cutievik:
What is this wan saying??

Alright fine, I retrace my steps already

Why would an 11-year old girl be entering Keke without a guardian accompanying her?
We should not only blame the man, the girl has got parents too
Peesh!
Alright I admit, I'm drunk

GrossPrice:

She's going to dump him eventually!

No matter what, I still won't advice Pkingman to go ahead with divorce
But with everything he has said, it clearly tells that his wife has got plans in which he isn't a part of
That's why she's trying not to put up any trace of both of them online and socially.
Smart! I must say
To the world, she's still single irrespective of the fact that she put up photos of she in her gown.
She's trying so hard to the wifely role so he won't get a slightest clue on that big move
Just like a game of chess (if you know what I mean)
But this "not going social with him" thingy is a huge hole in her plans. I'm sure she's tryna find a way to cover it up, prolly give a good reason.
Like you highlighted, when she goes abroad she's gonna let loose and not bend
They do need counselling.
P.S. All these I wrote could just be a scene that won't play in real life
So the man in question should use his discretion
But, they still need counselling!
Cheers!

obicentlis:

Tell her that you need a divorce and see her reaction.

DukeNija:


I swear this is what I’ll do. Not to threaten her, but actually file for divorce.

And what if she agrees?
What if she says ok to go ahead with the divorce?
What then will you advice him to do?
Tell her its just April fool??

victorian:

I'm in the office already. I took this pic in the classroom. Im simply feeling myself . No harm sharing my today's look nah.
Who's asking for your review?

No be only come and get it, nah come and chew it!

Simply feeling yourself huh
Of course you're, you're clearly chatting with King Charming na
I guess you must be raining too,: hehe!
...
[At bold]; Lol! so chewing works it for you?
Damn! you must be an aggressive lover(lovemaker)
Well I could consider your proposal, but, my lips are tender right now and it needs all the softness it can get
So...

victorian:










Kiss ke! U want make guys wooing me in this forum get angry with me.
No kiss! Biko. I don't know who I will end up settling down with. Lemme not burn my bridges with my own hands.

Just my morning pic instead, I'm just feeling my looks this morning

Lol .

Hahaha!!
I thought she was supposed to be at work
She couldn't resist showing me herself huh
So what, you want my review?
Uhh... those lips keeps on staring at me though. Gotta change the angle
p.s. Its just a kiss, it won't hurt nobody. As a matter of fact, I'm coming over to come get it!

Jirair:
I doubt OP's wife is this reserved or private because if she were she wouldn't post other aspects of her life (personal photos, of the kids, her parents, siblings, co-workers, and likely gifts the husband gives her) on social media. She merely excludes him and goes to the extent of cropping him out of pictures to post herself. If OP feels like she treats him like "he doesn't exist", she probably does and I can't say I know why (though it seems like she isn't in love with him and never has been).

Lol! Of course she wasn't/isn't "in-love" with him, and I think he acknowledges this.
But I hope he knows he can still build it, just gotta put in some more faith, love and a cocky value and he's just gonna make it work(Lovedup).
One big-open-happy-family
He's gotta make it work right?

Splinz:

In fact, most of the time, people's primary motive of showing off is to boast, spite and move others to jealousy. Is this really what you want in your marriage--to attract an "evil eye"?


All I see is a woman who's mentally and emotionally matured.
And just like you, of course I see a wonderful partner

[At bold]; But she shows off their Child, did she not think she'll attract the "evil eye" too?
I mean, if at all she does not want people to know she is married, for such a matured woman, will she want people to think she got the child out of wedlock?
Lets help him look at this really.
Don't let us use words that don't depict their kind of relationship.
So far, no one has really given a truthful opinion that explains why she doesn't associate with him socially.
I mean that's why he came on here right?
They're just dusting it off with their own experiences that don't even correllate.
...
Yh, he is a wonderful partner, wish I could say the same bout' her.

victorian:













Yawns"

Have heard. Need to rush off, to work.

Whichever way u come to your conclusion is OK by me.

No time to argue back and forth this morning. So many things I need to resolve today at work.

Byeee .

Aii
Morning kiss?

Pkingman:
Pls I need advice

I think you gotta trigger her jealous button a lil(ok, a lot maybe). But the aim is to put her in place.
All this mess you facing is cause you've been taken for granted.
So you gotta step up to that position you ought to be, and that is someone that she's got a lot more value and respect for.
All this cries you've been making to her ears about she not going social with you and all that, you really gotta let it stop.
Don't even give a damn about if she decides to tag you or not.
With the less attention and cries you'll be giving her, she's gonna think again before she makes those her nasty moves.
Now this is why most men are fighting hard for men like you to take hold of their balls and not let some lady toss about anytime she wants.
You think if you knew your worth she'd be doing you like this?
Damn, women can identify a needy ass from a Man.
So get your balls together and quit being someone taken for granted!
And hey, get some damn Chicks!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Toffee isn't chocolate. Instead, it's a rich creamy brown color. It could also be synonymous to 'Caramel'. Don't be afraid to make another research.

