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deept:Blame Brexit. |
Lexusgs430:No it won’t. Cracking flight prices compared to BA. We got tickets to travel in October 2 adults and a child for less than £1K. BA was asking for over £2K for the same flight. Klm is the way to go, shame new immigrants are being penalised. |
Walexwal:At the risk of flogging a dead horse, does your friend have a settled status in the UK? If the person is on a student visa or work permit, Council Housing is public funds and accessing this will jeopardise their future chances of getting ILR. |
Thegamingorca:You will have the option to select a seat for free when check-in opens which is usually within 24 hours of departure. The problem with this is that most times, the aisle and window seats will be long gone by this time/ plus you will be left with seats at the very back of the plane so you will be among the last to exit the plane. Secondly if you are travelling with a family/kids, it is always advisable to pre book seats so that way you are guaranteed to sit together as a family. Whereas if you leave it to check in, your 10 yr old daughter may be sandwiched between two men in 14b while your wife will be seated beside another stranger in number 26c. Most airlines always try to sit families together but this is demand led and not guaranteed. |
jesmond3945:It’s usually very difficult to start with but at the kids progress in primary school, they settle and form their own friendship group with like minded people who have similar interest and this is outside of parental influences and biases. I had similar experience when my daughter started primary school in a remote Scottish Island. To make matters worse, the school had very small class rolls which meant in her year group there were only six pupils and they had all been in nursery together so had formed a very strong bond which my daughter couldn’t break into. The parents were all locals and knew each other very well so were always organising meets up after schools and weekends etc. They would have parties and my daughter will be the only one not invited. This affected the play dynamics in the class as the kids preferred to play with the kids they are familiar with and see all the time. My daughter was very unhappy in that school and this affected her confidence. I eventually gave up trying to be friends with the mums and moved her to another school where she thrived. The kids in this second school all get on well with each other and had similar interest. We had to relocate to the mainland last year and I did worry how she would cope in a new school but she made her own friends and through her I have become ‘friends’ with the mums as well. All of the friendship occurred naturally and stem from shared interests, my daughter is a keen gymnast and spends most of her time after school practising gymnastic routines with the other gymnasts in her class. On weekends she does running and drama classes and there are also a few of her classmates in those two classes. We the parents take turns in dropping/picking the kids up from the lessons etc. I would advise you not to worry too much about it as it would eventually sort itself out. |
rayralph:I live in Scotland and have dealings with a few local authorities. I’m very sure you are not eligible for council housing if you are subject to immigration control. Housing association is different though as anyone can access this. |
Ameryx:I’m sorry to hear you are feeling this way. Moving abroad and starting life afresh is not always easy. Some people are very fortunate to be recruited into professional jobs directly from Nigeria so they have an entirely different experience from yours, and may not understand where you are coming from. However that does not mean they are going to be more successful in the long run. A lot of opportunities abound here and it’s just a question of time before you find your own niche. In the meantime, hang in there and focus on your studies. I also came to UK as a student and did all sorts of menial jobs but I never attempted care work because it just didn’t float my boat. Instead I did a lot of events management/waitressing, worked in super markets and also food factories. So you don’t have to work in care if you don’t like it, I imagine there will be a lot of other options available these days. |
mintyx:I will always advise people to pay into their workplace pension especially if it’s a defined benefit scheme like the Nhs pension as those are the best around. It’s based on your career average and for each year you work for NHS, you accrue 1/54th of your average salary. Even if you are above 30 and you end up working for the NHS for 35 years, you will accrue 35/54th of your salary by the time you retire adjusted yearly for inflation. So for example if your average salary at retirement is £40,000, you will have accrued an annual pension of nearly £26,000 by the time you retire and it’s guaranteed till you pass away. It’s not like the private sector pensions where your pension income is determined by the performance of the plan. The side effect to opting out is that you will lose your NHS employer pension contribution. Also there are other benefits attached to the NHS pension like death in service grant etc which are quite substantial. |
