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Softmirror:
Wetin dey do Chelsea sef. Just 1 goal since haba

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

Afrobeat artist, Seun Anikulapo-Kuti has criticized President Bola Tinubu’s decision to remove the fuel subsidy, accusing him of prioritizing personal interests over the welfare of Nigerians.
Kuti argued that, despite Tinubu’s claims that eliminating the subsidy was a “tough decision” made for the greater good of the country, it was actually a “wicked decision” that exacerbates the suffering of ordinary Nigerians.

The musician also expressed outrage over the government’s purchase of a $150 million jet for the President, pointing out that the money could have been used to address critical issues in the underfunded education sector.

Kuti suggested that the funds spent on the jet could have built and maintained 10 primary schools for 20 years.

During an Instagram Live session, Kuti questioned, “Who donated for the $150 million jet for Tinubu? Who did they ask for donations?

“That $150 million do you know how many schools it will build? Or how long it will run a primary school? 10 good primary schools would be run on that money for at least 20 years. 10 good primary schools would be built and run, that will educate ten generations of African people.”

He went on to criticize the President for claiming the fuel subsidy removal was beyond his control, stating that as both the President and Minister of Petroleum, Tinubu holds the responsibility.

Kuti emphasized that there was nothing “tough” about the decision, calling it a deliberate act that harms Nigerians.

“The President cannot tell us that this petrol matter is not in his control. He is the President and Minister of Petroleum. They say they take tough decisions but there is no tough decision taken here. President Tinubu took a wicked decision, this whole subsidy and floating the dollar, there is nothing tough about,” Kuti added

fineboynl:
Umm. They are fighting over market control.

NNPC is afraid to let go of the market they once controlled. Bogus Subsidy claims and others monopolized benefits. On the other hands dangote doesn’t want government control as well.

If government sell very low to dangote we won’t be talking of subsidy scams anymore. There should be higher tax for petrol exports by special customs departments to ensure the subsidy is removed from the exported product.

Taiwojon:
OK

Good luck and thank you
Also
Forgive righteousness89

Christian don't hate, they love people because people are God creation who Jesus died for and Jesus doesn't want anyone to go to hell.

So learn love my brother

Taiwojon:
You don't need to curse to pass a point

That show Christ isn't yet in you!

But I won't judge you because I am not a judge.

With your knowledge about how Jesus told us to preach, you could use your knowledge to preach and bring glory to God.
So I will appreciated if you put your knowledge in preaching the gospel instead of condemning those who are preaching.

Whether you preach in a wrong way or right way
As long as you are preaching about Jesus and the person you are preaching to will surrender to Jesus and accept him as lord and savior

Then
That is OK by me

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Just do his commandments by preaching the gospel to all creation

MaxInDHouse:
This statement implies that Jesus' disciples can only be noticed by the way they conduct themselves as a group not individually!

Remember that if you read through the gospel accounts and try to picture yourself in the first century when:

• Peter denied knowing Jesus.
• Thomas disbelieve what Jesus said.
• Judas Iscariot sold Jesus for cash.
• All Jesus' closest confidants deserted him.

You can't think of becoming a member of that group.

So how will their light shine? Matthew 5:14-16

Well Jesus said:

I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another; just as I have loved you, you also love one another. By this all will know that you are my disciples—if you have love among yourselves. John 13:34-35

From the above statement it's evident that the disciples of Jesus will also have flaws in their individual life but as a GROUP something unique will make them different from all other religionists around them: LOVE will permeate their assembly!

When others are fighting and killing their fellow worshipers due to political or racial prejudice {Revelations 6:3-4} Jesus' disciples will quench whatever could lead to such right within their midst {Isaiah 2:4} because the love they have for their fellow believers will cover a multitude offenses! 1Corinthians 13:4-8 compare to 1Peter 4:8

Have you found such a group in our world today?

Taiwojon:
Why are you angering at him?

Jesus say we should preach the gospel to everyone around us

If your life will attract other to Jesus then you tongue also must testified about jesus

Tjra:
I used to deny the existence of witchcraft like you until dem nack me jazz. I'm always on guard ever since. Witchcraft and sorcery is real, don't be fooled.

Chikel20000:
and if I were a Christian n after seeing Boko Haram, Fulani bandits, isis and those Hamas demons troubling d world ...will u still turn to Christ?

ikorodureporta:
Does roadside preaching make any positive impact??

fredwill1357:
Why am I creating this topic? I create this topic to enlighten the world and to also get enlightened from people's inputs.

I sometimes see some Muslims singing Christian songs, and I reason within me how more peaceful, united and harmonious the world can become if we all realized that the universal God is one and God doesn't have a religion. Religions are merely pathways to God, created by man, sometimes with the help and inspirations of the holy spirit. However the supreme pathway to God is to worship God in spirit, truth and uprightness.