Ok
Thanks still

victorian:

I know much about what almost everybody goes through, not only her type. And please don't ask me how, cos I wont reveal.

Then i'm not in her shoes and God forbid I won't be in her shoes.

So no need making it look like, the husband married someone who felt her life is done and over with due to her past life.

Then pertaining to me, I'm OK with what I have going on in my life.

Ladies and their maked-up mind, so beautiful!
[Paragraph 1]; You know, I was gonna tell you I was not interested in knowing.
But then he told me how you know all these things, so I just gave a grin to myself saying of course.

[Paragraph 2]; Women!

[Paragraph 3]; You know you could be charged to court or given subpoena for your comprehensive skills, its preposterous.

[Paragraph 4]; Aww, how cute.
I could give you a hug right now if only you were

victorian:










I wonder o, not only Prince Albert, Pls add Treyz songs as well to the list.

So back to your dog? I said if u have any extra dog or puppy that looks like it, Please click on my pm and contact me, I would love to buy one as well. Such breeds and colour are rare.

Does she even know who Prince Albert his?!
Just cause you see Prince you already assume some movie scene, lol
...
I do not do pms!
Ask for my number or better still, scroll through my "Posts timeline". I put it up in one somewhere.
And hey, I don't sell his Pups online.
So you might as well not bother.
Cheers!

victorian:
Oga, you are not tall dark and handsome. Talk true make devil shame.

He could be, infact he must be.
But that doesn't change anything does it.
I feel he was used or prolly still being used.
Like you said, she saw she was ticking so she accepted out of pity.
No wonder she dosn't wanna show him off. She must have bragged to her friends about the kind of man she wants or must have been engaged before and everyone knew about it. But fortunately(lol), she got dumbed and used and became heart-broken prolly even a sadist who knows.
And Yh, she surely must be cheating, don't ask me why, the signs are just clear.
Writing sweet words bout' your Masculine friends instead of your Husband?
C'mon!
...
By the way, I notice you seem to know a lot of similarities about such women. You been in such shoes before huh
I do not wanna believe you still in it

victorian:

Do Nigerian guys really have such looks!
Please stop reading Mills & Boons!
Such looks uv described are rarely found in Nigeria.Lol
You funny! Describing such looks as if they full town remain Lol

So guy! I checked your profile, at least 2 see the face of the guy behind your words.

And alas! I saw something Fascinating, your Dog!
So pretty! That's what Pree means, Short hand form.

If u have a spare dog like yours, holla @moi!
I love such dogs.

Lol! Why are her ears all pointy at the mention of the beauty of such a man.
So who did you think I was describing, Prince Albert??
[At bold;] Well from where I'm from, we not so few in number.
Well, your eyes sees what your mind wants it to see. Whether it be myopic or not.
...
Something fascinating huh
Now I'm wondering what word you'd have used if it was my photo you lingered on instead.
[At bold;] I should "holla @moi"?
How does that work?
I'm a lil' too stranger for all thisslang

DPRmoniker:
The bottom-line is that my 18-year old daughter is so attached to me that she can change clothes before me or sleep on same bed with me and feel no shyness.
How best can I create a loving distance between us?

Sit her down and hold a one on one discussion(without the presence of your wife at first) with her.
She could be doing it out of plain innocence and the bond she's got with you.
So you just gotta hear her out first.

I'd have said you should set up some boundary but you still gotta know why she does what she does.
Cheers!

GrossPrice:

Toffee

Chocolate huh Why didn't your just say that upfront, lol Gawwd you had to make me go google that. Thanks!

victorian:









Do you some side chicks have dealt with wives spiritually, by making some wives run mad or even die mysteriously, so the husband they are sleeping with, will marry them. I know of such cases, very well!

In between I like your dog

So pree!

Lol! Yh
But a logical man(which is almost all men) never willingly marries them(side-chicks), especially after that occurrence.
They'd rather seek spiritual help for their Wives and if to no avail, they'd remarry. But not to those silly lil' girls that're on the sidelines.
Men don't really do this fighting for another man's wife, I guess
...
[At bold] In between reading my post you checked my profile?
Lol! why do most people do that.
So what were you hoping to see, a photo of a pleasing facial appearance with an expressive thoughtful deep brown eyes subjected to a defined lip that's laced with a piercing smile?
Not so quite!
...
By the way, what's pree?

serubawon:


13 years and this thread is still on. God is truly good.

Wow!
Finally read it through
...
-Threads like this should "forever" be on FrontPage of both Family section and the Forum itself-
...
Every page is an inspiration.
Thank you so much for this awesome read.

GrossPrice:

No complaints so far. My skin proly loves the TLC. No rashes, itches , nada.

Hi,
You got a light-skin?

starstaz:
Shear butter plus Funbact A. is a magic any day any time. Thank me later.