Viruses:It’s probably to do with hard water content in your area. Some areas in South East are notorious for hard water. We don’t have that problem in Scotland. |
Lexusgs430:Let me tap into this anointing too ![]() Hey, want to join me at Chase UK? We'll both get £20 when you join and pay in £20. Get started: https://link.go.chase/emNK/refer?code=jyrVLSKF. T&Cs apply. |
lightest:https://www.gov.uk/get-vehicle-information-from-dvla |
veleta:You are missing the entire point of my post. It was to advise people that there are other alternative routes to achieving success in UK, if a child is not doing well academically, don’t stress it as the child can still have a successful career through the apprenticeship route be it in industry or in trades. Every profession has occupational hazards! During Covid we saw how doctors and nurses put their lives at risk to help people and some of them even died from Covid infections due to lack of PPE. Will it stop you from encouraging your children to go into the medical profession? This is typical pushy mom/dad’s mentality that has put us in the situation we are in Nigeria. If the child has no interest in any of these courses that you have listed or even refuses to go to Uni, what are you going to do about it? Disown them? May God help us all. |
kaylov12:I have lived in this country for over 15 years and during that time I have learnt that education is not the be it all and end it all in this country. Yes it is good for children to learn the basics in the school but the career path they eventually choose does not matter as long as they are successful in their field. I stayed in one of the Scottish Isles for a good number of years and I can tell you that most of the men on the island didn’t go to University nor did they pay attention in their maths class but majority of them are now earning over £150k per annum as plumbers, fishermen, electricians, sea farers, and even farmers. This is not hearsay, I used to complete their tax return so knew how much they were earning. We have to realise that this is not Nigeria where there are no jobs and no opportunities. There are heaps of opportunities in this country and we should not stifle our children by moulding them into Nigerian’s idea of success. |
Joydan95:It’s per month. |
hassinho707:Special Educational Needs and Disabilities. |
Akorkor:I don’t understand what you mean by council verification. All you need to register at a GP surgery is proof of address. Also while you are at it register with an NHS dentist as well. Kids under 16 are eligible for free dental care. Good to get kids into proper dental hygiene and regular checkups from a young age. Have you researched the schools in your catchment area? Find out which school you are zoned for and then approach them for registration. Also check out the feeder secondary schools as the primary school might be ok but the secondary could be a problematic school. Details can be found at https://www.inverclyde.gov.uk/education-and-learning/schools/catchment-arrangements. |
mumzt:How do you manage to study and work with 3 underage children? Did you come with a nanny from Naija? |
veleta:Totally agree with you. One other thing that I find that affects speech development is the dummy/pacifier and also the time a child spends on bottles. This is why the health visitors try to encourage new moms to move the infants to cups from 12 months. A child that still drinks milk from a bottle at 3 years old will struggle to speak. As important as school work is, extra curricular activities like swimming, gymnastics, horse riding. drama, cycling, playing musical instruments, brownies, scouts etc are also very important and equip the kids with life skills that will come in handy in the future. This is not Nigeria where there is so much emphasis on book with little knowledge of life skills. We need to raise children who will become well rounded adults in future. I live in a predominantly white environment and all the men in my extended family and social circle are very hands on. They fix their cars themselves, paint their houses themselves, build fences and tile bathrooms by themselves. Even the women too are hands on except moi. |
mex551:There’s no one size fit all answer to this question but official guidance can be found here: https://www.gov.uk/law-on-leaving-your-child-home-alone Interpretation of the law will vary depending on individual circumstances. For instance, leaving a 10 year old for an extended period to attend work is far riskier than leaving the same child for 10 mins to enable you pick up milk from the corner shop down the road. Wisdom is the key word. |
Lexusgs430:Sell a house with negative equity….haba Oga Lexus ![]() |
