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What a pity! This poor girl was battling depression or some serious spectrum disorder. I think we don't have d full story but the mother partly shares d blame......she's aware of her daughter's condition n d girl should have been placed under some form of controlled learning conditions. If d school knows of her condition, then d instructor is liable......when she caught d girl cheating, she should have involved d school counsellor, given her condition. But this is rhetoric as d girl is dead. What are d lessons learnt from this unfortunate episode?
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After several disappointments from tailors (including so called fashion designers) every Aso ebi I get now I make iro n buba...I just give one obioma tailor around me in d morning, by evening it's ready to wear!
No more fanciful designs with Aso ebi abeg....my last attempt nearly turned me to a criminal........d tailor's bold faced lies made me feel like putting my hands on his neck n squeezing life out of him. I ended up wearing another dress for d event. Till today, I haven't seen my fabric I gave him to sew! Tailors tell lies more than politicians....in fact, both of them are competing for d hottest part of hell.
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Op, I don't agree with some of your points. If d couple had a reasonable courtship period, they wd have faced some of these challenges n mastered how to deal with them even before they get married.
Don't be surprised that some of d challenges may even surface after many years of marriage....that's why u see marriages of 6,10, 14yrs breaking up n leading to divorce.
That's why we encourage courtship n counsellling for intending couples. Afterl marriage, couples should go for marriage retreats every 2 to 3 yrs.....I tell u these things help!
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Haba! Your cousin is your family naa. If u both marry.....meaning one brother will pay dowry to his own brother, how can? In African culture your uncle is your second father, so how can u then marry his son....that means u married your own brother.
Abeg it's not only unethical, it's incestuous and barbaric! Find your spouse outside your family....many fishes in d ocean baa!
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Salvation is individual.....though it's good to attend d same church but if it's not conducive to both, then let each find his/her level. I have some catholic friends whose husbands are pentecostal n d marriage is going on smoothly!
Let Christ (not church) reign in your family.
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Na d tin wey u wan eat wan kill u so! Awoof no good oh! Change your ways
By d way, where did u pick her from? Hope she's not a wandering soul/walking dead.
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Op, it's not possible to love someone (as in relationship) and not DESIRE him/her.. U express yr love by doing those things - kisses, hugs, cuddles, d whole hog! Unless u are frigid or u are deliberately suppressing d emotions. If u don't feel those desires n experience those stirrings, then that's not a love relationship.....more like brotherly love......u don't view each other as a couple.....then it's ok.
But having those desires is one thing, how u act on them is another!
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sweetgala:
Is this Musa Danjuma fellow of any relation to Theo & Daisy Danjuma ?

Yes, Musa is Theo's younger brother.

I am used to being pampered....it started with my father n infected all my family members. Notwithstanding I am not a spoilt brat as I got a healthy dose of scolding when need be, so I guess there should be some balance.
In a relationship, d girl would definitely love some pampering from her man but don't overdo it else it becomes an obsession n a turnoff. A lady should also offer to pamper her man sometimes. I do that for my man occasionally.....a massage or rub down, a surprise gift when there's no celebration, a candlelit dinner at my expense. I noticed that whenever I do any of these, d guy just trips n for d next few weeks, he is falling over himself to please me........d Queen of d manor gets royal treatment.... Loving is reciprocal
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sammoR:
His campaign slogan is even a joke. Nigerians First, Nigerians always!! Indeed. More than 50 children dead in Yobe just yesterday, not one word of empathy from our President. How many boys murdered in their domitories, our president was dancing at a rally the next day. How many girls kidnapped till date, first it was denial, took how many weeks b4 our President responded. The list is endless. The Slogan should be GEJ first, GEJ always. The level of callousness GEJ has shown is disturbing. He doesnt deserve a 2nd term abeg. E don do.

Supported! I nearly smashed my screen watching him....tv on mute all d way!

If yr party doesn't give u d Presidential slot, pls my guy leave politics for now. We will call u back when d time is ripe because Nigeria needs your type in Aso Rock, not all these crackheads n old cargo n inept drunks jostling to rule by force by fire.
BRF for President !
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TrishaP:
Stunning photos. Buh I tot she was divorced.

Yes she's a divorcee.....who now found love elsewhere. Good actress, nice shots.
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From my experience, I think most guys go first for d facials. D face is d attention grabber, methinks
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Op, I disagree with nos 1, 2 and 9. Nothing in d bible supports that Christians can't sell/ buy these. Even Jesus turned water into wine (don't preach non alcoholic wine here oh). Someone once said if u sell beer n someone gets drunk means u are responsible...I ask what of those selling knives, guns, etc. People should stop using yr own preferences as d yardstick for all Christians. So because I drink wine socially I am no longer a Christian, what am I then?
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My definition - A woman who can carry her own weight n hold her own, earns her living, maintains n sustains her lifestyle, with a high dose of self confidence, self worth n self esteem.