Pretty!
I've heard tales bout' this too, more like a blemish removal.

kenzysmith:
I slep with 49 girls anually but i cant stand a cheat

Your opinion would have been noted if you hadn't added the first ten syllables.
Therefore, on behalf of this thread... it don't give a flying cock!!
Cheers!

victorian:
Both cheating husband and cheating wife are like suicide bombers in one's life.

They are dangerous in marriage.
None is different from the other.

Let me help here:
Divoc isn't disputing this
What he's simply saying; the level of dangerousness(this sounds better) of one is greater than the other.
Cheers!

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it

I think you gotta emphasize that you aren't saying cheating is good/right cause most people especially the guys would misconfuse your writeup and feed on it negatively.
...
[At bold]; A quite number of women can actually have sex outside the walls of their relationship without getting attached. (Un)Fortunately, they are rare in this part of the world hence the reason why we still stereotype
They actually refer to it as fun or simply just business. And they are really good at keeping their emotions in check. That's why we see sex-workers still having someone they love; their husband or boyfriend. And we're always shocked cause we never did understand that they were different from our typical women.
They've had their heart trained multiply!

babyfaceafrica:
if men can marry more wives, women should marry more husbands

Why should they?
A Woman's psychology isn't the same as that of a Man so surely her way of reasoning isn't the same either.
Have you not been reading?
Look this is Africa, as much as you want of it, there can't be thorough penchant for equality like it is in the Western region of the Earth.
Just cause a particular gender is getting a right, so you feel the other gender should do irrespective of the fact that you did not thoroughly think it through?
Now I'm not advocating for extra wives for the men like you just advocated for extra husbands on behalf of the women.
But if I were to truthfully choose which would have more, c'mon, its then gotta be the man.
Women can't "handle" that, they can't even fully comprehend emotions you now wanna give them multiple untamed emotions??
Except its an open one, I don't vision how its gonna work.
Its Nature over Nuture here mahn!
Cheers! even if you find me biased

GavelSlam:
Spiritual home?

When would you learn?

Psychiatry is a well developed medical science.

Get her to one and stop exacerbating the problem.

Exacerbating wow!
Some medical problems just can't be cured by medical science alone.
It gets to a stage where the Doctors would have to tell you to seek other means apart from science.
He saying he wants to go further past medicals isn't "exacerbated", science is just overrated (especially in parts of the world who do not its limit).
Some Sickness and Disorders mere science just can't do anything about.
So if at all he wants to include this disorder among the "some", then I believe it isn't an issue as long as she gets "healed"(that'll be similar to the word "cured" in medical science).
(I hope he fathoms).
Cheers! anyways

Gratefulheart01:


Lol, why did yu remove half of my quote when mentioning? Then do, nowadays kids have drive for brain? I just think it's evolution and more exposure, just like people have more beautiful faces, complexion and stature nowadays. Things evolving better in that aspect.
Anyway, everything, both good and bad are evolving better in this era.

Lol, evolving better or evolving worse??
I do not buy the idea of the Earth having more beautiful people now than past times. If at all we truly do, then its thanks to the technical advancement also
With the help of surgeons and computers to anness the benefits of elements like silicon and plastics
You'd agree that before this advancement, mankind lived longer, healthier, naturally and of course, facially finer
[At bold]; Absolutely not. The kids of nowadays are driven by their feelings not thinking
Well, I don't blame them
Its due to an advancement in society, lol

Godsgal:
lol. yea. i do.
in other news,just went thru ur profile and am in love with ur dog.
is it possible i acquire it from u?

Ohh, forgotten all about that thread already.
[At bold]; Lol, of course you should na, its only normal.
By the way, with your cutie-cuchy face and his, you sure wanna wreck havoc.
I guess you meant acquiring his child?
Sure, why not

Gratefulheart01:
But most kids born nowadays have good memory of the past.

Yh, especially with the help of the internet. (Saving of files in drives) Thanks to technological advancement Damn!

Godsgal:
Prayed to have eye problems so i can wear glasses like my friends cos to me they looked cuter with it

Lol, this just rang a bell
Especially the glasses that had rope.
Mine also had to do with DC's Superman.
If you know what I mean

"Kanayo kanayo lemi mo kana gan"
Awon legends! Awon ti pioneers of ritualism, lol
These are the role-models of our upcoming Ritualists and Yahoo gang!
Ride on..

Vincent88:


My child is the second child of my brother , the first child is 17 years then my daughter who is 10 then a boy 8 and the last child who my brother went for her DNA she is 6 years old. Thank you i will talk with my middle brother to see if he can help me on how to reveals this secret from him. As for the ex wife she is out of the country married with 2 kids she is actually in USA they cant renconcile again . Thanks

Arggh women!!
So she's given birth to 6 children for at least 4 men?!!
And I'm certain the new man doesn't know anything bout' her past
Damn!