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Football age.

What do you intend to gain from the confrontation? Focus on your own life! If your own family is still sharing the same compound with your uncles and their families, your ambition should be building a house away from it! It is not by force to show face in every extended family functions.

Lizzyangel:
thanks for your comment..,I'm not bothered cos I'm the one begging for help,so anything is accepted....I'm the one feeling the pains...I pray you won't be a victim of my predicament....nobody perfect and you can't have all that you desire in life.

Way back 2018, you were already dropping your account number for assistance to help feed your 2 children and still felt it is okay to bring in another child into this world when you and your husband have not figured out sustaining yourselves?

Rodddy:
I fell for this dumb scammer because I didn't just remember asking him to quote me after telling me he is saxy4c
I thank God it's just $50.
Is there a way to request for a refund for Paypal GNS after buyer confirmed product as shipped.

Number:08021834083

Glad you recognized there was a lapse in judgement on your part but just know the idiot will not end up well. He will be caught soon as there is no perfect crime.

If his hands are clean before God and men of goodwill, why go to the court to stop being investigated?

ZhiosonWind:
got banned by a bot I really need your help, I need to get some malaria drugs. Fell Ill since Thursday and I have been using boiled lemon and mango leaves but it's not working. Kindly help me,

Are you same as OP?

Most of their parents won't feel comfortable having them back as they are so used to breeding and dispersing them.

The idiot will now blame the devil as if they factored devil's share in the ransom they have calculated they would collect.

Feetytalk:
A friend of mine started cucumber planting last two months.. he needs people to buy in bulk

State the location of his farm.

Nice one, love SERAP's consistency.

sisisioge:


But on a serious note, that guy goofed direly! No man or woman should go into marriage without outlining their expectations clearly with their intending spouses. As in, identify them and discuss to avoid these kind stories. A lot us marry because it is time or the other person seems right without checking to be sure that we're both aligned on the same page....if promises are not made, hearts should not be broken o.


The first time I saw a thorough marriage counseling filled forms(a friend showed me what she wrote to her intending husband) chai...I was gobsmacked. She was totally explicit about money, sex, time, her people, his people, chores, etc....chai! My Igbo gf got me scared thinking the guy would just dump her when he sees her expectations. No, he wrote his and they discussed extensively in front of their counsellor and privately. Today, they are very much settled in as each understand their roles. Hian!

Sadly, many ignore outlining their expectations so both parties can discuss about them as it gives opportunity to talk about each other's threshold, what is a no-no, where concessions can be made etc Where one feels he or she can't deal.......take a walk.

Poverty induced question. Everyone should be served, there is nothing like first or last. Where there is little left, children comes first because they are the most vulnerable.

sisisioge:
If I were a man....even just for a day

See tweaked Beyonce lyrics o!

finest0007:
This man.

Na question I ask o, who go gather liver to be a snitch in a gun infested state like Rivers?

GOFRONT:
Noodles must always be in the pics

You captured my thought.

Will the person who gives the info be alive to spend the money? Who go gather liver to be a snitch in a gun infested state like Rivers?

Sad.

I won't be surprised.

Franklinking:
I can't sleep.Last night is an unforgettable night. I never knew life was like this.
My landlord son arrived yesterday from Delta State. His father told him that I haven't pay for house rent f (a room apartment). I was trying to explain to him but he got angry and stated that I know his father is not working a and that the house rent is what the man is using to cater for himself and family. He was on top of his voice. I wanted to calm him down so I mistakenly told him that it is foolishness not to understand the period that we are. He became more angry and continue to quarrel that I told him he is foolish. He locked my door. I even knelt down to beg even when I knew I am senior to him. He left and went to their room. The father didn't say anything. He kept quiet. His friends were begging on my behalf. He gave me the key and told me to pay up before next weekend.
I am a teacher,we have not been paid for two months now because we have not been going to work. I lost my parents at a very tender age. My other siblings said they don't have. Please help me. I have been buying on credit to survive this period. Please help me. My house rent is 3500 . I am owning two months.
He that giveth to the poor lendeth to the Lord. Please help me.
2119047200 UBA bank

Same person, 2 monikers, 2 stories.

vandp:
This is a good development. Meanwhile, we can now joyfully say that he went to quarantine small with his girlfriend, he has the look of a player.

Very inappropriate thought.

sleek214:
I stand with Yahaya Bello on this one. Covid 19 is fast becoming a scam in Nigeria. Initially PTF was telling us the the people that died have serious health issues but they now stopped telling us. They are using covid 19 to milk us dry.

Are there any covid 19 test going on in Kogi state?

Nice one, it is also boosting our local farmers' income by buying off oranges, tubers of yam, eggs etc from them.

Nice one.

Insightful

When the children from the marriage become young adults the power dynamics of the family begins to shift. If the husband had been authoritarian, the wife would likely openly challenge him with the confidence of having the children behind her unless she is addicted to the husband's narcissism.

Why asking, "why no baby?" For you to create threads on this in different sections proves you are not emotionally okay, go learn positive coping strategies and leave the couple alone because it is not as if you have got your own life figured out!

HarunaWest:
If there's no other bed or bedroom available, then your visitor must be made as comfortable as possible.So they should be in the bedroom...Afterall they are spending a little time not like they staying forever......You sef check am, how you go feelnin future if you go your liking house and he put you into mat for living room or balcony

Allow a visitor to sleep on your matrimonial bed while you and your wife sleep on a mat? Haba, respect your marriage!

Is it not insensitive to go stay over with a couple that are managing themselves in a small space? It is irrational to think one is entitled to sleep on a couple's matrimonial bed, the person no get shame.

Boundaries must be respected!

Nigeria is a loaded truck with deflated tyres but still believes it will get to the destination without cognitively restructuring.

Be bold to meet with her, apologize and communicate the frustration the goats have been causing you.