₦airaland Forum

tomtomastom4:
Up North

This is a faceless forum, which sid from the North

tomtomastom4:
Thanks a lot. Though there are houses of 70-80k. But na public houses. Me I cant leave in such places at all.

Where did u based?

Kaycee54321:
And the 100K guy don already dey make wedding prep for e mind oh

While the more pragmatic female partner is weighing pros & cons.... trying to figure out the economic logistics involved in the venture of marriage...

Lol,
Dear, 100K per month for a guy is too small for a guy to talk about marriage in Nigeria of 2022 oh. Especially if that 100K is the ONLY source of income.

Forget the stories of others are doing it, if you enter there, you go see crazy

You can date while improving your finances. If Raba enters, you legalize your union. Except of course, due to age, you really wanna conceive...and that's a NO NO on 100K per month from the man, in Nigeria in 2022.

It all depends on your Icatin #100k in s0me places is still a bug money

OnlineBusinessC:
.......

Thanks Bro!

Abeg, which station

SanctifiedSista:
It all depends on the couple, there is no enjoyable wedding that does not cost minimum of 1,000,000 naira ...unless go and marry Hausa or inside inside village ..it's d desire of any man to see that his guests are well taken care of

With bride price or what?

Tommymoses:
Yes, when you're being loved by your parent.
You can relate if you ain't gat loving parent..

My parents don't wear pampers fir adult
If a yet to be a man you don't marry, kids/child don't go into marriage, marriage is basically for adult that can cater for himself before bring somebody else to this world

cayorday89:
Those outside and will act surprised when they hear him say this and form voltron are also doing same or probably begging relatives amd friends for favors to meet their basic needs, so what is the difference... Make we no dey put unnecessary pressure on people jàre..

No big deal I uyou stay with your parents till you die without marrying, but getting married and your parents are still the one feeding your and your grandson " komake senses now"

Before you inpregants sombidy the question you ask urself is" can I shoulder the responsibilities" if your parents still needs a child they will make babe themselves,not your now bring unwanted child for them and you can't take care of them

You are worried because they are not doing well now in academics, parents are always in haste, 7yearso age? What did they know? Bros! Abef relax, keep doindo what you are doing they will catch up

I was an average pupil in my primary school but I was the best graduation students in my secondary school.

Why rushing? Just keep doing your best they will pick up with time

Tommymoses:
Abi now.

Me that got married and my Mama still dey feed me sometimes and my wiffy!

If you like call me fool, no be you dey feed me. This life have learn something never compare your life with others..

And you can say it outside.

My mother never accept such till I finish higher institution why will I allow such?

faithfull18:
At OP, there are faithful men, they just seem to be few. I think as ladies we need to help ourselves. These guys cheat with another lady. Maybe, if ladies start refusing them, they would stick to their married partners. Even those you expect better from will just fall your hands. These set look all innocent, Godly and all, hmmn. Make God help women.

Honestly , most men are sex starved from their wife

Woman complaint a lot after vetting married

Some man don't want to cheats but their wife unknowingly push them out be using sex as a weapon

You deny me sex,I go out

Jesuisbelle:
The Reason Why Some Men Are Still Faithful Is Because They Don't Have Money To Cheat, Money Brings Out Men's Character.

Why I am faithful is not money

Is,I love sex raw hate condoms and I am also scared of diseases, so I am forced to be faithful by force.

forMom:
Forgive me but I have a strong attachment to my father's name.

Not because I detest my fiance's name or anything like that. No, not at all. But because I feel like my father's name is my identity.
To think I'll let go of my identity just like that after marriage is distressing .

Besides, my surname sounds so lovely whenever it's mentioned. In fact, because of that, I love being called by my full name.

I've mentioned this to my fiance a few times but he doesn't understand lol .
Honestly, if I had a choice, I would not change my surname after marriage .

So ladies if it wasn't a thing, would you take your husband's name after marriage?

If he can't understand your point then separate now

Liebermantic:
You need to read about me and my post on Nairaland. I'm anti-Biafra and Nnamdi Kanu.I hate anything associated with the struggle ever since the glorification of Unknown gunmen in the region. I'm purely Igbo from Delta State.
Get this fact now, Tinubu will lose Lagos state.Go to any Big churches in Lagos like Catholic, Anglican, Living Faith (Winners), Lord Chosen, OPM etc in Lagos State, they are advising their members to vote Peter Obi.Even a Yoruba Parish priest is the head of the plot in the Church to unseat APC in Lagos and Abuja.. APC winning Lagos this time with new electoral system is like APC winning in Abuja.

