akwesenana:
Do you want to have sex?

Or, you want to have sex with your wife?

OP if you can answer this question, then you can trace a step to solving your problem.

RepoMan007:
Manage her pants with her until God see you through this phase, it could be hormonal changes mixed with financial issues you facing.

I never knew there is a hormone in human responsible for wicked and stupid acts.

studyless123:


Chairman, I used to see you in programming section that year. But it's like you just on travel matters.

Do you know who can teach me Javascript on a one to one?

I'm a JavaScript programmer.
Where do you residents?

EriMma1:
Money go, woman go. When I was warning you guys in my post that a woman needs to be taken care of if you want your marriage to last, some empty skull said I too like men matter. Now see.

This skill is what you ought to have learnt first, then build your financial security before talking about marriage but You men like putting the cart before the horse.

Number 2, marriage is not for children. Forget the general opinion that it's better to marry a younger girl. mature ladies are still far better in terms of managing hard times and handling tough situations unlike your 23 yr old who has not been through lifes hurdles or surmounted challenges on her own. Prolly she just moved in with you from her parents house where everything is being done for her.

As long as you're still broke and can't meet her needs yet, no amount of begging will make her come back cos that was why she left in the first place.

Focus and complete your skill training. Make sure you learn it very well and start sourcing for jobs.. Also keep looking for a regular job to sustain in the meantime. Forget about her but try to send upkeep for your child

If you hammer tomorrow, look for a mature lady and marry.

All this 20 yr old ladies without tangible source of income rushing into marriage with average Nigerian guys, I pity all of you. You people think marriage is childs play. Make una dey play.

Op this is the best advice even a God won't hesitate to give you.

Right now what you need is focus on your skill to get back to earning a living.

As for your wife, just forget about her and work harder to send upkeep money for your daughter.

I know you will still rush to her when you get back on your feet, but it's not my worry if you don't learn your lesson that she didn't stay with you in the hard times.

Nemesis0147:
They don’t look like people who are mourning Abi the woman don too old or sick?

It says from the writing she had been gone and buried, this is like a memorial.

Evidence1000:


Pls what's the name of the book?

Millionaire Mindset
By Dangote.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Do you live with Yul Edochie?

fulaniHERDSman:
Kids and growing teens will see this and tow the line. There should be consequence for talks like this. It's her business what she does in private. But it should be a crime when she campaigns with it publicly.
Last I checked, PROSTITUTION is still a criminal offence here. She needs to be taken in for questioning and probably prosecution. Our society needs urgent protection from people like her.

You checked and prostitution is a crime in Nigeria??

You don't even know where it happen and you rushed to make the new, this happened in Crunchies, Vanco, Abakaliki.

Failure44:

I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

You might even die before your father Sha, I hope you know that??

VladimirPutiin:


In Politics you need to dine with the Devil to get to some certain position of power. It's everywhere all over the world. Even Udom Emmanuel of Akwa Ibom that claims to be a Pastor is heavily involved in occultism.

I'm still waiting for you to talk about the God that ordained them sha

VladimirPutiin:


Pastor indeed lol. A Pastor that tell lies shamelessly. To get to any position of power in Nigeria isn't child's play, talkless of the Presidency.

See this article from a former Presidential aide on Aso Rock.

https://guardian.ng/opinion/the-spiritual-side-of-aso-villa/

Prof. Osibanjo is a senior pastor of a know church of God and also a occultic member of the things of Satan.

This is where I don't like discussing religious,cause it all leads to confusion.

I wanted to see the head that turned to a pig, but when I saw the face covered, I just knew it was another truck to hype the believe.

FreeStuffsNG:
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Thank you.
May God bless you.
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God bless Nigeria forever.

What makes you think Twitter will be publicly traded in Nigeria?

iamyemiakins:

Whitening teeth with waste product

It's not actually a waste as you think, urine is noted to be high in flouride.

RenaissanceGuy:
You're funny. Even if the calendar then was 11 months, that'd still be more than 800 years.

If truly anyone ever reached that age.

Most of you don't even understand what He's trying to say.

I have the same mindset as him. Being super careful never to go back there again.

Broke life is something to avoid.

isaiah4life:
Choose your tenet and stick to it.

