in Naija. I am also totally against the tyranny of fear that such preachers spread around in order to keep captive members, i.e "You cant prosper unless, you are starving one of your four kids and giving that money to us".

I also am against the American evangelicals that use Christianity to cover their real intentions : racial segregation and hatred.

But I am fumed about why any creator is not intervening in the crisis that has enveloped the world since time immemorial and please BORN AGAINS dont give me that end of the world nonsense, the end of the world has been coming for 2000 years now.

I strongly believe but humbly assert that If God were to be physically present on earth to stand for trial he would be given infinite incaceration for crimes against Humanity, Neglect, improper subjugation,
false advertisement hence fraud by not reigning in his pitch-men i.e pastors that impregnate their members etc. creation of natural disasters such as hurricane katrina and tsunami ( afterall didnt he create everything), Not reigning in the devil but instead giving him the power to subjugate, imprison, threaten, frieghten,steal lives., and war crimes such as asking moses to clean out all of canaan.


Lastly, as indifferent as I feel toward any thought of a God, I am also very hungry for there to be one that actually cares. But let it not deceive anyone, I will not be a christian, muslim or anyother. and also, I am afraid of telling my family how I believe and allowing them to know why I dont go to church anymore.

Does anyone feel the same? Or am I the lone agnostic Nigerian. I dont mean athiest. I am not an atheist.

I just wanted to know if there were babies beeing discarded of in Nigeria and where such babies usually land when/if found and if orphanages are supported by the government or by individuals. basically who sponsors these orphanages

well after the sting of such a realization or comment is over I might have dated him (cant right now married, but if I were single) But then again, I think the sting may last for years. will he wait that long?? dont think so. even though A friend of mine married someone she didnt find attractive at all, but she still loved him I dont think she ever told him she didnt find him attractive.

you met on facebook?? ok thats almost says it all. but there is more, which seeing as I am not god, I cant say anything now, not yet

SHE IS comfortable with you. If you were to marry her, the way she is currently behaving is the way you can expect her to behave if you are not depriving her of anything. so good for you. but relationships are complicated. always remember that

Most definately not. They are not. but since we are people and not the creator of other people, and cant go into their heads etc.
we can never know the truest test of knowledge unless your name is solomon and you have 700 physically present wives, 300 concubines and your father was David and married to bearsheba and Your name is written in the bible as the wisest man in the world.
then we will know that God has said you are wise

Guys you could have asked me where I found this.

http://www.419eater.com/html/trophy_room.htm

lets not try to defend the indefensible. we know we do it.
shame

He IS now the choir master of heaven. And lead choreographer of the heavenly plains. See you in Heaven Michael. I loved you and will always love you. You will live in my heart till the day I die.

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These are the things my Naija people ( I spit that out) are now doing in order to get money from Americans. OSHI!!!!!

I think you should sue ( as opposed to (a)assassinating the profs, (b)doing juju for them and (c) doing absolutely nothing) if not for you at least for people like you in the future. but yes get legal advice. wow 5 years. if they did that to me here I would be rich!!!!!

but thats really bad. even if you dont sue, you should at least challenge the results. I am sure there was a mistake somewhere. these americans make mistakes talk less of nigeria the mother of mistake making. so good luck to you, i hope you suceed in your endeavors and i hope you can change your outcome.

also as said before if a man is going to cheat he will. Does anyone think Halle Berry started wearing wrapper around the house before her ex-husband cheated.

you guys need to look at it this way, the woman is in the house, should she wear high heels and make-up and tight clothing around the house.? Any man who wants that had better be really rich so that the wife does not have to lift a finger/break a nail while cleaning etc.

You men also, before you married the woman you bought her flowers took her out and spent money on her and always smooth talked her. after you married her, no more flowers, no more outings, eating out is too expensive, and you yourselves like to just sit down on the couch and watch sports. you " tell her as it is" and you want her to walk around like princess Diana, well even princess Diana's prince left her for a woman much dowdier and older than she was, do you think Princess Diana wore wrapper about the palace??

When I was in counseling before marriage, the pastor that counseled us told us about different types of love we NEED to posses for each other before we can be married; one of them was NATURAL love, which you have for the person regardless of the shoes, shirt or lipstick the other person was wearing. the other was ROMANTIC love which depended on the looks, aura and clothing the person was wearing.

If your spouse is still looking good outside, trust me its not for other men, it is to bring glory to you the man. to make other men wish they were as lucky as you the husband. therefore shower her with romantic love.

if she looks ordinary in the house, let your natural love rule.

Any man who uses his wife's looks in the house to cheat, was going to cheat anyway and is not worthy of the adjective "man". He is a "DOG"

is the originator of the thread married?

@ OURNAIJA,

You are so funny.I think you are kidding. but I totally disagree with your logic. pop corn and pies do not make you less fecund than if eating vegetables. City girls are just as fecund as village girls.

some city girls may have had improper abortions with coat wires etc that have interferred with their ability to bring forth a child without medical intervention i.e Ceaseran.

City girls may be more sexually active than village girls because of lax rules put on them by their parents or because they are living on campus away from strict rules etc. in being so, they may have contracted a venereal disease which could tamper with their fecundity.

City girls may also not want more than two children. C and S mostly has nothing to do with your diet,  You get Cesearans when your baby is breech i.e meaning is trying to come out leg first instead of head first.

You also get it if in the process of getting pain relief or other intravenous interventions before birth, your baby's heart rate plummets and the doctors feels it is in your best interest to have the baby by C and S instead of waiting for the labour to take its course.

you also get cesearans when the mothers blood pressure is too high. this can lead to preeclampsia which if not taken care of, mostly by inducing labor and subsequent C AND S, can lead to the deaths of baby and mom.

You also get c and s for vanity sakes. I know a lot of mothers in america who get it just to skip labour. they have scheduled cesearans.

if you are having more than 2 babies in one pregnancy, your doctors might perform c and s on you

you also get c and s for other reasons such as you have been in labour for over 40 hours and are not dilating well etc.

there are so  many reasons to get C AND S and none of them have been proven to be related to non consumption of EFO.

Your statements were too general and can have a negative effect. people sometimes come to boards to get knowledge and I hope there is no woman out there thinking if she ate only efo and had no prenatal check-ups etc, all will be fine.

we shold seek to educate our populace, not further enslave them by misinformation and superstition.

so much bigotry against people whose situations you know nothing about. gosh people sha, Poor people have kids for yes, labor purposes.
#2 lack of knowledge of family planing methods
#3 lack of "ACCESS" to family planning methods, like living a thoussand miles away from the closest family planning clinic
#4 lack of money to access family planning tools because, duh they are poor
#4 Myth and unfortunately religion,i.e catholics are not allowed to curb birth rates and even in america catholics with knowledge and access to family planning tools have above average number of kids like 5 or even 10.

I used to be among the people who was bigoted and resented poor people for having so many kids. but education should enlighten anyone.
Poor people have just as strong libidos, if not stronger ( esp if they have nothing to do and nowhere to go) as people with means.

The originator of this thread , I really want to say shame on you, but I am trying to believe you really had no knowledge. Knowledge is power ohh you need to get it.