Lolz.and you think they will agree, one thing you should know is south west no send you with religion ,

Liebermantic:
A local government in Southeast will wipe out the difference Tinubu would have in leading other aspirants in Southwest.. Tinubu should forget this election..The contest is between Labour party and PDP

Says by ipob member

Jennyclay:
- I'm well trained and well-mannered.
- I'm a graduate with a good job and I also do business.
- I cook so well.
- I'm God fearing
- I'm a lovely and happy person.
Etc.

Now do you expect me to settle for less? Do you?

Pls how much is the good paying job make we hear?

Blessedmercy8:
For me it depends cos I receive pay from different mediums as a part-time teacher.

Now, some schools pay directly into my account. For these ones I don't say thank you except when I receive a pay raise from that particular school, then I can call to thank the director otherwise I don't.

You see the ones that pay by hand, I just feel courtesy demands you say thank you when you receive the money as you're sitted there with them cos it will be mannerless of you to just grab the money, sign and gerrout. So, for these ones, I say thank you.
In fact, there's one that always likes to rub it in my face that she's paying me by always complaining each time she's about to pay that " parents have not paid school fees. That she's just paying me from her pocket... Bla bla bla.. hm. Now, when someone tells you that, she's making it seem like shes doing you a favor therefore expects some thanks or appreciation from you. You will just have to say thank you.

Case closed.

you bSe where?e

Ok12345:
Some girls now diraaa
She will just start knackin you raw without demanding anything but she go dey shine, get her own money.

Carry your leg out....work on yourself before you start getting slim for unknown reasons


I wanted trying that rubbish one certain time,I just dey for club dey take my 2 bottles of goldbeger until one slay Queen come sit down by my side,I don't know whwt came over me that day,I just aks her, how far? How much part-time? She told me the price I said let go home, iaI was going home I was just thinking as I was going, going front and the girl dey follow me because my house is not far from the club

As I enter my house, we are about starting and something was strucking my mind,if I am sick tomorrow the only thing that will be coming to my mind is " The girl get disease of the girl get spiritual stuff, and fortunately the girl now wear beads,i just wear my trouser back and give her half of the ,,press, we negotiated on,press her boobs and suck them.i cant even swallow my apit after the incidents just dey wash mouth allwys

Some decision and best not taken than taken them because the fear in it can even kill u before the time

MrHighSea:
I will take the vow again.

Before you marry, fortify your finances.
make sure he/she has resources to pull together or he/she has the technical know-how to expand resources.

With this, both of you will achieve more than being single. If you uphold marital vows join, things go soft.

Good husband/wife vibes are improved with money.

You think Marriage is all about money?
Ask keecy and funk Akindele

tehilah92:
I sell palm oil as side hustle, any week I'm on night shift, isell in the morning and go to work at night

To better,you base where?

tehilah92:
I earn 25k, with two daughters o

You mean in a whole month the amount that will enter your and is 25k or you have other hustle you use to compliment it?

podium:
I earn 15k. With a daughter and wife...

Sorry ooo, but you are not a graduate

Pleasehow much is Beebee jump solar and what and what can it power?

Pleasehow much is Beebee jump solar and what and what can it power?

toobusy:
The house of God has become a comedy house where everything and anything goes, REVIVAL?!!!!... REVIVAL?!!!!!,the church needs total revival,I need total revival,send Revival to your church Father.

What is the big deal in what he said?
Even breast is mentioned in the Bible, so what is the big deal?

SuRamzy:
Christian pls kick sentiment aside lets vote base on competence not religion politics.
The man try no be lie.

Which man try?

Dimma360:
Then I should be thanking God for my wife, the only time I was starved was when she gave birth aside that she is doing a nice work

Take her out and talk to her about it in a tone she would understand, start by letting her know how you have missed her old self

Do not reason Side chick abeg masturbating is not good also up

You are married for how many years now
?

ahnie:
What of me that hasn't had sex close to a year?

It can only happen to a man in his 60s

Richashell:
We go outside. Mine is 4 years no sex. I have tried everything to make it work but she says no.

And u provide all that is needed at home?

Zao19:
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

I dey even fear to marry.or make I no marry again ni? How will j get married and still get side chick? Is not making sense now