Why was the old testament and new testament mixed together? There are actually two different religious text, the old testament belongs to the Judaism religion and the new testament was created by the followers of Jesus.
This was done in a bid to paint Jesus as the messiah of the Jews prophesied about, the Jews till this day reject Jesus as their messiah, pointing out that he didn't fulfill the messianic prophecies. Yet some people continue to force Jesus on the Jews.

In the old testament for example, the Jewish god pointed out that he was a jealous unforgiving god that visits the sins of the fathers upon the children. In the new testament Jesus pointed out that the universal God is love and ever forgiving.

For a God that never changes, this is contradictory, but of course Jesus wasn't talking about the Jewish God, he never mentioned Jehovah. Jehovah is not mentioned in the new testament, Jesus always or usually addressed God as Father or simply God.
God doesn't have a name, what is the use of a name? A name distinguishes or differentiates, for the universal God without equal, beginning or end, what is the use of a name?
We can of course address God with honorable titles, however God doesn't have a birth, native or specific name. He is what he is.

Jesus is not God, he repeatedly pointed this out in many bible verses but some people insist on twisting things.
In John 14:28 Jesus said the father is greater than I am.
In Mark 10:18 he said why do you call me good, nobody is good except God.
Jesus prays, who does he pray to if he is God.

Jesus said things like I and the father are one and if you see me, you have seen God, however he simply meant that the spirit of God dwells in him and he is a good representative of God. The spirit of God dwells in all of us, so same can also be said of every Godly upright human. That is why Jesus said everything you do to another human, you do to me and God.

You don't have to fight for God, this shouldn't bring malice. If you have a contrary opinion or something to say, just voice it politely. Nobody knows it all, we are all learners.

To be continued.

Oghene86:
How much is the product, forget all this long article

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/N6.95-trillion-trade-surplus-record-shows-Nigerias-economy-doing-well-Presidency

MaxInDHouse:
What is righteousness?
Did the thief @ Luke 23 go to God's Kingdom?

Was he righteous before that day?

MaxInDHouse:
What is the Kingdom of God?

David0002:
So what you are saying is that you can go on sinning, as long as you believe in Christ.

David0002:
If you are committing sin, you are unrighteous.

AntiMarxist:
Because the state has the powers to arrest , detain and interrogate any one engaged in treasonable felony and terrorism.


He should have cleared his name if innocent instead of trying to sneak out of the country to avoid the invitation.

This is bad optics and when the DSS takes him to court seeking a remand order to conclude their investigation , no judge will object this after he refused to honour their invitation and was caught sneaking out of the country to the same destination nation the prime suspect a Briton is from.


By the way NLC President does not enjoy immunity .

Because he goes about the title doesn't confer on him similar immunity as the executive.

AntiMarxist:
So before Nigeria can be all inclusive we must dash Ibo the power reigns ?

AntiMarxist:
The question you should ask yourself is why are the Ibos now suddenly so desperate for power?

All of them are in unison on this agenda just as they also bound together in their expansionst quest aka Biafra .

The Ibo man has kept telling you that for true reconciliation from the civil war they must be given power.

These are a people who refuse any wrongdoing

and deny vehmently in the face of raw evidence the atrocities they committed on minority people .

You will expect they will do the honourable thing and apologise sincerely to Nigerians , the victims of their senseless coup and the hundreds of communities in the SS that their Biafra war criminals sacked during the war

No. Instead they went to town crying victim and blaming everyone else.[/,quote]Blame everyone else of what?
Were you there during the civil war or coup?
Why then will anyone blame you?
[quote]And now they have come to demand from you the power to rule you and you are foolishly considering their useless demands ?

Nigeria does not owe the Ibo man anything more than Nigeria owes any other nationality.

achorladey:
When we know prophet in the Bible teach.

AntiMarxist:
You are spewing trash.

Is it the right of any nationality or tribe to rule Nigeria ?

Did the Ibos not have the earliest opportunity via both civilian democracy and later their Ibo quasi military dictatorship that messed things up ?

You are championing Ibo right to power as if there is a line of succession to power based on ethnicity. If so, what of the Efik, the Igala, the Binis, the Jukums and other 360 ethnicities in Nigeria ? Are they lesser than the Ibo in Nigeria that the Ibo man has to cut in line ?

What even made you assume that power must follow an ethnic train ?

Are we not practicing democracy ?

You are here using ethnicity to demand power rotation to Ibos and when others vote their own, you gasslight them as tribalists ?

You no get one kobo sense for head.

Nigerians do not owe the Ibo man anything.

If at all, they were lucky not to have paid severe war reparations and also have their war criminals tried and hung for their war crimes.

Stop defending Ibo ethnic bigotry and hypocrisy.