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That is the "natural course" in Nigeria's politics.

"But Akeredolu over the weekend made a formal declaration foreclosing the consideration of handing over governance to Ajayi following the COVID-19 positive status of Akeredolu with the deputy governor giving his boss 21 days ultimatum to handover to him as acting governor".........

Why should your parents complain about your fluency, growing up what was the prevalent language spoken in your home?

Also from the East, born and raised in Lagos but I and my siblings can very comfortably converse in Igbo language because my parents were very intentional about Igbo being the only language spoken at home despite the fact we could easily switch to English and Yoruba. My parents said they didn't' want to "lose" their children to Eko!

When I got an opportunity to be involved in some agricultural projects in rural Anambra and Enugu, I took it up sharp, sharp as I was very confident nobody go yab me there for my inability to communicate.

It saddened me when I was listening to a BBC documentary titled "Forgetting Igbo" which is the dilemma of children of Igbo parents born outside igbo land who are disconnected language- wise

Glad they arrived safely.

Hope he is found alive.

But some people did burn and still burn such carvings in their communities with the belief that they are demonic.

Wasting their lives on irrelevances.

radiolover:
She worked in such place before.

OK.

Required experience, how did she get that?

Both APC and PDP are mere platforms politicians use to capture power, neither is about ideologies.

Newcreature2020:
Air Peace has done so much good in helping stranded Nigerians in diaspora,than any other airline. May God richly Bless His labour of Love.

It is a paid service, not charity. It makes economic sense to patronize a Nigerian owned airline than opting for the likes of Ethiopian Airline, Kenyan Airways etc.

Sighs.....

Let him have nah, some people are waiting to milk his stash.

DrRosemary2019:
So sorry that you had that kind of experience. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you as a client asking a question or expressing your perception during a session because an important part of the therapeutic interaction is for you to get clarification irrespective of whether you are paying or enjoying a free session. If your session is not enough to respond to all your questions, the ideal thing would be to schedule a follow up session and let you know if you would need to pay for that session or not. It is not right to let one's emotions lose on a client and I apologise for that. I am a counsellor but I have colleagues who are psychologists and they are really good. Please, do not stick to the impression that all psychologists or mental health professionals in Nigeria would act in the same way.

As for the opinion you needed clarification about, sex is still a biological need even though the Freudian theory may be several years back. Human physiological development has not changed. This is why children who have attained puberty will still exhibit the physical characteristics of sexual development and experience sexual attraction, urge, etc. For instance, a boy that has attained puberty will naturally wake up in the morning with an erection. Girls will menstruate once they attain this stage. Both boys and girls , once they have attained puberty, will at some point experience a need for sexual or physical intimacy ( not necessarily sex but a sexual kind of closeness to someone) though the time may vary from one person to the other. This will happen biologically irrespective of whether they are exposed to information or not ( though exposure can influence the age of sexual experimentation). Puberty is the basis for human sexual development and sexual need or impulse which is biological.

However, some schools of thought have argued that the sex need is not in the same category of needs with the basic survival needs such as food, air, water , without which we cannot survive for long.
Research has shown that the need for sex can be controlled and individuals can in fact chose whether they want it at all or not unlike food, water, air which no one has much choice about. I guess this is the point the psychologist was trying to make when she said it is a "want" and not a "need".

When it comes to relationship, it is essential that you and your partner discuss this subject ( sex) to ascertain that you are on the same page even at the beginning of your relationship in order to prevent conflicts arising from it. For instance, your partner may view sex as a need while you view it as a want and this can cause conflicts.
Shalom

Dr. Rosemary.

Like your submission.

cococandy:
It is really hard. My aunt found fresh oha one time last month and she called me from where she was to celebrate over the phone . It had been many years since she last saw it.

Me too I’ll celebrate one day soon.

Growing up, I can't recall us buying oha in Lagos because we had 3 oha trees on our property. It was not seasonal, all year round as all we to do was to "igbocha a" and fresh leaves sprouts. Whenever my brother was on any of the trees plucking the leaves, some of the igbo women who were our neighbours would choose those moments to come visit my mum with the assurance that they would leave with a fresh bundle!

Noise as usual.

TFeminist:
r u back in naija? Let's do something in IMO na? Cheers

No, still outside. Ndi ne chem kari kwa!

Bossjakande:
tell me were I did scam gay and others. baba Bleep off

But you should have added #copied at the end of it rather than giving off the impression you intellectually own it, forgetting many here are aware of your capacity!

KingMicky3286:
It’s almost approaching, start looking for a way now. Anything about Nigeria now get as ebi

Yes, I am conscious of the need to start early.

Mine is expiring in September and am hoping our High Commission would have opened by then.

Good development.

The North is really boiling.

wizboi26:
the mum is Benin while the dad is ibibio( akwa ibom)

Then do research both sides to know what traditions says about the situation.

Had 1, 2,3.......7 children without bride price paid, some men get mind o and topping it up.with deadbeat!

In some communities in igboland, those children belong to their maternal side as their biological father and his kinsmen felt it not necessary to follow the traditions of marital rites.

Sss2:
Is Kenya Airways the cheapest to reach EEB Uganda?

Ethiopian airline and Rwanda Air had always been cheaper options but no one knows post COVID.

ibkayee:
I don't understand how you can see the poor state someone is in, knowing how much of a struggle Nigeria is and still underprice someone for their labour. I am talking about the people who knowingly pay an amount disproportionately lower than the effort of work, it's inhumane.

For some it is being "smart".

The man thought he was smart and lived in denial of Corona virus, chasing away WHO officials. The man most likely died from the complications of the virus and the cardiac arrest was used as a cover up, how can his wife be Corona virus positive alongside aides and had to be flown to Kenya and still are hospitalised at Aga Khan hospital Nairobi, receiving treatment for Covid-19 and he remained negative?

Good development.

Deeking111:
If you have huge ETHEREUM to sell let talk business
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State the price here, how much will you be buying 1 ETHEREUM.

TheCongo2:
And let us be realistic. There is a huge difference between a men who sleeps around and a lady who does the same. A man can sleep around via the polygamy channel. As for a lady... she can do the same through prostitution. So which one of the 2 is morally acceptable?

None is morally acceptable irrespective of who commits it. When God decreed 'Thou shall not commit adultery" was He referring to women alone? If you want to marry more than one woman be clear about it, marry the second even third woman put for house they you can sleep around via the polygamy channel which the belief that your faith or none supports it

Reality is that some men today who sleep around do not want to marry many wives because of the heavy responsibilities but they want to have more sexual partners while still maintaining one wife at the home front.

Sighs......

Romangalactic:
Is the salary even enough to be filed in your tax returns?

Of course it is not.