Lexusgs430:Like Ticha already said, it’s not always the case that the house appreciates in value. Some people that bought just before the 2008 housing crash have been in negative equity and are just beginning to emerge out of the deficit. For such people, it will probably be cheaper to rent than to pay the mortgage. They are referred to as mortgage prisoners and some of them are not able to switch to cheaper deals due to stricter lending rules after 2008. In summary, people shouldn’t be in a hurry to get mortgages. Check affordability and ensure that you have enough money to cover your mortgage should things change tomorrow. |
sweetoma:Are you in Scotland? Most local authorities in Scotland use the parentpay website for processing school dinner payments. You can also view the menu to see what meals are available weekly and plan around it. My daughter uses a combination of school dinners and packed lunch. Packed lunch is usually home made sandwiches with yoghurt and some fruits plus a bag of crisps. Sometimes she likes sausage rolls in her packed lunch. The school may have a breakfast and after school club which you might be able to access for a fee. You could also ask other working moms at the school what after school options are available. Nots sure about transport options to school as our home is very close to our local school and my daughter walks to school by herself. |
bluebella:If I were you I will stay put and not give him any more money. It is illegal to sublet a council property. If the council finds out he is subletting the accommodation, they will take him off the tenancy. Also when you realised it was a council house, why did you agree to rent it in the first place? Probably because it was cheap?. If a deal is too good to be true, there’s probably a reason why. |
TheGuyFromHR:Maybe not at 18months but they do leave young kids alone and go to work especially those in the Care sector/Night Shifters. I know of one personally. Also there was a Nigerian woman in Salford that left her kids and traveled to Nigeria for a wedding . This made the news in 2015 and most recently four young black kids were burnt to death in a house fire because their Mom was away at work. |
whitley:It is what it is but it will pass soon. Now you will understand why oyibo no dey born too much pickin unless of course they are on benefits. Do you have a partner? If yes, one of you has to stay home and look after your son or you can both work alternate shifts so there’s always someone at home. If you are by yourself, then you just have to pay the nursery fees and get on with it. You could also try bringing a relative from Nigeria but that itself is fraught with problems. Whatever you do, please do not leave your young son by himself. I know some Africans do this but it is very dangerous and could land you in big trouble with the police and social services. |
smileforme15:Yes you need a visa. |
For anyone in Aberdeen and environs wanting to enrol for NIN, they now have appointments available at the Aberdeen office of Simplify Synergy. £40 processing fees to be paid at capturing. |
Viruses:It’s not always the case, there are other variables to be considered like the age of the person buying the house, the deposit and the repayment period. For instance if you are a 50 year old male buying a first house, you will only get a 15 year mortgage with a higher monthly repayment compared to a 30 yr old man who has over 35 years of working life remaining and can afford to spread the repayments over 35 years. |
justwise:I agree. Also is Ukraine not in Europe even if they are not part of the Union as of yet. Hardly in the same position as Afghanistan and Syria. |
enesty:Most Primary schools are run by the councils and are free. However your 2 year old is too young to attend primary school so will need to be enrolled in a nursery or looked after by a childminder. Are you coming with your partner or are you single? Nursery places start from £800 per month so need to factor in the cost. General advice is to leave the child behind if you are single. |
Osoderi:Why do you want to go and return the same day? There’s so much to do and see in Paris. Check the Eurostar website for ticket prices and train times. Prices start from a £37.50 for one way. There’s also Eurolines which is coach travel and might work out cheaper for you if you don’t want to pay for a hotel. |
Joyousgem:@Temi231, I’m assuming you are in a rented apartment. Don’t you need to check with your landlord before you change the flooring in the house? Secondly I won’t advise you to measure the carpets yourself, the way they lay carpets here is different from what we do in Nigeria. Carpets are laid as one piece and it flows through the entire house and under the doors and right through the stairs without any cut and join. Based on that, I will recommend getting a professional carpet fitter to measure and lay the carpet for you. There are many people on Facebook who specialise in carpet fitting. Just check your local Facebook page. You’ll also need an underlay for the carpet. |