I won't let anyone make this world seems scary to me, not will I let anyone make it look carefree.

isaiah4life:
God is great. Only a fool thinks there is no God.

That's a popular say among the christians
The Atheist will say Only a fool will believe in a being he can't feel

I'm neither a religious fanatic nor an Atheist. I'm just a nigga having fun of the games

RenaissanceGuy:
People used to live up to 900 years during that time. It shows that people then had special abilities that people no longer have now. Connect the doots.

If you read the concept of calendar and it's origin, you could easily spot some fallacy in that thesis of people living for 900 years . Remember only the Roman Catholic calendar has 12months.

Grandmeister:

Who ever told you God is an old man with white beards? Lol

He wouldn't be a cry baby

Grandmeister:

What they were building was a very massive observatory to 'look into the heavens'. There were a couple of such buildings back then in mespotamia. Before NASA there were ziggurats

If I believed that sone people were confused just because they were trying to build a tower that Will take them to heaven, then I have 5o believe also that the God is ignorant of his creation. No one can get to that height beside NASA got pass that height and they never saw an old man with a long white beards.

Omakraid:

I don't need an evidence of the structure to believe it nitemi just like I do not need to see God to believe He exists. Moreover Genesis 11 stated that they were in the process of building, so they could have been stopped by God at any stage. All I know is I believe the word of God (Bible)

I doubt there is a book that says the Bals were trying to build a tower that will get to heaven.

Many books has it that the were building something that they will brag about.

If God really scatter them because they were building to get to him in heaven, then it really prove that the God is ignorant of himself Sha.
No one would barely make it to that height without a mask of O₂

They say A picture is worth a thousand words. Really that's is the truth but I think a picture is really worth more than a thousand words but a million words.

The moment I saw this image, what hit my interpretation is just the African system of governance whereby, the authorities make law for the government which they themselves can't keep.

What else can you depict from this simple but a million worth work of art?

Op it's not about age difference. When your spouse becomes the breadwinner of the family, then nothing can stop his or her arrogance.

bluefilm:


But what exactly is this attention everyone is talking about?

Bro I can't help you any longer if you can define the word attention

Benwallt:
I read The first two paragraphs and I didn't see myself getting close to the knot of the story, I scrolled down and saw the length, naah. Articles are good, some are so good that you read them over and over. Most of the posts here are designed to attract sympathy and favour not really to motivate

That's why it's called nairaland, a place of cruise.

Benwallt:
I don't usually reply to this kinda comment but yours was stylishly subtle and I gat your message but people don't live on paper pages, a sane person keeps his message simple and straight to the point. Unnecessary details rubbish good text.

It was when I read the article from it's top to down that I got to know that the Op was just trying to gain pity for the deceased and not narrating anything.

By the I also love simply articles but if I'm curious for any information, I don't mind reading the article no matter how long it's. I guess it's because I love reading historical articles.

inumidun2010:
My own is that 2022 must make sense... Someone should give me scope wey i fit use breakup without breaking someone's heart...
I need concentration not WhatsApp calls and where are you every time....

Kindly and slowly reduce your attention to her and she will dump you.

Women go where they get attention, even if you are super rich, when your attention no longer wave in their face, they take your money then seek attention somewhere else.

Benwallt:
Abeg, anybody with a very brief and concise summary of this epistle from benue johnalist.

Lesson 1: Always hide information in a writing. Those who don't need it will never get to know about it.

Phoenixflap:


The thrill of first to post is exhilarating!

His post is damaging and could attract severe consequences.

Most people don't understand the kind of trouble they can land themselves by trying to be a news breaker. Especially even they can't really tell.

When the police tried to involve him in the investigation , he will call them unprofessional s

victorazy:


Did I say chemical can't do it?

This case wasn't chemical sir.
Ok! Reason this.
How did they apply the chemical that even the dog slept off, they threw it over the gate to the dog house that the dog never noticed it and doz off?
They blew it from outside the gate?

I bet the dog breaths. Why I'm trying to explain is that I have seen a thief calmed a dog that's supposed to attack.

Remember, not all dogs are gaurd dog. The dog could have been trained to be friendly.

Please explain how possible sir.