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That's an insight into d clownish regime Ekiti people will endure for d next few yrs. I just don't trust that Fayose guy
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dagbenga:
what about slim girls with pot belly I know of one ,she's in her early 20s

Like I said it could be gluttony or fibroids,......or even malnutrition!
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Pot bellies in women can be due to Obesity, Gluttony, Lack of exercise esp after giving birth and sometimes Fibroids.
Remember that fats in women primarily show up in d belly n hips n forearms. And multiple pregnancies result in d tummy muscles losing its elasticity....n exercising to firm up can be lengthy n difficult ooo
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Does Denrele wear a bra? So what's his point? Much as I allow people to be themselves I think Denrele needs to start toning it down....he's getting older n should stop all this shenanigans before venturing into marriage n fatherhood abeg!
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MissMeiya:
Now that you mention it, horning in Nigeria is sometimes a matter of safety. My uncle was driving me in a rural area, and he always honked as he rounded a bend in the road, because the bushes and trees block one's vision, and I had observed drivers frequently driving on the wrong side of the road. My uncle used his horn to alert oncoming drivers that he was approaching, so they wouldn't come speeding around the curve and crash into us.

Many of these driving behaviors are due to other factors, like unenforced traffic laws, and sharing the road with unlicensed motorists. So, drivers have to create their own rules to protect themselves.

Yeah I see yr point. Of course d horn must be used when absolutely necessary, that's why it was put there in d first place. The problem is the indiscriminate use by many naija drivers....d most annoying being d buses, taxis n okadas looking for passengers. What I observed today shows that with persistence n determination, we can actually achieve a no-horn Lagos.
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I had just reminded my driver about it as he was reversing out of the house, only for him to crank d horn loudly. When I exclaimed in protest, he told me a driver must horn when reversing....
I'm now wondering if I have d right person driving me ooo. But I don't think today I heard as much honking as I used to
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The bible says A man shall leave his father n mother n cleave to his wife......
Naija parents interfere unnecessarily sometimes even if they have a point so I think u shd consider yr parents' concern to see d merits therein. If u don't agree with their view but they insist, then go on with yr relationship n give them time to appreciate yr partner n to ally their fears n concerns. I have seen parents continue to disagree with their child's choice of partner n even refuse to attend d weddg.....n that's unfortunate. Parents' role is to give advice but still give their support esp when they see their child is comfortable with his/ her partner. Dragging d issue forever only alienates the child n causes friction in their relationship.
I was in likewise circumstance n I have vowed never to subject my own child to such. God help me!
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Well written prose, op. But if it's a true story, then u have several lessons to learn from yr experience
1). U should not have eaten d bread when u were told mama mora had Apollo
2). U should have told yr interviewer u wanted to defer yr interview
3). U know Apollo is infectious (like Ebola) yet u went and made contact with people...do u want to distribute it?
4). U failed woefully....interviews don't check only yr qualifications or skills for d job but also yr attitude/reactions. For d type of job u were applying for n yr angry display towards fatty, u are not a suitable candidate to be an air hostess - what wd u do to a passenger who annoys u?

But u are a good writer though
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vfactor:
I hope it wouldnt be a problem, if the bf chooses to do the same, sometimes ignoring the girl

For me it wouldn't.....no cyber stalking pls.
This doesn't mean we can't both contribute to d same topic being discussed but don't insist on being acknowledged as my bf.....that's my point.
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Op, this news is stale. Everyone knows Tinubu is a confirmed documented crackhead.
It's d Remi part that I don't understand.....is she guilty by association or what?
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Well I would like to believe that I will not denounce my faith if offered that kind of money BUT u never know until u are actually faced with d situation. I'm looking at this with the same as "if yr life were in danger, would u denounce yr faith"? Your answer shd be d same for both scenarios, methinks.
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When a girl gets online to chat n interact n have fun, u d bf now want to cramp her style with yr presence n announcing yr relationship. So yes she will ignore u. Just disappear from there n leave d sister to navigate n converse as freely as she wishes....haba!
After all you both will meet later naa.
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Raiders:
How did Tayo get pregnant when he is a man

He effed himself.......satisfied?