But in essence, no one is independent.....we all need someone to lean on! Esp in a relationship, u give up d "I" for "We"
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Women exhibit varied behavioural patterns during pregnancy....mainly due to hormonal changes. The type n extent of these behavioural changes vary from one woman to d other. The pattern of behaviour may exist before pregnancy and become aggravated or it's entirely new. Being out of character is perhaps what d op calls hostility....an otherwise easy going woman suddenly becomes easily irritated. The people around a pregnant woman are affected most by her changed attitude n habits. But pls understand it's not easy being pregnant....d "load" literally weighs her down physically, emotionally n psychologically....this is not entirely her fault It's not only her immunity level that's low, her ability to contain n control her behaviour n cravings is also very low....but this behaviour fluctuates though....she will not be "hostile" every day of d pregnancy.
However, some women carry their pregnancy without exhibiting these negative tendencies.....it's different strokes for different folks.
So pls exercise patience when a woman goes for this nine month course.....it's only a passing phase.
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ocelot2006:
Oh please spare us that "male chauvinism" crap. Is it a must that one's girlfriend must cook for him? And how does cooking contribute to the man's earnings. This is not a case of hypocrisy at all, but that of lack of contentment (long throat) and pure gold digging. Let her go and pick up the car keys, and let's see if she won't get the worst of it.

U obviously didn't read d other thread where girls who don't cook for their bfs were castigated by your ilk.....that's d basis of my comment, my dear. Maybe u are one of d good men around...just perhaps
Moreover I thought caring is sharing...is it not gf that will one day become wife?
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Yes...I knew d guys would whiplash this lady for her daring request. She's not his wife kwo, so she has no right to drive his car but she can cook n clean for him......aren't those wifely duties? Hypocrisy n male chauvinism everywhere!
My dear, pick d key n drive that car. Let him complain first before u know what to do!
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CFCfan:
Also, even if u are on transit in the US, you'd still need to clear customs and immigration; unlike some other countries.

True dat! because if u transit into US, u would most probably have to change planes...for sure!

Daresh:
That is not how Delta works. Atlanta is their hub, and they do not go direct to Canada from Lagos. You MUST , I emphasize the MUST, disembark clear immigration, and do a plane switch. You cannot clear immigration without a visa. This is my job, I know how it works. He's a liar

Precisely! In addition in Atlanta,, u must also retrieve yr luggage n check it back in. I don't think u can transit into US soil without a (transit) visa, unless yr country doesn't need entry visa...like d Canadians he mentioned. Moreover airlines won't airlift u without d appropriate entry docs!
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Those can't be his shoe heels naa? More like he's standing on top of stools!

40 million new cars? Really! I didn't realise all d tokunbo cars are officially considered new oh......is it because they were imported?
This Ngozi has been a disappointment.....since d fuel subsidy saga. Honestly I like defending sisters but she's not giving me any defense armoury. She shone during obj tenure but this GEJ maladmin is cramping her style or what?
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GEJ all suited up.....without his fisherman hat and no ogogoro in hand.....impressive!
Who cleaned him up?
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I enjoyed d stories here, even d obvious lies! Lots of drama in embassies in Nigeria, not only US.
An embassy source once told me that many of those consular officers determine every morning how many visas he/she would approve that day....once that number is attained, every other applicant would be denied or referred. That's why some legitimate persons may be denied one day only to be approved soon after.
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Op, don't u know what a married couple does behind closed doors remains behind closed doors? So u expect them to wash their dirty linen in yr face....u have just set yourself up to be lied to!
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I'm for individuals not party. I pray that Buhari loses at d APC primaries. Kwakwanso is a better candidate...If only people like Fashola would run!
Btw where's that crackhead...too stoned to attend?
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Kiss n cry? That's odd....u dey bite am

Oh no! What happened naa? Mo would be so devastated...that's one of her pillars for that channel oh. RIP

I never miss my flights by my own negligence.....I'm very time conscious and my protocol guys know it! Last December though, d airline postponed our flight by 8 hours but our travel agent didn't inform us. So we got to d airport to hear d news. I asked to be put on another airline because I didn't want to miss my connecting flight elsewhere n my appointments d next day. I was obliged n put on another airline going to a different destination but I regretted it because it became a chain of missed flights all d way. I didn't get to my final destination till more than a day later. My anger boiled over when I saw d original flight I refused to wait for sitting pretty on d tarmac, having arrived many hours earlier.
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vfactor:
My dear sister crying when the situation calls for is not a sign of weakness, be it male or female. If a girl breaks a guy's heart abt many years in a relationship and he cries, it's very much understandable. But to cry for a girl who u hardly knw, jst cos she rejected you?? Aaah, that person is a chronic womanizer, jst crying to get pity. I bet, after bedding her, he'll cry for the next girl

I agree with u that crying isn't a sign of weakness esp for a long relationship. But d girl rejecting u may not be a stranger u don't know. Maybe they were friends then he fell in love n wanted to take it to another level but she refused no matter how hard he tries. Unrequited love can lead to tears depending on d depth of his emotions.....that's my point.
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