Congrats to Tayo n all good men taking responsibility for impregnating their gfs. Thank God d little tot avoided being murdered
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Op who told u there's no need for a married woman to dress to impress her hubby? Oh, so u want d man to have an excuse to chase girls outside claiming he can't find d pretty lady he married again kwo?
I dress in what makes me comfortable n also pleases my boo. But primarily, dressing well boosts a woman's self confidence and gives her that feel-good tingle. If it also elicits a few stares n gasps, d better.....
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ultraGM:
Well you are on a long journey, while you are on the same house together, pretend as if nothing had happened between you, pretend to have forgotten, live normal life, and give here the chance to think through, what I sense here is that she's trying to play with your emotion,.
She may not even engaged in adultery but just to make you jealous and feel how it pains to be cheated.
One your own side try to apologize sincerely for the past and be repentant, if it will cost to kneel and beg her DO.

Pls Dont fight with her just be patient if she seems to be adamant, she will come out SOON

Precisely! Methinks he's being taught a hard lesson by his wife n must be patient to learn!
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Oh no! Suicide or murder? I don't trust any dubai death of nigerian youth. Too many unsolved deaths in that city already...what's going on there? Methinks our citizens should stop sending their kids to school there ooo
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marriedvirgin:
correct girl

Men.....they can dish it but can't take it. What's good for d goose is better for d gander
Do unto others.......
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adonbilivit:
my apologies if this post got to you

Am cool oo. We live to learn everyday.
Stay blessed

Mariopgomery:
you say it like its so easy to 'Just cool down n let her go through this passing phase' like its a ordinary thing..

Ehen. So u want me to tell him to leave his wife or what? His wife endured his infidelity, it's now his turn to endure hers too.....marriage is for better for worse, in good times and in bad.

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Awwww...congrats TY. Patience pays indeed!
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Op, what do u do, u ask? When u confessed yr own misdeeds what did she do? So go n do likewise naa.
Just cool down n let her go through this passing phase......have Patience n continue to love her!
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Op, it's not correct that "most" people think these words are English, what do u take us for? Some of them are actually from our local dialects n we know so. Stop under rating us....abeg!
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ifaoni:
she's now petrol station attendant...who ruined her life na?

Olodo!

idu1:
hehehehehehehehehehehe aunty mi hehehehehehehehehehehe

Who is yr aunty?

We have different reasons for dating different people...... Some people date for fun or just for d heck of it. That I can date a dj or actor doesn't mean I would like to marry one ooo.....there are more serious issues to consider in marriage which may not necessarily matter when dating.
Needless to say not all dates will end up in marriage.
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Accidental kiss on whose part? D kisser or d kisssee? Anyway an accidental kisser deserves double barrel slaps that will rearrange his face. He can then photograph n frame his accidented face as reminder of how not to cause future accidents!
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I don't like shy guys....too much mystery beneath that quiet facade! I prefer to see n know what am up against upfront, abeg!
Most people we think are shy are just pretending or intimidated when in public but get to see them in their privacy n u wl see a marked difference. Slow poison, green snake, deceiver, wolf come to mind when I meet any shy person.
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Aha....I know this grandmother in PH naa. What's happening here?

Cheating is as old as marriage itself! To be honest keeping vows is so hard for humans....we are mere mortals n so infallible. And don't forget d devil is there looking to steal, kill n destroy. Every marriage needs constant prayers for divine strength against temptations of d flesh.
And don't forget d devil's incarnates roaming around preying on married men n women, all in a bid to break up their union. I know about self control n self discipline but it takes d grace of God....... May God bless our marriages n keep us faithful IJN
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Awwww....cute pix. The little boy is so handsome........heartbreaker in d making